@Sn1p3r187
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Virgins by 25 or 30?
Don't care.
Some have religious beliefs.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think they're gayWhy
What if they were gay and still a virgin?
👍🏻👍🏻
Great! At least there's a possibility that they're no STDs free.
Too many people have sti in such a young age, it's kind of cringey
Posted by Echo
👍🏻👍🏻Great! At least there's a possibility that they're no STDs free.
Too many people have sti in such a young age, it's kind of cringey
I know, it is. It's beyond cringey. It's morally disgusting and reckless. At least when I think of at least people just screwing around with no qualms and they're already with someone.
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
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Posted by Echo
👍🏻👍🏻Great! At least there's a possibility that they're no STDs free.
Too many people have sti in such a young age, it's kind of cringey
I know, it is. It's beyond cringey. It's morally disgusting and reckless. At least when I think of at least people just screwing around with no qualms and they're already with someone.click to expand
😒 I know someone who jumps quick like a mofo - into the next person he knows that likes him. He wants someone to be there to hold him and want that juicy love story like titanic.
All his relationships have failed - he probably have herpes 😥😥 kissing so many different girls
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
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Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
i think the question was about men
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Yes, it is but someone decided to make it about me.
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Posted by pompower
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
i think the question was about men
Yes, it is but someone decided to make it about me.
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Who? You? 🙂
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
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No one breaks the Hy-Man !!
I would think he had a strict childhood
asking for a friend?
Posted by DeadInside
if you have a phd or a degree, girl will want to fuck you
I had a friend who finally lost his virginity at 27 ...during his second year of dental school.
so kind of true
kind of untrue
Posted by Queenaries2
I would think he had a strict childhood
yeah
true for me
and my persian guy friend
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
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You're like me!!!!
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
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Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
I think they are special gems that should be cherished.
the truth is that it's becoming increasingly common nowadays
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
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Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
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Posted by DeadInside
if you have a phd or a degree, girl will want to fuck you
I had a friend who finally lost his virginity at 27 ...during his second year of dental school.
so kind of true
kind of untrue
no judgemental zone but, he has 27 and he has still hasnt finished ? when it's the end ?
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he's done now.
He finished undergrad at 23. Took a year off to work in a research lab where we met..and to get a few publications under his belt.
Then started dental school at 25.
I'm 30 and still haven't finished undergrad.
we all have different life paths....not everyone can go to school when they want
sometimes there is no money
sometimes people get sick and you have to help take care of them ( what happened to him)
both things have happened to me....multiple times over
sometimes you get sick.....
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I'm demi.
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*hug*
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
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Because they are small minded and ignorant and need to get out more ?
I had r.ships with three virgins.....none were religious....🙄
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Posted by DeadInside
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Posted by DeadInside
if you have a phd or a degree, girl will want to fuck you
I had a friend who finally lost his virginity at 27 ...during his second year of dental school.
so kind of true
kind of untrue
no judgemental zone but, he has 27 and he has still hasnt finished ? when it's the end ?
he's done now.
He finished undergrad at 23. Took a year off to work in a research lab where we met..and to get a few publications under his belt.
Then started dental school at 25.
I'm 30 and still haven't finished undergrad.
we all have different life paths....not everyone can go to school when they want
sometimes there is no money
sometimes people get sick and you have to help take care of them ( what happened to him)
both things have happened to me....multiple times over
sometimes you get sick.....
well that's the thing. most of people my age started their sex life when there were no obligations, as in 15. so we fucked during high school. who missed that probably had hard time with sex after. idk.
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apparently there was a girl in high school
but she liked him and he didn't like her back..and he didn't want to use her for sex / experimentation
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
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I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
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My husband was a virgin when we met. He was 22 at the time. I thought it was weird. I'd never do it again though. I want a man with experience.
lol what? what does that have to do with him being virgin or not lmao
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experience =/= XP
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
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yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
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Posted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
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Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
Ladies,
The most passionate and hot sex i had was with a virgin guy
Woooohhhh 😛
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
To all the female who are so Fukin accepting of everything. on Dxp.. Have you ever actually slept with a grown man who is a Virgin? I have. Never again. Gosh so much PTSD
Low-key. I feel like you were the one giving them PTSD. Virginity stealer 😛
I probably wouldn’t date one myself just because I prefer a man to lead when it comes to sex.
Having said that I do have a lot of respect for men that can keep celibacy for whatever reason. Too many people out there making poor decisions with their genitalia.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
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I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
A thread about me?
*edit: I am not a dude nevermind
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
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I'm a demisexual virgin too. Even the most physically attractive guys couldn't turn me on after trying for hours. There absolutely needs to be that complete emotional, mental, and physical package for me to have a chance to experience any bit of euphoria with someone else. I also have some Aqua placements so 🤔 Idk how others do it, maybe they're just primed the basic animalistic instincts.
