how do taurus guys like to have sex??

well how do they like it??

like all guys....OFTEN!

They are very sensual man but they are not too freaky -- like some other signs. They are just into the actual act, not really into additions, which is fine by me!!! 😛

they like it often, but most I've known are Don Juan wanna-be's.

i been goin weird this year start off extreme almost everytime tryin to do something very diff - try and come on some part of the body i never done before, or jump in with something kinky, then after bout 5 times i tend to go gentle for 1 or 2 then want to leave. but in gen like bit of subtle interaction in public places, turns me on.

Those are words of wisdom Myst 🙂

BORING!!! LOL...

I know I'm gonna get heat for that... but it's the raw truth. I'm an all-night, wake up in the morning and go at it again Cap (Mars in Scorpio), and I'm sorry but 20 minutes is not gonna do me. NEXT!

LOL...

the scorp comment must mean Scorp chic & Taurus guy. My Scorp ex couldnt keep up with my insatiable desire...had to move on to a crab...lovelyyyy!! lol

Yeah we can be freaky (Tauruses in general), but we arent just going to jump out the closet with it. You have to make us comfy then light our fire.

What is freaky to a Taurus or to anyone for that matter? Are we talking whips and chains, bondage, domination, food, fetish?

I think sex in general (vaginal, anal or oral) can be considered freaky depending on the person and their positionon what they are comfortable with and where they draw the line.

The Taurus guy that I know was hesitant to use a toy that I brought for dual pleasure for both of us. He ultimately wore it and liked it alot, but he had to be coaxed.

He liked using food, candles, blindfold (anything soft to the touch) and stuff like that, but I don't think that was freaky. I think that is sexy and sensual. IDK, LOL it got me hook, line and sinker.

HAHA Merc. No it is actually called the "Diving Dolphin" - google it and you will see what it looks like. Interesting contraption.

Once he got over how it looked, he was more than a little interested in how it worked.

lol see I've never used toys, thats freaky...Im not saying I wouldnt, but it would take the right person with the right sale pitch. With the right person I've found that nothing more is needed than the tools God gave.

lmao@ Merc's butt plug...again smh.

SF - BEWARE!

Although cancers are shy and reserved we can be "freaky" with the right person. When the chemistry is there and we trust you then we are open to experiemnt.

Merc you will like it. It fits tight to stay "extended" longer and there is a remote control for both vibrating bullets. it will highten your senses for sure.

Oh I already figured that out HG. lol *singin to myself* "how sweet it is to be loved by you"

Merc, get yourself cancer. It won't kill you.lol

lol Merc, you're bound to fall for one at some point or another..I know you're from up North but Nelly actually has a new song "Shorty what ya name is....Shorty whats ya sign". Its becoming a more relevant question even in the hip hop community lol.

Tell it SF!

Merc, please nah mek mi haffi tell yuh dis again yuh ere'.....yuh nuh haffi fraid ah we. We nah guh bite yu (too ard dat is) LOL

Taurus men make love they don't just have sex.

That is exactly what he told me one tie too - "I don't wanna f_ck, I wanna make love."

CL you were right on point with that one.

lol I try and Merc is going to end up with a Cancer no matter how much he tries to avoid it.

lol NOPE!

lol I heard that from a Cancer man "I would NEVER EVER f--k you, let me make love to you...tell me what it takes to please you". He was romantic tho. lol Taurus men are just too..."grandpa-ish" for me.

OMG look at the can of worms I opened with that ONE comment!!! LOL....

I think I should take back my comment. Maybe I'm bored, because it's gonna take quite some work to bring that out. Well I'm a Capricorn, so all I know is work. :-) LOL!

asked what shit? I'm just sharing how Taurus men like it. I have interacted with a couple Taurus men...and they tried to woo me with Old Skool music and old fashioned values.

Sorry, that's my opinion. Im not saying its anything definite or objective...some women like that type. I mean, I know I'm sexy Amish sometimes *shrug*. Im cool with it.

lol the question is are you really ready for a Cancer??

God only sends us things when we are ready for them.

You can ask but it doesn't always come when you want it too.

WOW i believe Cancer lady. Because on another board... the topic was 'which sign have you never dated that you'd like to date?' And I asked for 'Taurus.' And two weeks later, came Taurus!! LOL!!!

Okay... that wasn't THE deciding factor of my faith in God, but you get the point. 🙂

Ok but bac to the topic. It seems as if from everything that I study, My sexual style is 'in your face, get to the point' type, while the Taurus is more slow, and sensual. I wanna learn how to become more sensual. How do you do this?

caprichick - if the Taurus man is into you, he will do a lot if not most of the work initially. So if you are not the most sensual to start, follow his lead.

Based on the Taurus guy I know, they like to take the lead in bed, because they feel that is their forte. They do things on their time and don't like to be rushed. (lovemaking, sex, screwing tat is an art form to them)

If I'd try to speed things up or request we get right into the act right away, he would tell me "No" and continue doing as he wished. (No qualms from me though because he is an excellent lover) It is only after I beg him (ego stroke I assume) that he concedes my request.

Also they like routine (fixed nature), so if he feels there is a particular position/atmosphere that feels good to him, he may get used to and prefer that over something different. If you wanna try something new talk about it first (gentle coaxing) and if that doesn't work??

