Taurus Men Get Over Their Exes?

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Dating a Taurus man and the relationship is good. However he still thinks about his ex, who he was considering marrying.

It was her birthday a few days ago and he post a song that they both listened to... and he said it was out of appreciation for her and her birthday. He said it was nothing and that she is a sweet girl that the relationship didn’t work out. They broke up in January! I don’t like playing second to anything. But I feel that he will never get over her, even though he is with me. It’s a fucked up feeling.
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Taurus-Libra is great I won't even lie. Even when we were done we knew we'd be friends, pretty natural when you considered getting married to one another.


Then why don’t they just be together and get fuck on then. I have a few exes that I am “friends”’with, but I have boundaries especially when in a relationship. From what I can tell she doesn’t engage or respond... but he is always reaching out. He likes her IG posts and she doesn’t like anything he post. So I don’t get it.
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother


That’s horrible... I couldn’t read this with my stomach curling. How did you cope!!!!—? That wouldn’t have seen another day in my house.
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Taurus-Libra is great I won't even lie. Even when we were done we knew we'd be friends, pretty natural when you considered getting married to one another.


Then why don’t they just be together and get fuck on then. I have a few exes that I am “friends”’with, but I have boundaries especially when in a relationship. From what I can tell she doesn’t engage or respond... but he is always reaching out. He likes her IG posts and she doesn’t like anything he post. So I don’t get it.


You've got no shot at winning a battle over his IG if you've only been dating for a few months.
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I am actually not concerned over the IG, just wanted to raise the point that he keeps reaching out to her.
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This really grinds my gears.

I would feel very secondary and question the genuineness of the connection you 2 have.

That's not fair to you at all.

Know your worth saggi. Dont be scared to end things. There are over a million people left in the world for you to date who arent holding torches for their exes.

Imagine all the thoughts going on in his head about her. All the stuff you cant see.
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What are his placements?


Taurus Sun, Leo Moon, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Capricorn, Mercury in Taurus


hahahahahha good luck with that, reject a leo moon and we'll think about you for life.

the one that got away. Ahhhh we obsess on what we desire

girl good luck ...be comfortable in your position

also i fuking hate libra moons with leo moons

hate it hate it hate it



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Oh! I didn't think it was that bad!

What's wrong with Libra and Leo moons?

Other than this "angel" popping up from time to time we get along just fine.
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This really grinds my gears.

I would feel very secondary and question the genuineness of the connection you 2 have.

That's not fair to you at all.

Know your worth saggi. Dont be scared to end things. There are over a million people left in the world for you to date who arent holding torches for their exes.

Imagine all the thoughts going on in his head about her. All the stuff you cant see.




It is grinding my gears! I am trying my hardest not to fucking scream.

I just feel that it sucks that I would walk away from a relationship that has no other problem, but this.

And yes, I do imagine his the thoughts going through his head. I just want to sound crazy walking away saying, I can't live with the ghost of your ex.
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Taurus-Libra is great I won't even lie. Even when we were done we knew we'd be friends, pretty natural when you considered getting married to one another.


Then why don’t they just be together and get fuck on then. I have a few exes that I am “friends”’with, but I have boundaries especially when in a relationship. From what I can tell she doesn’t engage or respond... but he is always reaching out. He likes her IG posts and she doesn’t like anything he post. So I don’t get it.
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Ok, see that’s a problem.

The ‘friendship’ is obviously one sided. If it’s not mutual that’s just him chasing her. And what are you supposed to be? A placeholder until she gives him the time of day. Fuck that.

Seriously though who dumped who. My money is on her.
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Taurus-Libra is great I won't even lie. Even when we were done we knew we'd be friends, pretty natural when you considered getting married to one another.


Then why don’t they just be together and get fuck on then. I have a few exes that I am “friends”’with, but I have boundaries especially when in a relationship. From what I can tell she doesn’t engage or respond... but he is always reaching out. He likes her IG posts and she doesn’t like anything he post. So I don’t get it.


