
TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
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Posted by SpreadLiesDon't you spread lies though? 🤔🤔🤔
A girl tries to embarrass me in public
She'll only end up embarrassing herself
Cuz I'm not worth it 😁


Posted by WarAngel1Hopefully that bitch hits him upside the head, puts some sense into him, and he comes running back to what he was missing
The dumbfuck is going to come back eventually.

Posted by WarAngel1Yeah he will, and I'm not going to take him back. I'm disgusted by him. I don't want him back at all. I'm mainly sad at the fact that he and his family backstabbed me after everything I did for them. I don't like my time wasted.
The dumbfuck is going to come back eventually.

Posted by SodapopAlready dropped him. Now I understand why he was pushing me away... he was with her all along. I don't want him back at all.
Drop him. I don’t care what he or his mom tells you, you caught them together, that’s all that matters, what you actually did see. It seems like your relationship was also falling apart anyway from your previous posts saying he was pushing you away and it was clearly taking its toll on you.
When a relationship starts giving you this much heartbreak and anxiety, end it while your heart is still intact.

Posted by shaymaciHonestly she is. That's why she could never leave him alone. Even when she would see us together or knew we were back together she wouldn't care. That's why I know she's lying about not knowing we were together (not that it matters Anymore). He's a piece of shit for sure. He's dead to me now. I don't feel bad for him or his family anymore. I just wish his brother was here so I could talk to him 😢
I hope this all works out for you.
She seems like a hoebag who's desperate for a man even when he's not good.
And he seems like a piece of shit for this bullshit in the first place.
I'm sorry mama ❤

Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThis post is a knife in my chest.Posted by shaymaciHonestly she is. That's why she could never leave him alone. Even when she would see us together or knew we were back together she wouldn't care. That's why I know she's lying about not knowing we were together (not that it matters Anymore). He's a piece of shit for sure. He's dead to me now. I don't feel bad for him or his family anymore. I just wish his brother was here so I could talk to him 😢
I hope this all works out for you.
She seems like a hoebag who's desperate for a man even when he's not good.
And he seems like a piece of shit for this bullshit in the first place.
I'm sorry mama ❤click to expand

Posted by TaurusBull1977Now that I've taken a day to really sit and analyze the situation here's what I think happened. I know it doesn't matter any more, but talking about it doesn't hurt, and isn't going to change my decision. Here's what I think based on knowing all of them and observing them for 4 years.
CrazyAriesTaurus,
The mother didn't lie to you.
As I stated earlier, she may have just observed her son's actions on the surface, but did not know what was truly in his heart.
I believe the ex was calling and harrassing him....and I DO believe he resisted, shrugged her off, and told her to stop calling him.
You did mention that their relationship was toxic and full of drama.
The Virgo's lies is not consistent with the chain of events, you, yourself accounted for.
The mother probably didn't see her for a long time.
However,
The Virgo's attempts wouldn't have been successful unless there were still some unresolved feelings between the both of them.
Chaotic relationships, unfortunately, are the most difficult ties to break.
This isn't a relationship worth saving.
His heart never left hers.
He's a Bull, pragmatically, he knows this isn't a suitable relationship to be in, but unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Good Luck!

Posted by SodapopYou're right. I'm actually pretty surprised at how I'm not even that sad over this. He really backstabbed me and I think that's what's really preventing me from being sad
Good for you. I TRULY think you’ll be okay, he’ll be easier than you think to move on from, I really have a feeling that you wouldn’t even miss him.



Posted by TaurusBull1977Virgo moon, Cancer mars, Venus Gemini, aqua rising, Mercury Gemini
What is his Moon Placement?

