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Only 13% ? Wow 😳
Only 13% ? Wow 😳
I know! Im kind of not believing it!
I enjoy it
Haven't tried it with my current boyfriend
He's easing into the idea...also a little terrified of it with him. He's a little larger than I think would be comfortable 😳
Never tried it. I heard you can’t hold your bowel movements after
I don't enjoy it. I wish I did. I'll do it in a relationship, if he wants, but I have no clue why it doesn't feel good to me.
Ewww
*reads DXP during lunch
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Well, I see that the stats are correct! haha
I can respect that.
To be fair the title doesnt lead to any surprises as to what lies inside this thread!
Have never. Not interested as well. Hope this can contribute the survey.
I think this article is good at explaining it
https://www.google.no/amp/s/www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/amp17749/anal-sex-misconceptions/
I wanted to ask on the forum because I feel like people will be more honest about it.
Still is viewed as kind of taboo to a lot of people.
I've done it with 2 ppl. First person was great in regards to being gentle and it didnt hurt. He was the only guy I trusted to take my anal virginity and I was right to choose him(I still talk to him occasionally and he still talks about how he was my first with that lmao he feels so honored). 2nd person...a little bit more rough but not horrible....we didn't have lube and he was wide...
The Virgo really really wants to do it but he is extremly well endowed both width and length that I'm afraid he may split me in two...it still hurts having normal sex with him...I'm warming up to it tho. I think he just wants to do it for the whole taboo of it all and hopefully that will be the end of it.
As for it being pleasurable? It does nothing for me...I've only really done it to please the guys I've done it with....that's kind of the only turn on it has for me.
Also, I think it would be more pleasurable in a DP kind of situation....but guys are never willing to share me and I'm only willing to do that with men I trust so that goes up on the fantasy wall.
For those who have not done it and are afraid because of stories they have heard:
1. You can shit normally afterwards.
2. Lube is your friend. Lube lube lube. Your ass can shit out logs of dookie, it can fit a dick. Just like your vag, it stretches.
3. Go slow and make sure it is with someone you 100% trust. You can even use toys first to get used to the feeling...build up to it.
4. Make sure you are cleaned out b4 you do it. You'll be less likely to have that "I have to shit" feeling while doing it and wont hear about him feeling that turd while he is going at it. Lmao
I have heard horror stories of girls basicly getting raped in the ass with a guy they are with because he doesnt know what he is doing and is to immature or doesnt give a shit if she is in pain. That's where you hear all these stories about this and that happening.
Never. I like nice sheets.
I'm curious... I read only 13% of women enjoy it. I cant believe that to be true.
Discuss.....
Do you think the 13% is over or underestimated?
I have tried it. Not my forte.
Fucking hurts and for the life of me wonder how gays can enjoy it.
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not all of them do. in a 2011 study, only 37% of gay men have anal sex
https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)33334-8/abstract
It depends on how big he is. I can enjoy it or be in pain.
I like it but I have to be realllllllllllly horny or my asshole just automatically puckers shut 😂.
It's not my thing ... Never tried it though, I can't help but think of all the germs that crawl inside of my Whole. Even if you use a condom I'm just afraid of poop might be coming out or sth. That wouldn't be a pleasant accident.
Simple solution using a douching kit\enema before and only eat a light meal.
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That's too much work...if it happens it happens...that's the potential price you pay when you want anal 🤷🏼♀️😜.
No one's ever asked me for my ass.
I'm curious... I read only 13% of women enjoy it. I cant believe that to be true.
Discuss.....
Do you think the 13% is over or underestimated?
I have tried it. Not my forte.
Fucking hurts and for the life of me wonder how gays can enjoy it.
not all of them do. in a 2011 study, only 37% of gay men have anal sex
https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)33334-8/abstract
Yeah right. Who would stay in a relationship if only oral was on offer?
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hey, psst, i think you just revealed you have little imagination in the sack...just saying.
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
Id probably enjoy it , i'm a Virgo mars.
Virgo mars are weirdos and like weirdo sex.
lol
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
No. My first couple experiences were not pleasant...getting stabbed in the rear without warning.
You have to relax. That's the whole thing, really, but your butt has a mind of its own at first. I swear, my sphincter could break off a tree limb.
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Awww I see. I don't think I could ever be relaxed enough. Dang!!! It just feels so odd to me. I am probably overthinking it while it's happening lol
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
No. My first couple experiences were not pleasant...getting stabbed in the rear without warning.
You have to relax. That's the whole thing, really, but your butt has a mind of its own at first. I swear, my sphincter could break off a tree limb.
Awww I see. I don't think I could ever be relaxed enough. Dang!!! It just feels so odd to me. I am probably overthinking it while it's happening lol
I don't think it could have happened in my life any sooner than it did or in a less committed relationship.
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I think loving the person makes it easier. I never wanted my ex Gemini to do it because I was scared and he was rough lol
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
No. My first couple experiences were not pleasant...getting stabbed in the rear without warning.
You have to relax. That's the whole thing, really, but your butt has a mind of its own at first. I swear, my sphincter could break off a tree limb.
