
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕




Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Darnit. One day I'll notice when a thread is in the man cave before I comment. One day.

Posted by HareI've had to bar the windows to my house and car......It's crazy....grab,grab,grab
It's a damn epidemic!
Jesus I can't even walk across the street to Shitty Wok to pick up lunch without being run down by men falling all over each other in a rush to grab random titties.

Posted by Hare
There was a blonde jogging on break....man she was hot with curves to die for. I just could not control myself and needed to give that spandex clad turdcutter a good slap on her way past me.

Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
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13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutas strange as this may sound, I don't do this. not even when I get to know a woman. I don't have the balls to touch nobody. too shy fo that shit. I might greet them with a kiss to the back of the hand and nothing further than that. but I would never keep touching them while conversing. I tend to notice with me its usually the other way around they touches me if anything. I may laugh along with them and act all cool joe and shit but deep down I be like "the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕


Posted by HareSad world when offence is a convenience.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesLots of things in this world are wrong.Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
Sounds like another episode of the Maury show![]()
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
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Posted by HareMy feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIndeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.Posted by HareSad world when offence is a convenience.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesLots of things in this world are wrong.Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
Sounds like another episode of the Maury show![]()
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
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Posted by HareYes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesBut the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.Posted by HareMy feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIndeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.Posted by HareSad world when offence is a convenience.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesLots of things in this world are wrong.Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
Sounds like another episode of the Maury show![]()
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
You're not offended by that?
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutHave you left the nest yet? Lol
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕

Posted by aquarius_beautyMother nature? 😕
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.
Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.

Posted by TheGreatSearcherI find it impolite too, especially when they don't even ask and just assume the girl would like that. =.=
Those are the perverts or macho males.
I'm a slightly more delicate guy and I would never do that, because I consider it impolite and sexist.

Posted by SeraphlightThat really sucks =.=Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
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Posted by HarukkaBeast? 😕
Because they are an animal -_-

Posted by P6X58DEI have seen women just as thirsty, which kinda shocks me... Do you think that's maybe why some guys think all women are as thirsty because they have met really thirsty women?Posted by aquarius_beautyI agree with this except the part where i need to spread the love seed.. sounds disgusting... i want 1 lady only...
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.
Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.
And LOL females can be just as damn thirsty, don't pull that card women.
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Posted by tizianiThat is true after reading again. My mistake.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by HareYes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesBut the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.Posted by HareMy feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIndeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.Posted by HareSad world when offence is a convenience.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesLots of things in this world are wrong.Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
Sounds like another episode of the Maury show![]()
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
You're not offended by that?
My point... I normally find your humour very funny. That was not.
The OP states including meeting for the first time.
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Posted by TheGreatSearcherWhat kind of tampons do you use?
Those are the perverts or macho males.
I'm a slightly more delicate guy and I would never do that, because I consider it impolite and sexist.

Posted by VirgoGentI remember your story of getting with a girl who's engaged... 😄
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Posted by tizianiI don't disagree with your guys reaction at all. I just don't think posting a pic of some random young girl and making reference to being abused by family (or strangers) funny. 🙂Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI pointed it out since I had pretty much the same reaction as Rabbit, reading this thread.Posted by tizianiThat is true after reading again. My mistake.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by HareYes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesBut the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.Posted by HareMy feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIndeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.Posted by HareSad world when offence is a convenience.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesLots of things in this world are wrong.Posted by HareThat's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.Posted by KoniuchaaToday on Maury
Sounds like another episode of the Maury show![]()
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
You're not offended by that?
My point... I normally find your humour very funny. That was not.
The OP states including meeting for the first time.
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Posted by PootyButtSome people I met off internet... =.=
Is this someone you're dating? If not, he shouldn't be just groping you. That's not normal. Unless you're 7, in which case it's normal but bad, and you should tell the teacher on him.

Posted by P6X58DEDo you mean I should start to practice martial arts?Posted by whatisthisallaboutGrow some theoretical balls and launch the bastard through the theoretical window..
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.
It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls

Posted by Neno2Glad that you like women but you can see that nothing should be forced.Posted by whatisthisallaboutto touch or kiss her would be awkward when meeting first time?
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
i actually like every girl?i adore women but ofc i dont try to kiss or touch her,nothing should be forcedclick to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutIf it's attention from someone unwanted from either side I agree. But if mutual like.. girls should be comfortable enough to not let the guy do all the workPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.
It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girlsclick to expand


Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.

Posted by Hareare you a rapist? 😕
There was a blonde jogging on break....man she was hot with curves to die for. I just could not control myself and needed to give that spandex clad turdcutter a good slap on her way past me.

Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by PanelaThis is exactly what'd be on my mind. I think I should charge people for "petting" me? 😕Posted by whatisthisallabout"the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
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Posted by PanelaAlso, these women may see you as a challenge... I have seen my friends go after really shy guys and try to say really dirty things to them to make them blush and all that.Posted by whatisthisallaboutas strange as this may sound, I don't do this. not even when I get to know a woman. I don't have the balls to touch nobody. too shy fo that shit. I might greet them with a kiss to the back of the hand and nothing further than that. but I would never keep touching them while conversing. I tend to notice with me its usually the other way around they touches me if anything. I may laugh along with them and act all cool joe and shit but deep down I be like "the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
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Posted by KoniuchaaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bologna

Posted by PootyButtwell, if the president is doing it, you shouldn't be surprised that men in this country self-identify with him and his behaviors.
Are we being trolled? Has this all been an elaborate ploy to get someone to bring up the president and pussy-grabbing?

Posted by poison_ivyThat just makes this world 10x less safe =.=
meh... I think it's not just a guy thing... Women are like this also..

Posted by GrandeHave you never been grabbed by strangers?Posted by whatisthisallaboutHave you left the nest yet? Lol
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕click to expand

Posted by CanthalTiltStay away from my grandma!!
Just reading the 1st post got me horny

Posted by Koniuchaawell, you are lucky then.Posted by whatisthisallaboutnoPosted by KoniuchaaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaclick to expand

Posted by ParisianCappyWell, say thank you to your parents for me.Posted by whatisthisallabouti have manner, dafuk
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕click to expand

Posted by tizianiHow if they women begin to touch you? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutWe don't feel flattered. It's just something that happens. Most women are flirting just to make an impression on other women and it's not something a man is going to take personally as if it has anything to do with him.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.
It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girlsclick to expand

Posted by Koniuchaa😆Posted by SeraphlightYou think it should be normal to get grabbed by strangers?Posted by whatisthisallaboutI think it SHOULD be considered normal. We shouldn't have to get lucky to avoid being grabbed.Posted by Koniuchaawell, you are lucky then.Posted by whatisthisallaboutnoPosted by KoniuchaaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaclick to expand

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI think guys should not do all the work, but instead, they should make sure it is "mutual" before they touch a girl.Posted by whatisthisallaboutIf it's attention from someone unwanted from either side I agree. But if mutual like.. girls should be comfortable enough to not let the guy do all the workPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.
It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
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Posted by SeasonThanks. I just felt it was not very respectful of them =.=
I've always attributed it to his hormones and don't lose any sleep over it.
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Posted by PootyButtI was grabbed by random old disgusting dudes in public transportation multiple times (e.g. train, bus, etc.) when I was in middle school and high school. I think since then I just really hate it when people touch me withotu permission, even if it is a guy my age.Posted by whatisthisallaboutWhen I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.click to expand

Posted by PootyButtI feel my current situation is more that people just make excuses to touch me without permission =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutWhen I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.click to expand

Posted by PootyButtThose are the creepiest situations, but I was also almost rapped by my next door neighbor. He invited me over for tea on a Sunday late morning. I went over and after we talked for like 5 minutes, he just forced himself on me and began to rip off my clothes. And now people I met online would just touch me and kiss me even when I turn my head away and tell them I am not comfortable. =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutI was also grabbed on public transportation more than once. And I had that high school experience I mentioned. It's not a nonexistent problem, but you've presented as if all guys do this. The problem isn't that all guys do this. The problem is that some you're around do.Posted by PootyButtI was grabbed by random old disgusting dudes in public transportation multiple times (e.g. train, bus, etc.) when I was in middle school and high school. I think since then I just really hate it when people touch me withotu permission, even if it is a guy my age.Posted by whatisthisallaboutWhen I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.click to expand

Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis is exactly what I am talking about. I was really polite with the guy, but he just didn't quit until I got really angry and began to say things that were not polite anymore...Posted by whatisthisallaboutIdiot. Just wanted to push the envelope. Those are the same dudes I feel like that stand in the back corners of bars waiting for some poor drunk girl to be abandoned by her friends.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
I had some sauced guy at a bar come up behind me and ask for a dance. I said no thank you. He kept badgering. I said 'look. I'm not going to dance with you.' Then he tried to grab my waist and I shoved him away before he got his hand on me and started yelling 'Why the hell do you think it's ok to touch me when I have both politely and rudely rejected you. Are you that drunk or that stupid?' At which point everyone started looking so he scurried away.
When all else fails being a loud borderline crazy bitch makes them go away. It is sad that sometimes women have to resort to such behavior though still in this day and age.click to expand
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