Anyone hear of successful Virgo Gemini relationship?

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I'm a Gemini female and never been with an earth sign before. My mother and brother are both virgos. I get on great with my brother but clash with my mother ( we are close just bicker a lot). Anyway I met a Virgo guy. The sex was amazing but I have already written off our relationship on the basis I'm a Gemini and he's a Virgo. I just wondered if anyone knew any successful couplings of these signs?

He's Venus libra, mars Gemini, moon Aquarius

I'm Venus Gemini, mars Leo, moon Capricorn

Are we doomed?
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Yes.

But it took me a long time to understand him. We have completely different mindset and the way emotions run through our heart. The start was absolutely terrible and drained my energy to that extent that I often thought I was dealing with a lunatic (he thought the same regarding me). But we made it.

I changed a lot. I went through a sort of catharsis, entered and experienced a completely new way of understanding and living some important moments of life.

You have Moon in Capricorn, that should help understand and feel him better.

It looks that you have Venus and Mars in the same sign, which is a great thing to have.

The best thing is to check the synastry between two of you and play with it a bit.

Planets play a big role in all of that, Sun signs are just a part of it.

Wishing you two a lot of luck (you will need it in the beginning) 🙂
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I was just looking for a topic on Gemini-Virgo because once again I am reminded of arguably the best marriage in my family.

My Virgo uncle and my Gemini aunt.

My family is pretty loud (latin lol) and tempers flare up. I have never seen them fight or raise their voices, unless they are giggling uncontrollably and laughing up at storm or chatting up a storm about anything.

Both grew up in the same village for 18 years with a population of less than 1000 people. Never ran into each other. They met in a factory in Turkey, out of all places. That's fate.

They have a Cancer son who is their pride and joy. Everything they work towards is for their kid who is talented at swimming so they support this path.

They've been together 20+ years.

Charts:

Him (Sept 12th): Virgo Sun/ Pisces Moon/ Virgo Mercury/ Libra Venus/ Taurus Mars

Her (June 12th): Gemini Sun/ Cancer Moon/ Cancer Mercury/ Gemini Venus/ Cancer Mars
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I was just looking for a topic on Gemini-Virgo because once again I am reminded of arguably the best marriage in my family.

My Virgo uncle and my Gemini aunt.

My family is pretty loud (latin lol) and tempers flare up. I have never seen them fight or raise their voices, unless they are giggling uncontrollably and laughing up at storm or chatting up a storm about anything.

Both grew up in the same village for 18 years with a population of less than 1000 people. Never ran into each other. They met in a factory in Turkey, out of all places. That's fate.

They have a Cancer son who is their pride and joy. Everything they work towards is for their kid who is talented at swimming so they support this path.

They've been together 20+ years.

Charts:

Him (Sept 12th): Virgo Sun/ Pisces Moon/ Virgo Mercury/ Libra Venus/ Taurus Mars

Her (June 12th): Gemini Sun/ Cancer Moon/ Cancer Mercury/ Gemini Venus/ Cancer Mars
Lies! Stop making shit up.
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Well my Gem sun/Leo moon ex liked me so.. 😛

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I'm a Gemini Sun,Scorpio Moon,w/Venus in Gemini.... talking to a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, with a Venus in Libra.

He is very stubborn and so am I. I am sure I get on his nerves alot,because I tend to change my mind alot. I am very shy and quiet around him though and he usually does the talking. He is extremely open with his feelings towards me,but I am not. We get along most of the time. We have had some huge fall outs over the 2 years we have known each other,but we always come back to each other. He also hates when I write long paragraphs of text messages..lol.
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and We have ALOT of chemistry. I have never felt so comfortable around someone. Sometimes, we just cant get along though. He is very set in his ways and he likes to put constructive criticism on me whenever I tell him plans about my career or life. Which can be annoying at times, because he literally sounds like my parents. He did that the very first time we meet each other. He started criticizing me! Not in a mean way, but more of a "you need to do this..and that."

On the positive side of things, he does encourage me to do my best at my goals and I know that he believes in me.He also cares for me alot. He is extremely straightforward. We dont talk everyday though. Sometimes we go a week without texting or talking. He likes to have conversations face to face though, so he usually just sends a little text asking me about my week.I like that he gives me my space and is not clingy.
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Any sign can work with any sign. Picking a mate purely on astrology is really stupid. My Dad did that and that didn't work out for him haha.

I have a couple Gemini friends, and one of them is a older guy in his late 50's. He had his daughter with a virgo woman. He has nothing nice to say about her. "Says things like" It is her way or the highway. He thought it would change after his daughter was born, but it only got worse. I really don't know why, but that was all he said to me about it. He is genuinely a good guy. I know him since I was a kid so for over 20 years.

It takes two to have a relationship. So don't be lazy. 🙂
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Yes.

But it took me a long time to understand him. We have completely different mindset and the way emotions run through our heart. The start was absolutely terrible and drained my energy to that extent that I often thought I was dealing with a lunatic (he thought the same regarding me). But we made it.

I changed a lot. I went through a sort of catharsis, entered and experienced a completely new way of understanding and living some important moments of life.

You have Moon in Capricorn, that should help understand and feel him better.

It looks that you have Venus and Mars in the same sign, which is a great thing to have.

The best thing is to check the synastry between two of you and play with it a bit.

Planets play a big role in all of that, Sun signs are just a part of it.

