
wagtail
@wagtail
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Posted by wagtailWagggie gots her a yougin... *high 5*
Older women-![]()
Any experiences,
positives and negatives,
how old were you and would you consider dating with an age gap of ten years or older then yourself...?




Posted by VirgoGentHow long were you together ?
I was 20 and she was 42. It was a positive experience. Right now I would be more likely to go down 10 instead of up 10.


Posted by clippityclopI see it too lol
The shadow of that candle looks like a penis ?

Posted by VirgoGentPosted by MyStarsShineAround 18 months.Posted by VirgoGentHow long were you together ?
I was 20 and she was 42. It was a positive experience. Right now I would be more likely to go down 10 instead of up 10.
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Posted by VirgoGentPosted by MyStarsShineIt was a mutual friendly breakup. I was in the Air Force and had orders too leave for another duty station. We both knew that day would come when we met and started dating.Posted by VirgoGentPosted by MyStarsShineAround 18 months.Posted by VirgoGentHow long were you together ?
I was 20 and she was 42. It was a positive experience. Right now I would be more likely to go down 10 instead of up 10.
Who ended it?
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Posted by VirgoGentFabulous.
I was 20 and she was 42. It was a positive experience. Right now I would be more likely to go down 10 instead of up 10.

Posted by LadyNeptuneHaha I'm not sure if it was deliberate or not?!Posted by clippityclopI see it too lol
The shadow of that candle looks like a penis ?click to expand


Posted by clippityclopI was going to mention the phallic candle too!
The shadow of that candle looks like a penis ?

Posted by NepturanusMore deets pleash, any initial hiccups? What attracted you to each other - aggressive pursuit?
hello there wag.
met my wife when i was 25 and she was 30. legit.

Posted by LadyNeptuneAny thoughts on your relationship that you are comfortable sharing- please do!
As a female dating a younger man I'm super interested in seeing where this topic leads.
*follows thread*
And waggy, I highly recommend it ?

Posted by VirgoGentDid you have feelings for her, as in love or was it more of a fun thing....you were very young. Was she your first lover?Posted by MyStarsShineIt certainly was fun but also very educational.
Lots of younger men want to experience older women......for funclick to expand

Posted by tizianiokayeh,
In principle yes I would. It just depends on wanting the same ideals.
The biggest age gap I've had in a serious relationship was 7 years older. I was 24ish at the time. It was enjoyable because she had presence, knew herself and knew what she wanted most days.


Posted by Sure😆Posted by wagtail150% positive, 15 years older than me, best everything.
Older women-![]()
Any experiences,
positives and negatives,
how old were you and would you consider dating with an age gap of ten years or older then yourself...?
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Posted by wagtailSo far so good. Actually better than good. I really really like this guy.Posted by LadyNeptuneAny thoughts on your relationship that you are comfortable sharing- please do!
As a female dating a younger man I'm super interested in seeing where this topic leads.
*follows thread*
And waggy, I highly recommend it ?
Interested in the dynamic.
How important is the sexual connection.
Is dating a younger man more or less fulfilling in terms of mental stimulation etcclick to expand




Posted by AndalusiaReally appreciate this input too.
I dated a guy 8 years younger than me.
He was definitely one of the best, if not *the* best, I've dated. Still have the utmost love, respect and fond memories for him.
I can't speak for him now, but I think the feeling was mutual, even if it might not be anymore.

Posted by wagtailYes, I would. But it'd have to be on a person by person basis.Posted by AndalusiaReally appreciate this input too.
I dated a guy 8 years younger than me.
He was definitely one of the best, if not *the* best, I've dated. Still have the utmost love, respect and fond memories for him.
I can't speak for him now, but I think the feeling was mutual, even if it might not be anymore.
Would you consider dating someone significantly younger again, and what do you think might be the benefits or pitfalls- with hindsight...click to expand

Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?

Posted by nikkistarHe's 24. I'm still in my 20s...barely. Birthday is coming up.
@LadyNeptune whats your age gap if you dont mind me asking? Just wanting to pick your brain since we seem to be in the same boat.

Posted by wagtailIs he a Cap? Or Cap dominant?Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'click to expand


Posted by AndalusiaI'm working up to finding out some more of his personal Astro details...Posted by wagtailIs he a Cap? Or Cap dominant?Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'click to expand

Posted by nikkistarThis is great info Nikki cheers
Ok, I actually went to my PC to answer this.
Anyways, after being divorced and single for about 1.5 years, I started dating again. First guy was 27, and I can tell you the pitfalls there were astronomical. I was the more financially secure one, and he had major ego issues with that. On top of that, he drank a whole lot, and loved to party. I don't drink what-so-ever. I also felt he created drama when none needed to be.
Now for the 25 year old, we just work. Like LadyNeptune stated, you have to be on the same page on a lot of things. He is mature for his age, isn't into partying, and is more home oriented. I find I have a lot in common with him when it comes to what we want in life, and where we want to go. It's probably the most easy I have ever had. He seems to be very open and communicative about any issue I have and is willing to compromise. His parents don't seem to have issue with my age either.
In both instances, they pursued me. I was leery about it at first, but it's been good.

