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Ha! Not bad.
Scorpus (scorus?) would also work....
I did think of Scorpus but when I typed it out on here I wasn't keen on the 'pus' bit.
Scorpus.
Scorus.
Scoraus.
Scoraurus.
Scorpta.
Scorptau.
I'm actually sitting in the car (passenger) typing this shit out!!
Lol lol lol "great minds" and all that!! That's exactly what I thought!! I immediately thought and has visions of "pus" coming out of you!! Lol lol lol
I also thought of "Scorpaurus" you have to have the "p" so people automatically know you are a scorp Imo that is!! Lol lol
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That's fucking minging about the pus which was why I wasn't keen! I'll have a think on it.
Taurus man and libra woman are compatible.
I have 4 libra female friends. 2 of them married to taurus men. They are very happy. Taurus man when serious in his intention sending you flowers during courship period of time. I've seen it.
It may take time but dont give in yet.
Libras are very harmonious people. Not argumentative. Admirable.
Posted by M143
Taurus man and libra woman are compatible.I have 4 libra female friends. 2 of them married to taurus men. They are very happy. Taurus man when serious in his intention sending you flowers during courship period of time. I've seen it.
It may take time but dont give in yet.
Libras are very harmonious people. Not argumentative. Admirable.
Yes good advice, i really want to do this right so I'm just going to put him out of my mind for now. I would love to date him, I have up until this point taken the initiative..I asked him out chose the time and place. So I'm wondering if I have set the tone for me calling the shots. If I don't make a move will he think I'm uninterested? Or will it make him step it up?
Posted by M143
Taurus man and libra woman are compatible.I have 4 libra female friends. 2 of them married to taurus men. They are very happy. Taurus man when serious in his intention sending you flowers during courship period of time. I've seen it.
It may take time but dont give in yet.
Libras are very harmonious people. Not argumentative. Admirable.
Yes good advice, i really want to do this right so I'm just going to put him out of my mind for now. I would love to date him, I have up until this point taken the initiative..I asked him out chose the time and place. So I'm wondering if I have set the tone for me calling the shots. If I don't make a move will he think I'm uninterested? Or will it make him step it up?
You initiated first?! Hmmmm. That's tricky.. Once the precedent has been "set" it is hard to be broken. To be honest, I don't know how to advise you here. I've never been an "initiator" simply for the above reasons.. Once you start you are taking the lead role already as you initiated from the very start...
I read that some Taurus males, depending on their chart placements, prefer to sit back and let the woman initiate.
Since you started it off, I suggest you wait a reasonable amount of time to pass and see if he will initiate the next date.
I am not best to advise you in this position...
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Yes I've taken the initiative and I like that position very much, still good advice for not being in my position thank you! 🙂 I'm going to wait until Wednesday.. But I think he'll check in.
Also I forgot to mention, I sent him a message when I got home Sat night that I had a wonderful time. With a kiss, he said he did too and he enjoyed talking to me that it was easy for him. With two kisses...Is this a Bull thing? Since Bulls rule the throat?
But see how I make the first move and he completeley follows suit with a little more. I feel like we could fall inlove. But don't want to screw it up. I don't want to play games..
Thanks all 🙂
Oh also, when we were leaving he grabbed my hand and held it...no awkward ness. Everything was very natural for him..
Even when we kissed it was just so right....
He was a little shy about his car, he wanted to know I drive, I told him I like his car and the rims. I think he is a sensitive and passionate intense man. I'm thinking he has Virgo and Scorp in his chart...
I am a Taurus that was dating a Taurus man a couple months ago. We were getting along very well and then communication stopped. We remained friends on social media. I reached out to him this past week after seeing a comment he made online. I realized I could help his situation and offered to do him a favor. We ended up spending the entire day together. At some point he asked me why I hadn't called him in months. I replied, "because you haven't called me". His response, "oh, then we were both just being stubborn?!?" Now, he is calling daily and asking me on dates. My point is, Taurus men don't always chase. I, however, do not regret my decision not to chase him. He may have just relegated himself to friendship zone with his silence.
