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Posted by mudra_
You're going to be so fricken beautiful in a dress like that. I love the blush colors. Is it blush—

Posted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?

Posted by mudra_Posted by nikkistarPosted by mudra_
You're going to be so fricken beautiful in a dress like that. I love the blush colors. Is it blush—
It is indeed blush 🙂
Is your ring silver? Bc i think vintage rose gold goes soooo beautifully with blush dresses. Even if your ring is silverclick to expand

Posted by Vicktoria
If you're wearing a veil and/or tiara could you post pictures so I can get an idea of your entire ensemble?


Posted by ItsSupes2
Got something old, new, borrowed and blue?

Posted by mudra_Posted by nikkistarPosted by mudra_Posted by nikkistarPosted by mudra_
You're going to be so fricken beautiful in a dress like that. I love the blush colors. Is it blush—
It is indeed blush 🙂
Is your ring silver? Bc i think vintage rose gold goes soooo beautifully with blush dresses. Even if your ring is silver
Yea, my ring is silver and vintage style . The "white" is more ivory as well. My hair accessory is silver too
https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/71faEiKn0% 2BL._SL1050_.jpg
This is the one my makeup/hair lady and I agreed on for the wedding.
Hair up or down? Lol the link doesnt workclick to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.click to expand


Posted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?click to expand

Posted by Romz-
I think you should do a classic precious stone teardrop - drop down earring in silver. The stone can be a blush pink or blue or even just fake diamond.
However, it needs to not be too close towards costume jewelry. More realistic.
No necklace.
No bracelet.
Keep it simple and classic.


Posted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?
Date is January 25th, 2020. But it is a very small 20 person destination wedding that is a mini vacation for everyone too. We booked lodging for a 4 day, 3 night holiday for everyone near a ski resort.
It is going to be outside, in South Lake Tahoe. Full snow, and what not. Theme is rustic.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Beautiful choices! I'm not sure you need any additional jewelry with the sleeves and earrings. Are you thinking of a necklace? A delicate choker might be good.


Posted by Romz-
Whatever shape of eating you choose it needs to be a long drop earring. Stay away from circular.
I really like the look of filigree drop earrings but I can’t seem to find one that has a precious gem stone centre that isn’t cliche.
I’ll keep looking.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1


Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.
I thought it matched your other pieces well too. They're just made of regular silver though.click to expand


Posted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?
Date is January 25th, 2020. But it is a very small 20 person destination wedding that is a mini vacation for everyone too. We booked lodging for a 4 day, 3 night holiday for everyone near a ski resort.
It is going to be outside, in South Lake Tahoe. Full snow, and what not. Theme is rustic.click to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.click to expand

Posted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?
Date is January 25th, 2020. But it is a very small 20 person destination wedding that is a mini vacation for everyone too. We booked lodging for a 4 day, 3 night holiday for everyone near a ski resort.
It is going to be outside, in South Lake Tahoe. Full snow, and what not. Theme is rustic.
I'm so darn happy for you, know you had a rough year last year. That is going to be so beautiful! What are you wearing on your feet? I would wear boots, maybe something like these?
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Just FYI, I see that I'm a dolt and misread your OP. I don't think you need the choker if you're doing earrings. Do you want moons in the earring design like in your second pic? This is exciting!

