ive been talking to~ a virgo for a while. seemed like a nice person and all that. but ive noticed lately hes a little condescending and explains~ things to me as if I dont know?? Like...— I am notttt the one to be doing this with (lol). is this a virgo thing or a regular jerk thing? idk. i know virgos sometimes say stuff they dont mean to come across as rude but idk....
are virgos usually condescending??

I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.

Are scorpios usually plotting murder?
Are pisces usually drunk?
Are taurus usually eating?
Is an aqua usually sniffing paint?
Are cancers usually sad?
Are leos usually looking in a mirror?
Are sags usually fucking?
Duh.
Are pisces usually drunk?
Are taurus usually eating?
Is an aqua usually sniffing paint?
Are cancers usually sad?
Are leos usually looking in a mirror?
Are sags usually fucking?
Duh.

Yes

Posted by Weeds
I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.
Sounds exactly like my ex Virgo, lol
How are you weeds? How's the rapping going...any new stuff?

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Are scorpios usually plotting murder?
Are pisces usually drunk?
Are taurus usually eating?
Is an aqua usually sniffing paint?
Are cancers usually sad?
Are leos usually looking in a mirror?
Are sags usually fucking?
Duh.
Yes always
....but it's glue not paint
Lol

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AfternoonDelights22
Are scorpios usually plotting murder?
Are pisces usually drunk?
Are taurus usually eating?
Is an aqua usually sniffing paint?
Are cancers usually sad?
Are leos usually looking in a mirror?
Are sags usually fucking?
Duh.
Yes always
....but it's glue not paint
Lolclick to expand
touche!

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Weeds
I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.
Sounds exactly like my ex Virgo, lol
How are you weeds? How's the rapping going...any new stuff?click to expand
Hello!
I make progress... then the next day I listen and don't like it and delete it.
Had to put it aside and do drawing again to keep my creativity alive.
How bout you? You seemed to be struggling a bit with ppl last time we chatted.

Posted by WeedsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Weeds
I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.
Sounds exactly like my ex Virgo, lol
How are you weeds? How's the rapping going...any new stuff?
Hello!
I make progress... then the next day I listen and don't like it and delete it.
Had to put it aside and do drawing again to keep my creativity alive.
How bout you? You seemed to be struggling a bit with ppl last time we chatted.click to expand
Ahh no, you shouldn't delete ... at least you're being creative
Struggling. I can't remember that...was it a bloke lol?
The struggle is over.....I'm a free woman and finding peace 😊

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WeedsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Weeds
I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.
Sounds exactly like my ex Virgo, lol
How are you weeds? How's the rapping going...any new stuff?
Hello!
I make progress... then the next day I listen and don't like it and delete it.
Had to put it aside and do drawing again to keep my creativity alive.
How bout you? You seemed to be struggling a bit with ppl last time we chatted.
Ahh no, you shouldn't delete ... at least you're being creative
Struggling. I can't remember that...was it a bloke lol?
The struggle is over.....I'm a free woman and finding peace 😊click to expand
No I think the place you were working in changed ownership or something? I can't remember either lol
Good! Happy for you!

Posted by WeedsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by WeedsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Weeds
I will regularly consider someone an idiot until they challenge me.... no offense.
Sounds exactly like my ex Virgo, lol
How are you weeds? How's the rapping going...any new stuff?
Hello!
I make progress... then the next day I listen and don't like it and delete it.
Had to put it aside and do drawing again to keep my creativity alive.
How bout you? You seemed to be struggling a bit with ppl last time we chatted.
Ahh no, you shouldn't delete ... at least you're being creative
Struggling. I can't remember that...was it a bloke lol?
The struggle is over.....I'm a free woman and finding peace 😊
No I think the place you were working in changed ownership or something? I can't remember either lol
Good! Happy for you!click to expand
Thanks! Oh right.....i left an employer who tried to pull the wool over my eyes, but didn't succeed, i got over a thousand quid out of them for their sins😈 and hopefully helped some other employees?
Moral of the story, never work for other people if you have a rebellious streak lol
Virgos have great memories, that was last year!
Share some of your art and songs, if you can
👍
I'm condescending without trying. It's not that I think you're "stupid" it's just that I've been conditioned my whole life to HAVE to explain EVERYTHING in-depth because I've come to learn that nobody gives a shit about something the way that I do, and they'll never grasp the extent of details and or do the laborous analysis to understand something like I will.
I'm conditioned to be required to explain everything. Not because I think you're "stupid" or "not intelligent" but because I just expect you to be "too lazy" to go in-depth with me....... so I drag you along.
I'm conditioned to be required to explain everything. Not because I think you're "stupid" or "not intelligent" but because I just expect you to be "too lazy" to go in-depth with me....... so I drag you along.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Are scorpios usually plotting murder?
Are pisces usually drunk?
Are taurus usually eating?
Is an aqua usually sniffing paint?
Are cancers usually sad?
Are leos usually looking in a mirror?
Are sags usually fucking?
Duh.
👀

Welcome to my hell. Is there anyway to get it to stop?

