women who hate other women (Page 3)

This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by Cancan26 on Tuesday, May 15, 2018 and has 8 replies.

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I agree with OP.

However, I love men and women almost equally but for different reasons. I'm so tolerant, I can be embarrassed if my social circles accidentally mixed... and I've been in that situation, LOL! I'm strong enough for big acceptance, so much I make myself mad sometimes, LOL! But, I never put myself in a position where I am ever vulnerable in a friendship or relationship... by how I live my life.

The most important part of relationships to me is the art of communication... so much can be misunderstood: poor articulators, hearing instead of listening, taking things too literall. I find that most people do not understand a hyperbole. The foundation of my friendships is the ability to understand me no matter the personal view whether it be body language, energy, or speech, vocabulary or literary elements, historical references, etc.

I can find a racist endearing from time to time. Is he in my inner circle, probably not. Probably in the nosebleed seats.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Cancan26
so yesterday I stayed late at the office and was working with this other woman and we where having a seemingly nice conversation and before it was time to go she says we should hang out ...and I politely tell her she is not the type of person i would be friends with (which is still rude I know but it was the truth) and she says uuuggghh this is why I can't be friends with women...but yall there were a lot of red flags in our convo that made me reject her friendship application before it was ever officially offered to me

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red flag #1

I don't trust other women

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really? but Im a women, your a women ..you don't trust yourself? your mom is a women...you don't even trust your own mom? ...so you just don't trust half the population...mkay -_-

red flag #2
women are just too much drama

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lean in close for this ...if every relationship you have with women is catty and strained...yo. you might be the problem ...so yea

red flag #3
women are always competing with me!
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are they though? ..or are they just minding their damn business and your mad insecure so you think people are competing with you ..probably that second thing

red flag #4
men are way more chill

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the statement in a stereotypical but is pretty accurate in my experience but I find that women that use this is an excuse not to have a decent relationship with other women really mean ...men are way more chill they never call me out on my manipulative and petty behavior

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@out_of_darkness
8 Years

I'm with @Cancan26 on this. Some people call it "pushing people away" and not "seeing another person's POV". I call it discernment and self-protection. It has saved me from abuse, unwittingly winding up in prison, and death. I will NEVER go against my intuition about people. That's how innocent people's lives get treetrunked up. And I'll side-eye anyone who argues against this. People are treacherous.