what makes you instantly unmatch?

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by virgoOPPP on Thursday, January 9, 2020 and has 17 replies.

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

you ever casually swiped right?

not thinking much about it, not serial killer-faced is all

by looks he must be 4, maybe 6 if you're generous

after a tiring day of doing nothing at work, you just chill with your phone

then a 4 nags you for even more pics than what's already on profile

barely 2 mins in a convo, incredulously asking why you're unattached

so you quickly unmatch and take a long nap

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

I’m shallow and usually go for 7 and above, which puts limits on my dating life.

I was picking up 3 guys at a time and trying my luck. I ended up dating 6 guys on the site and 2 of them still contact me randomly.

Then I deleted the app.

I’ve never unmatched the person.

I was also surprised that men lie about their looks. I was so nervous about the type of pictures I put up. Making sure the filters weren’t too much. And then I meet up with these guys and some were way older looking then their pics or 25 lbs heavier. Smh.

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Posted by saggurl88

I’m shallow and usually go for 7 and above, which puts limits on my dating life.

I was picking up 3 guys at a time and trying my luck. I ended up dating 6 guys on the site and 2 of them still contact me randomly.

Then I deleted the app.

I’ve never unmatched the person.

I was also surprised that men lie about their looks. I was so nervous about the type of pictures I put up. Making sure the filters weren’t too much. And then I meet up with these guys and some were way older looking then their pics or 25 lbs heavier. Smh.


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@virgoOPPP
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Posted by saggurl88

I’m shallow and usually go for 7 and above, which puts limits on my dating life.

I was picking up 3 guys at a time and trying my luck. I ended up dating 6 guys on the site and 2 of them still contact me randomly.

Then I deleted the app.

I’ve never unmatched the person.

I was also surprised that men lie about their looks. I was so nervous about the type of pictures I put up. Making sure the filters weren’t too much. And then I meet up with these guys and some were way older looking then their pics or 25 lbs heavier. Smh.

i go with my gut

now i'm on this app where when you unmatch, they get instantly blocked as well

which i have no problem with coz i like blocking people

just talking with 4 pisces, 2 aries and 1 libra coz that's my usual ratio

oh and men now probably talk more about female makeup than I do L O L

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Posted by Phangus

He probably thought you were too attractive to be interested in him and wanted you to prove it was really you. Not very smooth of him but I kind of want to hug him.

i always videochat before meeting

there's an app here where you can date someone based on videos they take of themselves

was going to join but i saw most people seem to be showing off the goods

i don't think my mom would like that

like i can like someone online, then we meet and turns out i don't like their vibe

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

I’m shallow and usually go for 7 and above, which puts limits on my dating life.

I was picking up 3 guys at a time and trying my luck. I ended up dating 6 guys on the site and 2 of them still contact me randomly.

Then I deleted the app.

I’ve never unmatched the person.

I was also surprised that men lie about their looks. I was so nervous about the type of pictures I put up. Making sure the filters weren’t too much. And then I meet up with these guys and some were way older looking then their pics or 25 lbs heavier. Smh.

i go with my gut

now i'm on this app where when you unmatch, they get instantly blocked as well

which i have no problem with coz i like blocking people

just talking with 4 pisces, 2 aries and 1 libra coz that's my usual ratio

oh and men now probably talk more about female makeup than I do L O L

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OMG!! They are probably gonna get traumatized from the app! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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@virgoOPPP
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

I’m shallow and usually go for 7 and above, which puts limits on my dating life.

I was picking up 3 guys at a time and trying my luck. I ended up dating 6 guys on the site and 2 of them still contact me randomly.

Then I deleted the app.

I’ve never unmatched the person.

I was also surprised that men lie about their looks. I was so nervous about the type of pictures I put up. Making sure the filters weren’t too much. And then I meet up with these guys and some were way older looking then their pics or 25 lbs heavier. Smh.

i go with my gut

now i'm on this app where when you unmatch, they get instantly blocked as well

which i have no problem with coz i like blocking people

just talking with 4 pisces, 2 aries and 1 libra coz that's my usual ratio

oh and men now probably talk more about female makeup than I do L O L

OMG!! They are probably gonna get traumatized from the app! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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they'll be fine

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Posted by sharksbait

When they ask for nudes.. UNMATCHED

If I ever joined a site this would be in my top five of questions. In which I would know if she's worthy for an upgrade. I wouldn't start with that particular question but if there's chemistry and I see potential carpe diem.

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If she is oddly attractive I will instantly think its spam. If its not spam I feel like she is insecure, thinks I'm easy, or that I'm below her in some way. That or maybe I am simply the insecure one. Whichever, fuck that. Tits Mckinsey is also trying too hard. Sadly tits aren't enough to impress me. The only women I've ever tried with seems average and attractive to my eyes, but they are exactly like me and rarely want to talk, or continue talking. Maybe I'm actually attractive and make them feel insecure. Maybe I'm simply ugly af and don't realize it. Maybe I'm just detached, insecure, self centered, and antisocial. This is why I dont try to date anymore lol. Its too confusing, and comes with too many questions and feelings. Questions and feelings which are mostly negative imo.

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Posted by Soul

If she is oddly attractive I will instantly think its spam. If its not spam I feel like she is insecure, thinks I'm easy, or that I'm below her in some way. That or maybe I am simply the insecure one. Whichever, fuck that. Tits Mckinsey is also trying too hard. Sadly tits aren't enough to impress me. The only women I've ever tried with seems average and attractive to my eyes, but they are exactly like me and rarely want to talk, or continue talking. Maybe I'm actually attractive and make them feel insecure. Maybe I'm simply ugly af and don't realize it. Maybe I'm just detached, insecure, self centered, and antisocial. This is why I dont try to date anymore lol. Its too confusing, and comes with too many questions and feelings. Questions and feelings which are mostly negative imo.

see?

wow it's either spam or you think i'm insecure

you shouldn't even do online dating like wtf is that insecurity

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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Soul

If she is oddly attractive I will instantly think its spam. If its not spam I feel like she is insecure, thinks I'm easy, or that I'm below her in some way. That or maybe I am simply the insecure one. Whichever, fuck that. Tits Mckinsey is also trying too hard. Sadly tits aren't enough to impress me. The only women I've ever tried with seems average and attractive to my eyes, but they are exactly like me and rarely want to talk, or continue talking. Maybe I'm actually attractive and make them feel insecure. Maybe I'm simply ugly af and don't realize it. Maybe I'm just detached, insecure, self centered, and antisocial. This is why I dont try to date anymore lol. Its too confusing, and comes with too many questions and feelings. Questions and feelings which are mostly negative imo.

see?

wow it's either spam or you think i'm insecure

you shouldn't even do online dating like wtf is that insecurity

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I mean it could be one of those two things. On top of many others I listened. Which I ended is the exact reason I don't do online dating 🤣

I could also say using a ton of makeup to make yourself look different is a form of insecurity, but thats already obvious 😘