VirgoLady2009
@VirgoLady2009
9 Years
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Posted by LentoBull91I am the exact same way. Once I am done, I am done. No birthday wishes or holiday wishes...nothing! Maybe he's just being cordial but honestly I rather him not reach out to me at all.
I would never wish an ex happy B-Day for no reason once they are an ex they are dead and gone to me so I wouldn't wish that person a happy anything unless I was still harboring feelings for them. And you being a Virgo I'm sure that deep down inside part of him still has feelings ime Virgo has been the hardest sign for me to let go the feelings run deep.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.

Posted by PrettyTaurusLoveLol...I see what you did here
He is just being kind and friendly. Ex is ex and friend is friend so Ex is a friend. hahaha

Posted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.

Posted by T4taurusBut why hurt the one you love just because you have some personal issue? That's what I don't understand, it seems very selfish and immature.Posted by TaurusBull1977
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
This is me lol I hate being in a relationship when I'm not financially stable, although i don't have to be with my partner, I'm too independent.
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Posted by earlorg16You have the exact same placements as my ex... are you sure you're not him? lol jkjk
He's reaching out to see how you'd react to him. Based on how you react is going to lead to his next move. It wouldn't surprise me if he's good financially again and realizing that he misses you so he's reaching out to gauge a reaction. If you react positively, he's going to make a move. If you react nonchalantly the way you did, he's probably going to think you're not interested. He was probably cold at the time when he wasn't making much because his main priority was to just find financial stability, and he didn't want to be bothered. It's hard to think about dating anyone when you're broke (taurus-sun/cap-moon here), and it's especially hard for us when we know we don't have to funds to cater or to take out whoever it is we're dating. I don't know if I woulda broke up, but who knows what his deal is. I do think he's planting some seeds though and seeing if it leads to anything with you.

Posted by VirgoLady2009I know right lol - I'm Taurus Sun Capricorn Moon - but when things are over, they are over for me ... probably some other placements coming into play here ...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by Capri__unicornI mean I guess you could just start by asking him how is he doing ...Posted by VirgoLady2009Lmao @ "what yo money lookin like"Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by VirgoLady2009I would agree It is very selfish. I crave financial stability it is hard to focus on anything/anyone if my ish ain't right. I think it's harder for men because especially Taurus who feel the same because they feel obligated to be the providerPosted by T4taurusBut why hurt the one you love just because you have some personal issue? That's what I don't understand, it seems very selfish and immature.Posted by TaurusBull1977
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
This is me lol I hate being in a relationship when I'm not financially stable, although i don't have to be with my partner, I'm too independent.
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Posted by VirgoLady2009We may have the same placements but we're not the same people. Like I stated in my previous post, I don't think I would've broken up had it been me in his shoes, so not all Taurus men are like this! 😛Posted by earlorg16You have the exact same placements as my ex... are you sure you're not him? lol jkjk
He's reaching out to see how you'd react to him. Based on how you react is going to lead to his next move. It wouldn't surprise me if he's good financially again and realizing that he misses you so he's reaching out to gauge a reaction. If you react positively, he's going to make a move. If you react nonchalantly the way you did, he's probably going to think you're not interested. He was probably cold at the time when he wasn't making much because his main priority was to just find financial stability, and he didn't want to be bothered. It's hard to think about dating anyone when you're broke (taurus-sun/cap-moon here), and it's especially hard for us when we know we don't have to funds to cater or to take out whoever it is we're dating. I don't know if I woulda broke up, but who knows what his deal is. I do think he's planting some seeds though and seeing if it leads to anything with you.
But why break up with someone just because your're not financially stable. I mean he should have known that before we got together. Why drag me through that? I still love him, no doubt ..but I don't think I could ever return because I know what he's capable of now... and that's breaking my heart once something isn't working in his favor...
Why are you Taurus men like this— Why not hold onto something good when you know she's not going anywhere no matter what. I thought you men love loyalty but actions show otherwise...click to expand
Posted by tctalol...Venus in Aries and Mercury in Taurus ...idk if that helps...Posted by VirgoLady2009I know right lol - I'm Taurus Sun Capricorn Moon - but when things are over, they are over for me ... probably some other placements coming into play here ...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by VirgoLady2009IDK - my Venus is Aries and so is my Mercury - I would never break up for those reasons first of all, especially if the other person was understanding - it might be the Taurus Mercury but I truly don't know if you'll ever find an answer unless you ask him directly. You could text "are you just being nice or do you want to talk"? of course this is up to you cause you were the one hurting though all of this and you don't want to be put in that place again.Posted by tctalol...Venus in Aries and Mercury in Taurus ...idk if that helps...Posted by VirgoLady2009I know right lol - I'm Taurus Sun Capricorn Moon - but when things are over, they are over for me ... probably some other placements coming into play here ...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by tctaYou're right I probably won't ever know but I don't care to ask him anything...at least not now. I have came a long way emotionally since then and I am starting to be at peace with it. Its just when he text me, I am reminded by everything all over again. Maybe I should block him....Posted by VirgoLady2009IDK - my Venus is Aries and so is my Mercury - I would never break up for those reasons first of all, especially if the other person was understanding - it might be the Taurus Mercury but I truly don't know if you'll ever find an answer unless you ask him directly. You could text "are you just being nice or do you want to talk"? of course this is up to you cause you were the one hurting though all of this and you don't want to be put in that place again.Posted by tctalol...Venus in Aries and Mercury in Taurus ...idk if that helps...Posted by VirgoLady2009I know right lol - I'm Taurus Sun Capricorn Moon - but when things are over, they are over for me ... probably some other placements coming into play here ...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
click to expand
Posted by AgentP911I've considered my feelings and I am not opening that box no time soon...lol
I don't think this is just a Taurus thing. It's a man thing. Sometimes if they don't have their shit together then it doesn't matter that you're the best girl in the world... it ain't happening!
I think tcta has a good point as does TB with being more direct and asking him what he wants or establishing his motives one way or the other.
Firstly though, consider how you feel about things and him before you start opening Pandora's box!

