Absolutely heartbroken (Page 2)

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Both him and his family have told you repeatedly that this girl is stalking and harassing him. It's not a great stretch of the imagination that she stalked him to the gym.



Kinda silly of you to expect him to be loyal to you but you don't give him that loyalty back.

Right now the only 'proof' you have that he is cheating on you with her is her word. The word of a spurned stalker ex.

Demand that he breaks off all contact with her. Block her number, social media, etc. if he refuses to accommodate you then you have a right to be mad and end the relationship.

lol did you not see my reply? I caught him that's it.

You didn't catch him. You were spoon fed some texts from his ex.

All those texts prove if they are his is that he was talking about his charges. Not that they are flirting, dating, fucking.

It's wrong that he's entertaining her at all. Focus on that and let him know it won't stand.

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

i'm really sorry. some people don't appreciate what they have. he is a fool. a massive hug from me.

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

I have nothing else to say anymore. Not gonna try to get answers from him cuz all hell do is deny. I got my proof that's all I wanted. I know they're recent pictures. His new tattoo gives it all away

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

I have nothing else to say anymore. Not gonna try to get answers from him cuz all hell do is deny. I got my proof that's all I wanted. I know they're recent pictures. His new tattoo gives it all away

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

I have nothing else to say anymore. Not gonna try to get answers from him cuz all hell do is deny. I got my proof that's all I wanted. I know they're recent pictures. His new tattoo gives it all away

No...the thing is - you saw him after the mess?

How did it go? Wasn't he trying to talk or something?

I just can't imagine you came, ask for necklace, he said no and you left?

Hmmmmm

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Here is my assessment of this situation,

I could be wrong, but just call it a gut instinct.

I believe that his mother is telling the truth. However, I think she is observing her son's actions, and not what is really in his heart. The way she sees it, this ex-girlfriend is harrassing him, and her son is blowing her off....rather than see it as "Why hasn't he called a permanent stop to it?" She may just have dismissed it as her son being non-confrontational.

He may have physcially checked out of the relationship with his ex, but I don't believe he has emotionally checked out of the relationship. (Translation: He isn't physically cheating on you, he is actually telling you the truth...however, he is still emotionally connected to her).

If I had to take an educated guess, she was probably the one to break his heart, pursuing him vigorously to make amends, and he is amorously enjoying all the attention. He's telling her to leave him alone, but I don't think he wants her to leave him alone, if that makes any sense. In other words, he's subliminally telling her "You broke my heart, you break down those walls if you want to make it right again"

Deep down inside he knows she's no good for him, but his heart will not allow him to move on, which is what he prefers to do, subconsciously.

He denied you because he wants her to keep pursuing him, not because they're having an affair.

My advice,

Hand him over to her. Clarity and closure will take him out of limbo.

His heart and her actions will be the deciding factor.

If he doesn't do this now, he may walk out on you in the near future.

Trust me, you don't want that.

The dilemma here is not a physical connection...it's an emotional one.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Pissed the Mama off....

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

I have nothing else to say anymore. Not gonna try to get answers from him cuz all hell do is deny. I got my proof that's all I wanted. I know they're recent pictures. His new tattoo gives it all away

No...the thing is - you saw him after the mess?

How did it go? Wasn't he trying to talk or something?

I just can't imagine you came, ask for necklace, he said no and you left?

Hmmmmm

I went to his house and his mom answered. I knew he was home because I could hear his a/c blasting. Then it shut off when I knocked. His mom answered and said that she can't find the necklace. And I told her to ask him cuz he's home. And she was like "he is?? Omg I didn't know he was home!" (Liar). And I said I just wanted my necklace back so I never have to come back again. My friends came with me because they wanted to. And so my friends were just telling her to give it back because I need it. And she started getting really defensive and was yelling at my friends. Then my ex comes out and just starts yelling at me "I'll give you your fuxking necklaxe when I find it like I fucking told you! Why tf are you coming here trying to get it when I told you I lost it?!?" And I just told him to give it asap cuz I know he's lying. Then he texted me after asking why I brought my friends and he was thinking I was gonna do something to his mom lmao I would never do anything to her

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Posted by jeane
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?

I broke up with him. I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it. Fucking lying ass. I'm done. I just got back stabbed. I'm just done

What you mean? You've seen him after the mess? Just about necklace? Anything else you've talked about?

