How to avenge my roommate?

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Just need to vent.

So I have to female roommates, Carla is borderline and her boyfriend almost lives here, he spent months in her room. Sarah got fed up and finally complained to the landlord.

Carla had a breakdown cried and deleted Sarahs number. Then she gave the landlord a screenshot of a chat three months where Sarah called the Landlord a cunt.

Sarah has to find a new place to stay which is impossible in munich. I wanna change the Landlords mind and maybe also ruin Carla. Is it worth it, is borderline an excuse,

is vengeance never worth it? I cannot sleep I have met assholes but not people who can make people homeless.
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Lol fairplay to Carla it seems she outwit Sarah

Just stay out of it man

Have you had to outwit other people like that? To me making somebody potentially homeless is evil. I have always been around good people. I guess this is the real world. Is that what you are saying?

I have it in me to outwit people like that I’m a Mars in Scorpio but no I have not had to do evil things to people thankfully.

I wouldn’t say it’s the real world it’s a unique situation since she is bipolar. You can’t predict how they will act if you haven’t dealt with them before.
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Have you seen suits? Outiwitting always makes me think about suits. Corporate lawyers finding leverage and doing dirty things

in order to win.
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Lol fairplay to Carla it seems she outwit Sarah

Just stay out of it man

Have you had to outwit other people like that? To me making somebody potentially homeless is evil. I have always been around good people. I guess this is the real world. Is that what you are saying?

I have it in me to outwit people like that I’m a Mars in Scorpio but no I have not had to do evil things to people thankfully.

I wouldn’t say it’s the real world it’s a unique situation since she is bipolar. You can’t predict how they will act if you haven’t dealt with them before.

Have you seen suits? Outiwitting always makes me think about suits. Corporate lawyers finding leverage and doing dirty things

in order to win.

Yes I am surprised it is still ongoing lol! Yeah and Carla knew she had that text message on Sarah and when the time came she just used it.

I think it was a happy accident to be honest. Otherwise insert that Grinch meme with him rubbing his hands together.

Carla going into her room right now

https://c.tenor.com/n0n7P-YAs3oAAAAC/basement-snow-white.gif


she is learning turkish because her boyfriend is turkish. I hate this cunt
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Carla is an asshole and if I liked the other one better I would defend her. But I am a stupid Aries/Libra combo so justice ⚖ is my kryptonite. That's why I have problems with people. I always end up being played. Anyway, it's shitty behaviour and I would be passive-agressive towards her and keep my distance. Having room-mates you don't know or hang with is annoying. Had that through my college years.
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Carla is an asshole and if I liked the other one better I would defend her. But I am a stupid Aries/Libra combo so justice ⚖ is my kryptonite. That's why I have problems with people. I always end up being played. Anyway, it's shitty behaviour and I would be passive-agressive towards her and keep my distance. Having room-mates you don't know or hang with is annoying. Had that through my college years.


I hear you, I am libra sun. Time and time ago, I learn that justice is an abstract concept, it does not exist in reality. You cannot on people being good and fair. I guess the world is a jungle after all, its eaten or being eating.
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Carla is an asshole and if I liked the other one better I would defend her. But I am a stupid Aries/Libra combo so justice ⚖ is my kryptonite. That's why I have problems with people. I always end up being played. Anyway, it's shitty behaviour and I would be passive-agressive towards her and keep my distance. Having room-mates you don't know or hang with is annoying. Had that through my college years.


“I would defend her”

Not stupid

Good person

Too many people adopt the attitude of “its not my problem”

My Aries dad raised me to fight the good fight

Aries the warrior

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I'd team up with Sarah (if she's down) to set them up.

You could start a roach infestation in their room. Then complain about it to the landlord. Just place roaches in her room. Start small.

Since she's borderline, pick (more like plan/orchestrate) fights with her when she's not in a good place emotionally, especially when she's angry. Make it seem like you're frustrated by external circumstances and Carla's reaction(s) is a problem in and of itself.

Convince Sarah to join you in ganging up on her whenever the boyfriend is not around. It doesn't have to be WW3, but she has to feel picked on, misunderstood and isolated. Before boyfriend comes back, make amends, give her a fake hug, say sorry (apologize for the fight, but never for what you said or accused her of) and bring food to her room (justifies the roach infestation).

Tell her Landlord Sarah and her boyfriend are out of control. Go out for drinks with Sarah and Carla. Gang up on her at the bar and trigger her. Wait until she's drunk first. Once she's drunk and triggered, play innocent and mature and say "you're acting insane, I'm done for today. Sarah and I are leaving".

Then wait until she comes back home drunk and record her having fit of rage, screaming, or whatever. Then get Sarah to break a glass bottle, only for the camera to record the sound of it. So you can make it seem to the Landlord like Carla is trashing up the place. Don't send the video to the landlord. Just show the video to the landlord in person, from your phone, so that the landlord can't confront Carla with evidence that she may be able to defend herself against.

If Carla denies anything, you can always say she was drunk and doesn't even remember. Always back up each other's claims/stories to the landlord, yours and Sarah's. But don't make it too obvious so that it doesn't seem like you're both teamed up to set her up or sabotage her.

Subtly insinuate to the landlord that her boyfriend is a dangerous person or involved in stuff of questionable nature; illegal/criminal/drugs etc. Make Sarah confirm this to the landlord by subtly insinuating this as well. It has to look incidental and like a slip of the tongue. Even if boyfriend no longer lives there, this makes Carla look bad.