Posted by VirgoLady2009yes - for sure - glad you feel that way - just block him or just ignore him and don't text back - nothing happens after that anyway - why even have that reminder - get on with life and find someone who doesn't waste your time!Posted by tctaYou're right I probably won't ever know but I don't care to ask him anything...at least not now. I have came a long way emotionally since then and I am starting to be at peace with it. Its just when he text me, I am reminded by everything all over again. Maybe I should block him....Posted by VirgoLady2009IDK - my Venus is Aries and so is my Mercury - I would never break up for those reasons first of all, especially if the other person was understanding - it might be the Taurus Mercury but I truly don't know if you'll ever find an answer unless you ask him directly. You could text "are you just being nice or do you want to talk"? of course this is up to you cause you were the one hurting though all of this and you don't want to be put in that place again.Posted by tctalol...Venus in Aries and Mercury in Taurus ...idk if that helps...Posted by VirgoLady2009I know right lol - I'm Taurus Sun Capricorn Moon - but when things are over, they are over for me ... probably some other placements coming into play here ...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol, like how do you even ask that? "Hey before this conversation goes any further, what yo money looking like?" lolPosted by VirgoLady2009Ask him how is he doing financially.....Posted by TaurusBull1977I have no idea where is he financially now. While we were dating he had a decent job but I know he wanted more....I just don't understand why is he texting me to wish me well all of sudden...
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
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Posted by VirgoLady2009Posted by T4taurusBut why hurt the one you love just because you have some personal issue? That's what I don't understand, it seems very selfish and immature.Posted by TaurusBull1977
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
This is me lol I hate being in a relationship when I'm not financially stable, although i don't have to be with my partner, I'm too independent.
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Posted by LentoBull91*rolls eyes*Posted by VirgoLady2009Posted by T4taurusBut why hurt the one you love just because you have some personal issue? That's what I don't understand, it seems very selfish and immature.Posted by TaurusBull1977
It depends...
Where is he 'financially?'
If he is still in the 'same' bad place, economically, then he's just being cordial.
However,
If his finances improved greatly, he may want a second chance.
Most Taurus men are allergic to broke....when broke, they can also be allergic to relationships.
This is me lol I hate being in a relationship when I'm not financially stable, although i don't have to be with my partner, I'm too independent.
it's very selfish of us but we don't see it that way at The time we make a decision like he did we see it as being thoughtful and keeping your best interest at heart we want to become the best man a better version of ourselves for you. And if we don't see ourselves as the best we can be we set you free to find someone better than us because we feel you deserve better but at the same time its hard to see that person go so we from time to time come back into the picture to see if you still care like we do. we struggle to just accept ourselves and where we're at in our lives if we feel we can do/be better so we do what we do best work on ourselves in solitude even though our feelings are still very much there for that person. I ruined my relationship with my virgal for the same insecurities I didn't feel worthy to have her in my life and it drove me to push her away until she had enough and left me but I don't blame her my behavior was hurting her she had to protect her heart.
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Posted by VirgoLady2009Well that answer sounded rather conclusive! Lol —Posted by AgentP911I've considered my feelings and I am not opening that box no time soon...lol
I don't think this is just a Taurus thing. It's a man thing. Sometimes if they don't have their shit together then it doesn't matter that you're the best girl in the world... it ain't happening!
I think tcta has a good point as does TB with being more direct and asking him what he wants or establishing his motives one way or the other.
Firstly though, consider how you feel about things and him before you start opening Pandora's box!
I'm finally able to sleep at night...
Eat a complete meal...
Go out with friends and not think about him anymore...
I love my life better this way lol...click to expand
Posted by AgentP911You are absolutely correct 😉Posted by VirgoLady2009Well that answer sounded rather conclusive! Lol —Posted by AgentP911I've considered my feelings and I am not opening that box no time soon...lol
I don't think this is just a Taurus thing. It's a man thing. Sometimes if they don't have their shit together then it doesn't matter that you're the best girl in the world... it ain't happening!
I think tcta has a good point as does TB with being more direct and asking him what he wants or establishing his motives one way or the other.
Firstly though, consider how you feel about things and him before you start opening Pandora's box!
I'm finally able to sleep at night...
Eat a complete meal...
Go out with friends and not think about him anymore...
I love my life better this way lol...
Then decision made. Who knows why he's texting? It could be a number of reasons but to be fair, does it really matter now your mind and heart has moved on? Put it down to weird guy behaviour!click to expand