Posted by shaymaciIt'll come back to the both of them somehow.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThis post is a knife in my chest.Posted by shaymaciHonestly she is. That's why she could never leave him alone. Even when she would see us together or knew we were back together she wouldn't care. That's why I know she's lying about not knowing we were together (not that it matters Anymore). He's a piece of shit for sure. He's dead to me now. I don't feel bad for him or his family anymore. I just wish his brother was here so I could talk to him 😢
I hope this all works out for you.
She seems like a hoebag who's desperate for a man even when he's not good.
And he seems like a piece of shit for this bullshit in the first place.
I'm sorry mama ❤
I been there. 😩😩
She's probably gonna get her karma in the form of abusive men and stds.
Him?.
I can only imagine.
They ain't worth your time mama ❤
Let the scum have the scum.
When you find your king, you'll know.
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Posted by SodapopThank you love ❤️❤️❤️Posted by thecrazyariestaurusBig hugs to you ❤️ You’ve been nothing but loving and supportive to him even when it cost you your peace. I’m thinking of you.Posted by SodapopYou're right. I'm actually pretty surprised at how I'm not even that sad over this. He really backstabbed me and I think that's what's really preventing me from being sad
Good for you. I TRULY think you’ll be okay, he’ll be easier than you think to move on from, I really have a feeling that you wouldn’t even miss him.click to expand

Posted by GC02Bahahaha sorry I had to laugh at the hot as ever part. She's fucking hideous 🤣🤣 Legit looks like a rat🐭
He was probably avoiding her the whole time then saw her at the gym looking hot as ever and gave into his Taurus man ways and went in for the bait.
Men make mistakes when they start thinking with their second head.


Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.

Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThis is why my expectations for people are always incredibly low until you prove me otherwise. I may give off the nice, sweetheart treatment, but understand that my ass is always paying attention, even when I'm not, I'm still taking mental notes on friends, family, significant other. It's a fucked up way to look at people that way, but it helps me not end up so fucked over emotionally because of people's betrayal because it was "expected".Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusIt will.Posted by shaymaciIt'll come back to the both of them somehow.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusThis post is a knife in my chest.Posted by shaymaciHonestly she is. That's why she could never leave him alone. Even when she would see us together or knew we were back together she wouldn't care. That's why I know she's lying about not knowing we were together (not that it matters Anymore). He's a piece of shit for sure. He's dead to me now. I don't feel bad for him or his family anymore. I just wish his brother was here so I could talk to him 😢
I hope this all works out for you.
She seems like a hoebag who's desperate for a man even when he's not good.
And he seems like a piece of shit for this bullshit in the first place.
I'm sorry mama ❤
I been there. 😩😩
She's probably gonna get her karma in the form of abusive men and stds.
Him?.
I can only imagine.
They ain't worth your time mama ❤
Let the scum have the scum.
When you find your king, you'll know.
Thanks girl❤️click to expand

Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....click to expand

Posted by MiaouThank you ❤️Posted by thecrazyariestaurusExactly.
At the end of the day, I'm done, I'm not sad over him, in fact I'm disgusted by him. He's dead to me. I will never go back to him again. I'm sad at the fact that he could do this to someone who was there for him at his toughest time ever, and not even feel an ounce of remorse. I'm also just pissed that I had my time wasted (you know bulls hate that shit). He'll come back, he always does. But this time I refuse to go back.
At the end of the day, you were dating him - not her.
He has free will, doesn't matter what she says, does...
he made a choice when he decided it was okay to do what he did.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Could be that. Once he saw that I'm not "broken" he decided to go with the broken one.
I don't think it's the attention that he craves.
He likes someone who is 'broken' that needs to be 'fixed.'
He likes to feel needed.
He may come off more like a 'protective' daddy in relationships than an actual boyfriend.
Maybe this is why the Virgo keeps resisting that part of him, yet pulling him back in, she keeps him on his toes.