Posted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?
Date is January 25th, 2020. But it is a very small 20 person destination wedding that is a mini vacation for everyone too. We booked lodging for a 4 day, 3 night holiday for everyone near a ski resort.
It is going to be outside, in South Lake Tahoe. Full snow, and what not. Theme is rustic.
I'm so darn happy for you, know you had a rough year last year. That is going to be so beautiful! What are you wearing on your feet? I would wear boots, maybe something like these?
This is going to sound nutty. But because it is cold as all hell, and I will be outside, I am wearing white uggs. lol No one is going to see my feet, and I want to be comfortable.
And yea, it has been a nightmare year, so to start 2020 off with a "bang", will be nice. Everything has been getting better over the last few months, and I am content now.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Just FYI, I see that I'm a dolt and misread your OP. I don't think you need the choker if you're doing earrings. Do you want moons in the earring design like in your second pic? This is exciting!
I am up for any suggestions. I don't necessarily need a necklace. But just jewelry ideas over all. Things I can look over to see what I would like. I know at minimum I want earrings. I don't need the rest, but even the earrings that I choose make me say "YES I WANT THAT", ya know?
Absolutely!
Haha, I was doing a search and this came up. Perrrrrfect.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/668314724/custom-grillz-8pc-on-8pc-solid-gold?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=&ref=sr_gallery-1-5&pro=1&frs=1&col=1
https://i.etsystatic.com/18267627/r/il/20a04d/1873307264/il_794xN.1873307264_68h1.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand


Posted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-llPosted by nikkistarPosted by Jules-ll
What color is your gown?
It is blush, the first picture is the exact gown I am getting. The second one is just the top illusion "sleeves" and illusion neckline that is being added to it, with the same lace as on the gown.
That's going to be gorgeous! I don't think you need a necklace with that neckline, just earrings. But like you, I'm plain with jewelry. When are you getting married?
Date is January 25th, 2020. But it is a very small 20 person destination wedding that is a mini vacation for everyone too. We booked lodging for a 4 day, 3 night holiday for everyone near a ski resort.
It is going to be outside, in South Lake Tahoe. Full snow, and what not. Theme is rustic.
I'm so darn happy for you, know you had a rough year last year. That is going to be so beautiful! What are you wearing on your feet? I would wear boots, maybe something like these?
This is going to sound nutty. But because it is cold as all hell, and I will be outside, I am wearing white uggs. lol No one is going to see my feet, and I want to be comfortable.
And yea, it has been a nightmare year, so to start 2020 off with a "bang", will be nice. Everything has been getting better over the last few months, and I am content now.
Even better idea, your feet need to be comfy and you don't want to slip on the ice/snow. You could use personalized flasks as wedding favors...I'm liking your concept! I would do tons of candle, or led candles all over the place so you don't have to worry about the wind. And incorporate some holly branches with berries into the flowers. Maybe have fresh cut slices of wood to stand on at the altar. How are your guests getting to the wedding site?click to expand



Posted by CuddleBug1288
K I did not read past your intital post...but you mentioned not being into wearing jewelry often, if at all.
So just a question, but why are you trying to decide on wedding jewelry...if you don't normally wear anything more than your ring? I get wanting to be all 'girly n pretty' (altho that can be achieved other ways as well).. but just curious.
Obviously you do what you want, just was the first thought that came to my mind. Why be someone you're not ..idk, also like I said, I didn't read anything past your original post so...grain of salt needed here maybe.

Posted by nikkistarPosted by CuddleBug1288
K I did not read past your intital post...but you mentioned not being into wearing jewelry often, if at all.
So just a question, but why are you trying to decide on wedding jewelry...if you don't normally wear anything more than your ring? I get wanting to be all 'girly n pretty' (altho that can be achieved other ways as well).. but just curious.
Obviously you do what you want, just was the first thought that came to my mind. Why be someone you're not ..idk, also like I said, I didn't read anything past your original post so...grain of salt needed here maybe.
Because it is my "special" day, and I kinda wanna be "extra" for the day. lolclick to expand