Wishing you two a lot of luck (you will need it in the beginning) 🙂
Why did you think he was a lunatic?
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In the early days of our courtship he used to disappear a lot. That wouldn't be strange if he wasn't leaving an impression of a serious person, so his behaviour confused me. He changed from day to day, and I really thought he was not all there, or a psycho even. Then, when he'd appear, I'd go mad like a I just escaped from lunar asylum, so he thought the same of me.

It turned out he was testing whether I could deal with different situations (?#@#)

He definitely has a bit of a sadistic streak in him. But so do I, and he's repaying for his behaviour, but he accepts it with joy 🙂

Now he's like a local train, stopping at the same stations, with perfect timing. I think I tamed the Leo in him (Leo rising and the Moon)and let the Virgo come out and shine its colours. I love the Virgo energy.

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I must say, though, that at the time he was going through hard times in the family, so he wasn't emotionally and physically strong and was behaving out of his character. I honestly think that my Moon in Pisces and its empathy saved the day. I just stuck with him and went through the storm.
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I'm a Gemini Sun,Scorpio Moon,w/Venus in Gemini.... talking to a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, with a Venus in Libra.

He is very stubborn and so am I. I am sure I get on his nerves alot,because I tend to change my mind alot. I am very shy and quiet around him though and he usually does the talking. He is extremely open with his feelings towards me,but I am not. We get along most of the time. We have had some huge fall outs over the 2 years we have known each other,but we always come back to each other. He also hates when I write long paragraphs of text messages..lol.
Gems are good at writing....books :-)
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Geminis try to understand. Do you?
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Posted by Damnata
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I was just looking for a topic on Gemini-Virgo because once again I am reminded of arguably the best marriage in my family.

My Virgo uncle and my Gemini aunt.

My family is pretty loud (latin lol) and tempers flare up. I have never seen them fight or raise their voices, unless they are giggling uncontrollably and laughing up at storm or chatting up a storm about anything.

Both grew up in the same village for 18 years with a population of less than 1000 people. Never ran into each other. They met in a factory in Turkey, out of all places. That's fate.

They have a Cancer son who is their pride and joy. Everything they work towards is for their kid who is talented at swimming so they support this path.

They've been together 20+ years.

Charts:

Him (Sept 12th): Virgo Sun/ Pisces Moon/ Virgo Mercury/ Libra Venus/ Taurus Mars

Her (June 12th): Gemini Sun/ Cancer Moon/ Cancer Mercury/ Gemini Venus/ Cancer Mars
Lies! Stop making shit up.
Well my Gem sun/Leo moon ex liked me so.. 😛



You had a Gemini sun Leo moon bf? OMG stop making stuff up! How long have I been dxping? I've never heard you say that once.

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Lmao I think this is the third time I told you that directly.

DXPing drunk/high plays tricks on memory bruh.
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I'm a Gemini Sun,Scorpio Moon,w/Venus in Gemini.... talking to a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, with a Venus in Libra.

He is very stubborn and so am I. I am sure I get on his nerves alot,because I tend to change my mind alot. I am very shy and quiet around him though and he usually does the talking. He is extremely open with his feelings towards me,but I am not. We get along most of the time. We have had some huge fall outs over the 2 years we have known each other,but we always come back to each other. He also hates when I write long paragraphs of text messages..lol.
Gems are good at writing....books :-)
Geminis try to understand. Do you?


Yea I understand but then when you guys write that love book and then don't want to give to virgo, we don't understand why then.... You gems girls have that habit of that.
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Patience.

Just like we are patient with you showing emotion for us. But a real emotion.
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Posted by thepurpleone
I'm a Gemini Sun,Scorpio Moon,w/Venus in Gemini.... talking to a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, with a Venus in Libra.

He is very stubborn and so am I. I am sure I get on his nerves alot,because I tend to change my mind alot. I am very shy and quiet around him though and he usually does the talking. He is extremely open with his feelings towards me,but I am not. We get along most of the time. We have had some huge fall outs over the 2 years we have known each other,but we always come back to each other. He also hates when I write long paragraphs of text messages..lol.
Gems are good at writing....books :-)
Geminis try to understand. Do you?


Yea I understand but then when you guys write that love book and then don't want to give to virgo, we don't understand why then.... You gems girls have that habit of that.
Patience.

Just like we are patient with you showing emotion for us. But a real emotion.


Yea, eventually yall do give over the love books.
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Virgo mind 🙂

There's wood and there's trees. Which way to look at?

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Posted by BadBoy
Posted by FeelingGemini
Posted by BadBoy
Posted by FeelingGemini
Posted by BadBoy
Posted by thepurpleone
I'm a Gemini Sun,Scorpio Moon,w/Venus in Gemini.... talking to a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, with a Venus in Libra.

He is very stubborn and so am I. I am sure I get on his nerves alot,because I tend to change my mind alot. I am very shy and quiet around him though and he usually does the talking. He is extremely open with his feelings towards me,but I am not. We get along most of the time. We have had some huge fall outs over the 2 years we have known each other,but we always come back to each other. He also hates when I write long paragraphs of text messages..lol.
Gems are good at writing....books :-)
Geminis try to understand. Do you?


Yea I understand but then when you guys write that love book and then don't want to give to virgo, we don't understand why then.... You gems girls have that habit of that.
Patience.

Just like we are patient with you showing emotion for us. But a real emotion.


Yea, eventually yall do give over the love books.
Virgo mind 🙂

There's wood and there's trees. Which way to look at?


well trees are wood.

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That kind of dry reasoning is deceiving.

I still love Virgo mind.