Posted by WarAngel1Scorpio Venus approves this message 👍👍Posted by GC02His flaw: he wasn't a Scorpio in love.
He was probably avoiding her the whole time then saw her at the gym looking hot as ever and gave into his Taurus man ways and went in for the bait.
Men make mistakes when they start thinking with their second head.
I have blinders on when I have a woman in my sights.click to expand

Posted by GC02No as I said in my other posts, I'm done. He's dead to me now. I don't want him anymorePosted by thecrazyariestaurusI’d be upset but like I said I’d remind myself not to hold things over people’s head?Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....
His brother who is also my friend passed away 4 months ago. I took a week off of work to stay at his house and be there for his family. I spent the next day driving his mom around trying to get her anxiety meds so she could calm down because she fainted the day she found out her son died. I spent that week helping them prep for the funeral, bought them all food or anything they needed that week etc etc etc. not only that, but I've spent months trying to calm my emotions down and be extra nice and sensitive to him while he was pushing me away hard because he was grieving when the reality was he was with this bitch the whole time. Now tell me you wouldn't be pissed the fuck off if you were in this situation.
So are you going to get back with this guy?? If so I’m an expert at making up excuses for guys, you can always think hey they were just being normal and saying hello, nothing serious. It’s not like you caught him having sex with someone else...you just caught him passing by his ex at the gym, maybe she was asking about his brother— Maybe your thinking way to far deep into things?? And maybe he just lashed out because you freaked out on him and exploded in front of people at the gym—
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Posted by jeaneYou make some good points.
I can see a lot of sense in the posts that she should talk to him but there is one glaring point in all of this for me. He is not looking to set the record straight with her either!
If I was wrongly accused by my partner and it's just a giant misunderstanding, I would be doing everything I could to protest and tell him my side of things.
He hasn't. Instead he is in hiding and forcing his mother into the uncomfortable position of covering for him.
That is not the behaviour of an innocent man.

