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Why are guys so horny/impulsive? (Page 2)
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Posted by Koniuchaa
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
no
well, you are lucky then.
I think it SHOULD be considered normal. We shouldn't have to get lucky to avoid being grabbed.
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I know. and it shocked me that she thought it was not possible to be real.
Posted by Seraphlight
Trust me I don't think a guy would feel flattered if a girl who wasn't his gf pinched his bum or something. He would feel ....bad...hurt...made less of...
I hope so 😆
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
When I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.
I feel my current situation is more that people just make excuses to touch me without permission =.=
I told the person that if he's an adult, he should understand that when a girl tells him she is not comfortable with something, he shouldn't do it. He's not 5 and he shouldn't need people to scream at him saying don't do this don't do that. but obviously, he prefers to be treated as if he was 5 and couldn't reason. I still feel angry about the situation...
As you should. Tell him to stay the fuck away from you.
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I did. Thank God.
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
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They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
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Maybe all this time I have lived in the zoo 😱
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
Maybe all this time I have lived in the zoo 😱
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
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This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
Maybe all this time I have lived in the zoo 😱
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
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This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
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Yea, that makes sense 😆
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
Maybe all this time I have lived in the zoo 😱
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
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This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
They also lie all the time. It's all talk most of the time. I've met too many people who brag about getting hit on then, when the moment of truth comes and a woman is really forward with them from the beginning, they run.
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Sounds like you've got a good story? 😄
Ok, another side of the coin...
I'm out one-night shooting pool. This woman who was clearly older, idk maybe she was my age but looked aged... Anyway, the cook (guy) from the bar was shooting pool and this woman kept grabbing his junk while he was taking his shot. She would giggle and say how drunk she was... The guy kept asking her to stop. He finally looked at her and point blank said, "Stop grabbing my cock"... She tried to pull off that she was drunk...
I felt bad for this guy.
The point is...
Liberties are taken from both sides. Aggressiveness isn't exclusive to one sex. Respect is simply that. Respect.
I'd raise holy hell if some guy was doing that to me and he had every right to himself. Even though he did it in perhaps a more diplomatic way.
I would not have done the same.
Posted by tiziani
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled."Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
It is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
They may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)
Maybe all this time I have lived in the zoo 😱
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
??
This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
They also lie all the time. It's all talk most of the time. I've met too many people who brag about getting hit on then, when the moment of truth comes and a woman is really forward with them from the beginning, they run.
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This is so true too yeah.Also they don't ever accept or let anyone know the fact that they've been rejected. These guys just go to other people n say that the girl has only asked for more time.Never did anyone tell that they've been rejected.N more laughable thing is, two guys telling eachother the same thing n then calling the girl bitch when they both actually know what's the truth! Yeah...been there!! 😄
Posted by Walkergrl
Ok, another side of the coin...I'm out one-night shooting pool. This woman who was clearly older, idk maybe she was my age but looked aged... Anyway, the cook (guy) from the bar was shooting pool and this woman kept grabbing his junk while he was taking his shot. She would giggle and say how drunk she was... The guy kept asking her to stop. He finally looked at her and point blank said, "Stop grabbing my cock"... She tried to pull off that she was drunk...
I felt bad for this guy.
The point is...
Liberties are taken from both sides. Aggressiveness isn't exclusive to one sex. Respect is simply that. Respect.
I'd raise holy hell if some guy was doing that to me and he had every right to himself. Even though he did it in perhaps a more diplomatic way.
I would not have done the same.
Thanks for sharing. I would feel bad for the guy too =.=
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
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Never seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?
Posted by poison_ivy
meh... I think it's not just a guy thing... Women are like this also..That just makes this world 10x less safe =.=
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It does.. but I hate when ppl bash guys like they are the only ones.. some woman cheat, & only want sex, or are touchy feely.. etc JUST LIKE SOME MEN.. women are just better at getting away with it because to society the men are always the cheaters and sexual beast... Some ppl (male & female) are just comfortable with their sexuality.. IMO.. & they go for WHAT they WANT! & if it's sex.. hey WHY NOT grab his D to let him know you want him.. lol.. If he turns it down back off.. LOL!.. IJS
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
Never seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?
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Just wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
I am watching 'Cosmos' on Netflix and this guy says 'Space time' in the best way. 😆
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
I feel most men aren't like this. Its sucks there are a few men out there that give us all a bad rep, but the guys going for cute girls with no fear normally end up with a keeper. Or in jail.
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
Never seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?
Just wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.
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Im 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...
Cause they've got dicks instead of brains
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
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Not everyone is like that...
Depends on where you hang out. Lol ?
Girls often want and like that attention and compete over it.
PM
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
I guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
I HAVE been at the club where a man will come up and "touch me" and I'll inform him, "Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!". I guess it's the persona a woman gives off. I can stand my own ground and that means being verbally opinionated if you invade my "space". I've had guys come up to me while at the club and they POKE me on my arm and ask me to dance. I will POKE them right back at their arm and say, "No thank you!". He'll go to the woman next to me and guess what?! She will JUMP from her seat to dance with him! RUDE, CRUDE, DUDE! 😡
🤗 Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Noni05
Some don't have a brain so all they want is sex !!! No depth
haha, that explains
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕I feel most men aren't like this. Its sucks there are a few men out there that give us all a bad rep, but the guys going for cute girls with no fear normally end up with a keeper. Or in jail.
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or maybe they just got out of the jail and need their fix ? 😄
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
Never seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?
Just wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.
Im 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...
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well, you don't go out much at all =.=
are you expecting women to break in to your house and jump on you? 😄
Posted by aquarius_beauty
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.
There's your answer OP, coming from a female too. You got both sides agreeing
Case closed judge Judy style
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😕
Posted by pisceanloves
Cause they've got dicks instead of brains
😱
Posted by lady_chatterley
hormones and lack of will power, some women are guilty of this too!
this is true. i have seen that, which can be scarier...
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
Not everyone is like that...
Depends on where you hang out. Lol ?
Girls often want and like that attention and compete over it.
PM
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not attention from pervs =.=
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕I guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
I HAVE been at the club where a man will come up and "touch me" and I'll inform him, "Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!". I guess it's the persona a woman gives off. I can stand my own ground and that means being verbally opinionated if you invade my "space". I've had guys come up to me while at the club and they POKE me on my arm and ask me to dance. I will POKE them right back at their arm and say, "No thank you!". He'll go to the woman next to me and guess what?! She will JUMP from her seat to dance with him! RUDE, CRUDE, DUDE! 😡
🤗 Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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"Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!" HAHA I am so gonna steal your line and make them pay for it 😆
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
Never seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?
Just wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.
Im 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...
well, you don't go out much at all =.=
are you expecting women to break in to your house and jump on you? 😄
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Dont mock me, when l've explained the cause of my isolation, actually, it's really obvious that you're a lousy cop'
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕I guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
I HAVE been at the club where a man will come up and "touch me" and I'll inform him, "Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!". I guess it's the persona a woman gives off. I can stand my own ground and that means being verbally opinionated if you invade my "space". I've had guys come up to me while at the club and they POKE me on my arm and ask me to dance. I will POKE them right back at their arm and say, "No thank you!". He'll go to the woman next to me and guess what?! She will JUMP from her seat to dance with him! RUDE, CRUDE, DUDE! 😡
🤗 Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
"Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!" HAHA I am so gonna steal your line and make them pay for it 😆
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LOL, silly! 😆 Happy Valentine's day!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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What's sad is that sort of things do happen =.=