@whatisthisallabout
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Why are guys so horny/impulsive?
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Those are the perverts or macho males.
I'm a slightly more delicate guy and I would never do that, because I consider it impolite and sexist.
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.
It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Darnit. One day I'll notice when a thread is in the man cave before I comment. One day.
Oops. I didn't either. #musculinelibra ?
Posted by Hare
It's a damn epidemic!Jesus I can't even walk across the street to Shitty Wok to pick up lunch without being run down by men falling all over each other in a rush to grab random titties.
I've had to bar the windows to my house and car......It's crazy....grab,grab,grab
Posted by Hare
There was a blonde jogging on break....man she was hot with curves to die for. I just could not control myself and needed to give that spandex clad turdcutter a good slap on her way past me.
Don't forget to grab her boobs next time
Two hands!
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
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I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
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That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
as strange as this may sound, I don't do this. not even when I get to know a woman. I don't have the balls to touch nobody. too shy fo that shit. I might greet them with a kiss to the back of the hand and nothing further than that. but I would never keep touching them while conversing. I tend to notice with me its usually the other way around they touches me if anything. I may laugh along with them and act all cool joe and shit but deep down I be like "the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
meh... I think it's not just a guy thing... Women are like this also..
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Lots of things in this world are wrong.
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
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Sad world when offence is a convenience.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Lots of things in this world are wrong.
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
Sad world when offence is a convenience.
Indeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
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My feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Lots of things in this world are wrong.
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
Sad world when offence is a convenience.
Indeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
My feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.
But the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.
You're not offended by that?
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Yes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.
My point... I normally find your humour very funny. That was not.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕
Have you left the nest yet? Lol
Posted by aquarius_beauty
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.
Mother nature? 😕
That's an interesting way to put it.
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Those are the perverts or macho males.I'm a slightly more delicate guy and I would never do that, because I consider it impolite and sexist.
I find it impolite too, especially when they don't even ask and just assume the girl would like that. =.=
I didn't think of it as sexist at first, but I guess you are right.. its just like Trump thinks it's ok to just grab pussies without consent.
I am glad you are not like that.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕They can. Society gives them a pass because guess what ...society is run by men.
It's bogus they can't. It's an excuse.
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That really sucks =.=
Because they are an animal -_-
Beast? 😕
Posted by aquarius_beauty
It's called mother nature. Men were created to spread the love seed, women to pro-create more men to spread more love seed. It's a never-ending cycle.Who came first? The chicken or the egg?
If you're religious then the answer would be the egg.
I agree with this except the part where i need to spread the love seed.. sounds disgusting... i want 1 lady only...
And LOL females can be just as damn thirsty, don't pull that card women.
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I have seen women just as thirsty, which kinda shocks me... Do you think that's maybe why some guys think all women are as thirsty because they have met really thirsty women?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Lots of things in this world are wrong.
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
Sad world when offence is a convenience.
Indeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
My feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.
But the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.
You're not offended by that?
Yes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.
My point... I normally find your humour very funny. That was not.
The OP states including meeting for the first time.
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That is true after reading again. My mistake.
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Those are the perverts or macho males.I'm a slightly more delicate guy and I would never do that, because I consider it impolite and sexist.
What kind of tampons do you use?
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
I remember your story of getting with a girl who's engaged... 😄
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like another episode of the Maury showToday on Maury
13 year old Sierra says her 25 and 27 year old uncles won't stop groping her
That's just wrong. There are people in this world who do get abused. Not something to joke over.
Lots of things in this world are wrong.
It's just a matter of what is convenient to you on any particular day to be offended by.
Sad world when offence is a convenience.
Indeed. Kind of like people getting their feelings hurt by things on the internet but ignoring the fact the phone/device they are using was built by Chinese child labor with materials mined by slave labor in Africa.
One is convenient to be offended by...
The other isn't.
My feels aren't hurt. But I also don't make jokes about matters that could cause offence. Especially kids being abused. I'm African.. seen more suffering than you have probably only read about. Still not going to joke about it.
But the premise of this thread is that men generally commit sexual assault.
