Crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single (Page 5)

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7 Years

Posted by thatlibralife

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Hi y’all. So yesterday, he talked to me 😐 . He saw that I was showing a car to a customer, and the sales people aren’t allowed on the test drive anymore because of Corona so I went to smoke a cig while they were on the drive. He was sitting on the bench smoking, and before I had the chance to walk away (as I’ve been doing when I see him on the bench) he asked me if I had sold said car. We got to talking about work and this and that. He asked me for help with something (As he always does) just where a certain key might be to a certain vehicle. He then went to walk back inside and said “I miss being your friend.”

I kinda knew that would happen at some point because of the way he’s been staring at me, not even trying to hide it anymore but it happened sooner than I expected. Is this the hallmark of a psychopath? Like bro you or your gf or whomever stole $ 1500 from me and all you gotta say is “I miss being your friend”?

I’m confused. And happy. And mad that I’m happy. And glad I have today off.

Too much drama. I wouldn’t entertain his ass e.v.e.r. again. I will ice out a mofo for much much less. Where is that iron fist we are known for? Call on it! Took 1500 from you? Awww helllzzz nahhh

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I’m hoping to get to the bottom of it to find out wtf really happened that night. The problem is I think I really was in love with him 😢 and just days before I was imagining making out with him again ugh. The problem with the iron fist is I’m still not 100% about what actually happened. His gf uncle took it, she took it, they took it and they whole thing was a set up. I just hope to really find out what happened. I’m thinking next time I see him (I assume he’ll now be comfortable going out for a cig when he sees me going out) I’ll just say “how can I ever trust you again after what happened?” And go from there I guess

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7 Years

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Hi y’all. So yesterday, he talked to me 😐 . He saw that I was showing a car to a customer, and the sales people aren’t allowed on the test drive anymore because of Corona so I went to smoke a cig while they were on the drive. He was sitting on the bench smoking, and before I had the chance to walk away (as I’ve been doing when I see him on the bench) he asked me if I had sold said car. We got to talking about work and this and that. He asked me for help with something (As he always does) just where a certain key might be to a certain vehicle. He then went to walk back inside and said “I miss being your friend.”

I kinda knew that would happen at some point because of the way he’s been staring at me, not even trying to hide it anymore but it happened sooner than I expected. Is this the hallmark of a psychopath? Like bro you or your gf or whomever stole $ 1500 from me and all you gotta say is “I miss being your friend”?

I’m confused. And happy. And mad that I’m happy. And glad I have today off.

Too much drama. I wouldn’t entertain his ass e.v.e.r. again. I will ice out a mofo for much much less. Where is that iron fist we are known for? Call on it! Took 1500 from you? Awww helllzzz nahhh

I’m hoping to get to the bottom of it to find out wtf really happened that night. The problem is I think I really was in love with him 😢 and just days before I was imagining making out with him again ugh. The problem with the iron fist is I’m still not 100% about what actually happened. His gf uncle took it, she took it, they took it and they whole thing was a set up. I just hope to really find out what happened. I’m thinking next time I see him (I assume he’ll now be comfortable going out for a cig when he sees me going out) I’ll just say “how can I ever trust you again after what happened?” And go from there I guess

That’s one thing I’ve seen us libras do time and again. We will hang on for dear life if we feel it’s worth it somehow but baaaabeee you can best believe when we’re done it’s a wrap. You are not quite there yet...

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Yesss exactly!! Like I just wanna hear “his side” and clear the air. I will let him know how I feel about the whole thing. It just the looks that kill me too. All last week and I’d stare back like “wtf you looking at” lmao. I’ll get there, or hey maybe not. Maybe he has been tied in the basement by his gf lol we’ll see

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7 Years

So things been good again. The next day after he said he misses being my friend, I asked him how I could trust him after what happened. (Of course, all of this is private in front of no other co workers). He was really nervous, but said he did not want to make me uncomfortable or make me do anything I don’t want to do. Said he’s been really messed up past few months, and hasn’t been dealing with anything the way he should be. Said he hates what happened between us and just wants to feel normal again. Basically, I’m really glad to be his friend again and really hope I can help him get away from his gf.