TIE HIS ASS TO THE BED, BLINDFOLD HIM AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HIM...LOL

tat = that

Hotgal78, you pegged it.

I don't remember who made the crack about Taurans being done in "twenty minutes," but please. That's terrible. But then, I can't speak for all Taurans, just myself.

It's an art form. I don't think I'm the best lover, I don't think I'm the most sensual, and it's not an ego thing with me at all. I approach sex the way I approach art, food, wine, or fine furniture: it's something to be enjoyed, appreciated, and savored. What I do in bed isn't as much for their pleasure as it is my own. I'm not keeping score of how many times she comes or how often she begs for more. I kind of lose track of it all and go with the flow. A night, a day, and the next night all in bed? Only if I like you. But if it lasts more than two hours, chances are I dig you.

And "making love"? Sorry. It depends on the woman, of course, but if she'd be more turned on by the words c*ck and fsck (not being prudish, just not sure of profanity rules here) then those are the words I'll use. If she gets turned on more by "making love", I may say that... but chances are our relationship won't last. 😉

Freaky stuff? Please. Paddles, chains, blindfolds, candles, handcuffs, rope, vibrators of all sizes, whips, plugs, clamps... there isn't anything that isn't fair game in the bedroom. None of it bothers me, and I will happily use whatever I can to make things more fun. And while there may be some things I don't want done to myself, if you get me in the right mood I could be persuaded to try even that.

lmao Merc was is with you and the butt plug? lol

TF You can type whatever you want as far as profanity, folks that have on the profanity blocker will see some other pleasant substituted kindergarten word. But sometimes I like the censor words. Shit = butter, so with the censor its like "cut the bullbutter", and bitch= cookiemonster, so with the censor its like "she was SUCH a cookiemonster". I've even started using the words in front of my niece & nephew, its kinda funny.

It seems like Taurus guys are pretty much like Taurus girls in the bedroom. I dont particularly care for sex toys, but all the other bondage type things and delicacies: cuffs, whips, paddles, lubes, foods, cremes, body paints, ticklers and the like...I will do.

Ah, thanks Sweetest! I was wondering about the censoring. I didn't know there was a filter. I kept seeing "butter" all over the place and thought, "well, that's odd, but it must be something they all sorta started using, so I'd better go with the flow and censor myself."

Butt plugs don't bother me. Then again, I haven't tried one. No one's tried to sweet talk me into it yet. 😉

But (ha!) you know, I think it's really the other way around. Sure, it *might* feel good, but I'd be more likely to do it if I thought that it would enhance *their* pleasure. See, all those toys I've mentioned? I've only had a handful used on myself. My partners haven't been that into doing that stuff *to* me, only having me do that to them.

And I'm more than happy to oblige!

something about that wink is telling me it might not take so much sweet talk.

LOL, Sweetest!

Nope, not much at all. I'll do pretty much anything in bed.

I usually start out slow, sensual and gentle: caressing her ears while kissing; running my fingers down the side of her face and along her throat; firmly wrapping my arms around her body and gently squeezing her side. Always long, slow, sensual touches.

But once I start to get a feel for what she likes, I start playing. Start using my fingernails -- gently, at first, just to see what she does. Quivering and light moaning? Then I'll reach behind her head and gently grasp her hair while kissing her more strongly. If her kisses get stronger, too, then I'll start tugging her hair, pulling her head back so I can kiss and nibble her neck and ears. It's usually my soft, hot breath in her ear that gets things going even further.

It may take me an hour before I reach down between her thighs, it may take me four more dates. But when I do, it will be as soft and sensual and teasing as the first kisses were. It may take just as long before I lift her bra, but I make sure that she knows that what I do with her nipples -- licking around them, flicking them gently with my tongue, slowly raking my teeth along them, pulling them into my mouth to suck hard on them -- is exactly what I'll do when my head is happily nestled between her legs, thighs clamped tightly around my neck.

I know some people like it rough from the start, and they tend to think I'm just playing it safe, but it's more about the teasing and the temptation than anything else. I can be rough (and I especially *love* to spank!) but it'll take a bit before I do. Not because I'm afraid, but because it's all part of a carefully crafted set of highs and lows, roughness and gentleness, that needs to flow smoothly throughout the night.

DAMN txtfool - You sound just like someone I know. Everything you said to down to licking the nipple is the Taurus guy I know.


::leg quivers as mind wanders back to those moments::

wow..I never knew

Sorry, I got a bit carried away there. Maybe I should hide that post?

What I meant to really say is that in bed, anything really goes, no matter how "freaky". But I'm never freaky at first. It takes time to get to that.

Someone who really likes the freaky or rough stuff might think my style is a little boring. But if that's the case, it's *their* fault. Sex is boring, period, if you don't tell the other person what you like and what you want.

"...Sex is boring, period, if you don't tell the other person what you like and what you want."

100% AGREED!!!


SweetestFatale and HotGal, I learned so much from what you've been typing. It's time for me to slow it down. How can Taurus be my top match and yet our sexual style s are different? Maybe because I'm not fully matured like he is. Maybe he's right. Maybe I ain't ready, LOL!