
twinkletoes
@twinkletoes
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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.

Posted by exoskeleton_
perhaps get over yourself and need for attention, and just be kind and honest.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Get some therapy

Posted by Ixi
Therapy is a good start. Specifically in this case Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in which your therapist using a scientific methodology helps you to challenge and change unhelpful cognitive (thinking) distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation (ability to hold your shit together with some grace and class), and the development of personal coping strategies (Learn and develop the skill on how to deal with your "dark" side).
If you're not ready to take that leap then self-education is a decent starting point as well.
Attachment Theory, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Codependency, And Healthful Communication are the data points I would focus on first.

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by MyStarsShine
Get some therapy
i don't think i need therapy... i need like drugs or something. or i need people around me to be less demanding i think...click to expand

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.click to expand


Posted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.click to expand


Posted by twinkletoesPosted by MyStarsShine
Get some therapy
i don't think i need therapy... i need like drugs or something. or i need people around me to be less demanding i think...click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptune
Their casting for 90 day fiancĆ©. Perhaps thereās a woman out there in need of a citizenship that will marry you and put up with your bs... youāll have 3 years guaranteed.

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?click to expand

Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptune
Their casting for 90 day fiancĆ©. Perhaps thereās a woman out there in need of a citizenship that will marry you and put up with your bs... youāll have 3 years guaranteed.
Lol.The dude sounds like a loser. I don't think a woman wanting citizenship could deal with his major deficiencies.click to expand

Posted by PeakSoy
I look at you; I donāt see an intelligent, confident man; I see a coqy, scared sheetless poster. But youāre a dickhead, Twinkletoes. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand the depths of your arsehole. Youāre a dickhead right? Do you think Iād know the first thing about how hard your life has been, how you feel, who you are because I read your thread? Does that encapsulate you? Personally, I donāt give a sheet about all that, because you know what? I canāt learn anything from you I canāt read in some treetrunkinā thread. Unless you wanna talk about you, who you are. And Iām fascinated. Iām in. But you donāt wanna do that, do you, sport? Youāre terrified of what you might say. Your move, chief.

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptune
Their casting for 90 day fiancĆ©. Perhaps thereās a woman out there in need of a citizenship that will marry you and put up with your bs... youāll have 3 years guaranteed.
Lol.The dude sounds like a loser. I don't think a woman wanting citizenship could deal with his major deficiencies.
Depends how desperate they are to flee their current situation. Worth a shot šclick to expand



Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptune
Their casting for 90 day fiancĆ©. Perhaps thereās a woman out there in need of a citizenship that will marry you and put up with your bs... youāll have 3 years guaranteed.
Lol.The dude sounds like a loser. I don't think a woman wanting citizenship could deal with his major deficiencies.
Depends how desperate they are to flee their current situation. Worth a shot š
Hard to imagine being tied to a mate like that for 3 yrs but hey I guess grass can actually be greener. š¤click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.
Yes I get that
Iām guessing he has Aries moon or mars maybe?click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.
Yes I get that
Iām guessing he has Aries moon or mars maybe?
Yeah he do strike me as an Aries moon and Mars. Not or but and. Both. Aries do have that fiery temper which he gotš I glad I ain got no Aries in none of my personal planets. I would've been in jail by now. I do like to know what his sun sign is at least. I don't even know that.click to expand

Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta
Give an example of your dickheadry. I'm curious how bad it is.


Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.
Yes I get that
Iām guessing he has Aries moon or mars maybe?
Yeah he do strike me as an Aries moon and Mars. Not or but and. Both. Aries do have that fiery temper which he gotš I glad I ain got no Aries in none of my personal planets. I would've been in jail by now. I do like to know what his sun sign is at least. I don't even know that.
I vote Aries moon! š
My Aries rising knows how to break up fights...Iāve jumped straight in at times and spoke out when others didnāt lolclick to expand

