and he wants me to be taken care of...??

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by lildol on Tuesday, July 6, 2010 and has 22 replies.

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@lildol
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Attack me if you choose...

So the Virgo has decided that he worries about me when he is out of town... what is that all about? 😛 I told him I'm good, been taking care of myself all my life, he says it's foolish for me to think that way, I need someone to take care of me. I thought Virgos were about taking care of themselves—

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do you lead every post with the ASSumption that you're going to be attacked?

is this projection? do you like being attacked? kinky sex? whips and chains? a lil s&m? b&d, t&d, i&e....ok, not sure what that last one stands for but eh....

you're weird too.

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Posted by lildol
Attack me if you choose...

So the Virgo has decided that he worries about me when he is out of town... what is that all about? 😛 I told him I'm good, been taking care of myself all my life, he says it's foolish for me to think that way, I need someone to take care of me. I thought Virgos were about taking care of themselves—

yes i'am i have a Leo moon all about me yes sir you gotta look out for yourself number 1 or u will get eaten by the wolves ur virgo is crazy must have a moon in a water sign for saying that lol thats like saying how can you take care of someone else when u cant even take care of yourself KEYWORDS U CANT.

true statement for me lol.

Sorry for the triple post.

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Posted by lildol
I'm lost LV *smh* huh?

sorry my post was answering ur question about how virgos like to take care of themselves when i said having a Leo moon its all about me yes sir you gotta look out for yourself number 1 or u will get eaten by the wolves and i said ur virgo is crazy by saying you need some one to take care of you implying that he must have a moon in a water sign for saying that because thats soft lol thats like saying how can you take care of someone else when u cant even take care of yourself KEYWORDS U CANT.

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Actually, come to think of it, my Virgo Dad married my mom because he felt she needed someone to take care of her (as he put it, he "felt sorry for her" - good 'ol Virgo tact!) :/ My mom probably rolled over in her grave when he told me that!! (strongest woman I ever knew).

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Posted by valeria25

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JUST DO HIM ALREADY!! X2 😛

He's waiting for marriage 🙂

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Yes he is - he said so himself! haha 😛

(he says that after the fact everytime - "no more, I'm waiting...")

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yeah, yeah, yeah, heard ya all already.

If only he just wanted me for sex I would know how to handle him better...

I can go to that man's house and he doesn't want to have sex... just wants to spend time with me (or spend time doing whatever and I'm welcome to hang out or even stay the night *shrugs* came home tonight anyway, despite the invite to stay). Although, we had a great slap boxing match tonight. Got my ass kicked and thrown on the bed a few times... but no sex.

Of course, if I initiate, that's another story, anyway...

He always jokes I just want him for sex - I told him no by no means, he pushed for what I wanted from him and I told him he didn't want to know, but he kept pushing, so I opened myself up and said "your heart" - still talking to me a zillion times a day and expects to see me daily. That was not easy, I put myself out there and still NO GOD DAMN SEX!! 😛

In reality he is really sweet, in his own Virgo kind of way despite his criticisms and his textbook ways. I do think knowing that he fits the mold 110% helps me a bit in understanding and interacting with him. I take what he says with a grain of salt and value every little action he makes.

How does this play into my post... I even got off topic, damn!