Ok, see that’s a problem.

The ‘friendship’ is obviously one sided. If it’s not mutual that’s just him chasing her. And what are you supposed to be? A placeholder until she gives him the time of day. Fuck that.

Seriously though who dumped who. My money is on her.
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She did dump him, over "family acceptance" reasons. Then she told him that they should just be friends, and at the time he said no. But clearly... this is a mess.

Thanks for making arrange my thoughts. My heart is telling me he is chasing her. Time to let this shit go.
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch

When someone doesnt want you? Thats kind of scary. I need to reevaluate.


That's what is confusing, why stay where you are not wanted? Why hold on?

Low self esteem?
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Oh yeah... that thing. hahahahahahahaha.
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother


That’s horrible... I couldn’t read this with my stomach curling. How did you cope!!!!—? That wouldn’t have seen another day in my house.
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oh he suffered much more than I did lol
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch

When someone doesnt want you? Thats kind of scary. I need to reevaluate.


That's what is confusing, why stay where you are not wanted? Why hold on?

Low self esteem?

Oh yeah... that thing. hahahahahahahaha.

Damn lol leo moons. Thats the definition of pathetic haha. Now I feel bad for them. I dont get why its hard for some people to value themselves. It comes so easy to me lolz
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I do find it sad. He is oddly a hopeless romantic and wears his heart on his sleeve. But when he starts this shit up I find it annoying. The first time I noticed this 'infatuation' of sorts with the ex, I blatantly told him to go back to her and work it out with her. He said, we are just friends... and I bought it. It's really sad.
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It's not worth holding onto this, girl. I know the feeling of always being second-best to an old flame all too well. It's a painful relationship to have with a man who still pines after his ex and doesn't prioritize you when you're not the one he broke up with. You don't ever wanna be second to another woman, no matter who that woman is. He can walk.


Thanks girl. I am throwing this one away.
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother


That’s horrible... I couldn’t read this with my stomach curling. How did you cope!!!!—? That wouldn’t have seen another day in my house.


oh he suffered much more than I did lol
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hahahahahaha... I really hope so! After bringing that shit in the house! And placing it on the dresser! That's not cool!
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch

When someone doesnt want you? Thats kind of scary. I need to reevaluate.


That's what is confusing, why stay where you are not wanted? Why hold on?

Low self esteem?

Oh yeah... that thing. hahahahahahahaha.

Damn lol leo moons. Thats the definition of pathetic haha. Now I feel bad for them. I dont get why its hard for some people to value themselves. It comes so easy to me lolz
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Ah! Now I understand my other friend... he has a Sun in Leo, Moon in Leo, Venus in Leo, Mars in Sag.... he is a mess.
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother


That’s horrible... I couldn’t read this with my stomach curling. How did you cope!!!!—? That wouldn’t have seen another day in my house.


oh he suffered much more than I did lol


hahahahahaha... I really hope so! After bringing that shit in the house! And placing it on the dresser! That's not cool!
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he moved in with me and he brought it with him - he was so proud of it lol - I told him once if I stuck it up his azz he would always have it with him lol oh the memories ...
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on the other hand @OP, that is a bit rough I do understand - had an Aries in my life once who had been previously married to a Japanese woman and he insisted on keeping this huge geisha doll in a square glass box on top of the dresser in the bedroom - I didn't care for it one bit - prior to me smashing the hell out of the big glass box and burning that fucking doll, he ended up giving it to his mother


That’s horrible... I couldn’t read this with my stomach curling. How did you cope!!!!—? That wouldn’t have seen another day in my house.


oh he suffered much more than I did lol


hahahahahaha... I really hope so! After bringing that shit in the house! And placing it on the dresser! That's not cool!


he moved in with me and he brought it with him - he was so proud of it lol - I told him once if I stuck it up his azz he would always have it with him lol oh the memories ...
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Hahahahahahahahahaha.. that's the fucking best! I like you!!!!!
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch

When someone doesnt want you? Thats kind of scary. I need to reevaluate.


