
What's sad is that sort of things do happen =.=


Posted by SeraphlightI know. and it shocked me that she thought it was not possible to be real.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI think it SHOULD be considered normal. We shouldn't have to get lucky to avoid being grabbed.Posted by Koniuchaawell, you are lucky then.Posted by whatisthisallaboutnoPosted by KoniuchaaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaclick to expand

Posted by SeraphlightI hope so π
Trust me I don't think a guy would feel flattered if a girl who wasn't his gf pinched his bum or something. He would feel ....bad...hurt...made less of...

Posted by PootyButtI did. Thank God.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by PootyButtI feel my current situation is more that people just make excuses to touch me without permission =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutWhen I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyThis dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.
I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.
I told the person that if he's an adult, he should understand that when a girl tells him she is not comfortable with something, he shouldn't do it. He's not 5 and he shouldn't need people to scream at him saying don't do this don't do that. but obviously, he prefers to be treated as if he was 5 and couldn't reason. I still feel angry about the situation...
As you should. Tell him to stay the fuck away from you.
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Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.

Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
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Posted by TeenaMaybe all this time I have lived in the zoo π±Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallabout??Posted by TeenaMaybe all this time I have lived in the zoo π±Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
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Posted by TeenaYea, that makes sense πPosted by whatisthisallabout??Posted by TeenaMaybe all this time I have lived in the zoo π±Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
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Posted by tizianiSounds like you've got a good story? πPosted by TeenaThey also lie all the time. It's all talk most of the time. I've met too many people who brag about getting hit on then, when the moment of truth comes and a woman is really forward with them from the beginning, they run.Posted by whatisthisallabout??Posted by TeenaMaybe all this time I have lived in the zoo π±Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
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Posted by tizianiβPosted by TeenaThey also lie all the time. It's all talk most of the time. I've met too many people who brag about getting hit on then, when the moment of truth comes and a woman is really forward with them from the beginning, they run.Posted by whatisthisallabout??Posted by TeenaMaybe all this time I have lived in the zoo π±Posted by whatisthisallaboutThey may not complain. But they most definitely won't consider the girl to be worthy enough to keep around you know. I didn't see guys respecting these girls honestly..(not talking about hitting on them part..but making physical advances too soon..not many guys like it really)Posted by tizianiIt is in response to the poster who said that she flirts with guys herself. I would like to believe that the guys she flrits with feel flattered? I have not seen men on here or anywhere complaining about girls hitting on them... so far.
And, to be real, you're talking as if you're sexually entitled.
"Most men are going to feel flattered that a woman flirts with him"?
That's a view that's going to keep attracting the wrong people into your life.
Those monsters actually brag about it when girls throw themselves at them =.=
This I totally agree with. Many guys brag about being hit on or whatever. But they'd only at the most bang these girls n leave. They really don't hold respect for them(atleast from what I saw) . That's one other reason for talking about it openly too.
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Posted by WalkergrlThanks for sharing. I would feel bad for the guy too =.=
Ok, another side of the coin...
I'm out one-night shooting pool. This woman who was clearly older, idk maybe she was my age but looked aged... Anyway, the cook (guy) from the bar was shooting pool and this woman kept grabbing his junk while he was taking his shot. She would giggle and say how drunk she was... The guy kept asking her to stop. He finally looked at her and point blank said, "Stop grabbing my cock"... She tried to pull off that she was drunk...
I felt bad for this guy.
The point is...
Liberties are taken from both sides. Aggressiveness isn't exclusive to one sex. Respect is simply that. Respect.
I'd raise holy hell if some guy was doing that to me and he had every right to himself. Even though he did it in perhaps a more diplomatic way.
I would not have done the same.