Posted by GC02That's exactly what I though reading her story. But she says the ex has pics of them together and you can see his recent tattoo in them 😩Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI’d be upset but like I said I’d remind myself not to hold things over people’s head?Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....
His brother who is also my friend passed away 4 months ago. I took a week off of work to stay at his house and be there for his family. I spent the next day driving his mom around trying to get her anxiety meds so she could calm down because she fainted the day she found out her son died. I spent that week helping them prep for the funeral, bought them all food or anything they needed that week etc etc etc. not only that, but I've spent months trying to calm my emotions down and be extra nice and sensitive to him while he was pushing me away hard because he was grieving when the reality was he was with this bitch the whole time. Now tell me you wouldn't be pissed the fuck off if you were in this situation.
So are you going to get back with this guy?? If so I’m an expert at making up excuses for guys, you can always think hey they were just being normal and saying hello, nothing serious. It’s not like you caught him having sex with someone else...you just caught him passing by his ex at the gym, maybe she was asking about his brother— Maybe your thinking way to far deep into things?? And maybe he just lashed out because you freaked out on him and exploded in front of people at the gym—
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Posted by GC02Oh yeah It helped ALOT. I'm so glad dxp came back at the right time hahaPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by GC02No as I said in my other posts, I'm done. He's dead to me now. I don't want him anymorePosted by thecrazyariestaurusI’d be upset but like I said I’d remind myself not to hold things over people’s head?Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....
His brother who is also my friend passed away 4 months ago. I took a week off of work to stay at his house and be there for his family. I spent the next day driving his mom around trying to get her anxiety meds so she could calm down because she fainted the day she found out her son died. I spent that week helping them prep for the funeral, bought them all food or anything they needed that week etc etc etc. not only that, but I've spent months trying to calm my emotions down and be extra nice and sensitive to him while he was pushing me away hard because he was grieving when the reality was he was with this bitch the whole time. Now tell me you wouldn't be pissed the fuck off if you were in this situation.
So are you going to get back with this guy?? If so I’m an expert at making up excuses for guys, you can always think hey they were just being normal and saying hello, nothing serious. It’s not like you caught him having sex with someone else...you just caught him passing by his ex at the gym, maybe she was asking about his brother— Maybe your thinking way to far deep into things?? And maybe he just lashed out because you freaked out on him and exploded in front of people at the gym—
Good for you, we live and we learn. I hope this thread was of some help to you for venting purposes.
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Posted by GC02Lmao! 😂😂Posted by LadyNeptuneOh shitttt the ex is on some next level side hoe ishhhh!!!Posted by GC02That's exactly what I though reading her story. But she says the ex has pics of them together and you can see his recent tattoo in them 😩Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI’d be upset but like I said I’d remind myself not to hold things over people’s head?Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....
His brother who is also my friend passed away 4 months ago. I took a week off of work to stay at his house and be there for his family. I spent the next day driving his mom around trying to get her anxiety meds so she could calm down because she fainted the day she found out her son died. I spent that week helping them prep for the funeral, bought them all food or anything they needed that week etc etc etc. not only that, but I've spent months trying to calm my emotions down and be extra nice and sensitive to him while he was pushing me away hard because he was grieving when the reality was he was with this bitch the whole time. Now tell me you wouldn't be pissed the fuck off if you were in this situation.
So are you going to get back with this guy?? If so I’m an expert at making up excuses for guys, you can always think hey they were just being normal and saying hello, nothing serious. It’s not like you caught him having sex with someone else...you just caught him passing by his ex at the gym, maybe she was asking about his brother— Maybe your thinking way to far deep into things?? And maybe he just lashed out because you freaked out on him and exploded in front of people at the gym—
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusi'm not victim blaming here so please don't think that that's my intention but i know you said you aren't affectionate or emotional on the surface. as someone who is with a bull, i cannot stress this enough, please be emotional!Posted by TaurusBull1977Now that I've taken a day to really sit and analyze the situation here's what I think happened. I know it doesn't matter any more, but talking about it doesn't hurt, and isn't going to change my decision. Here's what I think based on knowing all of them and observing them for 4 years.
CrazyAriesTaurus,
The mother didn't lie to you.
As I stated earlier, she may have just observed her son's actions on the surface, but did not know what was truly in his heart.
I believe the ex was calling and harrassing him....and I DO believe he resisted, shrugged her off, and told her to stop calling him.
You did mention that their relationship was toxic and full of drama.
The Virgo's lies is not consistent with the chain of events, you, yourself accounted for.
The mother probably didn't see her for a long time.
However,
The Virgo's attempts wouldn't have been successful unless there were still some unresolved feelings between the both of them.
Chaotic relationships, unfortunately, are the most difficult ties to break.
This isn't a relationship worth saving.
His heart never left hers.
He's a Bull, pragmatically, he knows this isn't a suitable relationship to be in, but unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Good Luck!