Posted by VirgoLady2009good, then move on and don't let anyone hurt you again ...Posted by AgentP911I've considered my feelings and I am not opening that box no time soon...lol
I don't think this is just a Taurus thing. It's a man thing. Sometimes if they don't have their shit together then it doesn't matter that you're the best girl in the world... it ain't happening!
I think tcta has a good point as does TB with being more direct and asking him what he wants or establishing his motives one way or the other.
Firstly though, consider how you feel about things and him before you start opening Pandora's box!
I'm finally able to sleep at night...
Eat a complete meal...
Go out with friends and not think about him anymore...
I love my life better this way lol...click to expand
Posted by Capri__unicornTrue & Agreed
Uhh could just be that he's being cordial. I text my ex happy bday and speak on holidays also. Not interested in anything beyond that tho. Just being nice. I wouldn't read too much into it unless he starts specifically mentioning fond memories or explicitly stating he wants to try again. I always tell myself "what ever they say doesn't mean shit unless they clearly say they're ready to commit"...if that's what you're looking for. Otherwise I don't find meaning in meaningless things anymore

Posted by taurusgoddessLol this is a true statement...
I've often wished ex boyfriends a happy birhday. Just what you do for anyone you care about. Now, if I offer to take them out for a drink mayyyyyyybe I want more! lol 😉
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I don't hang on to any of mines either and I can't even think of a good reason to hang on. Birthday's or not...that's why I was a little confused :/Posted by taurusgoddessI'm not in touch with any of my exes and can't understand why Taurus would want to hang on to any.
I've often wished ex boyfriends a happy birhday. Just what you do for anyone you care about. Now, if I offer to take them out for a drink mayyyyyyybe I want more! lol 😉
Good riddance to the lot of them I say......click to expand
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After we broke up, I reached out to him about 2 months later and he was completely cold-hearted towards me. He acted as if we were never involved with each other. He said a lot of hurtful things to me and I eventually deleted his number and every text and picture message I had from him. I never looked back since...
The following month he sent me birthday text, nothing too much, but it said "Happy birthday, I pray that I you are doing well and hope you a have great year because you deserve it"... I just replied back "thanks."
Thanksgiving and Christmas rolled around he text me pretty much the same thing...each time I give him a one-worded response ..."thanks."
Why is he reaching out to me? Do Taurus men keep in touch with their exes like this?