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.click to expand
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.click to expand
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏click to expand
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.click to expand
He's learning that I don't give in to his crap. I think he's more frustrated with my lack of emotional depth cause he hasn't seen it yet. Unfortunately, the more he digs, the more I will hold back. I hate being forced into something.
Thanks for answering, even though you seem like a happy Virgo 😄 You are straight to the point, and honest, so I like asking you stuff.

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.
He's learning that I don't give in to his crap. I think he's more frustrated with my lack of emotional depth cause he hasn't seen it yet. Unfortunately, the more he digs, the more I will hold back. I hate being forced into something.
Thanks for answering, even though you seem like a happy Virgo 😄 You are straight to the point, and honest, so I like asking you stuff.click to expand
I'm the same way lol. The more they try the more I ain't giving them nothing 😂. I hate emotional manipulation and will call someone out on it and it does frustrate them because they've gotten away with it before with others...shit just doesn't work on me. 🤷
You're welcome and anytime...it's what I'm here for 😊

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.
He's learning that I don't give in to his crap. I think he's more frustrated with my lack of emotional depth cause he hasn't seen it yet. Unfortunately, the more he digs, the more I will hold back. I hate being forced into something.
Thanks for answering, even though you seem like a happy Virgo 😄 You are straight to the point, and honest, so I like asking you stuff.
I'm the same way lol. The more they try the more I ain't giving them nothing 😂. I hate emotional manipulation and will call someone out on it and it does frustrate them because they've gotten away with it before with others...shit just doesn't work on me. 🤷
You're welcome and anytime...it's what I'm here for 😊click to expand
Such a sweetheart 🤗 Thanks.
Should I call him out on this? 🤔 I try not to interfere with how someone acts because I like to see how things unfold organically.
But now that you say this, I wonder if I should call him out on it or casually mention it.
What do you think?
I don’t want to tell him that it won’t work on me though. He’s so manipulative that I think he will just try it a different way. I kind of like seeing him struggle with it too 🤣🤣

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.
He's learning that I don't give in to his crap. I think he's more frustrated with my lack of emotional depth cause he hasn't seen it yet. Unfortunately, the more he digs, the more I will hold back. I hate being forced into something.
Thanks for answering, even though you seem like a happy Virgo 😄 You are straight to the point, and honest, so I like asking you stuff.
I'm the same way lol. The more they try the more I ain't giving them nothing 😂. I hate emotional manipulation and will call someone out on it and it does frustrate them because they've gotten away with it before with others...shit just doesn't work on me. 🤷
You're welcome and anytime...it's what I'm here for 😊
Such a sweetheart 🤗 Thanks.
Should I call him out on this? 🤔 I try not to interfere with how someone acts because I like to see how things unfold organically.
But now that you say this, I wonder if I should call him out on it or casually mention it.
What do you think?
I don’t want to tell him that it won’t work on me though. He’s so manipulative that I think he will just try it a different way. I kind of like seeing him struggle with it too 🤣🤣
click to expand
Nothing wrong with observation first but he may not even be aware he's doing it either...maybe try it in a subtle manner and see how he takes it...then you know which approach to take down the road.

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes
How do you get it to stop?
Sometimes it doesn’t even seem like the stuff is true that comes of if his mouth. I just shoot him with an “Oh yeah, I didn’t know that” so we can move on from the topic.
It’s like he makes stuff up as he goes along. Lol.
I don’t know if I should actually say that to him, I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
I'm only like that when aggravated or frustrated and it's more sarcastic than condescending at least in my eyes lol. Unless he's really being ignorant...then I would just ignore it, take it with a grain of salt or give it back to him. Some people are just like that and they don't even realize it...just a part of who they are 🤷.
You have lots of fire do I think that makes you guys very different. You don’t seem as uptight and you have a sense of humor. This guy is mostly earth and water so I’m finding him very manipulative. Well at least he tries to be. 😏
I'd like to think I'm not as uptight as most Virgos. I learned along time ago...most people don't give a shit so I'd just be wasting time and energy for nothing.. so it's pointless and I'd rather make people laugh than seeing them so serious.
Probably has to do with all the water he has...water men can be the biggest of assholes...except Pisces guys...they are too laid back to give a shit lol.
He's learning that I don't give in to his crap. I think he's more frustrated with my lack of emotional depth cause he hasn't seen it yet. Unfortunately, the more he digs, the more I will hold back. I hate being forced into something.
Thanks for answering, even though you seem like a happy Virgo 😄 You are straight to the point, and honest, so I like asking you stuff.
I'm the same way lol. The more they try the more I ain't giving them nothing 😂. I hate emotional manipulation and will call someone out on it and it does frustrate them because they've gotten away with it before with others...shit just doesn't work on me. 🤷
You're welcome and anytime...it's what I'm here for 😊
Such a sweetheart 🤗 Thanks.
Should I call him out on this? 🤔 I try not to interfere with how someone acts because I like to see how things unfold organically.
But now that you say this, I wonder if I should call him out on it or casually mention it.
What do you think?
I don’t want to tell him that it won’t work on me though. He’s so manipulative that I think he will just try it a different way. I kind of like seeing him struggle with it too 🤣🤣
Nothing wrong with observation first but he may not even be aware he's doing it either...maybe try it in a subtle manner and see how he takes it...then you know which approach to take down the road.click to expand
I’ll try to see what I can do. I don’t think I’m subtle about much cause I’m so blunt 😩😩
I’ll pass it by him the next time I see him. It will be like early May most likely since I’ll be gone on vacation for a while.
Posted by IceVirg
I'm condescending without trying. It's not that I think you're "stupid" it's just that I've been conditioned my whole life to HAVE to explain EVERYTHING in-depth because I've come to learn that nobody gives a shit about something the way that I do, and they'll never grasp the extent of details and or do the laborous analysis to understand something like I will.
I'm conditioned to be required to explain everything. Not because I think you're "stupid" or "not intelligent" but because I just expect you to be "too lazy" to go in-depth with me....... so I drag you along.
This is spot on! thank you!
I've noticed my virgo does this lol , when i do go "deep" with him he seems shocked and impressed haha.