I know the Virgo is crazy as fuck. She literally doesn't care if she sees us together, she'll still try to pursue him. She has absolutely no shame. No matter what I did or told her, she wouldn't let go and leave us alone. This went on for 3 freaking years!! I truly believe that she did pursue and stalk him. She even tried to make one of her friends be friends with me so the friend could get an insiders view on our relationship. The bitch has way too much time on her hands.
Now I think my ex gave in to her because he's very needy, and LOVES attention. He has a cool, calm, "macho man" exterior, and likes to make it seem like he doesn't really care about the attention, but deep down he's very needy, and needs constant attention. He used to tell his brother that he really liked me a lot, but had an issue with me not being very affectionate. Now I will admit, and I've said on here plenty of times, I'm really not very affectionate and I don't show much emotion on the surface level, but I'm extremely sensitive and emotional on the inside. That was my issue. I tried this time around to be more affectionate to him, but I don't think it was good enough for him.
I think when he saw that I still wasn't this clingy needy overly affectionate girlfriend he deep down inside wants, he then saw this Virgo as someone who constantly made him feel wanted by the way she was pursuing him. I do believe he probably resisted in the beginning when we were in our honeymoon stage, (in fact he told me she kept texting him, and he told her to fuck off) but once he saw that I wasn't going to change much, he gave in and started the relationship with her.
He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He wanted me because he genuinely wanted to someday settle down with me, but he kept her around because she constantly made him feel wanted. Why I know he really meant it when he said he wanted to settle down, because his brother was in shock when I told him that he was telling me he wanted to have kids and get a house, and get married. My friend said he knows his brother would never say that if he didn't mean it, and he said his brother never said this to the Virgo (my ex told his brother EVERYTHING).
Now as for the mom, she did in fact lie to my face. She said she knew nothing about the relationship, then turns around and admits she knew everything when I confronted her about it. His mom thought I was the ideal girl for him, and both his parents wanted us to be together. Not one person in that family disliked me. Everyone spoke very highly of me. That's why she lied to me. She wanted me to be around and wanted us to be together. She hates the Virgo and really does think she's crazy, but she still did lie to me.
The point is, he couldn't handle my independence, and my detachment. It was too much for him because he's used to having clingy girlfriends. I'll never be like his ex because I have a lot of pride, and I can't stoop that low and make a man feel like I need him or else I'm going to die. He wanted me to somehow read his mind and figure out that when he would act detached, he was just trying to look like a tough guy but deep down he loves that clingy shit. He obviously has a lot of insecurities if he needs someone to need him.
At the end of the day, I'm done, I'm not sad over him, in fact I'm disgusted by him. He's dead to me. I will never go back to him again. I'm sad at the fact that he could do this to someone who was there for him at his toughest time ever, and not even feel an ounce of remorse. I'm also just pissed that I had my time wasted (you know bulls hate that shit). He'll come back, he always does. But this time I refuse to go back.
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Posted by jeaneI'm aware of how unaffectionate I am, and I've mentioned before that it has caused a lot of problems in my past relationships. So I do feel bad for not being more affectionate. I really did try this time around to change and show more affection, and I think I did a good job, but I guess it really wasn't good enough. I honestly feel like he wanted someone who would breathe down his neck and constantly be with him 24/7 which is notPosted by thecrazyariestaurusi'm not victim blaming here so please don't think that that's my intention but i know you said you aren't affectionate or emotional on the surface. as someone who is with a bull, i cannot stress this enough, please be emotional!Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,
The mother didn't lie to you.
As I stated earlier, she may have just observed her son's actions on the surface, but did not know what was truly in his heart.
I believe the ex was calling and harrassing him....and I DO believe he resisted, shrugged her off, and told her to stop calling him.
You did mention that their relationship was toxic and full of drama.
The Virgo's lies is not consistent with the chain of events, you, yourself accounted for.
The mother probably didn't see her for a long time.
However,
The Virgo's attempts wouldn't have been successful unless there were still some unresolved feelings between the both of them.
Chaotic relationships, unfortunately, are the most difficult ties to break.
This isn't a relationship worth saving.
His heart never left hers.
He's a Bull, pragmatically, he knows this isn't a suitable relationship to be in, but unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Good Luck!
my partner is affectionate but for a long time wasn't very emotional. it can be really hard to be on the other side of that for a long time. we all want to feel loved and secure in knowing how our partner feels and thinks. i know for bulls the response is "well being with you speaks volumes about my feelings" and yes, for some people it might but for others (myself included) the acts of service aren't always enough.
like you explained, he found that feeling of need and physical affection from her. it's not stooping low to show love to your partner in the manner in which they feel it. it's not a lack of pride to say to your partner in whatever form they recognise it "hey, you're important to me. you make my life better for being in it. it would be much poorer without you."
like i said, we all want to feel loved.
now i make no excuses for his behaviour. he took the cowards way out and lost something valuable in you. it's just that going forward, our roles in a relationship is to try meet the needs (physical, emotional, whatever else) of our partner the best way that we can.click to expand