Posted by wagtailHe sounds hawt!Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptune😆Posted by wagtailHe sounds hawt!Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'
No harm in seeing if there's some potential there. Before you invest too many feels find out what his end game is, but in a cute way of course.
Maybe ask him where he sees himself in 5 years and see how his answer compares to your own.
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Posted by wagtailAww that's cute! He's trying to demonstrate to you that he has ambition and goals. That's a good sign right there.Posted by LadyNeptune😆Posted by wagtailHe sounds hawt!Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'
No harm in seeing if there's some potential there. Before you invest too many feels find out what his end game is, but in a cute way of course.
Maybe ask him where he sees himself in 5 years and see how his answer compares to your own.
OH I haven't had to ask...
haha
he very seriously explained his 3-5year goal with study and job potentials yesterday to me unbidden, on his break...
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by wagtailAww that's cute! He's trying to demonstrate to you that he has ambition and goals. That's a good sign right there.Posted by LadyNeptune😆Posted by wagtailHe sounds hawt!Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'
No harm in seeing if there's some potential there. Before you invest too many feels find out what his end game is, but in a cute way of course.
Maybe ask him where he sees himself in 5 years and see how his answer compares to your own.
OH I haven't had to ask...
haha
he very seriously explained his 3-5year goal with study and job potentials yesterday to me unbidden, on his break...
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Posted by leowwwPosted by wagtailOmigosh... 😄Posted by leowww21...
So.... How old is he Wag... ?
imagine a young Paul Newman who studies biomech engineering and likes to landscape for pocket money...
Will say this isn't coming from meh- he is the pursuer.
33 this year and wondering how worthwhile it might be...?
Love the feedback everyone btw KEEP IT COMIN'
How worthwhile... Hmm.. Well it could be fun? 😛click to expand






Posted by VenusAquarius*strokes chin beard*
I dated younger men... by accident. I didn't know their ages. But, once I told them my age, I thought they would leave me alone. Very electric times. One, 10 year difference, actually made it to a relationship... a Sag.
I also dated older, as much as 14 years older... which I preferred. I like being pampered.
I dated younger and older at the same time. So, I had live contrast and comparison.


Posted by VirgoGent
.... 99.9% of 20 year old boys/men don't know how to be with a woman yet. I'm thankful she was patient with me and willing to teach.

Posted by wagtailI had no limitations. I didn't think about dating I was just enjoying my favorite extracurricular activities... singing and dancing. Then, next thing you know.... I was newly divorced. And, I was overwhelmed most of the time.Posted by VenusAquarius*strokes chin beard*
I dated younger men... by accident. I didn't know their ages. But, once I told them my age, I thought they would leave me alone. Very electric times. One, 10 year difference, actually made it to a relationship... a Sag.
I also dated older, as much as 14 years older... which I preferred. I like being pampered.
I dated younger and older at the same time. So, I had live contrast and comparison.
very intriguing. Thanks for the cool perspective.
Personally, always thought older was preferable, (for some reason)
but honestly, it seems like a self-imposed limitation...
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Posted by VenusAquariushmmmmstarting to think age gaps in either direction over approx 10 years - might be ideal...Posted by wagtailI had no limitations. I didn't think about dating I was just enjoying my favorite extracurricular activities... singing and dancing. Then, next thing you know.... I was newly divorced. And, I was overwhelmed most of the time.Posted by VenusAquarius*strokes chin beard*
I dated younger men... by accident. I didn't know their ages. But, once I told them my age, I thought they would leave me alone. Very electric times. One, 10 year difference, actually made it to a relationship... a Sag.
I also dated older, as much as 14 years older... which I preferred. I like being pampered.
I dated younger and older at the same time. So, I had live contrast and comparison.
very intriguing. Thanks for the cool perspective.
Personally, always thought older was preferable, (for some reason)
but honestly, it seems like a self-imposed limitation...
I needed someone to watch over me... so, after all was said and done, I preferred older. Although, I had one younger man that started our relationship by taking care with me.
But, older, whew, dominanted and surprised me with decadent, luxurious, hedonism... sultry. I felt protected and secure. And, they outright offered it carte blanche.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneThis plays a big role in it too, agreed.
Biologically women live longer than men. We experience our sexual prime later on in life as well.
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Any experiences,
positives and negatives,
how old were you and would you consider dating with an age gap of ten years or older then yourself...?