What do Tauruses want in a relationship/person?

I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

Food.

Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

I think, they want someone who is loyal, consistent and doesn't bring the drama.

I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

Posted by sagittariusxo
I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

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that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

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Which is fine with me, because I'll accept her regardless I don't expect or want her to change unless she decides to that on her own. Apart of me wants to message her, and let her know that I am thinking of her.

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

Which is fine with me, because I'll accept her regardless I don't expect or want her to change unless she decides to that on her own. Apart of me wants to message her, and let her know that I am thinking of her.

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O M G do it. you should. no fear, that's sexy to a Taurus, someone who knows what they want.

"hey, thinking of you. hope your having a good day. (smirkface)" is the best - I don't care who you are, that always feels good.

I was rather aggressive with what I want when I started dating my Taurus. he approached me and got my info, he also invited me out and all the good stuff but I was the one that told him I liked him, and I was the one to text every morning and say have a great day and I was the on that told him that "I am so into you" and "i want you to be mine" and "Im falling for you" and "i love you" and "im scared to lose you" - i don't regret it at all. it made him feel safe knowing how i felt, it made him think about if that was what he wanted as well. and trust me it took him some time. he didn't say anything after i said those things but after with time it was obvious that he felt that way. when i told him i was falling for him he just hugged me and that was it that night, but a day later he told me that he didn't want to say anything he was sure about because he didn't want to lead me on, hurt me or make any mistakes. i understood. how could i not. but he stayed, he knew how i felt and i was happy with that.

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

Which is fine with me, because I'll accept her regardless I don't expect or want her to change unless she decides to that on her own. Apart of me wants to message her, and let her know that I am thinking of her.

O M G do it. you should. no fear, that's sexy to a Taurus, someone who knows what they want.

"hey, thinking of you. hope your having a good day. (smirkface)" is the best - I don't care who you are, that always feels good.

I was rather aggressive with what I want when I started dating my Taurus. he approached me and got my info, he also invited me out and all the good stuff but I was the one that told him I liked him, and I was the one to text every morning and say have a great day and I was the on that told him that "I am so into you" and "i want you to be mine" and "Im falling for you" and "i love you" and "im scared to lose you" - i don't regret it at all. it made him feel safe knowing how i felt, it made him think about if that was what he wanted as well. and trust me it took him some time. he didn't say anything after i said those things but after with time it was obvious that he felt that way. when i told him i was falling for him he just hugged me and that was it that night, but a day later he told me that he didn't want to say anything he was sure about because he didn't want to lead me on, hurt me or make any mistakes. i understood. how could i not. but he stayed, he knew how i felt and i was happy with that.

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Haha alright, I'll do just that. Just send her a quick message and buzz off and do my own thing. I have a very strong personality, due to my strong Mars presence in my chart. I've noticed that with my bullette too, she's not really used to having this much affection or passion towards her. She has told me that I am "too good to her," since we're far apart from each other I try to do little things here and there for her. I bought her and her best friend tickets to a concert, with a stuffed giraffee (her fave animal), a card for her and a get well soon card for her mom. Checking up on her and what not since she's a workaholic. Thank you for your insight, but from your own experience is your bull verbal about his desires/wants or shows it in a different way?

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I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

I think, they want someone who is loyal, consistent and doesn't bring the drama.

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Basically this.

Good cook is like finding a diamond in the rough. However, it's not needed since there's apps to order take out from 🙂

Devotion, honesty, loyalty, transparency, sex, and food.

Food, loyalty and no drama...

Posted by Cvurko8
Cloudy wants the person to be her father's age or older.

One of my best friends wants stability, to take care and be cared for.

I dont know other tauruses cause i avoid them.

You incestuous pervert!!!

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

Which is fine with me, because I'll accept her regardless I don't expect or want her to change unless she decides to that on her own. Apart of me wants to message her, and let her know that I am thinking of her.

O M G do it. you should. no fear, that's sexy to a Taurus, someone who knows what they want.

"hey, thinking of you. hope your having a good day. (smirkface)" is the best - I don't care who you are, that always feels good.

I was rather aggressive with what I want when I started dating my Taurus. he approached me and got my info, he also invited me out and all the good stuff but I was the one that told him I liked him, and I was the one to text every morning and say have a great day and I was the on that told him that "I am so into you" and "i want you to be mine" and "Im falling for you" and "i love you" and "im scared to lose you" - i don't regret it at all. it made him feel safe knowing how i felt, it made him think about if that was what he wanted as well. and trust me it took him some time. he didn't say anything after i said those things but after with time it was obvious that he felt that way. when i told him i was falling for him he just hugged me and that was it that night, but a day later he told me that he didn't want to say anything he was sure about because he didn't want to lead me on, hurt me or make any mistakes. i understood. how could i not. but he stayed, he knew how i felt and i was happy with that.