I have nothing else to say anymore. Not gonna try to get answers from him cuz all hell do is deny. I got my proof that's all I wanted. I know they're recent pictures. His new tattoo gives it all away

No...the thing is - you saw him after the mess?

How did it go? Wasn't he trying to talk or something?

I just can't imagine you came, ask for necklace, he said no and you left?

Hmmmmm

I went to his house and his mom answered. I knew he was home because I could hear his a/c blasting. Then it shut off when I knocked. His mom answered and said that she can't find the necklace. And I told her to ask him cuz he's home. And she was like "he is?? Omg I didn't know he was home!" (Liar). And I said I just wanted my necklace back so I never have to come back again. My friends came with me because they wanted to. And so my friends were just telling her to give it back because I need it. And she started getting really defensive and was yelling at my friends. Then my ex comes out and just starts yelling at me "I'll give you your fuxking necklaxe when I find it like I fucking told you! Why tf are you coming here trying to get it when I told you I lost it?!?" And I just told him to give it asap cuz I know he's lying. Then he texted me after asking why I brought my friends and he was thinking I was gonna do something to his mom lmao I would never do anything to her

So I guess now it's off for good. He was being rude after shit he had done?

Honey! Good luck. Rip this part out and wait for would to heal.

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Posted by ChrisxKodak
LOL "maybe he didn't cheat. He just fell into her is all by accident. Don't be so rash, even when everything lines up, that doesn't mean you can't be a square. Give him a channcceeeeee"

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

Yeah. I'm sorry, but I know damn well I'm not the only person who would've flipped their shit if they saw their man with his ex.

pray you never fall in love with a man who has kids. then you'll be seeing that bitch around him almost daily. i've dated men and women with children and their exes are at the center of their lives. it is what it is.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Remember my advice.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Here is my assessment of this situation,

I could be wrong, but just call it a gut instinct.

I believe that his mother is telling the truth. However, I think she is observing her son's actions, and not what is really in his heart. The way she sees it, this ex-girlfriend is harrassing him, and her son is blowing her off....rather than see it as "Why hasn't he called a permanent stop to it?" She may just have dismissed it as her son being non-confrontational.

He may have physcially checked out of the relationship with his ex, but I don't believe he has emotionally checked out of the relationship. (Translation: He isn't physically cheating on you, he is actually telling you the truth...however, he is still emotionally connected to her).

If I had to take an educated guess, she was probably the one to break his heart, pursuing him vigorously to make amends, and he is amorously enjoying all the attention. He's telling her to leave him alone, but I don't think he wants her to leave him alone, if that makes any sense. In other words, he's subliminally telling her "You broke my heart, you break down those walls if you want to make it right again"

Deep down inside he knows she's no good for him, but his heart will not allow him to move on, which is what he prefers to do, subconsciously.

He denied you because he wants her to keep pursuing him, not because they're having an affair.

My advice,

Hand him over to her. Clarity and closure will take him out of limbo.

His heart and her actions will be the deciding factor.

If he doesn't do this now, he may walk out on you in the near future.

Trust me, you don't want that.

The dilemma here is not a physical connection...it's an emotional one.

Well, after she told this part:

I went to his house and his mom answered. I knew he was home because I could hear his a/c blasting. Then it shut off when I knocked. His mom answered and said that she can't find the necklace. And I told her to ask him cuz he's home. And she was like "he is?? Omg I didn't know he was home!" (Liar). And I said I just wanted my necklace back so I never have to come back again. My friends came with me because they wanted to. And so my friends were just telling her to give it back because I need it. And she started getting really defensive and was yelling at my friends. Then my ex comes out and just starts yelling at me "I'll give you your fuxking necklaxe when I find it like I fucking told you! Why tf are you coming here trying to get it when I told you I lost it?!?" And I just told him to give it asap cuz I know he's lying. Then he texted me after asking why I brought my friends and he was thinking I was gonna do something to his mom lmao I would never do anything to her

I believe that her mother lied to her face of not only he's at home, but also possible about Virgo ex.

So all in all, best that she dumps straight away (in which she did) since she's done for. And be glad that she got to know the true colors of this ordeal and knowing that she deserved much better treatment than this.

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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it.

Are you referring to a present you gave him?

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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it.

Are you referring to a present you gave him?

It's a sample from my jewelry line I started. I let him wear it around

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Posted by Ravishing
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.

What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.