I know this whole thread has seemed awful because he has a gf, but she truly, honestly is no good and I do not believe for a second he would have even flirted with me if they were good. He first introduced himself to me a year ago tomorrow (although we worked together for about 3 months before) Crazy how time flies. But he’s gotta get away from her. He’s in an abusive situation. Isolated from friends. Needs permission to leave his house. Gives her his phone everyday after work. And I think he may have Stockholm syndrome (that’s what his SISTER said which shows how awful the gf is) and yeah I don’t know, but I want to help. Maybe that’s the libra in me.

Ill still keep y’all updated 🙂

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7 Years

Posted by thatlibralife

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So things been good again. The next day after he said he misses being my friend, I asked him how I could trust him after what happened. (Of course, all of this is private in front of no other co workers). He was really nervous, but said he did not want to make me uncomfortable or make me do anything I don’t want to do. Said he’s been really messed up past few months, and hasn’t been dealing with anything the way he should be. Said he hates what happened between us and just wants to feel normal again. Basically, I’m really glad to be his friend again and really hope I can help him get away from his gf.

I know this whole thread has seemed awful because he has a gf, but she truly, honestly is no good and I do not believe for a second he would have even flirted with me if they were good. He first introduced himself to me a year ago tomorrow (although we worked together for about 3 months before) Crazy how time flies. But he’s gotta get away from her. He’s in an abusive situation. Isolated from friends. Needs permission to leave his house. Gives her his phone everyday after work. And I think he may have Stockholm syndrome (that’s what his SISTER said which shows how awful the gf is) and yeah I don’t know, but I want to help. Maybe that’s the libra in me.

Ill still keep y’all updated 🙂

The girlfriend sounds like a controlling nutcase. This could be dangerous. Be safe. I hope you are strapped. These are crazy times... Also out of curiosity, what is the girlfriend’s sun sign?

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Def dangerous. My main thought is she threatens to have his kid taken away or something. He has custody of his son, and sees his daughter few times a week. According to his sister, she actually abandoned her kids to be with him. I guess she’d be homeless if she didn’t live with him.

She’s a libra 😢 girls making us look bad. Rising sign is Scorpio

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So things been good again. The next day after he said he misses being my friend, I asked him how I could trust him after what happened. (Of course, all of this is private in front of no other co workers). He was really nervous, but said he did not want to make me uncomfortable or make me do anything I don’t want to do. Said he’s been really messed up past few months, and hasn’t been dealing with anything the way he should be. Said he hates what happened between us and just wants to feel normal again. Basically, I’m really glad to be his friend again and really hope I can help him get away from his gf.

I know this whole thread has seemed awful because he has a gf, but she truly, honestly is no good and I do not believe for a second he would have even flirted with me if they were good. He first introduced himself to me a year ago tomorrow (although we worked together for about 3 months before) Crazy how time flies. But he’s gotta get away from her. He’s in an abusive situation. Isolated from friends. Needs permission to leave his house. Gives her his phone everyday after work. And I think he may have Stockholm syndrome (that’s what his SISTER said which shows how awful the gf is) and yeah I don’t know, but I want to help. Maybe that’s the libra in me.

Ill still keep y’all updated 🙂

The girlfriend sounds like a controlling nutcase. This could be dangerous. Be safe. I hope you are strapped. These are crazy times... Also out of curiosity, what is the girlfriend’s sun sign?

Def dangerous. My main thought is she threatens to have his kid taken away or something. He has custody of his son, and sees his daughter few times a week. According to his sister, she actually abandoned her kids to be with him. I guess she’d be homeless if she didn’t live with him.

She’s a libra 😢 girls making us look bad. Rising sign is Scorpio

Ahhhh gawd a crazy ass libra lol...whelp sis you got a fight on your hands...

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Girl the first time I saw her too omg. I normally do not ever judge anyone based on looks but I had smoked a bit of tree before the Xmas party, and when I arrived I had to run to the bathroom to laugh my bum off of why he’s with her to begin with. That’s awful I know, but I sat next to them because my friend from work who drove me sat next to them.

Anyway, next time I can get him in private I’m gonna tell him my couch is still available if he ever needs it, but she better not ever find out where I live. She did threaten to come to our work and fight me before. Obvi we cant communicate on the phone or anything now which sucks. But she did have a “spy” (one of the other mechanics) reporting to her if me and him talk or smoke together or anything, but he’s gone now luckily because of what’s been going on. I’m just gonna continue to build him up every chance I get. I make him happy and she does not

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7 Years

Posted by thatlibralife

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Posted by librak924

So things been good again. The next day after he said he misses being my friend, I asked him how I could trust him after what happened. (Of course, all of this is private in front of no other co workers). He was really nervous, but said he did not want to make me uncomfortable or make me do anything I don’t want to do. Said he’s been really messed up past few months, and hasn’t been dealing with anything the way he should be. Said he hates what happened between us and just wants to feel normal again. Basically, I’m really glad to be his friend again and really hope I can help him get away from his gf.

