How do men deal with failure at work?

Do they lash out at their partner for petty little things? If they do, what does this mean about how they feel about her?

I think if anyone was under extreme stress they'd not purposefully take it out on those around them.

It wouldn't mean they dont love you but you would have to give them space and light encouragement, meaning don't bring it up everyday... Men when it comes to money and finances have a fragile ego until they come to you, you gotta kinda let then figure it out.. they are stubborn in the fact that they can do it alone.

All i'm going to say is, if i'm going through some shit at work and I come home.... LEAVE.ME.THE.FUCK.ALONE.

I can't stress this shit enough. The last thing I want to do is "talk about it" with you. Let me chill and unwind for a little while. When I get the energy to talk with you and answer your annoying questions, I will.