Awww I see. I don't think I could ever be relaxed enough. Dang!!! It just feels so odd to me. I am probably overthinking it while it's happening lol
I don't think it could have happened in my life any sooner than it did or in a less committed relationship.
I think loving the person makes it easier. I never wanted my ex Gemini to do it because I was scared and he was rough lol
I didn't want it at first because I thought it was gonna hurt, since all things poking my butt had hurt before, and why would I do that? I'm no masochist. Anyway, Pisces is very gentle. He has amazing self-control.
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I can only do phalanges 😆 Maybe once I love someone and they love me back, we can go for it lol
Once
That was once too many
It's not my thing ... Never tried it though, I can't help but think of all the germs that crawl inside of my Whole. Even if you use a condom I'm just afraid of poop might be coming out or sth. That wouldn't be a pleasant accident.
Simple solution using a douching kit\enema before and only eat a light meal.
That's too much work...if it happens it happens...that's the potential price you pay when you want anal 🤷🏼♀️😜.
Vigo sun, scorpio rising? Surely the prep work is part of the fun?
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Leo moon, Venus and Mars....#lazy #nobodyhastimeforthat 😆
It's not my thing ... Never tried it though, I can't help but think of all the germs that crawl inside of my Whole. Even if you use a condom I'm just afraid of poop might be coming out or sth. That wouldn't be a pleasant accident.
Simple solution using a douching kit\enema before and only eat a light meal.
That's too much work...if it happens it happens...that's the potential price you pay when you want anal 🤷🏼♀️😜.
Vigo sun, scorpio rising? Surely the prep work is part of the fun?
Leo moon, Venus and Mars....#lazy #nobodyhastimeforthat 😆
My brother is virgo with leo moon and libra rising. Talk about a temper, he makes me look calm. I have 5th house cappy jupiter I think - the mentality of work being fun. In reality it isn't.
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Us leo mooners are no joke when it comes to tempers....downright cut throat if provoked and without warning. Not our best trait but it's there. My moon Conjuncts my mars...so it makes it even more so. Ive learned to control it better tho but it can still get the best of me at times...other than that, we're just big kids lol.
I have a virgo MC...so you can only imagine my mentality for work...but that's literally work...sex is a different ballgame lol.
It's not my thing ... Never tried it though, I can't help but think of all the germs that crawl inside of my Whole. Even if you use a condom I'm just afraid of poop might be coming out or sth. That wouldn't be a pleasant accident.
Simple solution using a douching kit\enema before and only eat a light meal.
That's too much work...if it happens it happens...that's the potential price you pay when you want anal 🤷🏼♀️😜.
Vigo sun, scorpio rising? Surely the prep work is part of the fun?
Leo moon, Venus and Mars....#lazy #nobodyhastimeforthat 😆
My brother is virgo with leo moon and libra rising. Talk about a temper, he makes me look calm. I have 5th house cappy jupiter I think - the mentality of work being fun. In reality it isn't.
Us leo mooners are no joke when it comes to tempers....downright cut throat if provoked and without warning. Not our best trait but it's there. My moon Conjuncts my mars...so it makes it even more so. Ive learned to control it better tho but it can still get the best of me at times...other than that, we're just big kids lol.
I have a virgo MC...so you can only imagine my mentality for work...but that's literally work...sex is a different ballgame lol.
Interesting. I'm Gemini MC. Sex for me is more about exploration sort of "try all the things".
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Gemini rules my 8th house....so I'm right there with ya 😉
I'm curious... I read only 13% of women enjoy it. I cant believe that to be true.
Discuss.....
Do you think the 13% is over or underestimated?
I have tried it. Not my forte.
Fucking hurts and for the life of me wonder how gays can enjoy it.
not all of them do. in a 2011 study, only 37% of gay men have anal sex
https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)33334-8/abstract
Yeah right. Who would stay in a relationship if only oral was on offer?
hey, psst, i think you just revealed you have little imagination in the sack...just saying.
I'm not a gay man just saying. Seriously though if you met a partner and the oral was amazing and so was mutual masturbation and the regular stuff like kissing and maybe massage, but the actual sex was crap or wasn't offered would you be satisfied? I wouldn't and I doubt that would please most people regardless of how much you care for someone.
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i just wanted to say from the outset, i was just having a little fun with you. blame my sag moon.
i don't know, not everyone's focused on penetration. if you speak to a gay men it's not uncommon to hear that they don't go in for anal sex. lesbians don't all use strap ons. i think there is a whole spectrum of things that get people off besides penetration. i think if anything, the heterosexual community is obsessed with the idea that p in v is the end and only goal that we have to strive for and if you don't, then you aren't having a fulfilling sex life. some straight women don't enjoy penetration but they put up with it because they think there is no other option.
i don't think any gay man is staying in a relationship just for the feels. sex, in all of it's forms, is a real focus from the outset when deciding on a partner.
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Thread title of the year contender here and it’s not even the second week of January 🤣
....and so indicative of the mentality of this place lol...
Id probably enjoy it , i'm a Virgo mars.
Virgo mars are weirdos and like weirdo sex.
lol
It’s true.