Posted by earlorg16
I like it when my date wears a dress, not a skin tight one, just a looser fitting dress, that sorta shows body type but also leaves some room for imagination. To go with that, not too much make up, natural beauty is very important. And last but not least, be real. There's no need to sugar coat, no need to hide or play games, just be yourself and if it works out and we're into it, you'll know. When we want someone, we go for it.I was planning to wear a black skirt and a silky shiny red blouse with black lace and 4 inch nude heels. Red makes me feel sexay and I have also Leo in Venus. I read once red makes Taurus go a little crazy lol
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Posted by AriesLady8
Did u already go on your date? Idk about that halter top idea...The black jeans I like. They're casually sexy and you will feel sexy and slim I'm them. If it's still warm then I would recommend a tank top and make sure you're wearing a strapless bra. Bra straps showing is so tacky. Wear a strappy heel with not a whole bunch of traps everywhere. You'll look sexy but not slutty. And it will look like you care but you're not trying too hard
I went on my date last night, I ended up wearing a pair of blue jeans, with long sleeve Vneck beige body suit, with large gold leaf earrings and a gold bangle bracket. beige heels..my hair was done up. He wore a black tee shirt and blue jeans. I was comfortable but felt sexy.
The other outfits would have been silly and over done!! Thanks all for your advice! Xoxoxo it would have been a fail!! I was in my fav jeans, in my fav color..I felt good!!
Okay.. This is a hot broody man, an intensity to him. We were very attracted to each other. Intellectually. We talked and talked. I'd say what else do you want to know about me. He'd say Everything. But make it interesting! I thought off what Busy said, lol!! But I worked a very boring life story into a captivating saga and pulled him in...we had so many things in common.
then it was time to leave, and I walked him to his car and he said" this is so nice Youre walking me to my carr. I said I know I'm being nice tonight teasing him and he kissed me goodnight and oh my.........!! This man, melted into me..and I went with it. Then he asked me if I want to do this again. I said yes...some final words and I went home.
Oh my god.....people what a beautiful creation this man is. I want him.
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Sounds AMAZING! Cherish this feeling! Good luck!!
I really like the Taurus- Libra couple depending on the couple of course. It can be a beautiful Venusian pairing.
Posted by Librajean
I feel like we could fall inlove.
Whatever you do you need to control that kind of thinking right now.
Don't get carried away. You've had one date. You still have a lot to learn each other. Don't get lost in airy romantic thoughts. It will cause you no end of trouble if you start imagining where this could go before you get there.
If you're with a bull, take it one step at a time and go with the flow. Enjoy the moment with him and be prepared for a slow pace.
It's good. The slow pace will be better in the end. Feet on the ground, head out of the clouds and get into a nice steady rhythm. Don't charge ahead with expectations and fairytale notions.
Posted by Librajean
I feel like we could fall inlove.Whatever you do you need to control that kind of thinking right now.
Don't get carried away. You've had one date. You still have a lot to learn each other. Don't get lost in airy romantic thoughts. It will cause you no end of trouble if you start imagining where this could go before you get there.
If you're with a bull, take it one step at a time and go with the flow. Enjoy the moment with him and be prepared for a slow pace.
It's good. The slow pace will be better in the end. Feet on the ground, head of the the clouds and get into a nice steady rhythm. Don't charge ahead with expectations and fairytale notions.
As above ^^^
To "roll with a bull" you have to "think like a bull"! Right Jeane 😉
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Gah! I come off quite negative don't I?
I don't mean to op! Just advising to slow down your regular pace to ensure it all goes well.
Okay people take it slow...he just asked me if I want a FWB with him, lol
Posted by Librajean
Okay people take it slow...he just asked me if I want a FWB with him, lol
What did you say?
Posted by Librajean
Okay people take it slow...he just asked me if I want a FWB with him, lolShit!!!! Nooooooooooo!!!
Hold out for your relationship contract girl or tell him let's be "platonic friendship"!!! Trust me it works!
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Ha! Sadly I am not surprised with this proposition. Classic Taurus test.
Meh... That was disappointing to read...
Did OP check what this guy was looking for before going out with him?
What is OP looking for?
As the others have said, don't agree to the 'deal' he's put on the table. He could be after a FWB or just testing you out/trying his luck.
Posted by Librajean
Okay people take it slow...he just asked me if I want a FWB with him, lolThank god he was that direct, if he wasn't direct with you and already swooped at your bed while falling in ̶t̶r̶a̶p̶ love...
