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This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

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Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷
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Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

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Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

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i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂

Posted by PezRojoPescadoAzul

I do this to some degree with everyone I associate with longer than 2 minutes basically lol. But it's mostly to take any pressure off of myself from myself. Too many people are way too invested in me and what I do anyways. If I can scare some people off, nice. If not then we're already on more solid foundation and I don't have to pretend yo be this or that

i used to be super high effort tho

got a theory that it attracts the bad apples

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Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂
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I guess codependency can be a security blanket for some, doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. Every one has to feel secure in their relationships in order for it to work. You guys have found what works for you. Things may change as you heal and grow.

This is how some people outgrow each other.

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂

I guess codependency can be a security blanket for some, doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. Every one has to feel secure in their relationships in order for it to work. You guys have found what works for you. Things may change as you heal and grow.

This is how some people outgrow each other.
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😲

😫😭😭😭😭

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂

I guess codependency can be a security blanket for some, doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. Every one has to feel secure in their relationships in order for it to work. You guys have found what works for you. Things may change as you heal and grow.

This is how some people outgrow each other.

😲

😫😭😭😭😭
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂

I guess codependency can be a security blanket for some, doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. Every one has to feel secure in their relationships in order for it to work. You guys have found what works for you. Things may change as you heal and grow.

This is how some people outgrow each other.

😲

😫😭😭😭😭

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best choice i've made so far ♥ ♥

bad timing tho coz i'm so paranoid 🤡🤡

Posted by PezRojoPescadoAzul
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I think I prefer to know earlier rather than later but it doesn’t have to all come out at once. I do appreciate people being honest about things that might be deal breakers as early as possible however so people know for sure about those.

And it shouldn't only be the bad of course, should be the good and the "bad." I mean you have to be delusional to think someone has absolutely no flaws or dirty laundry anyways, so why would you want someone to waste your time and lie to you? What's a relationship that isn't built on truth? It's nothing imo. Guess some people are into that tho
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♥ ♥

people get tired of wasting time

but maybe that's just my first house

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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88

This only works with Virgos, or a heavy Virgo chart since you guys get excited about the idea of having someone you can fix 😛

I would run for the hills.

weird coz it worked on a pisces stellium but then he's a 6th houser so maybe 🤷🤷

Cause that's your opposite and they think they can "HEAL" you

😆 Y'll are both crazy for some fixer uppers!

i honestly don't know what he thinks of me

coz everytime i voice out my insecurities, he's just always reassuring

not like that ever stopped me from trying to bait him 😂😂

I guess codependency can be a security blanket for some, doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. Every one has to feel secure in their relationships in order for it to work. You guys have found what works for you. Things may change as you heal and grow.

This is how some people outgrow each other.

😲

😫😭😭😭😭

best choice i've made so far ♥ ♥

bad timing tho coz i'm so paranoid 🤡🤡
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Don't you two live together? It's too late now! 😛

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@LadyNeptune

10 Years25,000+ Posts

Not to the extent you mentioned, but yeah somewhat.

Like explaining the reason I react in a certain way and acknowledging it has nothing to do with him and everything to do with past trauma. And while logically I know that, in the moment its like a visceral physical knee jerk type thing.

@LadyNeptune

10 Years25,000+ Posts

I could never be this forthcoming on day 1. You don't get to know everything about me from the jump. I gotta know more about who you are before I trust you that completely. Ijs.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

forward theory

so i got this new theory that if you get all your bad qualities out of the way on day 1 that your relationship would be more stable.

zero false advertising.

used cars salesman who gave up.

have you accidentally done this and it actually worked wonders for you?

Edit: stable or non-existent but at least nobody's getting blindsided

u mean we are official or dating ?

mb official could work, dating wont work because the market here is competitive and im lazy to deal wiz batshit crazy gal
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then things fizzle out coz you realize you can't live with what you discover about them later on

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Posted by virgoOPPP

forward theory

so i got this new theory that if you get all your bad qualities out of the way on day 1 that your relationship would be more stable.

zero false advertising.

used cars salesman who gave up.

have you accidentally done this and it actually worked wonders for you?

Edit: stable or non-existent but at least nobody's getting blindsided

u mean we are official or dating ?

mb official could work, dating wont work because the market here is competitive and im lazy to deal wiz batshit crazy gal

then things fizzle out coz you realize you can't live with what you discover about them later on

it depend what, but i'm batshit crazy too we are all batshit crazy, just accept it. love isnt perfect. but being batshit crazy on the 1st date idk lol
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@SassyKiwi

10 Years5,000+ Posts

Nah, I prefer to bewitch them and lure them in my grasps before slowly spilling my crazy here and there. Let it be like opening mystery boxes, ya feel? I do have zero Virgo in my chart.