Posted by whatisthisallaboutNever seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutIt does.. but I hate when ppl bash guys like they are the only ones.. some woman cheat, & only want sex, or are touchy feely.. etc JUST LIKE SOME MEN.. women are just better at getting away with it because to society the men are always the cheaters and sexual beast... Some ppl (male & female) are just comfortable with their sexuality.. IMO.. & they go for WHAT they WANT! & if it's sex.. hey WHY NOT grab his D to let him know you want him.. lol.. If he turns it down back off.. LOL!.. IJSPosted by poison_ivyThat just makes this world 10x less safe =.=
meh... I think it's not just a guy thing... Women are like this also..click to expand

Posted by bricklemarkJust wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNever seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by VirgoGentI am watching 'Cosmos' on Netflix and this guy says 'Space time' in the best way. π
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutI feel most men aren't like this. Its sucks there are a few men out there that give us all a bad rep, but the guys going for cute girls with no fear normally end up with a keeper. Or in jail.
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π

Posted by whatisthisallaboutIm 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...Posted by bricklemarkJust wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNever seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by SeraphlightNot everyone is like that...Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π
They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutI guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π

Posted by Noni05haha, that explains
Some don't have a brain so all they want is sex !!! No depth

Posted by Soulor maybe they just got out of the jail and need their fix ? πPosted by whatisthisallaboutI feel most men aren't like this. Its sucks there are a few men out there that give us all a bad rep, but the guys going for cute girls with no fear normally end up with a keeper. Or in jail.
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π
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Posted by bricklemarkwell, you don't go out much at all =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutIm 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...Posted by bricklemarkJust wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNever seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
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Posted by bumboklattπPosted by aquarius_beautyThere's your answer OP, coming from a female too. You got both sides agreeing
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.
Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.
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Posted by pisceanlovesπ±
Cause they've got dicks instead of brains

Posted by lady_chatterleythis is true. i have seen that, which can be scarier...
hormones and lack of will power, some women are guilty of this too!

Posted by piscesmoon2not attention from pervs =.=Posted by SeraphlightNot everyone is like that...Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π
They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
Depends on where you hang out. Lol ?
Girls often want and like that attention and compete over it.
PM
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Posted by EvatheDiva"Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!" HAHA I am so gonna steal your line and make them pay for it πPosted by whatisthisallaboutI guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π
I HAVE been at the club where a man will come up and "touch me" and I'll inform him, "Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!". I guess it's the persona a woman gives off. I can stand my own ground and that means being verbally opinionated if you invade my "space". I've had guys come up to me while at the club and they POKE me on my arm and ask me to dance. I will POKE them right back at their arm and say, "No thank you!". He'll go to the woman next to me and guess what?! She will JUMP from her seat to dance with him! RUDE, CRUDE, DUDE! π‘
π€ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutDont mock me, when l've explained the cause of my isolation, actually, it's really obvious that you're a lousy cop'Posted by bricklemarkwell, you don't go out much at all =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutIm 39...still nuthin. Well l dont go out much at all...too many cops and harassment...Posted by bricklemarkJust wait until you are in your 30s or 40s. that's when women become Really Aggressive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNever seen it happen. Women only reject. I would have thought l'd have lots of sex in my life ?Posted by bricklemarkSome women do, but it is still beyond me.Posted by SeraphlightI can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?Posted by VirgoGentExactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol![]()
are you expecting women to break in to your house and jump on you? πclick to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL, silly! π Happy Valentine's day!Posted by EvatheDiva"Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!" HAHA I am so gonna steal your line and make them pay for it πPosted by whatisthisallaboutI guess it's a man seeing a woman as a piece of meat, "the lamb", and/or easy target. I don't know where you've experienced this, but I am a strong independent woman and no man has tried to "grope" me when we first meet.
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? π
I HAVE been at the club where a man will come up and "touch me" and I'll inform him, "Hey! Don't touch the merchandise!". I guess it's the persona a woman gives off. I can stand my own ground and that means being verbally opinionated if you invade my "space". I've had guys come up to me while at the club and they POKE me on my arm and ask me to dance. I will POKE them right back at their arm and say, "No thank you!". He'll go to the woman next to me and guess what?! She will JUMP from her seat to dance with him! RUDE, CRUDE, DUDE! π‘
π€ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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