Posted by CuddleBug1288Posted by nikkistarPosted by CuddleBug1288
K I did not read past your intital post...but you mentioned not being into wearing jewelry often, if at all.
So just a question, but why are you trying to decide on wedding jewelry...if you don't normally wear anything more than your ring? I get wanting to be all 'girly n pretty' (altho that can be achieved other ways as well).. but just curious.
Obviously you do what you want, just was the first thought that came to my mind. Why be someone you're not ..idk, also like I said, I didn't read anything past your original post so...grain of salt needed here maybe.
Because it is my "special" day, and I kinda wanna be "extra" for the day. lol
Nah, I get it. You go be all the extra you wanna be lady! I'll go actually read thru the thread before giving anymore opinions lol..click to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by CuddleBug1288Posted by nikkistarPosted by CuddleBug1288
K I did not read past your intital post...but you mentioned not being into wearing jewelry often, if at all.
So just a question, but why are you trying to decide on wedding jewelry...if you don't normally wear anything more than your ring? I get wanting to be all 'girly n pretty' (altho that can be achieved other ways as well).. but just curious.
Obviously you do what you want, just was the first thought that came to my mind. Why be someone you're not ..idk, also like I said, I didn't read anything past your original post so...grain of salt needed here maybe.
Because it is my "special" day, and I kinda wanna be "extra" for the day. lol
Nah, I get it. You go be all the extra you wanna be lady! I'll go actually read thru the thread before giving anymore opinions lol..
I went "normal" hair colors, and I have the dressed lined so that my tattoos don't show either. I am going full on glam, and extra af for my wedding cause its been the "look" I have had in my head for years. lolclick to expand



Posted by brianafay
I think your dress is so detailed, you don’t need the necklace or bracelet
Just focus on getting the earrings right.
I think something pretty and delicate that complements the hair piece


Posted by _EU_
You're getting married? Does that mean you're leaving us, mom?

Posted by _EU_Posted by nikkistarPosted by _EU_
You're getting married? Does that mean you're leaving us, mom?
Nah, I ain't leaving. Go do the dishes you little brat.
It's not my turn. 😛click to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.click to expand

Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.
oo those are pretty but i don't like the earrings with the little flowers for your Winter theme.
From the ones you sent, i liked this one. It looks like little crystal snowflakes:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167WF3XS/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_5?smid=AXJ95VLIBQTY7&psc=1
But Viktoria posted beautiful tear drop earrings, I really love those for your dress & theme.click to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.
oo those are pretty but i don't like the earrings with the little flowers for your Winter theme.
From the ones you sent, i liked this one. It looks like little crystal snowflakes:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167WF3XS/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_5?smid=AXJ95VLIBQTY7&psc=1
But Viktoria posted beautiful tear drop earrings, I really love those for your dress & theme.
@Copperdove found me some cuffs that I really liked, but unfortunately the seller doesn't have the material to make a second one with a moonstone 😢
But the same seller had these. And I really like them.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/210486257/sparkle-snowflakes-two-intricate?ref=shop_home_active_6&frs=1<div class="bqfade">click to expand


Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.
oo those are pretty but i don't like the earrings with the little flowers for your Winter theme.
From the ones you sent, i liked this one. It looks like little crystal snowflakes:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167WF3XS/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_5?smid=AXJ95VLIBQTY7&psc=1
But Viktoria posted beautiful tear drop earrings, I really love those for your dress & theme.
@Copperdove found me some cuffs that I really liked, but unfortunately the seller doesn't have the material to make a second one with a moonstone 😢
But the same seller had these. And I really like them.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/210486257/sparkle-snowflakes-two-intricate?ref=shop_home_active_6&frs=1
oh those are really nice! Since you are having your hair half up/half down wavy you can definitely do a little sparkle earring that hides behind your hair a bit...OR you can also have a long, delicate dangling earring that falls with your hair.
Anyways, congratulations!!! You're so close to your wedding date and it must be so exciting 😄. I was randomly looking at wedding dresses and Im not even in a committed relationship hahaclick to expand

Posted by _EU_Posted by nikkistarPosted by _EU_Posted by nikkistarPosted by _EU_
You're getting married? Does that mean you're leaving us, mom?
Nah, I ain't leaving. Go do the dishes you little brat.
It's not my turn. 😛
Don't you talk back to me. Get your sensitive ass moon in there and scrub that shit.
😢click to expand


