What do you think of this?

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by Whynn on Saturday, September 26, 2026 and has 9 replies.

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@Whynn

I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

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@Generously1987

Posted by Whynn
I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

Maybe you're just stuck in a rut, and you miss being young,

You can use this to your own benefit, for example you can start taking care of yourself, to look good not to seduce him, but to revive that youth in you, and seduce your husband instead.

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Posted by Generously1987

Posted by Whynn

I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

Maybe you're just stuck in a rut, and you miss being young,

You can use this to your own benefit, for example you can start taking care of yourself, to look good not to seduce him, but to revive that youth in you, and seduce your husband instead.

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I would advice the opposite lol

Make yourself as ugly as possible then banish all impure thoughts that do not involve thyhusband

Then mommymaxx with the kids

You’ve had your youth before

It’s time to let it go

Lost time is never found again

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@roti
4 Years

Posted by myhusbands

Posted by Generously1987

Posted by Whynn

I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

Maybe you're just stuck in a rut, and you miss being young,

You can use this to your own benefit, for example you can start taking care of yourself, to look good not to seduce him, but to revive that youth in you, and seduce your husband instead.

click to expand

I would advice the opposite lol

Make yourself as ugly as possible then banish all impure thoughts that do not involve thyhusband

Then mommymaxx with the kids

You’ve had your youth before

It’s time to let it go

Lost time is never found again

click to expand

Ands dropping wisdom bars, damn

I concur with this

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@Generously1987

Posted by myhusbands

Posted by Generously1987

Posted by Whynn

I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

Maybe you're just stuck in a rut, and you miss being young,

You can use this to your own benefit, for example you can start taking care of yourself, to look good not to seduce him, but to revive that youth in you, and seduce your husband instead.click to expand

I would advice the opposite lol

Make yourself as ugly as possible then banish all impure thoughts that do not involve thyhusband

Then mommymaxx with the kids

You’ve had your youth before

It’s time to let it go

Lost time is never found again

click to expand

Why? Lol

I think it's a great opportunity to reinvent herself, she's not gonna do anything with the boy obviously.

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Posted by Generously1987

Posted by myhusbands

Posted by Generously1987

Posted by Whynn

I have a co-worker. To me he is so good-looking and I was developing a crush over him fast right from the start.

I am married and I have children already.. the craziest thing is that he is way younger than me. 15 yrs younger to be exact. Yet I can't get him out of my head..

He is so young and fresh and I am an old-looking mum.. I can't do anything but to fantasize being closer to him.

This starts to get crazy and I need to kill this. I feel like this is a mid-life phase or what..

I can't deny that ever since he is around, I feel more "motivated" at work.

Astrologically, his sun falls in my first house. A sagittarius guy.

But really fuck this coz it's starting to worry me. Coz I started to see his face in my head while I am having sex with my husband lately! It is getting annoying because there is no way we will ever be together for any reason. It just doesn't make sense.

I am 100% sure he doesn't have anything towards me. Just a co-worker, nothing more.

But I am the one who keeps thinking about him and it starts to get annoying.

I am writing this because I need to get this out of my chest.. this is worrisome to me. I just want to get this developing crush away from me to avoid making him sense my seething desire for him.

How?!

This is crazy!

Maybe you're just stuck in a rut, and you miss being young,

You can use this to your own benefit, for example you can start taking care of yourself, to look good not to seduce him, but to revive that youth in you, and seduce your husband instead.click to expand

I would advice the opposite lol

Make yourself as ugly as possible then banish all impure thoughts that do not involve thyhusband

Then mommymaxx with the kids

You’ve had your youth before

It’s time to let it go

Lost time is never found again

click to expand

Why? Lol

I think it's a great opportunity to reinvent herself, she's not gonna do anything with the boy obviously.

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lol I'm just joking on making herself ugly

I dunno what the right course of action truly is in this case fr fr

I doubt it would go anywhere so maybe she can even indulge in some light banter aka flirting lol jeezuz

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Posted by PilatesBod
I have a hard time finding men under 30 attractive. I just feel maternal towards them.

you know the virgo I am with on the comments is 34

I matched with her co worker who is 23

but the vibe was friendly so we agreed to go out for drinks with friends

the 23 year old set me up with the 34 year old

so the 34 year old knows I'm 30 and she is 34 lol

maybe that's why sometimes she doesn't reply

like wtf why is this 30 year old pestering me to bang out again