Does Virgo man like me as more then a friend or is he just being nice?

I’m a 31 year old female Libra sun, Pisces moon, virgo rising, Gemini mars, Libra Venus.

He is a 25 year old Virgo sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising, cancer mars, cancer Venus. (I’m new to this)

He added me randomly (mutual friends through college, I went later in life lol) I was really attracted to him thru social media, but we had never met. he’d like my posts and pics. So, I randomly responded to a post of him playing ball asking how tall he was. From then, we’ve talked every single day. We have so much in common, he’s kind hearted. He has tried to invite me to car shows he’s in, and even to social outings. But it’s never clear if it’s as friends or a date. I am a single mom, so I would legitimately be busy. He’d say bring the kids. I would make excuses bc I wasn’t ready to give someone my time like that.

He bought me a Christmas gift, which was just something that was so genuinely nice to me at the time, idk he has tried to meet up but he’s such a nice guy I often wonder if he does all of this out of charity lol and just bc he’s literally just a good friend and doesn’t see me as anything more then a friend.

We’ve generally talked about the things we look for in a partner, and we are describing each other without actually saying each others name. I just wonder how the Virgo man would be accepting of someone who already has children in a relationship and how they’d be accepting of that bc of their perfectionist and idealistic ways of what a perfect relationship and partner looks like in their head. Obviously my kids are first I’m just trying to figure him out from a Virgo perspective bc he’s sooooo hard to read and I feel like I’ve turned his attempts down so much he doesn’t even consider anything else anymore. Idk lol do u know virgos who take a year to ask a girl on a date?? Lol or that have dated women with kids—

how can you figure him out if you don't invest time in finding out?

maybe you are over complicating this and he general has interest.

I can't give you a generalization of what a virgo thinks of a woman with kids we ain't synced like that.

but with that amount of water in his chart he must cry himself to sleep every night listening to R&B songs from 2000.

Posted by LibraLady612

I’m a 31 year old female Libra sun, Pisces moon, virgo rising, Gemini mars, Libra Venus.

He is a 25 year old Virgo sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising, cancer mars, cancer Venus. (I’m new to this)

He added me randomly (mutual friends through college, I went later in life lol) I was really attracted to him thru social media, but we had never met. he’d like my posts and pics. So, I randomly responded to a post of him playing ball asking how tall he was. From then, we’ve talked every single day. We have so much in common, he’s kind hearted. He has tried to invite me to car shows he’s in, and even to social outings. But it’s never clear if it’s as friends or a date. I am a single mom, so I would legitimately be busy. He’d say bring the kids. I would make excuses bc I wasn’t ready to give someone my time like that.

He bought me a Christmas gift, which was just something that was so genuinely nice to me at the time, idk he has tried to meet up but he’s such a nice guy I often wonder if he does all of this out of charity lol and just bc he’s literally just a good friend and doesn’t see me as anything more then a friend.

We’ve generally talked about the things we look for in a partner, and we are describing each other without actually saying each others name. I just wonder how the Virgo man would be accepting of someone who already has children in a relationship and how they’d be accepting of that bc of their perfectionist and idealistic ways of what a perfect relationship and partner looks like in their head. Obviously my kids are first I’m just trying to figure him out from a Virgo perspective bc he’s sooooo hard to read and I feel like I’ve turned his attempts down so much he doesn’t even consider anything else anymore. Idk lol do u know virgos who take a year to ask a girl on a date?? Lol or that have dated women with kids—

Yes we would. Dude has a lot of cancer. Wouldn't be surprised if the kids where a draw to him. It's his moon I'm uncertain about. Piece is..interesting hard to read. You have to literally feel them out.

What is his mercury?

Posted by Weeds

how can you figure him out if you don't invest time in finding out?

maybe you are over complicating this and he general has interest.

I can't give you a generalization of what a virgo thinks of a woman with kids we ain't synced like that.

but with that amount of water in his chart he must cry himself to sleep every night listening to R&B songs from 2000.

Well I want to figure him out before I do that so that I don’t waste my time or invest my feelings if he doesn’t even see me as possibly being more.

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Posted by LibraLady612

I’m a 31 year old female Libra sun, Pisces moon, virgo rising, Gemini mars, Libra Venus.

He is a 25 year old Virgo sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising, cancer mars, cancer Venus. (I’m new to this)

He added me randomly (mutual friends through college, I went later in life lol) I was really attracted to him thru social media, but we had never met. he’d like my posts and pics. So, I randomly responded to a post of him playing ball asking how tall he was. From then, we’ve talked every single day. We have so much in common, he’s kind hearted. He has tried to invite me to car shows he’s in, and even to social outings. But it’s never clear if it’s as friends or a date. I am a single mom, so I would legitimately be busy. He’d say bring the kids. I would make excuses bc I wasn’t ready to give someone my time like that.