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
I'm a demisexual virgin too. Even the most physically attractive guys couldn't turn me on after trying for hours. There absolutely needs to be that complete emotional, mental, and physical package for me to have a chance to experience any bit of euphoria with someone else. I also have some Aqua placements so 🤔 Idk how others do it, maybe they're just primed the basic animalistic instincts.
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I described my issue to my easily impressed and persuaded sister and she goes, “omg I’m the same way!” I was like, “wtf are you talking about? If you were anything like me, you wouldn’t be sleeping with men as frequently as you did, especially given how rare it is to have a connection on all three levels.” She was like, “oh, I wasn’t attracted to all of them on all level. I just talked myself through sex to get through it.” I’m like, “yep, that’s exactly why you’re not a Demi because I can’t do that. It would feel like rape.” Glory to people like her or anyone for that matter who can just jump someone solely for physical attraction.
I've never dated slutty men....yuk
Some men are just naturally good lovers and know what to do .... it's all to do with chemistry. You could meet a guy that had experienced lots of lovers but the vibe is all wrong....the chemistry is off
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I've never dated slutty men....yukSome men are just naturally good lovers and know what to do .... it's all to do with chemistry. You could meet a guy that had experienced lots of lovers but the vibe is all wrong....the chemistry is off
This part reminds me of Aries guy that used to chase me for years just because he couldn't accept a fact some girl rejected him...he was so full of himself cause women chased him A LOT cause he really was great looking guy and so full of himself...yet one time that I did decide to try him out he was just a disaster...not to even mention it went down half way to it...and there was simply no chemistry with him, ever! So yeah completely true, being experienced and having to be with lots of women doesn't have much to do with someone's performance. This guy was really a huge disappointment lol
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It went down...his dick? 😛 lol. The Aries guy i was with...it was always UP UP UP haha
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I've never dated slutty men....yukSome men are just naturally good lovers and know what to do .... it's all to do with chemistry. You could meet a guy that had experienced lots of lovers but the vibe is all wrong....the chemistry is off
This part reminds me of Aries guy that used to chase me for years just because he couldn't accept a fact some girl rejected him...he was so full of himself cause women chased him A LOT cause he really was great looking guy and so full of himself...yet one time that I did decide to try him out he was just a disaster...not to even mention it went down half way to it...and there was simply no chemistry with him, ever! So yeah completely true, being experienced and having to be with lots of women doesn't have much to do with someone's performance. This guy was really a huge disappointment lol
It went down...his dick? 😛 lol. The Aries guy i was with...it was always UP UP UP haha
yup that's it lol he blamed it on wearing condom lol like he can't perform with it and all that stuff...it was hilarious to watch lol
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Oh God....poor bloke. Was he older?
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by MyStarsShine
I've never dated slutty men....yukSome men are just naturally good lovers and know what to do .... it's all to do with chemistry. You could meet a guy that had experienced lots of lovers but the vibe is all wrong....the chemistry is off
This part reminds me of Aries guy that used to chase me for years just because he couldn't accept a fact some girl rejected him...he was so full of himself cause women chased him A LOT cause he really was great looking guy and so full of himself...yet one time that I did decide to try him out he was just a disaster...not to even mention it went down half way to it...and there was simply no chemistry with him, ever! So yeah completely true, being experienced and having to be with lots of women doesn't have much to do with someone's performance. This guy was really a huge disappointment lol
It went down...his dick? 😛 lol. The Aries guy i was with...it was always UP UP UP haha
yup that's it lol he blamed it on wearing condom lol like he can't perform with it and all that stuff...it was hilarious to watch lol
Oh God....poor bloke. Was he older?
Nope, 2 years older than me so I think 27 at a time lol
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Wow. Like we said if the chemistry is off......forget it. I would rather go without than have no passionate chemistry, would you Sag?
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by MyStarsShine
I've never dated slutty men....yukSome men are just naturally good lovers and know what to do .... it's all to do with chemistry. You could meet a guy that had experienced lots of lovers but the vibe is all wrong....the chemistry is off
This part reminds me of Aries guy that used to chase me for years just because he couldn't accept a fact some girl rejected him...he was so full of himself cause women chased him A LOT cause he really was great looking guy and so full of himself...yet one time that I did decide to try him out he was just a disaster...not to even mention it went down half way to it...and there was simply no chemistry with him, ever! So yeah completely true, being experienced and having to be with lots of women doesn't have much to do with someone's performance. This guy was really a huge disappointment lol
It went down...his dick? 😛 lol. The Aries guy i was with...it was always UP UP UP haha
yup that's it lol he blamed it on wearing condom lol like he can't perform with it and all that stuff...it was hilarious to watch lol
Oh God....poor bloke. Was he older?
