SNEAKY WAYS TO CATCH A CHEATER!!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by b3kk_r on Friday, April 8, 2016 and has 14 replies.

How to Detect a Cheater Effectively

To identify if someone is cheating, look for changes in behavior, secretive actions, or inconsistent stories. Using discreet methods like monitoring communication can help, but always consider privacy and trust issues. Open communication remains the best approach for resolving suspicions.

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@b3kk_r
11 YearsTaurus

Lol caught my last boyfriend by leaving my phone in the car with him on RECORD in my purse, got an entire convo saying I love you blah blah blah. Stupid fuck.

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@thefierybull
11 YearsTaurus

Have a best friend who is dating your boyfriends brother lol. She told me EVERYTHING, yet his dumbass couldn't figure out how I was getting info. Hello—

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Crazy I can be a little investigator if I start sensing or see odd behavior like with my ex. Fuck I or no one should be doing all that recording, calling off work, losing sleep or appetite, picking up the phone when you don't give your number out..etc..

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@b3kk_r
11 YearsTaurus

Even with the recording he still swore up and down he didn't cheat, sorry ass dead beat.

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@2putITmildly
10 Years

Posted by CruellaWhite

Posted by LadyNeptune
Treat red flags as red flags.

YUP...Frisk em.... are they genuine ...emotionally genuine

Are his habits changing. Washing more to go out. Smells either like a shower coming in to you or worse has forgotten and smells of her and sex.life.

Change in your sex life less of it or newmoves. Less affection but more charm offensive.

Hot and cold not affectionate with when people are around incase they know of the others. Dead give away.

Cleans the car a lot ..or you find something....

You can't get hold of him.

NOT 'PRESENT' even when with you his head is elsewhere.

Your intuition is screaming at you he is.

He dismisses your intuitions and tries to guilt you.

He doesn't introduce you as his girlfriend. He doesn't let some people know you are a couple. Has a different attitude to you around some people. It can read ..'oh she is my fwb' 'she isn't my gf so if you see me with others that is what that is' to his friends. Keeping you on vague ground with his mates will make that easier to do.

Has no pics of you guys together on his phone or social media. Phone is on airplane mode.

You hear it from friends he is cheating.

He turns everything around on you.

You sense he is a player early or its obvious he is not wanting to commit.

Mostly intution though.

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Maybe you can make this into an App ..... called, I got away with it.....

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@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I think it's a waste of time . If u get that vibe that your significant other is cheating then they probably are -Unless you're already extremely paranoid & overthink .. Ask directly, it's the best way.

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@SalamanderCandy
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by b3kk_r
Lol caught my last boyfriend by leaving my phone in the car with him on RECORD in my purse, got an entire convo saying I love you blah blah blah. Stupid fuck.

this gives me the creeps. WHY WOULD SOMEONE CHEAT?!
I mean..if it's an open relationship that's different because it's an agreement between the two.
But if it's supposed to be a monogamous agreement.....WTF

W. T . F.

I know the many situations why someone would do this and it really depends.
But if his gf wasn't treating him badly, why not just say how he feels?

Ughhh..

What did the "i love you " sound like? Omg u know wut, fk it. nvm.

I know this isn't a new discovery but the stupidity is frustrating.
When you actually give a sh*t about people.
>_> ..that was really rising aquarius ^ xDD BUT I MEAN IT.

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