But that's not what you're looking for in which it's to bad actually. Or well, at least you got to know his honest answer.
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Explain please and are you male or female..?
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?
Don't agree to this unless you are happy only having this... this is not a guy that will easily change course once you start down it.
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
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They can do whatever they want.
I just thought they'd discussed, even briefly, what they were both looking for before meeting and assessed where each of them were at etc.
I think OP could struggle to be platonic friends due to the 'bowled over' reaction to this guy.
I dunno, I guess I'm just disappointed he text that. Not a quality guy ??
He could be assessing her reaction. If she says yes, then he gets a bit. If she says no then maybe it is food for thought.
My bf tried it on me too hence the lack of my surprise...
Posted by Librajean
Okay people take it slow...he just asked me if I want a FWB with him, lol
Well dang, smh.
I agree with Agent on passing on this guy. Just one date and already he says something disappointing. He should still be early in the stage of trying to impress you if he were serious, I'd think.
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
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Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
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Sorry for the typos I have the flu today. Okay truth be it, I like him...I don't want to pass..
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
Sorry for the typos I have the flu today. Okay truth be it, I like him...I don't want to pass..
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What was that users name? Does anyone remember? Mimi?
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
Sorry for the typos I have the flu today. Okay truth be it, I like him...I don't want to pass..
What was that users name? Does anyone remember? Mimi?
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? User??
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
Sorry for the typos I have the flu today. Okay truth be it, I like him...I don't want to pass..
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No shit Sherlock. It's written all over your messages.
1. He doesn't know what he wants.
2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
Posted by AgentP911
I feel like OP should consider passing on this guy ?But surely it depends on his reasoning ie timing.. Like he may just be out of a relationship and not ready etc. Can't they just be platonic friends and see where it leads?!
Sure we can but it will lead straight to the bedroom we have a red hot attraction to each other.
I think you guys are giving him too much credit, we met once we we are incredibly attracted to be each other. I honestly I don't think he knows what he wants..he just knows he wants to bed me seriously bad. But he wants the relationship part of things to continue slowly. We just met. Our attraction is intense...
I haven't responded...I'm not sure. Now he asked me when was my last relationship. I told him 3 months ago, he said wow that's recent. So maybe he is taking his time. The slow Bull...
Sorry for the typos I have the flu today. Okay truth be it, I like him...I don't want to pass..
What was that users name? Does anyone remember? Mimi?
? User??
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User/member. Directed to the peanut gallery.
Omg Librajean, Don't react when he said fwb.
Reverse the situation. Just respond tell him honey if you need that you are free now. I know the intense connection too difficult to resist.
I was there but I played the bull till He cant resist the playful side of me..but it took a year to know his feelings and it was the best thing I've heard from a man that everytime he saw me he'd falling harder.. so since he is in a relationship I told him
He will be fwb to me. He answered "no". Hahaha. So funny. If I were you. Don't give him ultimatum.
He just wanna know how you react. So avoid reaction. Respond instead. It might take time
But atleast that is for good for you and him for future couple. Don't spread the legs yet baby. Just be playful.
I find it very challenging. Wow. I surely take that guy spinning around my playful side without touching my p.u.s.s.y. lol. I like him.
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
@OP. PS. But DON'T come back to the Taurus board when it goes "tits up" with a title that says
"My Taurus was an fwb and I have caught feels for him. Will he change?"
The answer: "FUCK NO"! Sex is sex! Welcome to the Taurus harem. Followed by "we told you so"!
So I advise you to return to the Libra board... Taurus don't do "returns".
Good luck in advance OP!! U will need it...
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Ok ok ok........!
I'm going to resist the temptation!!
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
@OP. PS. But DON'T come back to the Taurus board when it goes "tits up" with a title that says
"My Taurus was an fwb and I have caught feels for him. Will he change?"
The answer: "FUCK NO"! Sex is sex! Welcome to the Taurus harem. Followed by "we told you so"!
So I advise you to return to the Libra board... Taurus don't do "returns".
Good luck in advance OP!! U will need it...
Ok ok ok........!
I'm going to resist the temptation!!
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
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You wait long enough to know there is an emotional attachment.
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
@OP. PS. But DON'T come back to the Taurus board when it goes "tits up" with a title that says
"My Taurus was an fwb and I have caught feels for him. Will he change?"