You're not offended by that?
Yes. I was offended by the statement....But OP did not clearly state random strangers. My assumption and conclusion was this is between people who know one another to some extent. Otherwise why not explicitly and clearly use the word assault.
My point... I normally find your humour very funny. That was not.
The OP states including meeting for the first time.
That is true after reading again. My mistake.
I pointed it out since I had pretty much the same reaction as Rabbit, reading this thread.
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I don't disagree with your guys reaction at all. I just don't think posting a pic of some random young girl and making reference to being abused by family (or strangers) funny. 🙂
Ffs. Keeps double posting.
Posted by PootyButt
Is this someone you're dating? If not, he shouldn't be just groping you. That's not normal. Unless you're 7, in which case it's normal but bad, and you should tell the teacher on him.
Some people I met off internet... =.=
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕Grow some theoretical balls and launch the bastard through the theoretical window..
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Do you mean I should start to practice martial arts?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
I think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕to touch or kiss her would be awkward when meeting first time?
i actually like every girl?i adore women but ofc i dont try to kiss or touch her,nothing should be forced
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Glad that you like women but you can see that nothing should be forced.
I was really mad because this guy I told him I didn't feel comfortable with him trying to kiss me and he said the problem was that I didn't communicate...
What is unclear with "I am not comfortable with you kissing me"? =.=
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
I think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
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If it's attention from someone unwanted from either side I agree. But if mutual like.. girls should be comfortable enough to not let the guy do all the work
I've always attributed it to his hormones and don't lose any sleep over it.
🙂
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Posted by Hare
There was a blonde jogging on break....man she was hot with curves to die for. I just could not control myself and needed to give that spandex clad turdcutter a good slap on her way past me.
are you a rapist? 😕
Posted by VirgoGent
Gotta love the absolutes on this site. lol
Exactly. Most men don't HAVE to grope you. If a woman thinks they do ..she has been badly conditioned.
I can't wait till women have full power...and they grope US for a change ?
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Some women do, but it is still beyond me.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕"the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
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This is exactly what'd be on my mind. I think I should charge people for "petting" me? 😕
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕as strange as this may sound, I don't do this. not even when I get to know a woman. I don't have the balls to touch nobody. too shy fo that shit. I might greet them with a kiss to the back of the hand and nothing further than that. but I would never keep touching them while conversing. I tend to notice with me its usually the other way around they touches me if anything. I may laugh along with them and act all cool joe and shit but deep down I be like "the fuck this bitch gotta keep touching me for".
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Also, these women may see you as a challenge... I have seen my friends go after really shy guys and try to say really dirty things to them to make them blush and all that.
Posted by Koniuchaa
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bologna
Have you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
Posted by PootyButt
Are we being trolled? Has this all been an elaborate ploy to get someone to bring up the president and pussy-grabbing?
well, if the president is doing it, you shouldn't be surprised that men in this country self-identify with him and his behaviors.
Posted by poison_ivy
meh... I think it's not just a guy thing... Women are like this also..
That just makes this world 10x less safe =.=
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕Have you left the nest yet? Lol
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Have you never been grabbed by strangers?
Posted by CanthalTilt
Just reading the 1st post got me horny
Stay away from my grandma!!
Posted by Koniuchaa
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
no
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well, you are lucky then.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕i have manner, dafuk
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Well, say thank you to your parents for me.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
I think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
We don't feel flattered. It's just something that happens. Most women are flirting just to make an impression on other women and it's not something a man is going to take personally as if it has anything to do with him.
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How if they women begin to touch you? 😕
Posted by Koniuchaa
This is dumb. Is OP saying men just walk up to women on the street and start groping them? Obviously that is a load of bolognaHave you not been grabbed by some random dude? Inconceivable!
no
well, you are lucky then.
I think it SHOULD be considered normal. We shouldn't have to get lucky to avoid being grabbed.
You think it should be normal to get grabbed by strangers?
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😆
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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If the girl is keen on the guy as well... who cares.It's not like I haven't flirted with a guy I liked. And why should it always be guys who have to approach the girls
I think guys probably would feel flattered when you flirt with them, but it is really uncomfortable the other way around...
