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P-Angel. You are being a bit harsh. I wish you wouldn't make so many assumptions about me based on one question. So, that upsets me. Though, i'm sure you made some valid points, the self proclaimed victim and martyr shit was a little much.

GodMadeBeauty. I'm not always good articulating what I want to say, but you came the closest to understanding what I meant all along. So, thank you.


I don't want to sound like a victim. I was just stating what was on my mind (and heart) at the time of my initial post. I'm in the service industry...all I do is serve, serve, serve people all the time, and I realize, that it has sucked the life and energy out of me. When I'm not at work all I can think about is...I don't want to do anything for anyone! I just wanna sit in a quiet room where no one can ask me for anything. I clearly need to stop serving professionally so I can actually serve the people I do love and not feel stretched so thin. I used to be a much more giving person.

So...thanks everyone for your comments. the good and bad. This was meant to be a venting thread for me (and anyone who has ever felt similarly).

^^^ Hey you up there...SHHHHHH. You're going to blow my cover and let it be known that I actually have a SOUL! muahahah.

No problem, I feel like this is a forum if you want to vent, or feel upset, or sad, or mad, and post about it you should be able to without being chastised for it, but thats just me. People will always be people.

I used to be always ready to help people, until my brother (Aries) told me how people just would take advantage of me - and it sunk in. Nowadays I'm not hesitating to turn people down, even though I end up beating myself up for it. I've never really had any good experiences when I've helped someone.

Btw, not sure what boom's problem is (or is this some sort of a aggressive flirting technique that I don't know about?).

Totally! Serving? When I first read that I thought I couldn't possibly be a Virgo. It all depends on the other aspects. I have a Leo rising and that could explain why I don't see myself as service-oriented. I am nice, like to help, but I am in my own world really. I have had people think I"m a Leo sun.