Dating a Taurus man (Page 3)

Posted by Librajean

Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.

The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?

Thank you!! I agree with you...

last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.

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Hmm, that's an alarming thing for him to say. You shouldn't want to be addicted to anyone to be honest, and it's alarming that he said that to you. Its comes off as if he wants you to be completely dependent on him, which you shouldn't be. It's clear as day he wants you, make him work for it.

If someone said that to me, I'd be more hesitant to agree to a FWB. Though I'm sure the chemistry is there, it sounds like lust atm. Just hang on, get to know him some more, and tease him a bit but don't sleep with him yet. Taurus guys are super aggressive when they feel like they have something in the bag, but you don't want to get burned either. I'd advise slowing it down a bit to avoid you getting hurt after what he just said.

Posted by Redoctober2000


Then why are you here if the are so confident—

Jeane was being kind... It won't be long term it will be short term.

It's OK busy. She has committed to a course. I didn't suggest that she wasn't an adult or that someone else pays her bills but it's a strawman argument to discount a position that isn't what she wants to hear. Shrugs.

She is SOOOO fucked!!

Who says 'I'm a grown up' these days?? Oh dear. Best of luck. You're gonna need it! —

Wow, you people are brutal..

When I'm feeling better, I will give you an a update. Who knows maybe you can cheer at my misery.

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by Librajean
When I'm feeling better, I will give you an a update. Who knows maybe you can cheer at my misery.

We won't be here. I already know how the story will end as we have already predicted it for you... But you know best.

We will dedicate our time to those who are here for answers not validation... U just keep chasing as he reels you in.

Practice deep throat on a banana every day..

Good luck

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Whateves!! But you have definitely given me food for thought...

Hahaha. Op, hit the target whatever makes you happy but always consider the consequences.

That is true we don't help you paying your bills.

This is also why I don't insult people when they need advice. Because that is always I have in mind that I don't help them.

Good luck with that bull.

Posted by Librajean
Wow, you people are brutal..

It's not brutal at all but sorry you feel that way. For me, I was just disappointed this fella was offering a FWB because you seemed keen on him and wouldn't mind seeing how it went for something more. It seemed you wanted something more from him other than just sex. If the connection was that good and you were both feeling it then you'd have taken him home and ridden his dick already... But you didn't.

The points we are all trying to make here is to be clear with what you want and the consequences that follow. Who knows? Maybe a FWB IS what you want and need right now. There's nothing wrong with that. We just don't want you to be one of those who come in here, and in the last 2.5 years there has been a LOT, who liked a guy, wanted something more, went down the FWB path, and it didn't turn out as the woman wanted.

But, you know, whatevs... You're a grown up! Keep us updated! ??

Sorry libra the girls guys are right , if u want a relationship with this man keep ur legs shut for a few dates st least we all get horny but he needs to know he can respect u otherwise u will be a shag bunny and nothing more . If u wanna be just that fine but u said u didn't so hold out build up the passion and learn about him more and him u before u shoot your knickers off

Posted by Geminariescharmer
What would you like to achieve? state it clearly. If you want him to treat you proper hold back sex as much as you can(can be very hard to do as as they are extremely sexually attractive haha). I have never really fallen in love with gals i laid on my first date. Basically just be classy with taurus males.

Thank you, I love hearing a male perspective...I'm definitely taking it slowing. However it's not fair that he is doing all of this sexual teasing. I'm a sexual creature. But, I'm going to play along..I have very strong will power..

Ive decided I'm not going to see him again until the end of the month. Pretend he never asked me that. And carry on..

I was just excited by the start of all this, I can be..

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean
Wow, you people are brutal..

It's not brutal at all but sorry you feel that way. For me, I was just disappointed this fella was offering a FWB because you seemed keen on him and wouldn't mind seeing how it went for something more. It seemed you wanted something more from him other than just sex. If the connection was that good and you were both feeling it then you'd have taken him home and ridden his dick already... But you didn't.

The points we are all trying to make here is to be clear with what you want and the consequences that follow. Who knows? Maybe a FWB IS what you want and need right now. There's nothing wrong with that. We just don't want you to be one of those who come in here, and in the last 2.5 years there has been a LOT, who liked a guy, wanted something more, went down the FWB path, and it didn't turn out as the woman wanted.

But, you know, whatevs... You're a grown up! Keep us updated! ??

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Yes and I still am, and very excited to play this cat and mouse game!

Yeah that is why I said I'm a grown up..a lot of that happens with the younger ladies, I'm almost 40. At any rate..I will torture and tease him now for trying to test me! Lol..

I won't see him again for a couple weeks..I am completely unavailable..

Btw, he is already coming after me..but I'm trying to play it cool people 🙂

OP

You're almost 40 yet you like playing games. Years do not equate to maturity.

You may have decided to not see him until the end of the month but has he actually asked you out on a date again?

If he hasn't then then you might be piquing too soon.

If he has but you're intentionally being 'busy' then you're substituting a real date for pointless text communication. Words on a text are not real.

If you're going to play a game then surely it would be more productive to see him in person so you can tease him and learn about him. Make it real. Remember, Taurus are sensual and follow the five senses. You're exchanging your biggest bargaining chip of a real date in person for bullshit texts.

But what do I know ?

You're making this more difficult than it needs to be. Just go with the flow and be in the moment. Don't play games. If he asks you out and you're available, go out. If you're not, make it another time.

Don't put time scales on things. Waiting until the end of the month to see each other again. Waiting until the third date to have sex. Again, be cool. Don't follow cosmo's rules. They are stupid.

This is the period to get to know one another. Don't race ahead with thoughts that you are soul mates or you are going to fall in love. You've only been out once. I know libras are in love with love but it does you no favours.

During this period of getting to know him, don't rush to jump into bed. Again, you hardly know him. Be discerning.

In the words of that famous libran, John lennon, "love is a flower you got to let grow".

What is your Venus anyway?

Posted by Redoctober2000
If you want to play a game... Make it "chess"!

Girl, you were the one that started with the games!!!



Lololololololol

@jeane I like your advice the best, and the male advice..

I'm keeping it classy. He wants me big time and I'm going to make him want me even more and love every second of it. That is why he is going to wait. And because I'm not available until the end of the month. Before you all started to make me feel like a bimbo because of his question, it's like the girl the wore a short dress and asked to be raped.

Now he is going to wait, I'm busy.

My Venus is in Leo..

Rising Cancer

Mars in Scorpio

Hahaha. Just be playful with him.Tease him.

I am excited to hear any updates.

If you have a strong will power then maybe you

Have a full self control. Good to hear. I did that many times in my life. Never I regret.

I know how to deal business. We don't bargain. We just stick to the agreed contract.