Posted by nikkistarPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Have you looked at Etsy? Tons of ideas there.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/718524774/pearl-bridal-earrings-long-wedding?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+earrings&ref=sr_gallery-1-47&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
Ohhh, I like that. It goes with my hair piece. I looked on etsy for some stuff, but not really.
oo those are pretty but i don't like the earrings with the little flowers for your Winter theme.
From the ones you sent, i liked this one. It looks like little crystal snowflakes:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167WF3XS/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_5?smid=AXJ95VLIBQTY7&psc=1
But Viktoria posted beautiful tear drop earrings, I really love those for your dress & theme.
@Copperdove found me some cuffs that I really liked, but unfortunately the seller doesn't have the material to make a second one with a moonstone 😢
But the same seller had these. And I really like them.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/210486257/sparkle-snowflakes-two-intricate?ref=shop_home_active_6&frs=1
oh those are really nice! Since you are having your hair half up/half down wavy you can definitely do a little sparkle earring that hides behind your hair a bit...OR you can also have a long, delicate dangling earring that falls with your hair.
Anyways, congratulations!!! You're so close to your wedding date and it must be so exciting 😄. I was randomly looking at wedding dresses and Im not even in a committed relationship haha
Honestly, I really didn't think I would ever be the type to get married again. But surprisingly, as I started planning it, I realized why so many women do like wedding. Regardless of the stress and what not of planning it all, all the stuff is pretty to look at.
Hell, I had the whole "crying" moment when I found my dress. Never thought THAT would happen. lolclick to expand


Posted by stillstillwater
My findings lol:
https://www.amazon.com/Mariell-Pear-Shaped-Zirconia-Teardrop-Bridesmaids/dp/B01M9AMOZZ/ref=sr_1_24?dchild=1&keywords=bridal+earrings+rose+gold&qid=1573667087&s=apparel&sr=1-24
https://www.amazon.com/Mariell-Plated-Linear-Wedding-Earrings/dp/B079J59JP8/ref=sr_1_175_sspa?keywords=bridal+earrings+rose+gold&qid=1573667191&s=apparel&sr=1-175-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEySVlDMFQyWDNJSkJVJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUExMDE3ODcwM0ZLVVFNTzRVU1dUVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwOTg5OTYyS1VXNlAxT1ZXOEtQJndpZGdldE5hbWU9c3BfbXRmJmFjdGlvbj1jbGlja1JlZGlyZWN0JmRvTm90TG9nQ2xpY2s9dHJ1ZQ==
https://www.amazon.com/Mariell-Wedding-Handmade-Earrings-Freshwater/dp/B07Z8GBHXN/ref=sr_1_192?dchild=1&keywords=bridal+earrings+rose+gold&qid=1573667191&s=apparel&sr=1-192
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Mind you, I am not someone who actively wears jewelry at all. I only wear my engagement ring, and prior to that, nothing.
I have a severe allergy to nickel, so much so that I am really really limited to what I can wear. Sterling Silver 925, stainless steel, Tungsten, Palladium, and Platinum. I cannot wear any gold unless it is 24K, and I HATE yellow, and that would make the jewelry incredibly soft.
And because I am frugal on certain things, and really don't wear jewelry much anyways, I don't want to spend a butt ton of money on it. Which is probably an oxymoron, considering my veil and dress. lol
Here is my dress, but it is being modified to have the illusion sleeves and top of the second picture
Here are the earrings I am looking at, but I still need ideas for a necklace and bracelets.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07DFBVLDM/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_3?smid=A2WWRB1169I32N&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07DF3PGQV/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_4?smid=A2WWRB1169I32N&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167WF3XS/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_5?smid=AXJ95VLIBQTY7&psc=1
So girls, give me ideas. It is a Winter Wedding. Color Scheme is blood red/maroon, and grey.