He bought me a Christmas gift, which was just something that was so genuinely nice to me at the time, idk he has tried to meet up but he’s such a nice guy I often wonder if he does all of this out of charity lol and just bc he’s literally just a good friend and doesn’t see me as anything more then a friend.

We’ve generally talked about the things we look for in a partner, and we are describing each other without actually saying each others name. I just wonder how the Virgo man would be accepting of someone who already has children in a relationship and how they’d be accepting of that bc of their perfectionist and idealistic ways of what a perfect relationship and partner looks like in their head. Obviously my kids are first I’m just trying to figure him out from a Virgo perspective bc he’s sooooo hard to read and I feel like I’ve turned his attempts down so much he doesn’t even consider anything else anymore. Idk lol do u know virgos who take a year to ask a girl on a date?? Lol or that have dated women with kids—

Yes we would. Dude has a lot of cancer. Wouldn't be surprised if the kids where a draw to him. It's his moon I'm uncertain about. Piece is..interesting hard to read. You have to literally feel them out.

What is his mercury?

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His mercury is Libra! And he actually works with kids with autism and behavioral issues, he loves kids but he told me he never saw himself having any his self. But he wouldn’t b against it with the right person. So maybe you’re right idk. I guess responding to him a day later and going ghost days at a time to his convos isn’t helping to feel him out lol 😅

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by LibraLady612

I’m a 31 year old female Libra sun, Pisces moon, virgo rising, Gemini mars, Libra Venus.

He is a 25 year old Virgo sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising, cancer mars, cancer Venus. (I’m new to this)

He added me randomly (mutual friends through college, I went later in life lol) I was really attracted to him thru social media, but we had never met. he’d like my posts and pics. So, I randomly responded to a post of him playing ball asking how tall he was. From then, we’ve talked every single day. We have so much in common, he’s kind hearted. He has tried to invite me to car shows he’s in, and even to social outings. But it’s never clear if it’s as friends or a date. I am a single mom, so I would legitimately be busy. He’d say bring the kids. I would make excuses bc I wasn’t ready to give someone my time like that.

He bought me a Christmas gift, which was just something that was so genuinely nice to me at the time, idk he has tried to meet up but he’s such a nice guy I often wonder if he does all of this out of charity lol and just bc he’s literally just a good friend and doesn’t see me as anything more then a friend.

We’ve generally talked about the things we look for in a partner, and we are describing each other without actually saying each others name. I just wonder how the Virgo man would be accepting of someone who already has children in a relationship and how they’d be accepting of that bc of their perfectionist and idealistic ways of what a perfect relationship and partner looks like in their head. Obviously my kids are first I’m just trying to figure him out from a Virgo perspective bc he’s sooooo hard to read and I feel like I’ve turned his attempts down so much he doesn’t even consider anything else anymore. Idk lol do u know virgos who take a year to ask a girl on a date?? Lol or that have dated women with kids—

Yes we would. Dude has a lot of cancer. Wouldn't be surprised if the kids where a draw to him. It's his moon I'm uncertain about. Piece is..interesting hard to read. You have to literally feel them out.

What is his mercury?

His mercury is Libra! And he actually works with kids with autism and behavioral issues, he loves kids but he told me he never saw himself having any his self. But he wouldn’t b against it with the right person. So maybe you’re right idk. I guess responding to him a day later and going ghost days at a time to his convos isn’t helping to feel him out lol 😅

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Hmm wait you playing that stupid hard to gey game or testing his interest level with the day later response?

Cuz I don't that approach working out with those placements. If you want to build a friendship first go for it. Since you had the what you want talk in a partner talk using double speak already, there is no need for that kind of game.

As to him saying he never saw himself with kids but can with the right person, that's true. Libra is intellectual they think things through with Virgo sun I could see a more in-depth level of compilation. I have heavy Virgo and Libra Venus.

You have a cancer moon so I suspect you will have a better feel for him then you realize. Keep in mind with your synastry he will have a sense of you as well.

Everything is a 2 way street. With the placements listed I suspect you will both have a natural sensitivity towards each other. Enjoy getting to know each other. That's the best part!

I'm dealing with someone who has strong cancer and Libra placements and I'm struggling with her. I can't remain objective beyond what I have already said.

So this is the only advice I can give you objectively.

