Taurus if Someone Breaks Up With You, Do you fight for it, or let it go?

Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

Posted by ands2013
Let it go

But I figured out years ago that you can just chain women to the bed

Why won't you fight for it?

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

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Makes sense, thanks for that. Totally different from Libra. Thanks a lot.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

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bolded part is 100% accurate

If my partner is the one that breaks up with me, it hurts me immensely, I try to coerce them into working things out, but then reality its, and I remember why it would not work, and then I leave. I will never go back to an ex. If I do contact them it is out of sheer loneliness, not because I do want to fix things.

I give myself from the start, so it makes no sense for them to play games then see them want to work things when their actions said it all.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

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I know it's true but still I feel sad hearing about it. I'm pretty proud myself but if I hold on, it means I still love the person.

Taurus hold on because they resist change. It also means once they are able to adapt to the change, they will let go right?

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

Dear sir, had anyone broken up with you? Did you ever went through the emotions of someone breaking up with you? You could get one type of answer from yourself if you'd do this personal hypothetical exercise.

I'm asking this because although every Taurus female is different I suppose in my case whenever someone left me I kinda let it be and fight myself with not trying to reach up. You see, the last time someone broke it off with me I was in complete utter shock - in my case I REALLY didn't see it coming (later on I realized I dealt with a really immature individual). Because of this I needed time to process my thoughts and feelings in order to realize what's happening. Afterwards I totally shut down and retreat in myself. Then, whenever I felt like reaching out to him I stopped myself because I didn't want to be a bother. Personally I treat life with a lot of seriousness. Because of this I always respect people and their choices. I don't even question what was the assessment that someone did of me or the situation to reach his final solution. I don't want to change people. I want to see them for what they are and not as a manipulation as my own will and selfishness or other reasons. I feel that a relationship has to mutually work. Like a team. I don't believe in relationships that work as a reaction to an action. In my mind that is not a relationship...

But going back to your thread name. Can I ask you why did you break up with her? What was the reason?

We don't play games. We're as transparent and honest and real as you see us. Try to do stuff to get a reaction from us will leave us cold because we don't understand games and when people play them. Personally I jut want a mature relationship. There are a lot of bad things in every person's life starting with our jobs or family our bills or any other thing. A relationship should be as much as it can drama free. Because everything else is drama around us. I'm very logical and I tend to attack life with logic. If something doesn't make sense to me then it means we're not on the same page.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

I know it's true but still I feel sad hearing about it. I'm pretty proud myself but if I hold on, it means I still love the person.

Taurus hold on because they resist change. It also means once they are able to adapt to the change, they will let go right?

No! That does not work for me...

Even if the relationship is shitty but I still have affection for the person I will hang in there and fight for it.. I will never stay with someone because I "don't like change".. I would just let them go... But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end...

I have Jupiter in Gemini, I am always changing something... that includes people... Get rid of one "friend" find another straight away.. this happens especially in platonic friendships. If I were to use this attitude in my personal relationships, I would be whore as I meet sooo many people....

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"But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end... "

Slightly offtopic: I always wondered who is that sign that Taurus could benefit from? 🙂 I see how much good we do to others and what beneficial powers we have to the people around us, the warmth and love and affection that we bring, understanding and compassion, how we ground other people and are able to calm them down. But from time to time I'd like to see that person that could be that for me too as a Taurus 🙂

Bottom line is....

If you leave the security is gone, security is like water to a bull. So what is there left to fight for?

For me it depends on the scale of the relationship and how emotionally invested I am in it. If I'm in love with you, I will fight it but will accept it if that is truly what my partner wants.

Posted by Mered1th
"But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end... "

Slightly offtopic: I always wondered who is that sign that Taurus could benefit from? 🙂 I see how much good we do to others and what beneficial powers we have to the people around us, the warmth and love and affection that we bring, understanding and compassion, how we ground other people and are able to calm them down. But from time to time I'd like to see that person that could be that for me too as a Taurus 🙂

I am just throwing out ideas because I don't know you, but maybe you just aren't attracting people you can depend on? The type of person who could provide nurturance for you? Or maybe you aren't allowing yourself to be vulnerable? I'm a 2nd house Pisces and was one trapped in that mindset. Always being a rock for everyone else, not meeting people who could provide me even a semblance of solidarity or support.

Then I met my Taurus... he often tells me how my kind and giving heart brings so much into his life and is appreciated and that I am too good to him. Maybe find a Pisces? 😉

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

I noticed that about libras too. Why do they do that? I don't know if it's stubborness or because they're cowards when it comes to confrontation.. beats me.