Posted by BlueStarPosted by brianafayPosted by PeakSoy
I look at you; I donāt see an intelligent, confident man; I see a coqy, scared sheetless poster. But youāre a dickhead, Twinkletoes. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand the depths of your arsehole. Youāre a dickhead right? Do you think Iād know the first thing about how hard your life has been, how you feel, who you are because I read your thread? Does that encapsulate you? Personally, I donāt give a sheet about all that, because you know what? I canāt learn anything from you I canāt read in some treetrunkinā thread. Unless you wanna talk about you, who you are. And Iām fascinated. Iām in. But you donāt wanna do that, do you, sport? Youāre terrified of what you might say. Your move, chief.
This
I also see a frightened person who uses ābeing an assholeā as a defense mechanism. It is much more comfortable for you to express anger than sadness. It makes you feel safer and more in control of your emotions.
I learned this in counseling myself tbh
I have a hard time being vulnerable as well and like to appear like I have my shit together at all times.
Itās something you need to recognize about yourself so you stop doing it. Itās ok to say youāre scared of having your feelings hurt. Itās also ok to have your feelings hurt. You wonāt die.
Heās quoting a movie.click to expand

Posted by PeakSoyPosted by brianafayPosted by BlueStarPosted by brianafayPosted by PeakSoy
I look at you; I donāt see an intelligent, confident man; I see a coqy, scared sheetless poster. But youāre a dickhead, Twinkletoes. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand the depths of your arsehole. Youāre a dickhead right? Do you think Iād know the first thing about how hard your life has been, how you feel, who you are because I read your thread? Does that encapsulate you? Personally, I donāt give a sheet about all that, because you know what? I canāt learn anything from you I canāt read in some treetrunkinā thread. Unless you wanna talk about you, who you are. And Iām fascinated. Iām in. But you donāt wanna do that, do you, sport? Youāre terrified of what you might say. Your move, chief.
This
I also see a frightened person who uses ābeing an assholeā as a defense mechanism. It is much more comfortable for you to express anger than sadness. It makes you feel safer and more in control of your emotions.
I learned this in counseling myself tbh
I have a hard time being vulnerable as well and like to appear like I have my shit together at all times.
Itās something you need to recognize about yourself so you stop doing it. Itās ok to say youāre scared of having your feelings hurt. Itās also ok to have your feelings hurt. You wonāt die.
Heās quoting a movie.
I know, heās very into that lately
But itās still true
Everyone on DXP just needs a hug from a hairy armed man of wisdom and be told...
Itās not your fault...click to expand

Posted by AntiphatesPosted by BlueStarPosted by Antiphates
Just get yourself a love crusader aka saviour syndrome women who needs someone they see as broken to feed their own ego.
The mutual exploitatin will either resolve itself in absolute harmony and balance or might motivate both sides enough to think about improving one or two things.
Or it ends somewhere in between where it's weirdly stable and thus like the majority of normal relationships.
Annnnnnd this is how people end up dead.
https://i.imgur.com/nSBGhuy.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by SeaLion
You just need to find a woman who is a bigger ass hole then you are.
It's like my sisters pet parakeet she had as a child. This bird killed like a bunch of males cause she was such a bitch and would beat the males up..got to the point we got one of those fake birds and she would beat that thing up too....then one day I got my own parakeet and he fought her back....didnt take her shit.....she fell in love and the two were inseparable until my babyboy died....she died a month later from a broken heart.


Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.
Yes I get that
Iām guessing he has Aries moon or mars maybe?
Yeah he do strike me as an Aries moon and Mars. Not or but and. Both. Aries do have that fiery temper which he gotš I glad I ain got no Aries in none of my personal planets. I would've been in jail by now. I do like to know what his sun sign is at least. I don't even know that.click to expand


Posted by twinkletoes
so, i'm still waiting for an answer, should i go with fake accounts or fake penis?


Posted by PulsyPosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
That is how teenagers think....
Can you put your chart up?
The op might be like me who likes to stay confidential which I wouldn't blame him if that's the case. Sometimes I regret ever posting my chart here knowing full well there's that creep dazed (your fellow scorpion) will save everybody's stuff to his hard drive and creates false threads on them. He and all the rest of my haters saves everything I posts. I don't feel comfy here nor safe.
Yes I get that
Iām guessing he has Aries moon or mars maybe?
Yeah he do strike me as an Aries moon and Mars. Not or but and. Both. Aries do have that fiery temper which he gotš I glad I ain got no Aries in none of my personal planets. I would've been in jail by now. I do like to know what his sun sign is at least. I don't even know that.
aries moon, sag rising
it's taurus.
i'm not posting my entire chart, but i will post those.
All the worst parts lolclick to expand


Posted by FactCheck
I'm proud of you for admitting you have a problem. However, you're not attracted to women who don't dish it back at you which means you dish it but cant take it. So theres no hope for you. I'm sorry. Goodbye.