Nope, 2 years older than me so I think 27 at a time lol
Wow. Like we said if the chemistry is off......forget it. I would rather go without than have no passionate chemistry, would you Sag?
me too, it's nothing if there's no chemistry, I just can't do that...it has to be something between us, that's the most important part, if there's that spark and chemistry it can really be amazing, if not then I just can't feel good about it :/
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Exactly.....let me know when you find it 🙂
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
Have you had long-term relationships? And if yes you never liked them on an emotional or mental level?
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Long term relationships being what exactly? I had a year long relationship where my ex was willing to wait for me. I am a quick learner and learned all my valuable lessons in that relationship.
One lesson is the following: when a guy is willing to wait for you, it has an expiration date at which point they either leave you or you get cheated on. Rightfully so, no complaints. I don’t think it’s fair for a woman to expect a guy to wait for her and I also don’t think a woman should feel pressured to put out because a guy is waiting on her. My ex cheated on me even though I gave him the option of leaving. I am not going to be pressured by a guy’s limit into putting out. I also realize it’s either I have the attraction to the guy or not. If not, I set them free. Why even entertain the idea of a man waiting for you only for you to never reach that point with him? I don’t see a point in that. The only time I wouldn’t mind a guy waiting is if I somehow
foresee with certainty that I will slee with a guy.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
I googled the demisexual thing and have to say it would make a lot of sense.
Thank you for introducing that to me.
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A lot of non-liberal Aquas will relate to it. My father was an Aqua with Pisces moon and people including my mom thought he was asexual. He just didn’t get the trifecta.
My mom is a phenomenal one of kind woman who most guys would be lucky to have. It’s unfortunate that she/her talent and everything about her was wasted on my dad.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
I googled the demisexual thing and have to say it would make a lot of sense.
Thank you for introducing that to me.
A lot of non-liberal Aquas will relate to it. My father was an Aqua with Pisces moon and people including my mom thought he was asexual. He just didn’t get the trifecta.
My mom is a phenomenal one of kind woman who most guys would be lucky to have. It’s unfortunate that she/her talent and everything about her was wasted on my dad.
Hmh, maybe I can't relate fully to it because I'm as liberal as one can get.
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My view on sex is liberal. If I could get my libido going with anyone, I'd probably live the hoelife proudly.
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WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
Have you had long-term relationships? And if yes you never liked them on an emotional or mental level?
Long term relationships being what exactly? I had a year long relationship where my ex was willing to wait for me. I am a quick learner and learned all my valuable lessons in that relationship.
One lesson is the following: when a guy is willing to wait for you, it has an expiration date at which point they either leave you or you get cheated on. Rightfully so, no complaints. I don’t think it’s fair for a woman to expect a guy to wait for her and I also don’t think a woman should feel pressured to put out because a guy is waiting on her. My ex cheated on me even though I gave him the option of leaving. I am not going to be pressured by a guy’s limit into putting out. I also realize it’s either I have the attraction to the guy or not. If not, I set them free. Why even entertain the idea of a man waiting for you only for you to never reach that point with him? I don’t see a point in that. The only time I wouldn’t mind a guy waiting is if I somehow
foresee with certainty that I will slee with a guy.
So you just never found anyone you connected with emotionally?
For me physical attraction is not mainly about how they look but the chemistry between us. I can't say I will be attracted to a man just by a photo of him. I need to interact with him to see if there is chemistry and connection between us. I can look at a picture and think yes he looks nice but then when I meet that person I don't feel attracted to him at all. Also the opposite can happen. When I first saw a photo of a guy I never thought I would be attracted to him but when I met him in person oh boy. Mmm Mmm Mmmm. 😂😂😂
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Yes, I never found anyone I connected with emotionally. You're absolutely correct on chemistry. I just didn't have chemistry with the guys I've casually dated. I know exactly what you mean by chemistry. When I was younger, there was a guy I had chemistry with. He made me laugh and we got along very well!! I connected on a mental and emotional level with him, but he was not physically attractive so although I was attracted to him, I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him. I don't know why but I need all three. My mom is always telling me that I'm looking for a unicorn because nobody gets everything in life, and that's true! This is why it's a lonely ride for demisexuals because how many people would have all three (physical, mental, and emotional) connection with their partner? I did meet one older man I had all three with. Unfortunately, he was married so that went nowhere.
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
I googled the demisexual thing and have to say it would make a lot of sense.
Thank you for introducing that to me.
A lot of non-liberal Aquas will relate to it. My father was an Aqua with Pisces moon and people including my mom thought he was asexual. He just didn’t get the trifecta.
My mom is a phenomenal one of kind woman who most guys would be lucky to have. It’s unfortunate that she/her talent and everything about her was wasted on my dad.