Posted by aquatar1
ive been talking to~ a virgo for a while. seemed like a nice person and all that. but ive noticed lately hes a little condescending and explains~ things to me as if I dont know?? Like...— I am notttt the one to be doing this with (lol). is this a virgo thing or a regular jerk thing? idk. i know virgos sometimes say stuff they dont mean to come across as rude but idk....
Yes... Virgo men are condescending.
My Virgo gal pals are not.
My husband and brothers are quite condescending and I love it because my Gemini moon loves an opportunity to cut loose mercilessly. They are usually stunned. I think I might be condescending too.
I pick from a vast Gemini Moon repitoire:
One liner shut your whole being down.
One liner to question your entire existence.
I.Q. check set-up
Slow reveal mimicry
Humor
and... sometimes gibber gab nonsense, yes, gibber gab nonsense.
My husband and I do this dance daily and we enjoy it with humor. Cause it get's so verbally deep, we probably sound like fools to outsiders. It's our dance we perfected for 25 years. He missed this more than anything when he was dating other women.
For the last month, we've been calling each other the N-word in various accents when we outwit the other, LMAO.

Last year, we ended each battle of wits by saying "ole ignant ass" in competing greasy slimy tones, Lol, making each other laugh at whoever was the most greasy sounding.
When we exhausted all greasiness, we revamped by who could mumble or whisper it most nonchalantly. That one was about the best timing... we'd do it at restaurants, at the check out line, lol.
We have humorous battles over which one of the children's flaws belong to who. Whenever they do something stupid, we say "that's ya boy" or "that's ya girl." Virgo added a twist by saying it sarcastically when it is blatantly a flaw they inherited from him. The indicator is that he'll make a goofy ugly face when he knows it's his flaw but still say, "that's ya boy."
When we exhausted all greasiness, we revamped by who could mumble or whisper it most nonchalantly. That one was about the best timing... we'd do it at restaurants, at the check out line, lol.
We have humorous battles over which one of the children's flaws belong to who. Whenever they do something stupid, we say "that's ya boy" or "that's ya girl." Virgo added a twist by saying it sarcastically when it is blatantly a flaw they inherited from him. The indicator is that he'll make a goofy ugly face when he knows it's his flaw but still say, "that's ya boy."
I find myself doing this but it's not out of feeling I'm superior, it's just coming from a logical, explaining place. I don't mean any harm. If I do this with my bf, sometimes he'll think I think he's stupid. Then I feel horrible because that's NOT what I was thinking AT ALL! For next it's just information I'm sharing.

Guys don’t clip your rose bush every day!! You’ll be left with no bush left.
Prune late winter/early spring and then deadhead the rest of the season.
Prune late winter/early spring and then deadhead the rest of the season.

If you’re insecure , everything a Virgo day will be condescending in tone .
If you’re confident and secure as a person and have no reason for a Virgo to be condescending or disrespectful to you then the Virgo is just talking
If you’re confident and secure as a person and have no reason for a Virgo to be condescending or disrespectful to you then the Virgo is just talking

Posted by Lakeslady330
I find myself doing this but it's not out of feeling I'm superior, it's just coming from a logical, explaining place. I don't mean any harm. If I do this with my bf, sometimes he'll think I think he's stupid. Then I feel horrible because that's NOT what I was thinking AT ALL! For next it's just information I'm sharing.
This is me n my cancer. He’s closed off and doesn’t know much about anything . So I teach him stuff so he would know about them but he gets defensive because he thinks I think he’s dumb
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