I know this whole thread has seemed awful because he has a gf, but she truly, honestly is no good and I do not believe for a second he would have even flirted with me if they were good. He first introduced himself to me a year ago tomorrow (although we worked together for about 3 months before) Crazy how time flies. But he’s gotta get away from her. He’s in an abusive situation. Isolated from friends. Needs permission to leave his house. Gives her his phone everyday after work. And I think he may have Stockholm syndrome (that’s what his SISTER said which shows how awful the gf is) and yeah I don’t know, but I want to help. Maybe that’s the libra in me.

Ill still keep y’all updated 🙂

The girlfriend sounds like a controlling nutcase. This could be dangerous. Be safe. I hope you are strapped. These are crazy times... Also out of curiosity, what is the girlfriend’s sun sign?

Def dangerous. My main thought is she threatens to have his kid taken away or something. He has custody of his son, and sees his daughter few times a week. According to his sister, she actually abandoned her kids to be with him. I guess she’d be homeless if she didn’t live with him.

She’s a libra 😢 girls making us look bad. Rising sign is Scorpio

Ahhhh gawd a crazy ass libra lol...whelp sis you got a fight on your hands...

Girl the first time I saw her too omg. I normally do not ever judge anyone based on looks but I had smoked a bit of tree before the Xmas party, and when I arrived I had to run to the bathroom to laugh my bum off of why he’s with her to begin with. That’s awful I know, but I sat next to them because my friend from work who drove me sat next to them.

Anyway, next time I can get him in private I’m gonna tell him my couch is still available if he ever needs it, but she better not ever find out where I live. She did threaten to come to our work and fight me before. Obvi we cant communicate on the phone or anything now which sucks. But she did have a “spy” (one of the other mechanics) reporting to her if me and him talk or smoke together or anything, but he’s gone now luckily because of what’s been going on. I’m just gonna continue to build him up every chance I get. I make him happy and she does not

Yeah just keep it friendly I guess. It’s a shame he feels so trapped that he can’t leave. Life is too short to stay miserable...

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It’s awful. He said to me before he’s trapped in his own house and being in work is his safe haven, especially with me there always making him smile. When he got the news she got the rona (which I still believe to be bs) the first thing he said to his co worker was “I don’t wanna go home for another 2 weeks” 😢 I just feel so bad because I think he is a really good dude. Clearly easily manipulated, he needs someone good who wont take advantage. And just everything with his sister too, like the fact she has her blocked is sad. She said gf is weirdly jealous even of their relationship and they haven’t been as close since she got in the picture

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7 Years

Posted by 777

You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.

You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol

U guys are weird af

I’ve been rereading this thread because of new developments and because I’m bored. Thanks for sticking up for me! Turns out his gf is an abusive psycho, and basically has him locked in his basement when he’s not at work. So now, I have been trying to steal him so he’s free 🙂

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7 Years

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Posted by 777

You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.

You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol

U guys are weird af

That’s like saying you can’t break into a home if the doors are left unlocked.🤦🏼‍♀️ It doesn’t change the fact that it’s fucked up and doesn’t shift responsibility off the person who’s violating. She is still wrong and accountable for her shitty actions.

What ever happened to integrity?

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Commenting back due to boredom and new developments. His gf is an abusive psycho, so I’ve been doing him a favor. One thing that’s always been consistent in my life is my intuition. I’m never wrong. My intuition told me to keep on being his friend and learning about him. Things got super screwy, but now I know to make sure he’s safe and try to keep him safe

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On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

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7 Years

he probably can tell you're confident enough to pursue him but he is in a relationship so he is trying to be nice without being too nice to make you think he's okay with you pursuing him

...stop pursuing a taken man would be my advise

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Posted by librak924

On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

Hoping he gets rid of his current for you sounds real healthy.

He's setting you up for round 2. How much are you willing to spend this time?

