Someone once told me...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by b3kk_r on Thursday, March 31, 2016 and has 9 replies.

Effective Ways to Move On After a Breakup

Getting over someone involves focusing on self-care, spending time with friends, and allowing yourself to heal. While new connections can help, it is essential to process emotions and avoid rushing into new relationships. Patience and self-reflection are key to moving forward healthily.

@b3kk_r

11 YearsTaurus

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone!

@lisabethur8

14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by b3kk_r
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone!

i don't know why, but there's a lot of songs like this...... i wonder why!!!

@TaurusinTexas

10 Years1,000+ Posts

I was told this exact same thing. Haven't tried it, for me this sounds like a huge mistake but maybe it works for others.

@Season

10 Years1,000+ Posts

It's helped me to get over a lost love to find a new one one. You don't have to have meaningless sex, just get into a new relationship. One thing I've found tough about being a Taurus is getting stuck on someone who doesn't want me anymore when I should be moving on.

Wouldn't work for me

Posted by b3kk_r
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone!

you mean like hide under someone's bed while they sleep unaware on the mattress above?

nah, that doesn't work...i mean, i've heard it doesn't work...

@lisabethur8

14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Taureye
Someone was wrong, and shallow.

I agree with you. I never went to another man's arms when I was suffering with my breakdown with my ex (in the past) I just sat in my room and starved basically.

I don't want to touch someone else, it feels gross. i'll even get sick to my stomach and puke.

EDIT - I think people do that for REVENGE I notice.

but maybe people do things differently.

although in retrospect,if revenge comes in, they are channeling something more DESTRUCTIVE.

but which is worse? Cutting your wrists,starving to death, or going into the arms of men??

I remember that TRUE story of Cheryl Strayed. She went into the arms of many men after the breakdown of losing her mother though.

she went cray inside.

@tcta

10 Years5,000+ Posts

not for me - if I broke off with someone I cared about I would be a basket case and not fit for any type of human companionship - that would be the last thing I was thinking about ...