It depends who the person is.

If they are loving, a positive influence on my life, supportive, care about themselves and others, and are striving for success, sure, why not.

If this person is a cheater, a liar, a manipulator.. etc.. no, of course not. That person needs a therapist not a bf/gf.

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

Fought once, but it had been a good relationship. I didn't fight the bad ones. I was glad to be free.

Posted by Emshelles

Posted by Mered1th
"But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end... "

Slightly offtopic: I always wondered who is that sign that Taurus could benefit from? 🙂 I see how much good we do to others and what beneficial powers we have to the people around us, the warmth and love and affection that we bring, understanding and compassion, how we ground other people and are able to calm them down. But from time to time I'd like to see that person that could be that for me too as a Taurus 🙂

I am just throwing out ideas because I don't know you, but maybe you just aren't attracting people you can depend on? The type of person who could provide nurturance for you? Or maybe you aren't allowing yourself to be vulnerable? I'm a 2nd house Pisces and was one trapped in that mindset. Always being a rock for everyone else, not meeting people who could provide me even a semblance of solidarity or support.

Then I met my Taurus... he often tells me how my kind and giving heart brings so much into his life and is appreciated and that I am too good to him. Maybe find a Pisces? 😉

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Thank you for your kind thought and warm suggestion! 🙂

Btw, can I ask how did you guys meet? What's your story? 🙂

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

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Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

I noticed that about libras too. Why do they do that? I don't know if it's stubborness or because they're cowards when it comes to confrontation.. beats me.

It depends who the person is.

If they are loving, a positive influence on my life, supportive, care about themselves and others, and are striving for success, sure, why not.

If this person is a cheater, a liar, a manipulator.. etc.. no, of course not. That person needs a therapist not a bf/gf.

Libras (the ones I have met) are weak, cowardly, unambitious people who sit on fences all day waiting on the other person to make the decisions for them.. They can't manage alone or be by themselves. They have to be in a relationship of some kind...

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That's really unfortunate😢

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

I noticed that about libras too. Why do they do that? I don't know if it's stubborness or because they're cowards when it comes to confrontation.. beats me.

It depends who the person is.

If they are loving, a positive influence on my life, supportive, care about themselves and others, and are striving for success, sure, why not.

If this person is a cheater, a liar, a manipulator.. etc.. no, of course not. That person needs a therapist not a bf/gf.

Libras (the ones I have met) are weak, cowardly, unambitious people who sit on fences all day waiting on the other person to make the decisions for them.. They can't manage alone or be by themselves. They have to be in a relationship of some kind...

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That's really unfortunate😢

Posted by Mered1th

Posted by Emshelles

Posted by Mered1th
"But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end... "

Slightly offtopic: I always wondered who is that sign that Taurus could benefit from? 🙂 I see how much good we do to others and what beneficial powers we have to the people around us, the warmth and love and affection that we bring, understanding and compassion, how we ground other people and are able to calm them down. But from time to time I'd like to see that person that could be that for me too as a Taurus 🙂

I am just throwing out ideas because I don't know you, but maybe you just aren't attracting people you can depend on? The type of person who could provide nurturance for you? Or maybe you aren't allowing yourself to be vulnerable? I'm a 2nd house Pisces and was one trapped in that mindset. Always being a rock for everyone else, not meeting people who could provide me even a semblance of solidarity or support.

Then I met my Taurus... he often tells me how my kind and giving heart brings so much into his life and is appreciated and that I am too good to him. Maybe find a Pisces? 😉

Thank you for your kind thought and warm suggestion! 🙂

Btw, can I ask how did you guys meet? What's your story? 🙂

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To help open myself to be more receptive to being taken care of, I started doing crystal charka healing. I focused on my sacral, root, and heart chakras. If that's too new agey, another thing I began doing was living fully for myself. I would help my family and friends when needed, but I made sure I did the things I wanted and said no when I needed to. I also took up the hobby of dancing, something I'd always wanted to learn how to. Living fully and authentically in our joy really makes the Universe receptive to sending us not only what we need, but what/who we deserve.