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On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

Hoping he gets rid of his current for you sounds real healthy.

He's setting you up for round 2. How much are you willing to spend this time?

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Good things come to those who wait. Things have been great. He's come over many times when he needs to get away from his life. We've formed a really strong friendship that's based on trust, respect, and communication. He's recently been in and out of a mental hospital which has helped him tremendously. He was out of work for two weeks but has been back for two days. I'm really proud of him for doing what is best for him. I'm not sure the exact status of him and the gf, but I do know I am a part of a great support system for him.

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7 Years

Posted by ELIGAB

Lmaoooo

WOW

Lol it's been almost a year and a half. Stuff is still happening. I like to update ya'll whether I am agreed with or not

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7 Years

Posted by ELIGAB

Lmaoooo

WOW

I've also kinda just crept your page and see you are into the charts as well. If you are interested, here are his and mine.

Him:

Rising Scorpio

Sun Virgo

Moon Pisces

Mercury Virgo

Venus Libra

Mars Cancer

Jupiter Virgo

Saturn Aquarius

Me:

Rising Sag

Sun Libra

Moon Aries

Mercury Virgo

Venus Leo

Mars Libra

Jupiter Virgo

Saturn Aquarius

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On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

Hoping he gets rid of his current for you sounds real healthy.

He's setting you up for round 2. How much are you willing to spend this time?

Good things come to those who wait. Things have been great. He's come over many times when he needs to get away from his life. We've formed a really strong friendship that's based on trust, respect, and communication. He's recently been in and out of a mental hospital which has helped him tremendously. He was out of work for two weeks but has been back for two days. I'm really proud of him for doing what is best for him. I'm not sure the exact status of him and the gf, but I do know I am a part of a great support system for him.

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Ewww

Yo Pisces moon is traumatizing

RUN

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On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

Hoping he gets rid of his current for you sounds real healthy.

He's setting you up for round 2. How much are you willing to spend this time?

Good things come to those who wait. Things have been great. He's come over many times when he needs to get away from his life. We've formed a really strong friendship that's based on trust, respect, and communication. He's recently been in and out of a mental hospital which has helped him tremendously. He was out of work for two weeks but has been back for two days. I'm really proud of him for doing what is best for him. I'm not sure the exact status of him and the gf, but I do know I am a part of a great support system for him.

Ewww

Yo Pisces moon is traumatizing

RUN

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Pisces anything is traumatizing I know 😢(((( I was horrified to find out he is especially MOON but I love this dude. We've had serious talks just about our bad stuff. He's told me before he's extremely difficult to deal with and he just can't figure out why i'm so into him. I give him the same response every time "I don't know either, but I think it's fair for us to have a chance to figure it out." He just feels like home to me, and he has said to me before, although drunk, that I feel like home to him. Just some kind of connection I can't shake. And after the mental hospital thing, he would not have come back to work if i wasn't still there. I was almost on the brink of being fired because I wasn't doing too well in my new position (his boss technically). It's just been a wild situation. But even if we can't be anything romantic, I am more than happy to always be his good friend. If his gf is good for him, so be it, that's great. If she is not, he needs to get away. Especially now that he is fixing himself

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On Friday, he asked me what sales department getting for lunch and asked if he could get in on it. Messaged me what he wanted. Messaged the rest of the day. Messaged me at 10 PM asking if I was still awake, which I was not. History is repeating itself, but hopefully this time it’ll be a healthier outcome and he’ll get rid of her for good

Hoping he gets rid of his current for you sounds real healthy.

He's setting you up for round 2. How much are you willing to spend this time?

Good things come to those who wait. Things have been great. He's come over many times when he needs to get away from his life. We've formed a really strong friendship that's based on trust, respect, and communication. He's recently been in and out of a mental hospital which has helped him tremendously. He was out of work for two weeks but has been back for two days. I'm really proud of him for doing what is best for him. I'm not sure the exact status of him and the gf, but I do know I am a part of a great support system for him.