The goal here is to systematically destroy Carla's reputation in the eyes of the landlord to the point that she gets almost kicked out. She'll then feel the stress, anxiety and agony of possibly becoming homeless and think again about her actions towards Sarah.
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Lol fairplay to Carla it seems she outwit Sarah

Just stay out of it man

Have you had to outwit other people like that? To me making somebody potentially homeless is evil. I have always been around good people. I guess this is the real world. Is that what you are saying?
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But did Sarah call to make her boyfriend potentially homeless n to a borderline it’s in essence making her homeless??
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The sanest advise was ask landlord about bf paying his share n report how often n long he stays n explain it as that is the core of the issue

I’d tell Carla to her face first that you expect he pay his share of rent although that’s not machavillian enough but I’m confrontational like that. To Let her know I know what she did and I’m not ok with her back stabbing .

Ps Scorpio here
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The sanest advise was ask landlord about bf paying his share n report how often n long he stays n explain it as that is the core of the issue

I’d tell Carla to her face first that you expect he pay his share of rent although that’s not machavillian enough but I’m confrontational like that. To Let her know I know what she did and I’m not ok with her back stabbing .

Ps Scorpio here

Depends if he wants to fight to fight some hairy arsed Turkish bloke. It's evident he's going to do Jack.
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I’m a Scorpio lol I’ll fight for what I think it’s right and fair.
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I'd team up with Sarah (if she's down) to set them up.

You could start a roach infestation in their room. Then complain about it to the landlord. Just place roaches in her room. Start small.

Since she's borderline, pick (more like plan/orchestrate) fights with her when she's not in a good place emotionally, especially when she's angry. Make it seem like you're frustrated by external circumstances and Carla's reaction(s) is a problem in and of itself.

Convince Sarah to join you in ganging up on her whenever the boyfriend is not around. It doesn't have to be WW3, but she has to feel picked on, misunderstood and isolated. Before boyfriend comes back, make amends, give her a fake hug, say sorry (apologize for the fight, but never for what you said or accused her of) and bring food to her room (justifies the roach infestation).

Tell her Landlord Sarah and her boyfriend are out of control. Go out for drinks with Sarah and Carla. Gang up on her at the bar and trigger her. Wait until she's drunk first. Once she's drunk and triggered, play innocent and mature and say "you're acting insane, I'm done for today. Sarah and I are leaving".

Then wait until she comes back home drunk and record her having fit of rage, screaming, or whatever. Then get Sarah to break a glass bottle, only for the camera to record the sound of it. So you can make it seem to the Landlord like Carla is trashing up the place. Don't send the video to the landlord. Just show the video to the landlord in person, from your phone, so that the landlord can't confront Carla with evidence that she may be able to defend herself against.

If Carla denies anything, you can always say she was drunk and doesn't even remember. Always back up each other's claims/stories to the landlord, yours and Sarah's. But don't make it too obvious so that it doesn't seem like you're both teamed up to set her up or sabotage her.

Subtly insinuate to the landlord that her boyfriend is a dangerous person or involved in stuff of questionable nature; illegal/criminal/drugs etc. Make Sarah confirm this to the landlord by subtly insinuating this as well. It has to look incidental and like a slip of the tongue. Even if boyfriend no longer lives there, this makes Carla look bad.

The goal here here is to destroy Carla's reputation in the eyes of the landlord to the point that she gets almost kicked out. She'll then feel the stress, anxiety and agony of possibly becoming homeless and think again about her actions towards Sarah.


Oh wow, you laid it out in detail, i could not read it cause its so malicious. I shall never cross you. Offtopic have you seen this?

A father was pissed because his son got a citation so he drove his car into a police station. Can scorpios explain to me

the deeper underlying logic behind this insane stupidity? You guys dig deep, riddle me this.

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Lol fairplay to Carla it seems she outwit Sarah

Just stay out of it man

Have you had to outwit other people like that? To me making somebody potentially homeless is evil. I have always been around good people. I guess this is the real world. Is that what you are saying?

But did Sarah call to make her boyfriend potentially homeless n to a borderline it’s in essence making her homeless??
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I dont think she thought it through, she fearfully asked if the landlord shared some news cause she was here. She just got her feelings hurt, she stormed out crying when we told her hes been here too long. And then manipulated us into apologizing to her,

i am kicking myself for that.
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Did you or this sarah saint ever tell Carla that it was annoying that he boyfriend was there, or do you guys not communicate and choose to be silently annoyed until escalation?


both, we communicated it when he was here for too long the first time, 3 weeks he was back again later, we let him stay for 2 months without saying anything, which was our fuckup
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If your gonna live with roommates a roommate agreement is vital. This way you can collectively decide specifics. Including laying out how long a period someone can have guests stay with them. And penalties if the guest stays longer like increased rent and utilities.

As for the text, those things can easily be faked, photoshopped and what not. Cue the landlord in on the drama between the 2 and let him know your friend has only nice things to say about them and you suspect it is a fake.

Make sure landlord is aware about the chick who has basically had her bf move in without informing them or you guys the roommates. Landlord will naturally not like the idea of additional wear and tear to their property by a non tenant.
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Also nothing you can do to Carla worse than she is doing to herself. Her bf sounds like major moocher vibes staying with her for free and creating a huge rift and strife amongst the roommates putting her living situation increasingly at risk.

I’ve had horrible housemates/landlords before and the best thing to do is move on with grace and extricate yourself from the situation. Giving your energy and time into ‘ruining’ someone just further brings the vibe down. And it’s karma aka their own shitty selves that will destroy them, not you.

I have examples of this if your bored enough to hear.