I wouldn't question it at all if a guy with Cancer moon and Cancer venus seems too caring. It is just the way they are! Finding out if he means friendship or else is something you need to do something about to figure out. Why not go out with him once or accept one of his invitations? see how it goes being casual about it. You are over thinking cause you are afraid of knowing the result .. but it is just a journey and maybe you end up having a great friend or SO

Unless he says he is something different, he is just a friend

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Posted by LibraLady612

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Posted by LibraLady612

I’m a 31 year old female Libra sun, Pisces moon, virgo rising, Gemini mars, Libra Venus.

He is a 25 year old Virgo sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising, cancer mars, cancer Venus. (I’m new to this)

He added me randomly (mutual friends through college, I went later in life lol) I was really attracted to him thru social media, but we had never met. he’d like my posts and pics. So, I randomly responded to a post of him playing ball asking how tall he was. From then, we’ve talked every single day. We have so much in common, he’s kind hearted. He has tried to invite me to car shows he’s in, and even to social outings. But it’s never clear if it’s as friends or a date. I am a single mom, so I would legitimately be busy. He’d say bring the kids. I would make excuses bc I wasn’t ready to give someone my time like that.

He bought me a Christmas gift, which was just something that was so genuinely nice to me at the time, idk he has tried to meet up but he’s such a nice guy I often wonder if he does all of this out of charity lol and just bc he’s literally just a good friend and doesn’t see me as anything more then a friend.

We’ve generally talked about the things we look for in a partner, and we are describing each other without actually saying each others name. I just wonder how the Virgo man would be accepting of someone who already has children in a relationship and how they’d be accepting of that bc of their perfectionist and idealistic ways of what a perfect relationship and partner looks like in their head. Obviously my kids are first I’m just trying to figure him out from a Virgo perspective bc he’s sooooo hard to read and I feel like I’ve turned his attempts down so much he doesn’t even consider anything else anymore. Idk lol do u know virgos who take a year to ask a girl on a date?? Lol or that have dated women with kids—

Yes we would. Dude has a lot of cancer. Wouldn't be surprised if the kids where a draw to him. It's his moon I'm uncertain about. Piece is..interesting hard to read. You have to literally feel them out.

What is his mercury?

His mercury is Libra! And he actually works with kids with autism and behavioral issues, he loves kids but he told me he never saw himself having any his self. But he wouldn’t b against it with the right person. So maybe you’re right idk. I guess responding to him a day later and going ghost days at a time to his convos isn’t helping to feel him out lol 😅

Hmm wait you playing that stupid hard to gey game or testing his interest level with the day later response?

Cuz I don't that approach working out with those placements. If you want to build a friendship first go for it. Since you had the what you want talk in a partner talk using double speak already, there is no need for that kind of game.

As to him saying he never saw himself with kids but can with the right person, that's true. Libra is intellectual they think things through with Virgo sun I could see a more in-depth level of compilation. I have heavy Virgo and Libra Venus.

You have a cancer moon so I suspect you will have a better feel for him then you realize. Keep in mind with your synastry he will have a sense of you as well.

Everything is a 2 way street. With the placements listed I suspect you will both have a natural sensitivity towards each other. Enjoy getting to know each other. That's the best part!

I'm dealing with someone who has strong cancer and Libra placements and I'm struggling with her. I can't remain objective beyond what I have already said.

So this is the only advice I can give you objectively.

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I feel like I’m not playing hard to get at all lol . When I said I go ghost or don’t respond til days later it’s bc I’m legitimately busy. And I’m horrible at responding to people unless it’s thru email for work. Which is part of the reason I feel like maybe he thinks I’m not interested. But then again, he’s an understanding person so he may not take it personally knowing my situation. But okay that’s good to know. And how are U struggling with her?

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I wouldn't question it all if a guy with Cancer moon and Cancer venus seems too caring. It is just the way they are! Finding out if he means friendship or else is something you need to do something about to figure out. Why not go out with him once or accept one of his invitations? see how it goes being casual about it. You are over thinking cause you are afraid of knowing the result .. but it is just a journey and maybe you end up having a great friend or SO

You make alot of sense lol And you’re definitely spot on. But true, good point

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Posted by Gobbie

So, let me see...

You're trying to figure out his intentions but, at the same time, you're consciously dashing any chances you have of meeting up to find out the answers for yourself?

Either you need a smack around the head or you love living inside your head with your fantasises (which would also require a smack around the head).

*smh*

Let's be honest she's put off because he's younger.

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I’m not actually lol i kind of wonder if he’s put off that I’m older lol though I look twenties lol