How come bad girls always can get a good guy?? And good girls can't?

I see women say they can't find a good guy all the time. But bad girls can find a good guy all the time. Even a guy that is to good for her... Is it because bad girls learn what men really want— Meaning they dress in a way men like, have sex the way men want it to be done🧐 what is it. I find a lot of so call good girls try to make a man like what she likes.... Just an observation.

Stop observing all the time and live. You’re inhibited by your judgments.

Cause good guys want bad girls and bad boys want good girls. Opposites attract

bc corrupting cute boys is funsies ;*

Passive men love aggressive women. I've never understood this either.

What they don’t realize is that majority of good guys are coyote ugly . They friend zone them. They are there... they just aren’t attracted to them .

What they really mean is “ I can’t find any good (looking) guys “

Good girls are too boring

Posted by virgoking

I see women say they can't find a good guy all the time. But bad girls can find a good guy all the time. Even a guy that is to good for her... Is it because bad girls learn what men really want— Meaning they dress in a way men like, have sex the way men want it to be done🧐 what is it. I find a lot of so call good girls try to make a man like what she likes.... Just an observation.

How come bad guys always can get a good girl?? And good guys can't?

I see men say they can't find a good girl all the time. But bad guys can find a good girl all the time. Even a girl that is too good for him... Is it because bad guys learn what wommen really want— Meaning they dress in a way women like, have sex the way women want it to be done🧐 what is it? I find a lot of so call good guys try to make a woman like what he likes.... Just an observation...

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by virgoking

I see women say they can't find a good guy all the time. But bad girls can find a good guy all the time. Even a guy that is to good for her... Is it because bad girls learn what men really want— Meaning they dress in a way men like, have sex the way men want it to be done🧐 what is it. I find a lot of so call good girls try to make a man like what she likes.... Just an observation.

How come bad guys always can get a good girl?? And good guys can't?

I see men say they can't find a good girl all the time. But bad guys can find a good girl all the time. Even a girl that is too good for him... Is it because bad guys learn what wommen really want— Meaning they dress in a way women like, have sex the way women want it to be done🧐 what is it? I find a lot of so call good guys try to make a woman like what he likes.... Just an observation...

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that only works in reverse because women don't go up to men. They have to attract men to them. I do know most bad girls are aggressive maybe that's why they end up with good guys.

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by virgoking

I see women say they can't find a good guy all the time. But bad girls can find a good guy all the time. Even a guy that is to good for her... Is it because bad girls learn what men really want— Meaning they dress in a way men like, have sex the way men want it to be done🧐 what is it. I find a lot of so call good girls try to make a man like what she likes.... Just an observation.

What's your definition of a good girl?

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sweet,kind, understanding,nurturing, and respectful. She also don't sleep around.

How about, society causes most people's better judgment to atrophy in the endless chase for 'more'?

Due to the nuance of each relationship situation, you can't hit them all with a blanket generalization like "Bad girls get good guys" or the oft-mentioned inverse. You've got to consider the attraction between two people, their feelings, what's really in their heads. Once you really get into that - you realize that there's no real constant for what we like, but- what can be measured is trends, and what we're conditioned for. To that end, I think that we are conditioned completely wrong regarding relationships. People aren't brought up with healthy notions of relating to another human being, because we're brought up in a schizophrenic anti-social climate. Everything is a competition, everything is zero-sum. Viewing people in this context leads to a slow but steady mental and emotional corrosion.

Most people have no awareness of this and their actual emotional and mental capacity has atrophied beyond all recognition.

And honestly? I can't see a solution. The best thing you can do is try to find the right folks, who've either been scooped up, or are probably borderline reclusive because most people are social barbarians beating others upside the head with their ego-sticks - and they don't know how else to relate to other humans! After all, they were brought up thinking that you're supposed to 'be better', 'be more', be all these different fucking things without ever thinking of what it is THEY want to be.

I got a good guy. Does this make me a bad girl 🤔😈

Posted by SlipperySlope

Ain't no such thing as good or bad girls mate.

I agree because people's behavior alternates in relation to whoever