I met my Taurus man through mutual friends. He is my best friend's fiancé’s best friend of 14 years or something like that. We met at their engagement party back in November. We were both in crummy loveless relationships (just sticking around because the other person totally depended on us in unhealthy ways). It was another month later when my friend told me someone I'd met at the party thought I seemed really sweet and wanted to get to know me better. I immediately looked up his chart (duh haha) and saw he had an Aquarius moon and numerous Gemini placements. I said Hell No. But she kept telling me all these great things about him: he works hard (my ex had issues with working), he loves the outdoors, traveling, history, etc. I never conceded to a yes, yet the next week she'd set up a group date that and the rest is now becoming history! 🙂

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Posted by Mered1th
"But it is usually the Taurus who is not benefiting from the union. Its the others (from my experience only) that will cling to a Taurus and not want it to end... "

Slightly offtopic: I always wondered who is that sign that Taurus could benefit from? 🙂 I see how much good we do to others and what beneficial powers we have to the people around us, the warmth and love and affection that we bring, understanding and compassion, how we ground other people and are able to calm them down. But from time to time I'd like to see that person that could be that for me too as a Taurus 🙂

I am just throwing out ideas because I don't know you, but maybe you just aren't attracting people you can depend on? The type of person who could provide nurturance for you? Or maybe you aren't allowing yourself to be vulnerable? I'm a 2nd house Pisces and was one trapped in that mindset. Always being a rock for everyone else, not meeting people who could provide me even a semblance of solidarity or support.

Then I met my Taurus... he often tells me how my kind and giving heart brings so much into his life and is appreciated and that I am too good to him. Maybe find a Pisces? 😉

I was also like this and attracted all the air, water and fire signs until I also met my Taurus. I pray he is my last destination - even though we lock horns occasionally, but we understand each other...

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I hope he is your final destination as well! I've always had a feeling I would end up with a Taurus. I adore how sensual and cuddly yet masculine they are. They are so present in the moment too. A sign I truly admire.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

This assertion can often be misconceived.

Fighting for a relationship may not indicate that we still love you, it's the stubbornness, time invested, and the resilience to change that keeps us holding on.

But once the other party decides to end it,

Our pride kicks in, and the investment is no longer ours to protect....and you're simply free to leave.

The pride of a Bull supersedes any stubbornness to hold on, fear of change or time invested.

Real story!

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This exactly!

depends if i believe theyre something still fighting for - if i date someone first of all, its after long consideration, if the relationship ends because of something stupid that can be fixed, ill try fight for it

if its serious matters, its better to let it go

Other person ends, I'm out! But if a proper breakup with respect, I am totally open to friendship, obviously after a little space.

Posted by Mered1th

Posted by Goodtimes
Of course it depends on how you feel, but generally A Libra will fight for a bad relationship. I noticed that Taurus will stay and fight for a relationship that they are in, but once the other person ends the relationship do you fight for it or let it go?

Dear sir, had anyone broken up with you? Did you ever went through the emotions of someone breaking up with you? You could get one type of answer from yourself if you'd do this personal hypothetical exercise.

I'm asking this because although every Taurus female is different I suppose in my case whenever someone left me I kinda let it be and fight myself with not trying to reach up. You see, the last time someone broke it off with me I was in complete utter shock - in my case I REALLY didn't see it coming (later on I realized I dealt with a really immature individual). Because of this I needed time to process my thoughts and feelings in order to realize what's happening. Afterwards I totally shut down and retreat in myself. Then, whenever I felt like reaching out to him I stopped myself because I didn't want to be a bother. Personally I treat life with a lot of seriousness. Because of this I always respect people and their choices. I don't even question what was the assessment that someone did of me or the situation to reach his final solution. I don't want to change people. I want to see them for what they are and not as a manipulation as my own will and selfishness or other reasons. I feel that a relationship has to mutually work. Like a team. I don't believe in relationships that work as a reaction to an action. In my mind that is not a relationship...

But going back to your thread name. Can I ask you why did you break up with her? What was the reason?

We don't play games. We're as transparent and honest and real as you see us. Try to do stuff to get a reaction from us will leave us cold because we don't understand games and when people play them. Personally I jut want a mature relationship. There are a lot of bad things in every person's life starting with our jobs or family our bills or any other thing. A relationship should be as much as it can drama free. Because everything else is drama around us. I'm very logical and I tend to attack life with logic. If something doesn't make sense to me then it means we're not on the same page.

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I wanted to thank you for taking the time to answer so thoroughly. I really appreciated it, it gave me a lot of insight into Taurus mind.

Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
I've never been broken up with.

Are you a Taurus?

well if someone wants to leave me for any other reason...I will be heartbroken as HELL...but I won't chase him to stay with me...I will let go! I would fight for a relationship only when the other person wants to stay and we have fights/problems so i will fight to work them out. But if he chooses to leave then bye bye go to hell.

why should I hang on to someone who doesn't want me.