If it's attention from someone unwanted from either side I agree. But if mutual like.. girls should be comfortable enough to not let the guy do all the work
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I think guys should not do all the work, but instead, they should make sure it is "mutual" before they touch a girl.
Posted by Season
I've always attributed it to his hormones and don't lose any sleep over it.🙂
Thanks. I just felt it was not very respectful of them =.=
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
When I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.
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I was grabbed by random old disgusting dudes in public transportation multiple times (e.g. train, bus, etc.) when I was in middle school and high school. I think since then I just really hate it when people touch me withotu permission, even if it is a guy my age.
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
When I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.
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I feel my current situation is more that people just make excuses to touch me without permission =.=
I told the person that if he's an adult, he should understand that when a girl tells him she is not comfortable with something, he shouldn't do it. He's not 5 and he shouldn't need people to scream at him saying don't do this don't do that. but obviously, he prefers to be treated as if he was 5 and couldn't reason. I still feel angry about the situation...
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
When I was in high school I had a roving band of a jackasses who followed me around sexually harassing me. Sometimes that included actually grabbing my butt or my boobs. I should have told on them, but I was into that whole "no snitching" code and didn't.
Is this the kind of thing you mean? It's not normal behavior for most guys, not even teenage guys whose hormones are probably raging. At the time I had no clue what was happening, but in retrospect, the leader of the jackasses had a crush on me and wouldn't take no for an answer. So he and his buddies screwed with me in a fake-joking harassing way. If I had known then what I know now, I would know that ignoring it and trying to be cool wouldn't work. You have to have firm boundaries with a bully, which is what that was.
I was grabbed by random old disgusting dudes in public transportation multiple times (e.g. train, bus, etc.) when I was in middle school and high school. I think since then I just really hate it when people touch me withotu permission, even if it is a guy my age.
I was also grabbed on public transportation more than once. And I had that high school experience I mentioned. It's not a nonexistent problem, but you've presented as if all guys do this. The problem isn't that all guys do this. The problem is that some you're around do.
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Those are the creepiest situations, but I was also almost rapped by my next door neighbor. He invited me over for tea on a Sunday late morning. I went over and after we talked for like 5 minutes, he just forced himself on me and began to rip off my clothes. And now people I met online would just touch me and kiss me even when I turn my head away and tell them I am not comfortable. =.=
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Some dudes just try to get away with as much as possible. If they believe a woman will be shocked or complacent or thrown off guard they'll go in. I have friends that have this happen to them all. The. Time. But it rarely happens to me. The rare times it has I normally react a bit inappropriately as well so it doesn't happen again lol.I do get nervous for one day when it happens with a man in a position of authority over me. Just because that's been fairly common among my female friends still, especially in certain industries.
This is all in a non romantic capacity. When it comes to dating and flirting some people just have different tolerance levels for affection and how much at what rate.
This dude told me when I said I was not comfortable, he didn't think it meant a No. I consider him evil. =.=
Idiot. Just wanted to push the envelope. Those are the same dudes I feel like that stand in the back corners of bars waiting for some poor drunk girl to be abandoned by her friends.
I had some sauced guy at a bar come up behind me and ask for a dance. I said no thank you. He kept badgering. I said 'look. I'm not going to dance with you.' Then he tried to grab my waist and I shoved him away before he got his hand on me and started yelling 'Why the hell do you think it's ok to touch me when I have both politely and rudely rejected you. Are you that drunk or that stupid?' At which point everyone started looking so he scurried away.
When all else fails being a loud borderline crazy bitch makes them go away. It is sad that sometimes women have to resort to such behavior though still in this day and age.
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This is exactly what I am talking about. I was really polite with the guy, but he just didn't quit until I got really angry and began to say things that were not polite anymore...
"It is sad that sometimes women have to resort to such behavior though still in this day and age." --this is absolutely true and sad, and yes, that's what I am talking about.
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Why is that when guys see a cute girl (even for the first time they met), they just cannot keep their hands to themselves but have to touch the girl or try to kiss her? 😕