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Having frequent sex is generally healthy and can improve mood and intimacy. However, excessive sexual activity may lead to physical exhaustion or emotional strain. It is important to listen to your body and maintain a balanced sex life that feels comfortable and sustainable for you.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.
They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
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Indeed it is. Sex addiction is very real.
If it's with the same person every time, that just means you're really into him/her. But if you go for multiple sessions per day each with a different person, then you definitely got a problem.
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Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.
They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Indeed it is. Sex addiction is very real.
If it's with the same person every time, that just means you're really into him/her. But if you go for multiple sessions per day each with a different person, then you definitely got a problem.
So doing the same thing but with one person is healthy? What if its the same 3 ppl every time??
Is it bad then?
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Are you talking about repeat performances of an orgy? I believe it indeed has the potential to become an addiction because it's like bingeing on a variety of foods. Gluttony.
And it's only a matter of time before you start craving something more, like a new member. That's just my theory. If you're at it all the time, you end up abusing your pleasure center. Eventually the pleasure itself starts to fade faster than normal but you're hooked on that "high" and you do it more and more and more until it's out of control. You can easily progress to new different partner/s every time.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.
They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Indeed it is. Sex addiction is very real.
If it's with the same person every time, that just means you're really into him/her. But if you go for multiple sessions per day each with a different person, then you definitely got a problem.
So doing the same thing but with one person is healthy? What if its the same 3 ppl every time??
Is it bad then?
Are you talking about repeat performances of an orgy? I believe it indeed has the potential to become an addiction because it's like bingeing on a variety of foods. Gluttony.
And it's only a matter of time before you start craving something more, like a new member. That's just my theory. If you're at it all the time, you end up abusing your pleasure center. Eventually the pleasure itself starts to fade faster than normal but you're hooked on that "high" and you do it more and more and more until it's out of control. You can easily progress to new different partner/s every time.
Not an orgy but some ppl who are single do have multiple partners but keep those same ones for years so what about them? Is that healthy. I agree on orgys no way that shit ends with a happy committed partner getting married.
And I so agree that switching ppl all the time withdraws the pleasure from sex. From what I have seen those ppl never really get satisfied. They come but they just never get that ahhhh feeling f
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Depends on how........oh fuck me, hold up! Some stupid idiot was mowing the lawn, no wonder I've been sneezing my head off all morning. The smell of cut grass is like kryptonite to me.
Now that we got that outta the way, where was I?
Oh, well, depends on how often they do it. I mean if it happens at least 5 times a day for an extended period of time, then there's definitely a problem. It's the number of sexual partners AND the number of times it happens in a short period. If you're having sex with several different people per day and never the same one...........yikes.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by xghy
I'm still trying to understand the psychology of those people.Best I can guess is they abused their brain's pleasure center with all that wanton sex/drugs/alcohol and god knows what else. The usual stuff wasn't cutting it no more so they stepped it up a notch.
They completely gave in to their animalistic urges to the point where they just didn't give a damn about consequences.
Indeed it is. Sex addiction is very real.
If it's with the same person every time, that just means you're really into him/her. But if you go for multiple sessions per day each with a different person, then you definitely got a problem.
So doing the same thing but with one person is healthy? What if its the same 3 ppl every time??
Is it bad then?
Are you talking about repeat performances of an orgy? I believe it indeed has the potential to become an addiction because it's like bingeing on a variety of foods. Gluttony.
And it's only a matter of time before you start craving something more, like a new member. That's just my theory. If you're at it all the time, you end up abusing your pleasure center. Eventually the pleasure itself starts to fade faster than normal but you're hooked on that "high" and you do it more and more and more until it's out of control. You can easily progress to new different partner/s every time.
Not an orgy but some ppl who are single do have multiple partners but keep those same ones for years so what about them? Is that healthy. I agree on orgys no way that shit ends with a happy committed partner getting married.
And I so agree that switching ppl all the time withdraws the pleasure from sex. From what I have seen those ppl never really get satisfied. They come but they just never get that ahhhh feeling f
Depends on how........oh fuck me, hold up! Some stupid idiot was mowing the lawn, no wonder I've been sneezing my head off all morning. The smell of cut grass is like kryptonite to me.
Now that we got that outta the way, where was I?
Oh, well, depends on how often they do it. I mean if it happens at least 5 times a day for an extended period of time, then there's definitely a problem. It's the number of sexual partners AND the number of times it happens in a short period. If you're having sex with several different people per day and never the same one...........yikes.
Hey man no bullshit I been sneezing all fucking day and now NY throat hurt dead serious lol just thought it was funny u said that
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Bitch was lucky I don't have a gun! Do have a chakram though and I know how to throw it. But.......now at least I know how these things feel.
Thank god sneezing isn't addictive.
Too much of anything isn't good. I don't think sex a few times a week is bad, but like anything in life things get worn out as they are used. Things do the exact thing when not used enough too. So like with anything in life some moderation is needed.

How much is too much tho

This topic is what the movie "Hell Raiser," the book "Hellbound Heart" by Clive Barker, was based on... hedonism.
Well they say too much of anything is bad, and I agree.
Just like anything else, it becomes too much when it starts to eat away at a healthy life style . If the sexual activity is resulting in bills not being paid, spouses are tossing ultimatums, obligations are being neglected, superiors are getting pissed off and the like, then you just might have a problem.
The amount isn't going to be the same for everyone.
Determine too much...
I had so much sex once that my prostate swelled up and I had to get a shot
blasphemy!
no such thing
as too much.
I think it all depends on how you feel about it, if you feel like you're crossing a line then maybe it is but if you're having pleasure and you enjoy it, then why is it too much?
Check in with yourself, is it a compulsion or do you have bad feelings around it, or is it fun, relaxing and something you look forward to.
If the body needs food "3" times a day. I don't see why we cant fuck 3 times a day.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the body needs food "3" times a day. I don't see why we cant fuck 3 times a day.
I like this quote. lol. 2-3 times a day sounds great with a loved one. Sounds healthy.
I believe as long as I cannot function properly in life that's when it's "unhealthy". Once it takes over you, your life, and so forth, and you lose your sense in priorities, that's when you need to get your shit together and get life back on track.
It's unhealthy when you start to seek it out with anyone willing to offer and you're literally struggling to live without it.
Who doesn't love sex here and there especially if it's with the right people? I don't think it's a matter of amounts per se, and more a matter of psychological well being.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the body needs food "3" times a day. I don't see why we cant fuck 3 times a day.I like this quote. lol. 2-3 times a day sounds great with a loved one. Sounds healthy.
I believe as long as I can function properly in life that's when it's not "unhealthy". Once it takes over you, your life, and so forth, and you lose your sense in priorities, that's when you need to get your shit together and get life back on track.
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Yes I agree
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the body needs food "3" times a day. I don't see why we cant fuck 3 times a day.I like this quote. lol. 2-3 times a day sounds great with a loved one. Sounds healthy.
I believe as long as I can function properly in life that's when it's not "unhealthy". Once it takes over you, your life, and so forth, and you lose your sense in priorities, that's when you need to get your shit together and get life back on track.
Yes I agree
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had to edit what I wrote but I think you still understood what I meant lol. Sigh, Mondays..
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Hello,
Just wanted some inputs, of course sex is great and all that. But I was just wondering how much sex is too much sex or do you guys think having too much is healthy or an unhealthy habit ?
Appreciate the comments, replies, and opinions as always!