
Shrewdsharp
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Posted by Algol-RisingYeah? We do have an unusually close relationship but both of us have significant others. She has mentioned that she's always wanted to have sex with a woman but neither one of us would know what to do. Lol!Posted by ShrewdsharpShe's just your BFF? Sounds like you're talking about your girlfriend.
I really care about my Taurus BFF with a Virgo Moon I don't know if she is as mutually invested in our friendship and I am wondering if it's time to just cut my losses.
She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.click to expand

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by ShrewdsharpRuh-roh! You're in potential emotional affair territory here.Posted by Algol-RisingYeah? We do have an unusually close relationship but both of us have significant others. She has mentioned that she's always wanted to have sex with a woman but neither one of us would know what to do. Lol!Posted by ShrewdsharpShe's just your BFF? Sounds like you're talking about your girlfriend.
I really care about my Taurus BFF with a Virgo Moon I don't know if she is as mutually invested in our friendship and I am wondering if it's time to just cut my losses.
She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.
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Posted by Goodtimes
Oui, can I watch. LOL

Posted by Algol-RisingWhat do you mean 'where they should be?' They are both adults; they can do whatever they feel is right for them. By the way can I watch? LMAO...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100That part of the post is just nonsensical to me so I ignored it.Posted by Algol-RisingI don't know about you but any "friend" of mine what even suggested I send some form of "controlled substance" I would cut them off there and then... They would never hear from me again and I don't think that has anything to do with an astrological placement...Posted by ShrewdsharpRuh-roh! You're in potential emotional affair territory here.Posted by Algol-RisingYeah? We do have an unusually close relationship but both of us have significant others. She has mentioned that she's always wanted to have sex with a woman but neither one of us would know what to do. Lol!Posted by ShrewdsharpShe's just your BFF? Sounds like you're talking about your girlfriend.
I really care about my Taurus BFF with a Virgo Moon I don't know if she is as mutually invested in our friendship and I am wondering if it's time to just cut my losses.
She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.
I don't blame the Taurus...
What do you want, OP? Do you want to have an affair with your friend or do you want to set the boundaries back where they should be?click to expand

Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Algol-RisingPosted by ShrewdsharpRuh-roh! You're in potential emotional affair territory here.Posted by Algol-RisingYeah? We do have an unusually close relationship but both of us have significant others. She has mentioned that she's always wanted to have sex with a woman but neither one of us would know what to do. Lol!Posted by ShrewdsharpShe's just your BFF? Sounds like you're talking about your girlfriend.
I really care about my Taurus BFF with a Virgo Moon I don't know if she is as mutually invested in our friendship and I am wondering if it's time to just cut my losses.
She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.
It does feel like an emotional affair and she can be extremely possessive whereas I'm more freedom- oriented cuz I believe that if somebody loves you they give you freedom but she's definitely more possessive than I am definitely!
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Posted by ShrewdsharpIn what capacity? Like you love your significant other or like you would love a good friend? Whatever the case, do what feels good. How are you dealing with the possessive trait.Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Algol-RisingPosted by ShrewdsharpRuh-roh! You're in potential emotional affair territory here.Posted by Algol-RisingYeah? We do have an unusually close relationship but both of us have significant others. She has mentioned that she's always wanted to have sex with a woman but neither one of us would know what to do. Lol!Posted by ShrewdsharpShe's just your BFF? Sounds like you're talking about your girlfriend.
I really care about my Taurus BFF with a Virgo Moon I don't know if she is as mutually invested in our friendship and I am wondering if it's time to just cut my losses.
She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.
It does feel like an emotional affair and she can be extremely possessive whereas I'm more freedom- oriented cuz I believe that if somebody loves you they give you freedom but she's definitely more possessive than I am definitely!
I love her.
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Posted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.


Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
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Posted by ShrewdsharpShe sounds like a ride or die chick. If anything your the asshole for insisting she does something she's not comfortable with and THEN penalizing her when she expressed her concerns to you. If your such good friends why are you charging her...—
She is there for me 99.9% of the time
We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me.

Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
i thought i was the only one who blocked her?,whats your placement?
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Posted by jane84
OP if she is not comfortable with it, then that is up to her. I mean if in the past she has asked you to do something you are uncomfortable with and you did it, then it would be fair to say you would and she wouldn't. But to say that you would do this particular thing (that you are comfortable with) and she would not is not exactly showing that she is not giving her all in this friendship.
In my experience, Taurus are stubborn when it comes to making up/apologizing. Air signs are more likely to do it easily. So I see your point on that. That will not change, so you have to decide if you can accept it.
But as for your main issue... I have to see her point on this.

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ShrewdsharpShe sounds like a ride or die chick. If anything your the asshole for insisting she does something she's not comfortable with and THEN penalizing her when she expressed her concerns to you. If your such good friends why are you charging her...—
She is there for me 99.9% of the time
We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me.
Dick move dude.click to expand

