Is it still sexual harassment if

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by brianafay on Friday, July 21, 2017 and has 36 replies.

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@brianafay
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it's woman on woman ?

Or is it just a compliment ?

A coworker told me I'm "looking awesome" today and I accepted the compliment and said thank you

Then she leans in and whispers "I've gotta be honest, I've been staring at your ass all day"

...........

So I'm like "oh" lol

But seriously was I just sexually harassed ?

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@brianafay
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She's Czech

Maybe it's just cultural and she was being friendly

She talks very loud too so her whisper wasn't really a whisper and my other coworker heard her

She's an uptight Pisces so maybe she'll go to HR lol

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Posted by m200991
This is the thing about harassment. ONLY the person being spoken at can determine if they feel as though they are being harassed. I could quite literally say 'Cool Shoelaces' to someone, and they could feel harassed. That's a silly example; however, true none the less. So... the real question is... Did you feel harassed by what they said?

Nah I think she was just trying to be complimentary

I was just shocked and thought it was a bit socially awkward of her

I mean that's something you say to a friend "nice ass!" Not a coworker

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

click to expand

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

click to expand

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

click to expand

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

click to expand

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

click to expand

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

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Yup. My boss does it to me all the time. She's. Lesbian and she's said stuff like "It's not your butt that I want!" When I bend over to plug stuff in and don't want anyone behind me.

She owns the company though so I would have to change jobs. I clown her left and right so the sexual stuff doesn't bother me too much.

When she goes too far I tell her I'm gonna go to human resources and she just says " Here, let me change my hat"

But she knows to shut up then lol

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Posted by brianafay
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by brianafay
Do I snitch to HR or just avoid her in the hall?

Next time she says something you feel has crossed the line let her know. Use words like 'inappropriate', 'uncomfortable', 'not conducive to a safe work environment' etc.

lol Pisces response

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Well this gives her a warning not to talk yo you like that. If she continues then go to HR instead of blindsiding her for something she may have thought was no big deal.

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

click to expand

le sigh

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

click to expand

Le fk off...troo la la!

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Posted by m200991
This is the thing about harassment. ONLY the person being spoken at can determine if they feel as though they are being harassed. I could quite literally say 'Cool Shoelaces' to someone, and they could feel harassed. That's a silly example; however, true none the less. So... the real question is... Did you feel harassed by what they said?

You are incorrect. Research sexual

Harassment in the workplace.

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

click to expand

fixed it

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

click to expand

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

click to expand

Lol so true...when applied to YOU

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

Lol so true...when applied to YOU

click to expand

Do you have your own brains or you always says 'yo mama'...?

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

Lol so true...when applied to YOU

Do you have your own brains or you always says 'yo mama'...?

click to expand

No I'm a zombie, I take others brains to survive.

Don't worry, your safe

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Posted by m200991
Posted by justagirl
Posted by m200991
This is the thing about harassment. ONLY the person being spoken at can determine if they feel as though they are being harassed. I could quite literally say 'Cool Shoelaces' to someone, and they could feel harassed. That's a silly example; however, true none the less. So... the real question is... Did you feel harassed by what they said?

You are incorrect. Research sexual

Harassment in the workplace.

I do Corporate Governance for a living... I'm pretty sure I know how it works. I was talking on a personal level; however, if you want to be technical...

"Under federal law and Department of Labor (DOL) policy, harassment by employees based on race, color, religion, sex (including gender identity and pregnancy), national origin, age, disability, genetic information, sexual orientation, or parental status is prohibited.

Prohibited workplace harassment may take either of two forms. It may entail "quid pro quo" harassment, which occurs in cases in which employment decisions or treatment are based on submission to or rejection of unwelcome conduct, typically conduct of a sexual nature. Workplace harassment may also consist of offensive conduct based on one or more of the protected groups above that is so severe or pervasive that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as being fired or demoted)."

This, by definition, doesn't violate the above law; however, the company in question may have a more specific policy and/or standard in which they use.

Don't come at me with some Wiki business being all literal.

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No need for me to do that, you just did that yourself .

You are still incorrect, I can get offended by something I overhear and I can report it to HR and yes it is sexual harassment.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

Lol so true...when applied to YOU

Do you have your own brains or you always says 'yo mama'...?

No I'm a zombie, I take others brains to survive.

Don't worry, your safe

click to expand

Don't fry brains of others.

Shit! You don't have your own so my advise 'fry your own' would fall on deaf ears!!!

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

Yeah.. It's def Gemitati

So when I shit I must be arrested—

?

You'll need to remove the giant dildo out of your ass first

Why are you carrying dildo with you to workplace?

Oh! Because you don't have anybody to fk you! Must loooove that dildo. Yes you do...yes you do...

Maybe you need larger dog?

Just a friendly suggestion! Get a male gig and name him Clinton...

Bwhahahaha...you are hopeless...

Your confused hun. Its understandable. Constipation isn't fun.

So dildo is your cure for consriparion?

At work?

Wow! You can sell tickets to your restroom run to your co-workers.

Company might go down though...

You ARE a moron! Admit it!

?

The dildo in question is up your cavernous ass.

I like how your reading comprehension is like seasonal allergies.

So at least you like something about me!

I wish I could say the same...

Ok. I like your way of dealing with constipation using dildo!

There!

Consider it as a compliment.

?

le sigh

Le fk off...troll la la!

fixed it

You can't fix your being stupid!

But stupid are oblivious to everything!

Lol so true...when applied to YOU

Do you have your own brains or you always says 'yo mama'...?

No I'm a zombie, I take others brains to survive.

Don't worry, your safe

Don't fry brains of others.

Shit! You don't have your own so my advise 'fry your own' would fall on deaf ears!!!

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Frying is for the cats you like to eat. Zombies take their brains raw. Rrrrrawwwwww

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Posted by brianafay
She's also the same lady that sighs very loudly when she pees

Like it sounds like she's climaxing

In a public restroom

?

I feel more sexually harassed by that tbh ?

ask her for 3 squares. if she refuses then yep, its gemitati.