Haha alright, I'll do just that. Just send her a quick message and buzz off and do my own thing. I have a very strong personality, due to my strong Mars presence in my chart. I've noticed that with my bullette too, she's not really used to having this much affection or passion towards her. She has told me that I am "too good to her," since we're far apart from each other I try to do little things here and there for her. I bought her and her best friend tickets to a concert, with a stuffed giraffee (her fave animal), a card for her and a get well soon card for her mom. Checking up on her and what not since she's a workaholic. Thank you for your insight, but from your own experience is your bull verbal about his desires/wants or shows it in a different way?

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my bull is not verbal about a lot when it comes to us.

he has a "things shouldn't need to be said" state of mind.

he thinks his actions are all that you need to know.

so I was always the one to tell him what was up, I'm a fire and I know what I want when I want it, I'm intuitive AF. but him no, he put things in the back of his mind to process later, emotional procrastinator. and he isn't as intuitive, he does not play the game of catching hints. NEVER.

if you want her to know something, tell her.

if you are wanting to know how she feels about something, tell her and give her time to process, but stay aware of her actions and don't just focus on her words because they will never be enough words to express what she can give you in attention or affections or acts of love.

and tell her how you feel, even when its scary and even when you doubt yourself. they are understanding enough to listen.

just know that you are going to have to be direct with what you want and asking the question of do you feel the same?

Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

Sex and money

Money and sex

The order isn't important

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Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

Sex and money

Money and sex

The order isn't important

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its so true. sex is so important when it comes to taurus.

they are so touchy feely and sex is just the most affectionate things they can do.

amiright?

I think them discussing how to spend your money is the most affectionate thing they can do lol



Sex is primal for Taurus. Good sex is like a vitamin.

effort, loving and caring presence, affectionate, someone kind to others and animals, someone with a natural drive to better themselves and the world around them, someone i can trust so i can let go of the reins a little, passssssion which goes hand in hand with drama sometimes but as long as its not drowning and comes from a good place irregularly lol, reciprocity to some degree but i dont expect even steven... thats just irrational... more than genitalia! i need a brain with quite a bit of wit to keep me interested and laughing, openminded, deep unspoken connection... uummm.....















but yeah i love someone who can bring it in the kitchen and sexually as i am a sensual creature... 😆

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Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

I think, they want someone who is loyal, consistent and doesn't bring the drama.

Basically this.

Good cook is like finding a diamond in the rough. However, it's not needed since there's apps to order take out from 🙂

Yeah. Not that that isnt a nice detail but I'll handle my own necessities. Thats not a top need or priority needing that from someone else. If I cant feed myself and take care of myself sufficiently then I wont be stretching myself even thinner by trying to get into a romantic relationship.

I wonder why people who arent Tauruses are so quick to jump in on questions like this? People generally cant figure us out completely because we are different in a lot of ways. So a question like this and people who arent Tauruses are the first to answer? Like how are you going to even this has nothing to do with you is it that bad over there? Like if this was on another board I wouldnt answer for Leo or Aries or whatever. Who cares what you do thats your business how am I going to answer for you? Sometimes jealousy just gotta come to the forefront. Some of the nonTaurus answers are more accurate here but what makes people so quick to think they can answer for us? And then people have endless questions. I honestly think people know they dont really know the answer but they charge in anyway. People would be better served to tend to their own affairs. Again this isnt directed to those who tried to give accurate answers based on experience.

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Apologies RB. You're right, it's not my place to answer on behalf of Tauruses.

I know you said it's not directed at those who tried to give accurate answers based on their experience but I'm sorry if I stepped on any toes 🙂

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Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

I think, they want someone who is loyal, consistent and doesn't bring the drama.

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Sex and sensuality. Love affection. Loyalty no drama and emotional support. It's the one sign that needs a lil cosseting more even than cancer really. More open minded than you think though is Taurus. And you have to be able to take a little hot headedness. The women like to receive little gifts. The men like to give little gifts.

They like food. They like being cosy. They like sex. They are loyal and genuine.

They like to be earthy. Nature ..if they have fire in their chart ...extra sensual and sex...

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Posted by mini_asian
I'm curious to see what y'all like in a person or want in a relationship. What makes the blood pump, the passion run etc.

I think, they want someone who is loyal, consistent and doesn't bring the drama.

Sex and sensuality. Love affection. Loyalty no drama and emotional support. It's the one sign that needs a lil cosseting more even than cancer really. More open minded than you think though is Taurus. And you have to be able to take a little hot headedness. The women like to receive little gifts. The men like to give little gifts.

They like food. They like being cosy. They like sex. They are loyal and genuine.

They like to be earthy. Nature ..if they have fire in their chart ...extra sensual and sex...

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They want to make a home etc...

Passion and Good sex.

Posted by Lenasophie
Passion and Good sex.

Yup. That's them. 🙂

Someone who genuinely appreciates me and values my genuine appreciation of him(not looking for validation based on what he has or what he does). Someone who is faithful and trustworthy. A man who is secure but has the ambition to improve. A partner who learns from his past and keeps moving forward. No pettiness, drama or passive-aggression. A straight shooter. Passionate sex. Lots of affection. Willingness to try a wide variety of delicious food and drinks.

Tall,dark, and handsome with broad shoulders, big hands and a respectable beard is a plus. A nice deep voice speaking words of wisdom awakens the sapiosexual in me. 😗😍❤

Food, looks and loyalty.