Posted by GC02True!Posted by thecrazyariestaurusIt’s always good to be able to laugh in situations like this(:Posted by GC02Lmao! 😂😂Posted by LadyNeptuneOh shitttt the ex is on some next level side hoe ishhhh!!!Posted by GC02That's exactly what I though reading her story. But she says the ex has pics of them together and you can see his recent tattoo in them 😩Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI’d be upset but like I said I’d remind myself not to hold things over people’s head?Posted by GC02I usually don't hold shit over people's head but this really fucked me up.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWhy do you keep mentioning how you helped him?? What did you do for him?Posted by SugarandSpunkSucks how when you try to be there for certain people, they just fuck you over. It's just sad that some people are really like that. Haha I wish you were there too so you could've done it! 😂❤️❤️
I'm too lazy to read all 11 pages. I just read your main post on this thread and I remember your original post. I am so sorry that you had to go thru this bs. At the end of the day, it's not even about astrological sign because any man/woman can be unfaithful/shady, it is about understanding the difference between a boy and a man. And clearly that punk ass bitch is not a man. Let some dude deny my relationship in front of his gutter juice ex, my words will make him do more than just tears out of his eyes. I have a masters in emasculating males. Wish I could've done that to your ex for hurting you
I remember how devoted you were to him during his so called time in need. And honestly, you don't deserve to be with garbage after what happened in the end. It might hurt deep now, but hunny, you will overcome this and never, EVER forget your worth. F that clown.
It bugs me because I feel like people should do nice things to be nice not to hold it over someone’s head.....
His brother who is also my friend passed away 4 months ago. I took a week off of work to stay at his house and be there for his family. I spent the next day driving his mom around trying to get her anxiety meds so she could calm down because she fainted the day she found out her son died. I spent that week helping them prep for the funeral, bought them all food or anything they needed that week etc etc etc. not only that, but I've spent months trying to calm my emotions down and be extra nice and sensitive to him while he was pushing me away hard because he was grieving when the reality was he was with this bitch the whole time. Now tell me you wouldn't be pissed the fuck off if you were in this situation.
So are you going to get back with this guy?? If so I’m an expert at making up excuses for guys, you can always think hey they were just being normal and saying hello, nothing serious. It’s not like you caught him having sex with someone else...you just caught him passing by his ex at the gym, maybe she was asking about his brother— Maybe your thinking way to far deep into things?? And maybe he just lashed out because you freaked out on him and exploded in front of people at the gym—
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusi agree with all that you've written - especially your second to last paragraph.Posted by jeaneI'm aware of how unaffectionate I am, and I've mentioned before that it has caused a lot of problems in my past relationships. So I do feel bad for not being more affectionate. I really did try this time around to change and show more affection, and I think I did a good job, but I guess it really wasn't good enough. I honestly feel like he wanted someone who would breathe down his neck and constantly be with him 24/7 which is notPosted by thecrazyariestaurusi'm not victim blaming here so please don't think that that's my intention but i know you said you aren't affectionate or emotional on the surface. as someone who is with a bull, i cannot stress this enough, please be emotional!Posted by TaurusBull1977
CrazyAriesTaurus,
The mother didn't lie to you.
As I stated earlier, she may have just observed her son's actions on the surface, but did not know what was truly in his heart.
I believe the ex was calling and harrassing him....and I DO believe he resisted, shrugged her off, and told her to stop calling him.
You did mention that their relationship was toxic and full of drama.
The Virgo's lies is not consistent with the chain of events, you, yourself accounted for.
The mother probably didn't see her for a long time.
However,
The Virgo's attempts wouldn't have been successful unless there were still some unresolved feelings between the both of them.
Chaotic relationships, unfortunately, are the most difficult ties to break.
This isn't a relationship worth saving.
His heart never left hers.
He's a Bull, pragmatically, he knows this isn't a suitable relationship to be in, but unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Good Luck!
my partner is affectionate but for a long time wasn't very emotional. it can be really hard to be on the other side of that for a long time. we all want to feel loved and secure in knowing how our partner feels and thinks. i know for bulls the response is "well being with you speaks volumes about my feelings" and yes, for some people it might but for others (myself included) the acts of service aren't always enough.
like you explained, he found that feeling of need and physical affection from her. it's not stooping low to show love to your partner in the manner in which they feel it. it's not a lack of pride to say to your partner in whatever form they recognise it "hey, you're important to me. you make my life better for being in it. it would be much poorer without you."
like i said, we all want to feel loved.
now i make no excuses for his behaviour. he took the cowards way out and lost something valuable in you. it's just that going forward, our roles in a relationship is to try meet the needs (physical, emotional, whatever else) of our partner the best way that we can.
My style .
I told him I loved him a lot, I kissed him more often etc. but there were times where he made me feel weird for being affectionate. Like I guess I just didn't get the response I expected at times, and that made me feel insecure. It made me who is already hesitant on showing affection even more hesistant.
I'm not saying showing affection is bad or anything, I'm just saying acting like you can't live without your partner isn't good. That's just my opinion.
If he was feeling like I didn't give enough, then he should've said something to me, but instead he gave into his ex. If I had issues, I would confront him about it in a calm matter. He couldn't even do that with me when it came to this issue. I don't know it's an official issue unless you bring it up to me.
Anyway, I do know in the future to be more affectionate. It's something I need to really work on.click to expand