Posted by Ravishing
And I'm not judging or stereotyping because NOT ALL Taurus men are like this but there are quite a few who are cheaters. They like to have the stability at home or the stability from the PAST and then have another woman on the side. I never saw Taurus men as loyal regardless of Astrological bullshit, I've seen this situation too much with them. It's the Taurus women who are loyal to death.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Is she a virgo or gemini or scorpio



Those bytches are crazy

Ding ding ding Virgo!!

virgo bishes are scandalous!!!! *rechecks which board i'm on* *sighs in relief*

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I went to his house twice to try and get my necklace I gave him back. He won't give it to me. I know he has it.

Are you referring to a present you gave him?

It's a sample from my jewelry line I started. I let him wear it around

Just write it off as a loss, if he doesn't return it. It's really not worth the hassle...

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

Yeah. I'm sorry, but I know damn well I'm not the only person who would've flipped their shit if they saw their man with his ex.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

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Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?

What exactly did he say?

Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered

How did he Daniel your dating?

He said what?

I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway

Are you sure he didn't mean HER?

If he meant you - he needs to be gone!

Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️

I don't even remember now. It was such a blur that I don't even remember if he meant her or me

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So it's not so cut and dry.

Although if she's that willing to let an ex come in and fill her head with nonsense as well as refusing to talk to her man then the relationship wasn't that strong to begin with.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

Actually op admitted she's not sure if he was deniying her or the ex.

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Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?

What exactly did he say?

Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered

How did he Daniel your dating?

He said what?

I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway

Are you sure he didn't mean HER?

If he meant you - he needs to be gone!

Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️

I don't even remember now. It was such a blur that I don't even remember if he meant her or me

So it's not so cut and dry.

Although if she's that willing to let an ex come in and fill her head with nonsense as well as refusing to talk to her man then the relationship wasn't that strong to begin with.

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I'm really not understanding what you're not getting here. She sent me RECENT pictures of them! They have times stamps on them, he has his new tattoo in all the pictures so they're all from at least June to now. What is there to even talk about anymore?? I have proof. If I didn't have anything to go off of then ok, but if I have proof why the fuck should I waste my time talking things out with someone who doesn't give a fuck about me?

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

Yeah. I'm sorry, but I know damn well I'm not the only person who would've flipped their shit if they saw their man with his ex.

Doesnt at all look like he is your man... At all... Either way... Pick yourself up and move on... People blame blame blame.... People can do what you allow them to do.... You also can't make a person tell you truth ... Now that is free will... There is some more to this story but I will let you have this topic because ... Pitty parties ... Sigh.... He clearly said the deal in the exchange during you guys interaction (conversation) ... Truth hurts... Better to feel it now then get yourself deeper with this person ... And I noticed you said you did all of this for him and his family .... Did you give to yourself in the process— Or do you feel depleted ... If its depleted ... Somewhere you gave way too much... And that my dear is on you... Not him... Hope you feel better ... Spend time with yourself and get yourself together f... Then get back out there... That would be giving to yourself ... When you give to yourself automatically suitors will want to give to you...

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Posted by LadyNeptune
If you hadn't flipped out like a psycho you could have asked him sweetly for his phone and had a look.

You know what, no.

She responded with the raw emotions of her anger of how things goes out.

After all the things she did for him, even supportive after his brother death. And suddenly she got this?

Be glad that the relationship has finally ended. Knowing the truth of him and best to let the other person have him though.

He even told her straight and right in front of his ex that he denied that he was in relationship with OP. That explains pretty much.

Yeah. I'm sorry, but I know damn well I'm not the only person who would've flipped their shit if they saw their man with his ex.

Doesnt at all look like he is your man... At all... Either way... Pick yourself up and move on... People blame blame blame.... People can do what you allow them to do.... You also can't make a person tell you truth ... Now that is free will... There is some more to this story but I will let you have this topic because ... Pitty parties ... Sigh.... He clearly said the deal in the exchange during you guys interaction (conversation) ... Truth hurts... Better to feel it now then get yourself deeper with this person ... And I noticed you said you did all of this for him and his family .... Did you give to yourself in the process— Or do you feel depleted ... If its depleted ... Somewhere you gave way too much... And that my dear is on you... Not him... Hope you feel better ... Spend time with yourself and get yourself together f... Then get back out there... That would be giving to yourself ... When you give to yourself automatically suitors will want to give to you...

Hmmm. You are the one who uses as many dots as I do...

What's your placement?