Hmh, maybe I can't relate fully to it because I'm as liberal as one can get.
My view on sex is liberal. If I could get my libido going with anyone, I'd probably live the hoelife proudly.
I see.
That statement made this whole thing even more relatable for me.
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All Aqua suns have a liberal view on sex. We don't associate sex as something sacred that needs to be withheld or put on a pedestal for a special someone. It's a bodily need and to be done whenever you have the urge. That's the Aqua perception on sex. Whether you practice it depends on your moon and mars.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
I googled the demisexual thing and have to say it would make a lot of sense.
Thank you for introducing that to me.
A lot of non-liberal Aquas will relate to it. My father was an Aqua with Pisces moon and people including my mom thought he was asexual. He just didn’t get the trifecta.
My mom is a phenomenal one of kind woman who most guys would be lucky to have. It’s unfortunate that she/her talent and everything about her was wasted on my dad.
Hmh, maybe I can't relate fully to it because I'm as liberal as one can get.
My view on sex is liberal. If I could get my libido going with anyone, I'd probably live the hoelife proudly.
I see.
That statement made this whole thing even more relatable for me.
All Aqua suns have a liberal view on sex. We don't associate sex as something sacred that needs to be withheld or put on a pedestal for a special someone. It's a bodily need and to be done whenever you have the urge. That's the Aqua perception on sex. Whether you practice it depends on your moon and mars.
Aren't Moon and Mars in Sagittarius not usually associated with promiscuous behaviour? At least that's what I often read or hear.
Yet, I only had one six month long phase of it and even that was only to kill my capacity for love.
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This is why theoretical astrology is garbage and made an observational astrology channel. I'm a big promoter of observational as opposed to theory. Sag mars can be very disciplined like cap mars, but the motivations are different.
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Posted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Sn1p3r187
WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!
Or 32. LOL
Dude just break the hyman
Are you Muslim?
Why are most people ignorant and assume that if someone is a virgin at an older age, it has to by default do something with religion. I never kept it for religion. I'm a demi-sexual (they have a word for someone like me now).
You're like me!!!!
Really! I'd like to meet more of us.
Yeah....more of us need to come out of the closet.
I don't hide it but I do get looked at as an enigma when I do bring it up. LOL.
yeah most people are like what is that....lol
i used to have the same experience until recently
it's not as much of a shocker in lgbtquia groups on the east coast
my university even has as asexual spectrum awareness week and group that meets up.
i still hate it though when someone shows interest and have to break the news to them.
Yeah, because people can't wait to hit the sacks nowadays and all I wanna do is get to know you before hittingthe sacks.
OK I have to ask out of curiosity. In your past relationships you never felt that urge to want to do it with them? I mean did you ever feel sexual attracted to them?
I only date guys I find physically attractive. The physical attraction was there every time, but for some reason when we made out or tried to have sex, it wasn’t turning me on. My other Aqua friends I discussed this issue with were able to pinpoint the issue for me because they had the same issue. I realized that I didn’t really know or didn’t really like these guys on an emotional and mental level. You’d think physical attraction is sufficient, but it wasn’t for me. I need a guy who isn’t just attractive but I have to know him and like him for the person that he is.
I googled the demisexual thing and have to say it would make a lot of sense.
Thank you for introducing that to me.
A lot of non-liberal Aquas will relate to it. My father was an Aqua with Pisces moon and people including my mom thought he was asexual. He just didn’t get the trifecta.
My mom is a phenomenal one of kind woman who most guys would be lucky to have. It’s unfortunate that she/her talent and everything about her was wasted on my dad.
Hmh, maybe I can't relate fully to it because I'm as liberal as one can get.
My view on sex is liberal. If I could get my libido going with anyone, I'd probably live the hoelife proudly.
I see.
That statement made this whole thing even more relatable for me.
All Aqua suns have a liberal view on sex. We don't associate sex as something sacred that needs to be withheld or put on a pedestal for a special someone. It's a bodily need and to be done whenever you have the urge. That's the Aqua perception on sex. Whether you practice it depends on your moon and mars.
Aren't Moon and Mars in Sagittarius not usually associated with promiscuous behaviour? At least that's what I often read or hear.
Yet, I only had one six month long phase of it and even that was only to kill my capacity for love.
This is why theoretical astrology is garbage and made an observational astrology channel. I'm a big promoter of observational as opposed to theory. Sag mars can be very disciplined like cap mars, but the motivations are different.
Is it the same channel as your aquarius video?
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Yep! I just finished my Aqua mars video but didn’t get into their sexual style because I’m building the channel right now, not crashing it by getting it flagged by the conservatives. haha.
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WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT GUYS WHO ARE VIRGINS BY THE TIME THEY'RE 25 OR 30?!