But like what kind of things do you exactly tell them up front? Emotional baggages? Not cleaning your hair strands after showering?

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Nah, I prefer to bewitch them and lure them in my grasps before slowly spilling my crazy here and there. Let it be like opening mystery boxes, ya feel? I do have zero Virgo in my chart.

But like what kind of things do you exactly tell them up front? Emotional baggages? Not cleaning your hair strands after showering?

fertility issues, exes, etc

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Nah, I prefer to bewitch them and lure them in my grasps before slowly spilling my crazy here and there. Let it be like opening mystery boxes, ya feel? I do have zero Virgo in my chart.

But like what kind of things do you exactly tell them up front? Emotional baggages? Not cleaning your hair strands after showering?

fertility issues, exes, etc

Most women I've met seem to mention sexual abuse they've suffered quite early on. Actually helps me understand, got no idea why it's mentioned early. I must have a sympathetic demeanour. I personally don't mention exes unless asked.
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yeah, you're probably a good listener so they felt comfortable sharing 🤔🤔

coz i remember i kinda just vented to this guy. and i noticed that most guys i attract tend to come from a family where they've struggled a lot financially (or at least that's what they tend to share with me) or ex gf cheated on them (no idea why but i suppose those are 2 of the biggest things men would feel insecure about, right? sex and money?)

i never complain about money unless someone scammed me or borrowed then never paid up.

at that time, i was just super pissed at my capricorn ex that it eclipsed other thoughts tbh lol.

@LadyNeptune

10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by BLVCKisBVCK

Yeah, I tried that theory in action, thought it was flawless.. All it did was give the other person fuel to blame me for everything.

This is what I alluded to. In theory unburdening yourself and being totally transparent with someone from the jump only works if their intentions toward you are good. And there's no way to know that at the beginning, it comes down to dumb luck. And if their intentions are bad they are gonna weaponize the information you shared against you, to manipulate and control you and fuck knows what else.

I prefer to wait and see what they are about before giving up all my vulnerabilities. You earn that privilege its not freely given.

Posted by nanobotz

This has worked really well with my Pisces Aussie btw. He keeps it in mind and is more forgiving toward me about those particular things, and in return - his kindness and understanding makes me want to work harder on improving those negative traits. It’s really sweet, healthy, and actually pretty wholesome too?

yeah it's a nice change from arrogant, greedy, controlling, pessimistic capricorns tbh

exhibit a: homelessness is attractive

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Worst meteor foot

well

i type in minimized windows coz we have no boundaries in our household lol 😂😂

@Lostthoughts

6 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by virgoOPPP

forward theory

so i got this new theory that if you get all your bad qualities out of the way on day 1 that your relationship would be more stable.

zero false advertising.

used cars salesman who gave up.

have you accidentally done this and it actually worked wonders for you?

Edit: stable or non-existent but at least nobody's getting blindsided

Edit2: *mediocre lol sorry am virgo

This implies these are things you don't wish to change and will be bring into the next relationship.

I donno how about working on being a different way with this new possible relationship?

Chick: I don't let people in and only do shallow relationships.

Me: why is that?

Chick: I have been cheated on, betrayed,and abandoned by people.

Me: I'm not that kind of person.

Besides I am not those people, hell you don't even know me.

Chick: well this is how I am.

Me:.....

People change and grow over time. You are not the same person as you where before.

For this example did she ever once think about choosing someone who cares for her and puts her interest first and vis versa?

The whole premise of accepting bad dysfunctional qualities and expecting a new partner to just accept and allow it to continue it is well... Stupid and self destructive.

As well as a sign of giving up on yourself Imo.

How about working on it and curbing it. Hell finding someone that is supportive and will work with you, to reprogram the bullshit you have picked up over the years.

Signed,

Retired Caption Save a hoe/white Knight Virgo man.

P.S. Some of you need to understand no relationship is perfect and it takye effort when there are problems. Nor know what a healthy relationship even looks like.

As well as, "Another man's trash is another man treasure."

Can't count how many times I've talked to someone and a great quality of thier personality is suppressed because thier partner doesn't like it and thinks it's wrong.

If it makes you happy/joy and doesn't harm anyone including yourself, there is nothing wrong it it. Get that through your head.

Someone out there will treasure you and appreciate it like you. Love the things you love about yourself and someone else will see it too.

Edit: This is exactly what I mean.

Posted by nanobotz

This has worked really well with my Pisces Aussie btw. He keeps it in mind and is more forgiving toward me about those particular things, and in return - his kindness and understanding makes me want to work harder on improving those negative traits. It’s really sweet, healthy, and actually pretty wholesome too?
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