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Taurus isn't going to end up long term with a virgo



Sorry it's not happening. Taurus men love the virgals



But a lifetime of that headache? No

Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

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Posted by GC02
As hard as it is you need to move on, he is not deserving of a good girl at this point. If he still wants to see his ex then let him, you can’t control people.

So to get over one dude have sex with another

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Posted by jeane
I can see a lot of sense in the posts that she should talk to him but there is one glaring point in all of this for me. He is not looking to set the record straight with her either!

If I was wrongly accused by my partner and it's just a giant misunderstanding, I would be doing everything I could to protest and tell him my side of things.

He hasn't. Instead he is in hiding and forcing his mother into the uncomfortable position of covering for him.

That is not the behaviour of an innocent man.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

His mom later admitted that she knew about their relationship the whole time after I broke down in front of her and told her I knew she and the whole family lied to me. She said she tried to talk him out of continuing the relationship with her, but he got pissed off.

They had a horrible relationship. He was extremely controlling and aggressive towards her. And she was a horrible drunk and would end up hitting him. It was a very toxic relationship. I think he would just get sick of her and tell her to fuck off but then she'd come back texting him all the time telling him how much she needed him and he'd give in and go back.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

His mom later admitted that she knew about their relationship the whole time after I broke down in front of her and told her I knew she and the whole family lied to me. She said she tried to talk him out of continuing the relationship with her, but he got pissed off.

They had a horrible relationship. He was extremely controlling and aggressive towards her. And she was a horrible drunk and would end up hitting him. It was a very toxic relationship. I think he would just get sick of her and tell her to fuck off but then she'd come back texting him all the time telling him how much she needed him and he'd give in and go back.

See? Do you want it back to your life?

Seriously—

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

His mom later admitted that she knew about their relationship the whole time after I broke down in front of her and told her I knew she and the whole family lied to me. She said she tried to talk him out of continuing the relationship with her, but he got pissed off.

They had a horrible relationship. He was extremely controlling and aggressive towards her. And she was a horrible drunk and would end up hitting him. It was a very toxic relationship. I think he would just get sick of her and tell her to fuck off but then she'd come back texting him all the time telling him how much she needed him and he'd give in and go back.

See? Do you want it back to your life?

Seriously—

Nope I'm done. No need to talk anything out 🙅🏻

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

His mom later admitted that she knew about their relationship the whole time after I broke down in front of her and told her I knew she and the whole family lied to me. She said she tried to talk him out of continuing the relationship with her, but he got pissed off.

They had a horrible relationship. He was extremely controlling and aggressive towards her. And she was a horrible drunk and would end up hitting him. It was a very toxic relationship. I think he would just get sick of her and tell her to fuck off but then she'd come back texting him all the time telling him how much she needed him and he'd give in and go back.

See? Do you want it back to your life?

Seriously—

Nope I'm done. No need to talk anything out 🙅🏻

Good! Hope you'll stay strong and hold on to your desicion!

😘

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CrazyAriesTaurus,

LadyNeptune has a valid point.

Honestly, I believe that his mother told you the truth about the ex.

Your reaction was an emotional reaction.



As for the photos, whether they were 'doctored' or not, who knows, something is up with him and the ex. But it's not a physical connection, it's more of an unresolved emotional connection.

Question?

What was the reason for the breakup with him and his ex?

His mom later admitted that she knew about their relationship the whole time after I broke down in front of her and told her I knew she and the whole family lied to me. She said she tried to talk him out of continuing the relationship with her, but he got pissed off.

They had a horrible relationship. He was extremely controlling and aggressive towards her. And she was a horrible drunk and would end up hitting him. It was a very toxic relationship. I think he would just get sick of her and tell her to fuck off but then she'd come back texting him all the time telling him how much she needed him and he'd give in and go back.

See? Do you want it back to your life?

Seriously—

Nope I'm done. No need to talk anything out 🙅🏻

Good! Hope you'll stay strong and hold on to your desicion!

😘

Thank you, I'm trying!! Definitely not going back anymore. Once you betray me after I helped you and your family out during a time of bereavement, that's when I cut you out for good!

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Idk what to believe. I went to the gym and I saw my bf's ex and then next to her I saw my bf. So I grabbed my shit and ran up to them and started going off on my bf who looked like he was about to cry. He said nothing was going on and that he just came to the gym and saw her and that they were working out. But then he started denying we were together in front of her wtf. Then he left.