That's what is confusing, why stay where you are not wanted? Why hold on?

Low self esteem?

Oh yeah... that thing. hahahahahahahaha.

Damn lol leo moons. Thats the definition of pathetic haha. Now I feel bad for them. I dont get why its hard for some people to value themselves. It comes so easy to me lolz


I do find it sad. He is oddly a hopeless romantic and wears his heart on his sleeve. But when he starts this shit up I find it annoying. The first time I noticed this 'infatuation' of sorts with the ex, I blatantly told him to go back to her and work it out with her. He said, we are just friends... and I bought it. It's really sad.

Well if you break up with him, maybe he'll do this crap to you xD
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Hahahahahaha... he has to get over this one first. Mon Dieu... Christ! My fucking luck.
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch


We? Girl what you trying to burn down? Hahahahahaha
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Leo moons. It’s like this. We can make you feel like the only one and in that moment and you are. Than mind drifts to A, B, and fantasies about a guy who’s in another country. Than goes to well I care about myself most of all lol. I could see how the harmony of a libra moon would find that completely annoying. Good luck!
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch


We? Girl what you trying to burn down? Hahahahahaha


Leo moons. It’s like this. We can make you feel like the only one and in that moment and you are. Than mind drifts to A, B, and fantasies about a guy who’s in another country. Than goes to well I care about myself most of all lol. I could see how the harmony of a libra moon would find that completely annoying. Good luck!
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AH!!!!! That's so funny. I just thought he had ADHD 🙂 I am not kidding, but I was patiently dealing with his flighty-ness. Awe... this is turning out to be sad. I really liked him and the sex was the best I have ever had.
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They don’t get over their ex. I dated 1 for 3yrs bs even after he married he managed to find me I had to up and disappear


I have had other men do this to me... that's why I was recognizing the signs. I had to change my phone number 3 times to get away from one and move away for another.


I guess some people in general don’t give up easily
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Its usually the annoying fuckheads that don't give up.
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If I only I was an asshole, I could have a leo moon for life sigh


You would? Why? From what I hearing it's not good.

Theyre cute and funny. I'm emotionally resilient. Theres not much someone can do for me to hate them forever. I like having someone who isnt emotionally dependent on me unless they're also emotionally resilient.
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Oh I wish I was emotionally resilient, I keep getting fucked over. I need to learn this!
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch


We? Girl what you trying to burn down? Hahahahahaha


Leo moons. It’s like this. We can make you feel like the only one and in that moment and you are. Than mind drifts to A, B, and fantasies about a guy who’s in another country. Than goes to well I care about myself most of all lol. I could see how the harmony of a libra moon would find that completely annoying. Good luck!


AH!!!!! That's so funny. I just thought he had ADHD 🙂 I am not kidding, but I was patiently dealing with his flighty-ness. Awe... this is turning out to be sad. I really liked him and the sex was the best I have ever had.
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Taurus-Libra is great I won't even lie. Even when we were done we knew we'd be friends, pretty natural when you considered getting married to one another.


Then why don’t they just be together and get fuck on then. I have a few exes that I am “friends”’with, but I have boundaries especially when in a relationship. From what I can tell she doesn’t engage or respond... but he is always reaching out. He likes her IG posts and she doesn’t like anything he post. So I don’t get it.


Ok, see that’s a problem.

The ‘friendship’ is obviously one sided. If it’s not mutual that’s just him chasing her. And what are you supposed to be? A placeholder until she gives him the time of day. Fuck that.

Seriously though who dumped who. My money is on her.


She did dump him, over "family acceptance" reasons. Then she told him that they should just be friends, and at the time he said no. But clearly... this is a mess.

Thanks for making arrange my thoughts. My heart is telling me he is chasing her. Time to let this shit go.
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Ouch. Yeah listen to your instincts on this one.
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If I only I was an asshole, I could have a leo moon for life sigh


You would? Why? From what I hearing it's not good.