The answer: "FUCK NO"! Sex is sex! Welcome to the Taurus harem. Followed by "we told you so"!
So I advise you to return to the Libra board... Taurus don't do "returns".
Good luck in advance OP!! U will need it...
Ok ok ok........!
I'm going to resist the temptation!!
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
You wait long enough to know there is an emotional attachment.
I can never understand women that are in a hurry to spread their legs...
Who wants to rush a five course meal?! Lol lol
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She's horny. We've all been in a situation where all we want to do is rip the guy's clothes off but I fear this going to end badly.
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
@OP. PS. But DON'T come back to the Taurus board when it goes "tits up" with a title that says
"My Taurus was an fwb and I have caught feels for him. Will he change?"
The answer: "FUCK NO"! Sex is sex! Welcome to the Taurus harem. Followed by "we told you so"!
So I advise you to return to the Libra board... Taurus don't do "returns".
Good luck in advance OP!! U will need it...
Ok ok ok........!
I'm going to resist the temptation!!
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
You wait long enough to know there is an emotional attachment.
I can never understand women that are in a hurry to spread their legs...
Who wants to rush a five course meal?! Lol lol
She's horny. We've all been in a situation where all we want to do is rip the guy's clothes off but I fear this going to end badly.
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Lol, all true...I think busy is right, he thinks this is what I want.. Jeane is right too, meeting him has made me horny and him too. We are just amazed by this attraction. But I'm going to step back and let him think about things..he is showing me he wants me. But I'm going to just chill exactly why rush a 5 course meal!! Amen Red Amen!!!
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
You wait long enough to know there is an emotional attachment.
Who wants to rush a five course meal?! Lol lol
She's horny. We've all been in a situation where all we want to do is rip the guy's clothes off but I fear this going to end badly.
Lol, all true...I think busy is right, he thinks this is what I want.. Jeane is right too, meeting him has made me horny and him too. We are just amazed by this attraction. But I'm going to step back and let him think about things..he is showing me he wants me. But I'm going to just chill exactly why rush a 5 course meal!! Amen Red Amen!!!
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OP, three dates? Seriously. Three dates equates to about nine hours of time spent with him. NINE hours, not more than 12 I'd estimate. I've worked longer shifts with 'the new guy' and I wouldn't want to fuck him after one shift.
Without being harsh, you're mixing the 'contracts' up and I don't think you're being clear with what you want right NOW.
Single for three months then makes self available for dating.
Meets a guy and falls head over heels for him on date one.
Wants him and thinks they'd make a great couple.
Doesn't quite want FWB but wants to bang him.
Thinks fucking him on date three will be seen as holding out/self respect.
Let's rewind a bit here and give yourself time to think about what you want. Not from him but in general. What can you deal/cope with right now?
Work through the examples: if you bang him as a one off or a FWB, could you (or your Leo Venus) handle being discarded or not being no1? If he's got you on a FWB then he's likely to have others on the same contract. I don't know about you but that's not a turn on to me. That's a turn off. He would instantly lose appeal and be relegated into the 'dial-a-fuck' category, only to be called in dire emergencies!
But that's me —
But she is betting on sleeping with him now and the relationship would quickly follow.
There is no point trying to convince her. She wants to bed him. He's going to sweet talk her into dropping her pants in the next date or so.
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But she is betting on sleeping with him now and the relationship would quickly follow.There is no point trying to convince her. She wants to bed him. He's going to sweet talk her into dropping her pants in the next date or so.
U think she will "surrender" early? That she doesn't have the "staying power" needed...?
Well she knows the results she will get so at least she will not be "blindsided"! The Taurus has told her what he wants and we have given her the "outcome" of either "scenario".. So at least she is equipped.
We have done our jobs! 😄
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Yep. We are terrible when it comes to temptation and the things we want. I gave in despite my better judgement. He was too irrestible. It set me up for troubles afterwards. Luckily it worked in my favour because we had a solid friendship in place.
But I remember that time. No amount of pep talks stuck when he was standing in front of me.
Posted by AgentP911
1. He doesn't know what he wants.2. He wants to bang you.
3. He wants the relationship part to continue slowly.
? Uh huh...
Classic... Just fuck him and have him as a FWB.