Posted by GC02Always a bridesmaid never a bride. Poor drake.
Drakes face 😂😂😂😂😂

Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesHe said "we haven't even been together". Long story short, I found out he did in fact cheat. That saves you 14 pages of reading hahhaPosted by thecrazyariestaurusIm sorry 😢Posted by RavishingIt's so hard. Not only am I grieving the death of my friend but now I have to deal with this bullshit.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by RavishingYeah that shit really hurt. Obviously he denied it for a reason. I feel like complete shit. I feel so betrayed 😢
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.
What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
It's OK girl it will get better with time x
If you dont mind..exactly what did he say to deny you in front of her?click to expand

Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesYeah karma will definitely get him back good!Posted by thecrazyariestaurusWow what a fucking douche bag. How dare he! And after you were there for him during his hardest fucking time. Wtf is wrong with men?Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesHe said "we haven't even been together". Long story short, I found out he did in fact cheat. That saves you 14 pages of reading hahhaPosted by thecrazyariestaurusIm sorry 😢Posted by RavishingIt's so hard. Not only am I grieving the death of my friend but now I have to deal with this bullshit.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by RavishingYeah that shit really hurt. Obviously he denied it for a reason. I feel like complete shit. I feel so betrayed 😢
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.
What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
It's OK girl it will get better with time x
If you dont mind..exactly what did he say to deny you in front of her?
Im sorry you had to go through all that. Thats the worst. Karma is a bitch tho. He is really in for it!
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Posted by Disfunctionjunction
Girl I agree with everybody else go with your gut feeling I know it's messed up I'm in a similar situation but your feelings are your own and no one can tell you that they're wrong you own them so whatever your gut is telling you even if it hurts listen to it but I'm right there with you and I know how hard it is it's when I love somebody I love somebody and one of the major things and probably the only thing I ask is that your faithful and truthful your reaction was right on the money hopefully he was meaning that they weren't together and wasn't it directing it about you but the thing about cussing you out that's what my dude did and it's like yeah I wouldn't want to think that he be capable of that either cuz he was such a good guy but then against people are very Cuddy I'm sorry that you experienced that hun and I really hope that your heart heals really soon and I hope that it was a misunderstanding and that you guys will be happy together seems like you've been through just about as much as I have with men and I know how hard it is when you give your heart to somebody after it being broken so many times and then you let yourself believe it and then something happens and your whole world gets turned upside down I'm a very emotional person when I love I love with my whole heart and when somebody breaks the trust it hurts anyways wishing you love and light and happiness

Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.


Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.
lol She's way past it. The thread is 2 years old.click to expand

Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.
lol She's way past it. The thread is 2 years old.
LMAO!!!
Didn't even notice the date 😭😂click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.
lol She's way past it. The thread is 2 years old.
LMAO!!!
Didn't even notice the date 😭😂
Such a waste of energy, right? 😆 I hate when this type of thing happens Hahaha.click to expand

Posted by thatlibralifePosted by thecrazyariestaurus
Idk what to believe. I went to the gym and I saw my bf's ex and then next to her I saw my bf. So I grabbed my shit and ran up to them and started going off on my bf who looked like he was about to cry. He said nothing was going on and that he just came to the gym and saw her and that they were working out. But then he started denying we were together in front of her wtf. Then he left.
Then the crazy bitch told me that they've been dating since march, and she had no idea I was in the picture. She said after his brother died, they took a trip to Palm Springs after the funeral for 3 days. She said she talked to his mom and asked about me and his mom said she hasn't seen me around. She said he took her to Disneyland for her bday.
Then I went to his house and got all my shit. I talked to his mom and she said he's been home majority of the time because he's been working crazy hours and she hasn't seen her around. She said the ex calls him constantly, and shows up in places where he's at and basically stalks him. She said she always over hears him answering the phone and cussing her out telling her to leave him alone.
Now after settling down, here's the flaws I see in the exes story:
1. The bitch claims she never knew we were together, but around march I saw her at the gym and told her tin stop calling my bf and to fuck off so obviously she's knew we were together.
2. There's no way they went to Palm Springs for 3 days after the funeral. He went up to his brothers house which is like an hour away, and then he came back the next day and we hung out. The funeral was on a Wednesday. I was with him in Thursday. Friday he went to his bros and Came back on Saturday and we hung out and I was with him til Sunday.
3. She said she's been going to his house and spoke to his mom. She's not allowed in their house. His dad is very strict and he's kicked her out of the house before and told her she's not allowed back. So I know she hasn't been there. There's no way the dad would let her in. And the mom wouldn't have either cuz she doesn't like her.
4. Knowing my bf I doubt he would've taken her to Disneyland. His pass is expired and she was always the one spending money on him.
5. She's obsessed with him. Literally will not leave him alone. No matter what I do she won't go away. I've caught her in a bunch of lies before when I've confronted her. She's really psycho.
Now I'm skeptical about believing his mom, but his mom is extremely honest and never really lies. She's super blunt.
I just don't know what to believe and I'm so heartbroken. Many of you know about the situation with his brother. I dropped everything and was there for him and his family that whole week, and I just feel like I got the biggest slap in the face right now. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if he actually cheated on me or not but just seeing them together made me lose my shit. Sorry for the long ass post.
The fact that he cried and left without you speaks loudly to some guilt. Not to mention denying you wth....where there's smoke there's fire....im sorry this happened but believe his actactions...omg just now seeing this post is 2 years old lol...click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.
lol She's way past it. The thread is 2 years old.click to expand

Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by saggurl88Posted by sweetpea2977
If you believe nothing else, BELIEVE THIS: He denied you IN FRONT of her. That speaks VOLUMES.
This isn't even about the chick you're calling out of her name. This is ALL ABOUT your whack ass man ENTERTAINING HER. It doesn't matter what you think of her....what others say about her....what lies she's told. If your dude was all the way truthful and willing to end the soap opera 🙄 you WOULDN'T be caught up in mess.
This is by no means an attempt to make you feel worst but to give you some true insight. Be thankful when lies come to the surface.
Lastly, don't EVER lose your shit over a dude. Ever. Keep cool. No matter what. You're young so you'll learn. Always, keep your cool.
lol She's way past it. The thread is 2 years old.
Yesss 😂😂😂 I’m so curious as to how this post even came up hahaclick to expand
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The mother didn't lie to you.
As I stated earlier, she may have just observed her son's actions on the surface, but did not know what was truly in his heart.
I believe the ex was calling and harrassing him....and I DO believe he resisted, shrugged her off, and told her to stop calling him.
You did mention that their relationship was toxic and full of drama.
The Virgo's lies is not consistent with the chain of events, you, yourself accounted for.
The mother probably didn't see her for a long time.
However,
The Virgo's attempts wouldn't have been successful unless there were still some unresolved feelings between the both of them.
Chaotic relationships, unfortunately, are the most difficult ties to break.
This isn't a relationship worth saving.
His heart never left hers.
He's a Bull, pragmatically, he knows this isn't a suitable relationship to be in, but unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Good Luck!