Posted by twinkletoes
And i'm not sure if or what i should do about it.
it's been plaguing me my entire life, and i'm getting sick of it, but I can't help it.
It's like I'm meant to be a huge fucking ass hole.
I'm nice when i first meet you, and then i slowly evolve into this jerky man-child.
the typical proactive/aggressive women I do attempt to get close to, I usually wind up telling them shit that pisses them off.
i have been chased around the room with a carving knife before.
no lie, no exaggeration.
like "oh shit, I better get the fuck out of here"
i don't know why i do it, i think i just like to stir the pot.
and if a nice women does try to enter my life unwittingly, i usually just talk shit and hope they don't cry.
i'm too old to really start to give a fuck anymore, but it's getting fucking sad to be honest.
i typically wind up with one night stands because the women i do like, i tend to piss the fuck off.
are there any tips or tricks I can use to fool a woman long enough to marry me?? and then when they realize i'm really just a gigantic ass hole, she would be like "well, it's too late now, we're fuckin' married."
what kinds of things should i be flaunting? what kinds of things should I be hiding?
should i accidentally drop a couple of fake bank account statements by accident and be like "Oh! oops, look at that, my bank account is so heavy, it just dropped right there."
or maybe strap a giant dildo to the inside of my leg or something.
i'm beginning to doubt there are any women out there i am attracted to that have realistic expectations.

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.click to expand


Posted by EmhendoPosted by twinkletoesPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
This sounds like a problem that needs to be helped professionally.
it really doesn't.
I need to be a dickhead. and the rest of the world needs to toughen the fuck up and suck it the fuck up.
Aha.... This is what the fuck is wrong with people. This is true retardation and lack of self awareness.
People like this are the ones who don't like to smoke weed, because the world become to real for them once they are high. It takes them out of their crazy room, soft box, bubble space.
I bet you hate weed.
You think you're the only one whole thinks like this?
You think you are an original jerk? The biggest asshole of all asses?
Do you think you are the only guy that wakes up in the morning and say "I need to be an asshole"?
There are bigger assholes than just you, dude.
You just have not met your match yet.
You are not a special kind of jerk, or THEE asshole the world has been waiting for.
We have Gordon Ramsey. We don't want you.
Stop off that horse you so badly want to ride. You aren't the tall enough to be that high.
Just die alone. No woman is going to deal with it.
Like.... Why should they? Are you composting for your assholeness/bitchassness?
Do you have a house?
Do you have more than one car?
Do you have a trade/certificate/degree you can fall back on?
Are you able to financially set a woman free? If she lost her job, could you hold it down alone?
If not, then you worried about the wrong shit and need to get all the way the fuck out of there with this bullshit post and talking like you the best asshole the world has to offer.
Want a cookie?click to expand

Posted by Victorious
Not everyone should find a partner to pass on their genes you know. Maybe you're meant to die alone.
Think about it like this, if you aren't capable of controlling yourself with a woman how the fuck are you going to be around children?
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it's been plaguing me my entire life, and i'm getting sick of it, but I can't help it.
It's like I'm meant to be a huge fucking ass hole.
I'm nice when i first meet you, and then i slowly evolve into this jerky man-child.
the typical proactive/aggressive women I do attempt to get close to, I usually wind up telling them shit that pisses them off.
i have been chased around the room with a carving knife before.
no lie, no exaggeration.
like "oh shit, I better get the fuck out of here"
i don't know why i do it, i think i just like to stir the pot.
and if a nice women does try to enter my life unwittingly, i usually just talk shit and hope they don't cry.
i'm too old to really start to give a fuck anymore, but it's getting fucking sad to be honest.
i typically wind up with one night stands because the women i do like, i tend to piss the fuck off.
are there any tips or tricks I can use to fool a woman long enough to marry me?? and then when they realize i'm really just a gigantic ass hole, she would be like "well, it's too late now, we're fuckin' married."
what kinds of things should i be flaunting? what kinds of things should I be hiding?
should i accidentally drop a couple of fake bank account statements by accident and be like "Oh! oops, look at that, my bank account is so heavy, it just dropped right there."
or maybe strap a giant dildo to the inside of my leg or something.
i'm beginning to doubt there are any women out there i am attracted to that have realistic expectations.