Then the crazy bitch told me that they've been dating since march, and she had no idea I was in the picture. She said after his brother died, they took a trip to Palm Springs after the funeral for 3 days. She said she talked to his mom and asked about me and his mom said she hasn't seen me around. She said he took her to Disneyland for her bday.

Then I went to his house and got all my shit. I talked to his mom and she said he's been home majority of the time because he's been working crazy hours and she hasn't seen her around. She said the ex calls him constantly, and shows up in places where he's at and basically stalks him. She said she always over hears him answering the phone and cussing her out telling her to leave him alone.

Now after settling down, here's the flaws I see in the exes story:

1. The bitch claims she never knew we were together, but around march I saw her at the gym and told her tin stop calling my bf and to fuck off so obviously she's knew we were together.

2. There's no way they went to Palm Springs for 3 days after the funeral. He went up to his brothers house which is like an hour away, and then he came back the next day and we hung out. The funeral was on a Wednesday. I was with him in Thursday. Friday he went to his bros and Came back on Saturday and we hung out and I was with him til Sunday.

3. She said she's been going to his house and spoke to his mom. She's not allowed in their house. His dad is very strict and he's kicked her out of the house before and told her she's not allowed back. So I know she hasn't been there. There's no way the dad would let her in. And the mom wouldn't have either cuz she doesn't like her.

4. Knowing my bf I doubt he would've taken her to Disneyland. His pass is expired and she was always the one spending money on him.

5. She's obsessed with him. Literally will not leave him alone. No matter what I do she won't go away. I've caught her in a bunch of lies before when I've confronted her. She's really psycho.

Now I'm skeptical about believing his mom, but his mom is extremely honest and never really lies. She's super blunt.

I just don't know what to believe and I'm so heartbroken. Many of you know about the situation with his brother. I dropped everything and was there for him and his family that whole week, and I just feel like I got the biggest slap in the face right now. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if he actually cheated on me or not but just seeing them together made me lose my shit. Sorry for the long ass post.

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Idk what to believe. I went to the gym and I saw my bf's ex and then next to her I saw my bf. So I grabbed my shit and ran up to them and started going off on my bf who looked like he was about to cry. He said nothing was going on and that he just came to the gym and saw her and that they were working out. But then he started denying we were together in front of her wtf. Then he left.

Then the crazy bitch told me that they've been dating since march, and she had no idea I was in the picture. She said after his brother died, they took a trip to Palm Springs after the funeral for 3 days. She said she talked to his mom and asked about me and his mom said she hasn't seen me around. She said he took her to Disneyland for her bday.

Then I went to his house and got all my shit. I talked to his mom and she said he's been home majority of the time because he's been working crazy hours and she hasn't seen her around. She said the ex calls him constantly, and shows up in places where he's at and basically stalks him. She said she always over hears him answering the phone and cussing her out telling her to leave him alone.

Now after settling down, here's the flaws I see in the exes story:

1. The bitch claims she never knew we were together, but around march I saw her at the gym and told her tin stop calling my bf and to fuck off so obviously she's knew we were together.

2. There's no way they went to Palm Springs for 3 days after the funeral. He went up to his brothers house which is like an hour away, and then he came back the next day and we hung out. The funeral was on a Wednesday. I was with him in Thursday. Friday he went to his bros and Came back on Saturday and we hung out and I was with him til Sunday.

3. She said she's been going to his house and spoke to his mom. She's not allowed in their house. His dad is very strict and he's kicked her out of the house before and told her she's not allowed back. So I know she hasn't been there. There's no way the dad would let her in. And the mom wouldn't have either cuz she doesn't like her.

4. Knowing my bf I doubt he would've taken her to Disneyland. His pass is expired and she was always the one spending money on him.

5. She's obsessed with him. Literally will not leave him alone. No matter what I do she won't go away. I've caught her in a bunch of lies before when I've confronted her. She's really psycho.

Now I'm skeptical about believing his mom, but his mom is extremely honest and never really lies. She's super blunt.

I just don't know what to believe and I'm so heartbroken. Many of you know about the situation with his brother. I dropped everything and was there for him and his family that whole week, and I just feel like I got the biggest slap in the face right now. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if he actually cheated on me or not but just seeing them together made me lose my shit. Sorry for the long ass post.

He denied you to the ex that was with him in the gym? Drop him, plain and simple. You can't have a healthy relationship with a dishonest or disloyal person. Talk to him and get your closure if you need it, but everything seems pretty clear. She's not the real problem. He is.

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