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I just laughed. I don’t have any complaints about it 🤐🤪🤣🤣🤣
Every BLUE moon
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
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Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
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The male g spot is in the ass, that’s not the case for women. 😋
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Exactly
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
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Nothing is wrong with you. Only 13% like it. I have had a penis in my rectum but I also have a prostate to feel sensations. I have done anal with/to ex wife a couple times. I would not do it to a man. I don't need to with a woman and I don't care if it is never offered. Vagina's are more fun.
The vagina and rectum are only separated by their skin/lining. You go through the anus and depending on angle you can hit the Anterior Fornix (some woman Like) in the vagina in front of the cervix. Through the vagina you may slide past it instead of up against it. If a woman is bound up hard constipated for a week you can feel that through the vagina. The bottom of the vagina will be firm like the compacted poop.
Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
Nothing is wrong with you. Only 13% like it. I have had a penis in my rectum but I also have a prostate to feel sensations. I have done anal with/to ex wife a couple times. I would not do it to a man. I don't need to with a woman and I don't care if it is never offered. Vagina's are more fun.
The vagina and rectum are only separated by their skin/lining. You go through the anus and depending on angle you can hit the Anterior Fornix (some woman Like) in the vagina in front of the cervix. Through the vagina you may slide past it instead of up against it. If a woman is bound up hard constipated for a week you can feel that through the vagina. The bottom of the vagina will be firm like the compacted poop.
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Well I want to like it lol If there was some guarantee that it would be another way to orgasm, I would.
Thanks for the detailed description of poop, while in each hole. That was an interesting read! 😄
Never. I like nice sheets.
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Taurus Venus is all about pleasure too, which is why I was anti-anal (anti-pain for someone else's pleasure) until I read enough to convince me to try it and discovered a whole new world of good sensations.
Did it feel good immediately to you? I'm wondering what my problem is!!!! 😢
Nothing is wrong with you. Only 13% like it. I have had a penis in my rectum but I also have a prostate to feel sensations. I have done anal with/to ex wife a couple times. I would not do it to a man. I don't need to with a woman and I don't care if it is never offered. Vagina's are more fun.
The vagina and rectum are only separated by their skin/lining. You go through the anus and depending on angle you can hit the Anterior Fornix (some woman Like) in the vagina in front of the cervix. Through the vagina you may slide past it instead of up against it. If a woman is bound up hard constipated for a week you can feel that through the vagina. The bottom of the vagina will be firm like the compacted poop.
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Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
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Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
i havent tried it yet, i like a finger or two tho
Back there serves one purpose only. It's an exit, not an entrance. I don't get down like that.
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
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Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
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Ditto 👍
Ask him if he'd like something rammed up there 😀
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
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Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
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This too. Some guys are just nasty. Don't care what hole it is, they just want it. Like dude, fecal matter comes out of there but you just can't wait to put your penis in it. That's some real nasty shit.
The gspot is in the male's rear, not the female's. If they want to act so gun ho about anal, I'm just saying, switch roles. Let's see how quick they are to want to do that.
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
This
Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
This too. Some guys are just nasty. Don't care what hole it is, they just want it. Like dude, fecal matter comes out of there but you just can't wait to put your penis in it. That's some real nasty shit.
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Too
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Porn
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The gspot is in the male's rear, not the female's. If they want to act so gun ho about anal, I'm just saying, switch roles. Let's see how quick they are to want to do that.
Golden rule of sex....don't do anything to another you wouldn't have done to yourself...
Hurts like a bitch, but my pride won’t let me back out of it lmao mama ain’t raise no bitch 😂 I don’t do it often at all. I refuse unless you got a shitload of lube on hand
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
This
Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
This too. Some guys are just nasty. Don't care what hole it is, they just want it. Like dude, fecal matter comes out of there but you just can't wait to put your penis in it. That's some real nasty shit.
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This is interesting.. and I kind of agree. I think there's a lot of things guys like not because of the sensation but just for the nasty/gross factor. It's like men/boys are awed by the grossness of things.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
This
Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
This too. Some guys are just nasty. Don't care what hole it is, they just want it. Like dude, fecal matter comes out of there but you just can't wait to put your penis in it. That's some real nasty shit.
This is interesting.. and I kind of agree. I think there's a lot of things guys like not because of the sensation but just for the nasty/gross factor. It's like men/boys are awed by the grossness of things.
I think this one is for sensation (not that I would know). That shit is tight 😂
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Try it.....your g spot is up there.....intense orgasms....🔥
Most women I’ve talked to only do anal to make their bfs happy
This
Am I a selfish jerk if I don’t care to please my guy by doing anal? Why do I need to put myself in pain to make him happy? LOL. My happiness is more important to me. 😳
This too. Some guys are just nasty. Don't care what hole it is, they just want it. Like dude, fecal matter comes out of there but you just can't wait to put your penis in it. That's some real nasty shit.
This is interesting.. and I kind of agree. I think there's a lot of things guys like not because of the sensation but just for the nasty/gross factor. It's like men/boys are awed by the grossness of things.
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....and they have to keep up with the latest "Anal Angels" porn film they've just watched...
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I'm curious... I read only 13% of women enjoy it. I cant believe that to be true.
Discuss.....