The only Taurus guy I ever knew cut me off cold turkey after I knew him 2 years bcoz he asked me on date and I was working full time and couldn't give him a clear time on when. He got mad and stormed off lol. That was weird. Kept asking why and why I changed my schedule.

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Someone who genuinely appreciates me and values my genuine appreciation of him(not looking for validation based on what he has or what he does). Someone who is faithful and trustworthy. A man who is secure but has the ambition to improve. A partner who learns from his past and keeps moving forward. No pettiness, drama or passive-aggression. A straight shooter. Passionate sex. Lots of affection. Willingness to try a wide variety of delicious food and drinks.

Tall,dark, and handsome with broad shoulders, big hands and a respectable beard is a plus. A nice deep voice speaking words of wisdom awakens the sapiosexual in me. 😗😍❤

i second aaaaallllll of this! YES PLEASE!! 🙂

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I think standard what attracts them is..... honest and sincere. they like independence and someone who knows what they want . I they want to feel stability and consistency. they love attention and affection as well as to be take care of. also don't play games, they wont get the game, they wont pick up on hints, and don't push them. they are slow to process. best thing you can do is just be honest and vocal, let them know what you want or how you feel and give them time to process and take action.

feed them is the cherry on top.

"Don't push them, they're slow to process" that's what I'm struggling with now with my whole "take action now, answer later" Arian personality. I ended up telling my Taurean what I wanted, telling her that I'm willing to go at her pace and just left it at that. It has been quiet on her line.

that's honestly all you can do.

they need to think about it now that's its being put in their face.

and sometimes they will communicate back, but know people with little words. they don't know how to verbalize there feelings as well as they are able to show you. they show you with attention, affirmations and with touch. you have to be will to understand because I don't think this is something they will be able to drastically change about themselves.

Which is fine with me, because I'll accept her regardless I don't expect or want her to change unless she decides to that on her own. Apart of me wants to message her, and let her know that I am thinking of her.

O M G do it. you should. no fear, that's sexy to a Taurus, someone who knows what they want.

"hey, thinking of you. hope your having a good day. (smirkface)" is the best - I don't care who you are, that always feels good.

I was rather aggressive with what I want when I started dating my Taurus. he approached me and got my info, he also invited me out and all the good stuff but I was the one that told him I liked him, and I was the one to text every morning and say have a great day and I was the on that told him that "I am so into you" and "i want you to be mine" and "Im falling for you" and "i love you" and "im scared to lose you" - i don't regret it at all. it made him feel safe knowing how i felt, it made him think about if that was what he wanted as well. and trust me it took him some time. he didn't say anything after i said those things but after with time it was obvious that he felt that way. when i told him i was falling for him he just hugged me and that was it that night, but a day later he told me that he didn't want to say anything he was sure about because he didn't want to lead me on, hurt me or make any mistakes. i understood. how could i not. but he stayed, he knew how i felt and i was happy with that.

Haha alright, I'll do just that. Just send her a quick message and buzz off and do my own thing. I have a very strong personality, due to my strong Mars presence in my chart. I've noticed that with my bullette too, she's not really used to having this much affection or passion towards her. She has told me that I am "too good to her," since we're far apart from each other I try to do little things here and there for her. I bought her and her best friend tickets to a concert, with a stuffed giraffee (her fave animal), a card for her and a get well soon card for her mom. Checking up on her and what not since she's a workaholic. Thank you for your insight, but from your own experience is your bull verbal about his desires/wants or shows it in a different way?

my bull is not verbal about a lot when it comes to us.

he has a "things shouldn't need to be said" state of mind.

he thinks his actions are all that you need to know.

so I was always the one to tell him what was up, I'm a fire and I know what I want when I want it, I'm intuitive AF. but him no, he put things in the back of his mind to process later, emotional procrastinator. and he isn't as intuitive, he does not play the game of catching hints. NEVER.

if you want her to know something, tell her.

if you are wanting to know how she feels about something, tell her and give her time to process, but stay aware of her actions and don't just focus on her words because they will never be enough words to express what she can give you in attention or affections or acts of love.

and tell her how you feel, even when its scary and even when you doubt yourself. they are understanding enough to listen.

just know that you are going to have to be direct with what you want and asking the question of do you feel the same?

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She's definitely an emotional procrastinator, I could not find a better definition haha. I think it's because of her placements it makes her more reserved about how she feels emotionally (Virgo moon - Gemini Venus) while her Arian Mars, helps her verbalize her feelings and affections. When we were first talking for about two months or so, she was definitely curious, very affectionate and made her feelings clear. Now she's a bit withdrawn and not as reciprocative, she's told me that she's scared and doesn't know how to deal with her emotions either. Only after I told her that I was afraid of not knowing how to deal with my own, and I'm very outward and bold with my emotions. I rather just pop it off right there and then, instead of letting it bubble up. We both mutually feel the same, but I did ask her the question whether she wants something more out of this and left it at that. No solid reponse yet.

Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions though.