Theyre cute and funny. I'm emotionally resilient. Theres not much someone can do for me to hate them forever. I like having someone who isnt emotionally dependent on me unless they're also emotionally resilient.


Oh I wish I was emotionally resilient, I keep getting fucked over. I need to learn this!

Its not a good thing. I stay with people who bring problems into my life because I have emotional bounceback. I'd be better off if I could hold more grudges and not be cool with people fucking my life up. Anyway, hope you figure out a solution to this. Good luck
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Thanks. Really appreciate this. I also have a problem with holding grudges. Well I hope I bounce back from this one quickly... I don't even know if he will notice that I am gone. Hahahahahahahahahaha.

Time to get those dancing shoes ready for a night out... or just a good tub of ice cream.
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What are his placements?


Taurus Sun, Leo Moon, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Capricorn, Mercury in Taurus


hahahahahha good luck with that, reject a leo moon and we'll think about you for life.

the one that got away. Ahhhh we obsess on what we desire

girl good luck ...be comfortable in your position

also i fuking hate libra moons with leo moons

hate it hate it hate it






No, Leo Moon has high morals and integrity. They get really childish when ignored/rejected. This is his Sun and your Sun. Taurus and Cancer Sun are manifestors, and Taurus Suns are materializers. Very committed to their agenda, will do everything to get their ex back just so they can go and end it on their terms
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Oh this is not cute. 😢 But my sun is in Sag not Cancer. 🙂
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When Taurus falls in love, it’s real, it’s not that fake shit that everyone thinks love is. Taurus love never ends even 10 15 20 years down the line, we will still think fondly of the people we once shared our love, life and good memories with. We become indebited to those souls of those who helped us grow in life. Those kind of things will last a lifetime with us as they should. Even if the other doesn’t care anymore, we will still care and want nothing but the best for them because that’s what love really is about. True love doesn’t desert you when things end it forever remains unlike the fake love people give which ends once you go your separate ways.
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What are his placements?

Leo Moon



Now I get it lol




You do?


We know how to hold a torch


We? Girl what you trying to burn down? Hahahahahaha


Leo moons. It’s like this. We can make you feel like the only one and in that moment and you are. Than mind drifts to A, B, and fantasies about a guy who’s in another country. Than goes to well I care about myself most of all lol. I could see how the harmony of a libra moon would find that completely annoying. Good luck!


AH!!!!! That's so funny. I just thought he had ADHD 🙂 I am not kidding, but I was patiently dealing with his flighty-ness. Awe... this is turning out to be sad. I really liked him and the sex was the best I have ever had.
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he might be missing that good stuff if you just let him alone for awhile ... use your charm and wit to get what you want - only time will tell
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To the OP's point, yes we can get over our ex's, but the person has to be awesome for us to completely move on, and sometimes it takes a long time for that to happen based on how long the bull was with said ex. In your case, your bull sounds kinda like a prick in bringing it up to your face like that, almost like a passive way of presenting that he's not that into you sadly. I'd dip if I were you, he sounds kinda immature, unless you want to prove to him that you're way better than his ex, which is going to take time and dedication on your part.

IME I'm still friends with my ex's, and only wish nothing but the best for them. I was at a birthday party for a Pisces ex earlier this year, and I saw her Aqua BF propose to her and all I felt for her was utter happiness. It was such a sweet night.

I also saw my Scorpio ex recently at my cousins birthday, and it was cool kicking it and catching up, but there was absolutely zero attraction on my end. It's just always good to maintain the peace, especially when they've had such a influence on the person you've become. If there's no bitterness, why hold negativity towards a person?
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personally.....

positives is I can respect his honesty. it take a lot to admit something like that to someone you are dating.

with that said now you have the status of his state of mind and that should show he is not ready for what you are offering him. I feel like for him to do those things with honesty and for you to accept that with some type of confusion you are setting yourself up to feel and always feel insecure.

I wouldn't be happy in a relationship like that the way I want and deserve.

I personally would respectfully let him go and tell him to call you when he is ready for better things.
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