Ewww

Yo Pisces moon is traumatizing

RUN

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Pisces anything is traumatizing I know 😢(((( I was horrified to find out he is especially MOON but I love this dude. We've had serious talks just about our bad stuff. He's told me before he's extremely difficult to deal with and he just can't figure out why i'm so into him. I give him the same response every time "I don't know either, but I think it's fair for us to have a chance to figure it out." He just feels like home to me, and he has said to me before, although drunk, that I feel like home to him. Just some kind of connection I can't shake. And after the mental hospital thing, he would not have come back to work if i wasn't still there. I was almost on the brink of being fired because I wasn't doing too well in my new position (his boss technically). It's just been a wild situation. But even if we can't be anything romantic, I am more than happy to always be his good friend. If his gf is good for him, so be it, that's great. If she is not, he needs to get away. Especially now that he is fixing himself

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So things been good again. The next day after he said he misses being my friend, I asked him how I could trust him after what happened. (Of course, all of this is private in front of no other co workers). He was really nervous, but said he did not want to make me uncomfortable or make me do anything I don’t want to do. Said he’s been really messed up past few months, and hasn’t been dealing with anything the way he should be. Said he hates what happened between us and just wants to feel normal again. Basically, I’m really glad to be his friend again and really hope I can help him get away from his gf.

I know this whole thread has seemed awful because he has a gf, but she truly, honestly is no good and I do not believe for a second he would have even flirted with me if they were good. He first introduced himself to me a year ago tomorrow (although we worked together for about 3 months before) Crazy how time flies. But he’s gotta get away from her. He’s in an abusive situation. Isolated from friends. Needs permission to leave his house. Gives her his phone everyday after work. And I think he may have Stockholm syndrome (that’s what his SISTER said which shows how awful the gf is) and yeah I don’t know, but I want to help. Maybe that’s the libra in me.

Ill still keep y’all updated 🙂

The girlfriend sounds like a controlling nutcase. This could be dangerous. Be safe. I hope you are strapped. These are crazy times... Also out of curiosity, what is the girlfriend’s sun sign?

Def dangerous. My main thought is she threatens to have his kid taken away or something. He has custody of his son, and sees his daughter few times a week. According to his sister, she actually abandoned her kids to be with him. I guess she’d be homeless if she didn’t live with him.

She’s a libra 😢 girls making us look bad. Rising sign is Scorpio

Ahhhh gawd a crazy ass libra lol...whelp sis you got a fight on your hands...

Girl the first time I saw her too omg. I normally do not ever judge anyone based on looks but I had smoked a bit of tree before the Xmas party, and when I arrived I had to run to the bathroom to laugh my bum off of why he’s with her to begin with. That’s awful I know, but I sat next to them because my friend from work who drove me sat next to them.

Anyway, next time I can get him in private I’m gonna tell him my couch is still available if he ever needs it, but she better not ever find out where I live. She did threaten to come to our work and fight me before. Obvi we cant communicate on the phone or anything now which sucks. But she did have a “spy” (one of the other mechanics) reporting to her if me and him talk or smoke together or anything, but he’s gone now luckily because of what’s been going on. I’m just gonna continue to build him up every chance I get. I make him happy and she does not

Yeah just keep it friendly I guess. It’s a shame he feels so trapped that he can’t leave. Life is too short to stay miserable...

It’s awful. He said to me before he’s trapped in his own house and being in work is his safe haven, especially with me there always making him smile. When he got the news she got the rona (which I still believe to be bs) the first thing he said to his co worker was “I don’t wanna go home for another 2 weeks” 😢 I just feel so bad because I think he is a really good dude. Clearly easily manipulated, he needs someone good who wont take advantage. And just everything with his sister too, like the fact she has her blocked is sad. She said gf is weirdly jealous even of their relationship and they haven’t been as close since she got in the picture

Sounds like he’s a man with no balls

Who wants that

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Uh me, clearly since I am the one posting about it. He has balls considering he's doing his best to take care of himself.

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Posted by librak924

Considering the idiots are out tonight, can I get more advice on Virgo men?

Virgo men dont mind sleeping about 🤭

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Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Some ppl choose not to ever get married for various reasons, doesn't mean it's open season or that they aren't in a serious, commited relationship. I can never get over how serious some ppl are about a piece of paper

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Hypnotoad

Op you a baby mama yet?

No, but we have split the cost of plan b twice

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Some ppl choose not to ever get married for various reasons, doesn't mean it's open season or that they aren't in a serious, commited relationship. I can never get over how serious some ppl are about a piece of paper

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I agree with this, but I do not see them as being in a serious, committed relationship. Just co dependent. She's a leech. They have a joint bank account and I remember the first time they broke up when me and him were only just "talking" she had frozen the account until he agreed to let her continue living at his house

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Caplove

Is he still with his gf? This is really high drama with the theft of your money, and did you ever find out who stole it?