Posted by Aquarius3189Libra sun, aqua moon & mars and venus libra. The kind of woman that John the Baptist man would love but then again he loves all the women so you just got to have a vagina for him to want you and be hard to get.Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
i thought i was the only one who blocked her?,whats your placement?
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Posted by ShrewdsharpAnd she more than likely will not give in either. I feel that Taurus and Libras can be very good friends, but geez are we stubborn when it comes to each other. Lol But it can be a very caring friendship if you learn to accept each other for who they are as opposed to trying to make each other bend over backwards for each other.Posted by jane84
OP if she is not comfortable with it, then that is up to her. I mean if in the past she has asked you to do something you are uncomfortable with and you did it, then it would be fair to say you would and she wouldn't. But to say that you would do this particular thing (that you are comfortable with) and she would not is not exactly showing that she is not giving her all in this friendship.
In my experience, Taurus are stubborn when it comes to making up/apologizing. Air signs are more likely to do it easily. So I see your point on that. That will not change, so you have to decide if you can accept it.
But as for your main issue... I have to see her point on this.
You are so right and I did a reading it looks like she's really hurting too but she is not going to acquiesce and she will not bend and she will not call First you're right so I will....I thought about just calling her on Mother's Day.
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Posted by jane84You are so right and you are so sweet and most of the time I love Tauruses. Usually me and Tauruses click immediately I mean even if they're on the other side of the room I will go up to them to start talking to them and just won't leave them alone we click and that's how it is for life!Posted by ShrewdsharpAnd she more than likely will not give in either. I feel that Taurus and Libras can be very good friends, but geez are we stubborn when it comes to each other. Lol But it can be a very caring friendship if you learn to accept each other for who they are as opposed to trying to make each other bend over backwards for each other.Posted by jane84
OP if she is not comfortable with it, then that is up to her. I mean if in the past she has asked you to do something you are uncomfortable with and you did it, then it would be fair to say you would and she wouldn't. But to say that you would do this particular thing (that you are comfortable with) and she would not is not exactly showing that she is not giving her all in this friendship.
In my experience, Taurus are stubborn when it comes to making up/apologizing. Air signs are more likely to do it easily. So I see your point on that. That will not change, so you have to decide if you can accept it.
But as for your main issue... I have to see her point on this.
You are so right and I did a reading it looks like she's really hurting too but she is not going to acquiesce and she will not bend and she will not call First you're right so I will....I thought about just calling her on Mother's Day.
If your friendship does mean something to you, call. If she is truly NOT being a friend, then have a discussion with her, don't let it be a one-sided friendship. But like I said in this case, I see her point. Call her and figure out where you both are on the issue. Try to be understanding if the main issue is, she simply was not comfortable with it.click to expand


Posted by Aquarius3189I love practically everything you post. Love your kindness as well. ?Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
i thought i was the only one who blocked her?,whats your placement?
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Also if you posted and I haven't responded it's because I don't get all of the replies on my phone have anybody else noticed that?
But as it stands I do apologize for the pent-up anger that just exploded but I have been holding that in for about a year-and-a-half cuz I think that John the Baptist were busy eyes it's just the nastiest demon that is on this site I really think she's a demon and by the way in case she's posting I cannot read anything I promise you if she post something I will respond to it but if I'm not responding to anything that she post that means she's being a coward and she hasn't Unblock Me.

Posted by ShrewdsharpI think you have to unblock her to see her postsPosted by Shrewdsharp
Also if you posted and I haven't responded it's because I don't get all of the replies on my phone have anybody else noticed that?
But as it stands I do apologize for the pent-up anger that just exploded but I have been holding that in for about a year-and-a-half cuz I think that John the Baptist were busy eyes it's just the nastiest demon that is on this site I really think she's a demon and by the way in case she's posting I cannot read anything I promise you if she post something I will respond to it but if I'm not responding to anything that she post that means she's being a coward and she hasn't Unblock Me.click to expand



Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Aquarius3189Libra sun, aqua moon & mars and venus libra. The kind of woman that John the Baptist man would love but then again he loves all the women so you just got to have a vagina for him to want you and be hard to get.Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
i thought i was the only one who blocked her?,whats your placement?
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Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Aquarius3189I love practically everything you post. Love your kindness as well. ?Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Goodtimes
I have sent many controlled substances to friends. Especially living in a state that has the best damn bomb-ass weed. I don't see a problem with it. LOL
So, it's rare to find a special friendship with someone, and if as consenting adults you two want to explore something else I say go for it.
I am only getting some posts not all of them from my phone. I have to go my laptop to see all of them. But I didn't know she was telling the truth about the dangers of sending a controlled substance until another friend confirmed it.
I really hate John the Baptist; she is an evil, ugly, nasty, barracuda who spreads her bitter unhappy life and nonsense contributions around to compensate for her miserable empty life. I thought if you blocked someone they can't see your posts?
What a fycking bitch! Lmao...okay I am over it.
i thought i was the only one who blocked her?,whats your placement?
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She is there for me 99.9% of the time, but aren't Tauruses there for everybody like that or is it indication that they genuinely care for you? We talk daily sometimes one to three hours a day; laughing analyzing chit-chatting I really deeply enjoy our friendship we have a blast and a ball with each other.
But I noticed that I seem to give more than she gives because I feel like I'm always going out of my way to show that I care and I don't really feel that it's reciprocated. So she had this opportunity to prove herself by sending something in the mail that is a controlled substance. She said she was paralyzed by fear to send this controlled substance through the mail. I really don't know what the big deal is.....I was more hurt that she didn't make more of an effort to try and make it happen. it wasn't like it was an illegal drug it's a legal drug just controlled.
So I told her that since she wasn't willing to send me that in the mail and I'm a recruiter that I was going to charge her for every person that responds to her resume and we were going to officiate my Professional Services I haven't spoken to her since.
She does tolerate a lot of my Antics and I do have a fear of intimacy and she is always there for me but I just feel like I give more than she gives and I'm getting tired of it any suggestions? I would say that if we get into a disagreement that she will contact me 40% of the time to make up and I will contact her 60% of the time she can be real stubborn but yet I love her to death. I've never gone this long without contacting her because I'm just tired of giving like I just feel like I have nothing else to give.