@OP. PS. But DON'T come back to the Taurus board when it goes "tits up" with a title that says
"My Taurus was an fwb and I have caught feels for him. Will he change?"
The answer: "FUCK NO"! Sex is sex! Welcome to the Taurus harem. Followed by "we told you so"!
So I advise you to return to the Libra board... Taurus don't do "returns".
Good luck in advance OP!! U will need it...
Ok ok ok........!
I'm going to resist the temptation!!
So date number 3 will be ok? We are grown up how long should I make me wait?
I love what you wrote by the way!! Thank you 🙂
Depends on what you put in your contract.
Question: do you want him for three dates or three lifetimes?
The floor is all yours..
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Really 🙂 I'm not letting him go, there is something here..
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.
The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
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Lol.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Lol.
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Lol. No it just sounds like a load of shit!
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
This one is young and bases everything off sexual connection. Sure, we all like sex and it is important but not at the expenses of other criteria/matches. Great sex is unlikely to sustain for the next 40 years at the same consistent level you are looking for. That's why compatability in other areas is important.
One night stands, FWB, etc can all turn into relationships BUT... These are the exception... NOT the rule.
If your friendship can turn into a good friendship/relationship it can be turned into a lover of what you want to have.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Lol.
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Lol, sorry typo, you know what I mean 😉 he wants me to be addicted to him..
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Lol.
Lol, sorry typo, you know what I mean 😉 he wants me to be addicted to him..
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That wasn't what I was laughing at. You addicted to him doesn't mean he is addicted to you! It just means he has you right where he wants you.
it won't be a one night stand. It will probably be a very enjoyable long term fwb.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Lol.
Lol, sorry typo, you know what I mean 😉 he wants me to be addicted to him..
That wasn't what I was laughing at. You addicted to him doesn't mean he is addicted to you! It just means he has you right where he wants you.
it won't be a one night stand. It will probably be a very enjoyable long term fwb.
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I'm glad you know me so well that I would be interested in a FWD for long term. I'm a grown up, I do what I want no one pays my bills but me...it will be what I want or nothing.
Thank you for the kind words...
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
If your friendship can turn into a good friendship/relationship it can be turned into a lover of what you want to have.
He is calling me lover, wants me addicted to him..
He is very attracted to me, soul mate potential. It's mutual.
i don't think he knows how to handle. But I'm a grown up you guys. Anyhoo, I'm not feeling well. Check in later. Bye for now.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
Thank you!! I agree with you...
last night on the phone he told me his plan is to make him addicted to him. That doesn't sound like a one night stand to me.
Lol.
Lol, sorry typo, you know what I mean 😉 he wants me to be addicted to him..
That wasn't what I was laughing at. You addicted to him doesn't mean he is addicted to you! It just means he has you right where he wants you.
it won't be a one night stand. It will probably be a very enjoyable long term fwb.
I'm glad you know me so well that I would be interested in a FWD for long term. I'm a grown up, I do what I want no one pays my bills but me...it will be what I want or nothing.
Thank you for the kind words...
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Ok. Best of luck.
Posted by earlorg16
If it makes you feel any better OP, I've done FWB's in the past that have evolved into long term relationships. I can only speak on my behalf, but I tend to want to see how the sex is with a person to see how the sexual chemistry is. If it's good, I like to stick around and see if it grows into more. If the sex sucks, I'm less excited about the prospect of committing to that person but will see how it goes with time though I'm less enthusiastic.The only reason I do this is because I want consistency and if the sexual chemistry is no bueno and continues to suck after multiple efforts, it's sorta like, why do I wanna be with someone long term who sucks in bed? I mean just like a good meal, who doesn't want to have a good sex life?
This one is young and bases everything off sexual connection. Sure, we all like sex and it is important but not at the expenses of other criteria/matches. Great sex is unlikely to sustain for the next 40 years at the same consistent level you are looking for. That's why compatability in other areas is important.
One night stands, FWB, etc can all turn into relationships BUT... These are the exception... NOT the rule.
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There's more to it than sex obviously. I'm saying, that's one aspect out of many, but is an important one to some people. It's not the only aspect, and no where in my post did I say that it's the only aspect. Sex is important to people. It's not the only important thing, and there of course needs to be compatibility in other areas too. If the sex is bad however, it's obviously a let down, but it's not the only deciding factor.
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