He is technically, but I do not think emotionally. She will not move out of his house. She literally has no where else to go, she'd be homeless. She knows how to play him to make him absolutely not let her do that. The money thing was actually my "friend." In my defense, it was a girl I met in prison who was in for fraud and embezzlement. I did some things back in my early 20's and met that young, lovely, thiefing b!tch. But I blame no one but me and my trusting nature. I still think his gf had a thing or two to do with it though in any case though because his nickname was used a lot. If he had anything to do with it, def not in a concious, nvm even good state of mind. He gets out of hospital after 3 weeks of not working, and they have a joint bank account. Money is in the damn negatives now lol and she has a job. The whole thing is dramatic, but he's been 100% about that and wants me to just stay away from it

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7 Years

Posted by Hypnotoad

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Op you a baby mama yet?

No, but we have split the cost of plan b twice

Third times a charm.

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I'm about 90% sure my uterus is trash and can never carry a baby anyway, but thank you. If we had a child together, it'd be just as beautiful as his other two

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7 Years

Lmao Joe taking a dump is forever funny, but please keep Will Feral off my page

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@librak924
7 Years

My last day of work was this week. We'll see if I ever see him or hear from him again

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7 Years

Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

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13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

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10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

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You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.

And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.

Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.

I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy

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"I'm not doing anything to steal anyone"

I think most would agree fucking a dude raw who is in a serious relationship may constitute as "something" ijs.

He is playing you. 2 years being the side ho and you aren't even bothered by that. One day your gonna wake up and realize you gave this man your heart, your youth, your money, and have nothing but empty hands in return.

Will it be in another 2 years? or 10 years?

Please update us!

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@Moloko_vellocet
5 Years500+ Posts

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Fun friday drinking game! Re-read this thread and take a shot every time op says she would never ever EVER fuck a dude with a gf.

On second thought, don't. Alcohol poisoning is dangerous. Live DXP, LIIIIIIVVVVVVVE

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Posted by Moloko_vellocet

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or intelligent.

@jeane is cool peeps

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7 Years

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by librak924

Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

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Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

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7 Years

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Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

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LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

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7 Years

Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

No. I got $ 2,000 back 🙂 hes a good dude

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7 Years

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Posted by librak924

Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

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Same. He doesn't wanna hurt his kid because he is attached to her. His son loves her

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Posted by Moloko_vellocet

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

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7 Years

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

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Thank you, I think 🙂

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Posted by librak924

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

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Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

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Posted by librak924

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think 🙂

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That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion

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7 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Fun friday drinking game! Re-read this thread and take a shot every time op says she would never ever EVER fuck a dude with a gf.

Try to love yourself. It is a beautiful thing. You're just mean. To a person you've never met. On the internet. Life has clearly not been nice to your, but go write in a diary. Not to people you've never met. You are what is wrong with this world. You're mean. You may be pretty on the outside (so you may be told) but try to be pretty on the inside too. You remind me of his ugly soul GF. I have a date with him tomorrow, and I'm sure he'll agree.

On second thought, don't. Alcohol poisoning is dangerous. Live DXP, LIIIIIIVVVVVVVE

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7 Years

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by librak924

Posted by sweethearts

Posted by Moloko_vellocet

This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think 🙂

That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion

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It's a two year long thread. If you can't be bothered, then leave don't even comment telling me you won't bother to read them lmao I thank every opinion unless they're rude and ignorant that don't actually read them. Thanks for the half assed honesty

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10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by LadyNeptune

Fun friday drinking game! Re-read this thread and take a shot every time op says she would never ever EVER fuck a dude with a gf.

Try to love yourself. It is a beautiful thing. You're just mean. To a person you've never met. On the internet. Life has clearly not been nice to your, but go write in a diary. Not to people you've never met. You are what is wrong with this world. You're mean. You may be pretty on the outside (so you may be told) but try to be pretty on the inside too. You remind me of his ugly soul GF. I have a date with him tomorrow, and I'm sure he'll agree.

On second thought, don't. Alcohol poisoning is dangerous. Live DXP, LIIIIIIVVVVVVVE

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You are most welcome. I’m happy to provide y’all with a topic of conversation other than you both badmouthing the mother to his children. Gold star for me!

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