Dating Virgo Guys

So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

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I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

Lol everything you said is my experience so far. Like down to the T. I'm an Aries venus so I don't have much patience. I'm considering adding virgos to my no-date list along with cancers.

Did the virgo moon you dated eventually open up? Was he caring?

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

Lol everything you said is my experience so far. Like down to the T. I'm an Aries venus so I don't have much patience. I'm considering adding virgos to my no-date list along with cancers.

Did the virgo moon you dated eventually open up? Was he caring?

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For some reason they tell you up front but then still get their feelings hurt when the person decides it's not for them, it's actually pretty funny. Like who seriously wants to put up with dates being thrown in their face? 😆

Virgos need to balance better and have open communication instead of just saying they're busy and then you see that they are spending time with someone else. This is what they lack- communication in an open relationship, I think. It's why they end up being by themselves and they can't figure out why.

Well he was a Gemini, so yeah. Virgos do the same thing. They are not clingy at all at first and them BAM! They are up your butt and can't live without you. They just have to trust you first and choose you as an option.

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

I've dated multiple Virgo suns and one Virgo sun/moon who was the worst of the bunch. I've never had a happy relationship with one, but they had Mercury in Libra so that might be why I found them loud and bossy and selfish. Otherwise I agree with all of the above.

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

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a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

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Lol so true about virgos being butthurt about you also seeing other people. 🙄 Sometimes I've been sloppy on purpose just so they know whats up since their uptight ass cannot have a regular/mature convo about it. 😆 I'm the kind of person that likes to lay things on the table and be honest so this sneaky shit is a big turn off.

thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

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I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

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everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

Lol so true about virgos being butthurt about you also seeing other people. 🙄 Sometimes I've been sloppy on purpose just so they know whats up since their uptight ass cannot have a regular/mature convo about it. 😆 I'm the kind of person that likes to lay things on the table and be honest so this sneaky shit is a big turn off.

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I don't like it either. So I will ignore it for the most part, unless I'm upset when my needs aren't being met. But I can be sneaky too, so sometimes I will do tit for tat, just to make myself feel better, but will say nothing to him. I move in BIG silence 😄

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

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LMAO, cause he isn't paying you no mind. You know you have the others. I do the push/pull thing too.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

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i still don't get it. if he's dating other people, why can't you?

what's that bitchass placements?

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

LMAO, cause he isn't paying you no mind. You know you have the others. I do the push/pull thing too.

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maybe it's for the best with this merc retro

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

i still don't get it. if he's dating other people, why can't you?

what's that bitchass placements?

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Well I can, he told me to go ahead and do it. So I am. But he shows signs of jealousy when we are together, so I don't tell him that I'm dating. He can assume it though. I don't bother him with the details. If he asks, I will tell him, but I don't volunteer any info at all. He hasn't asked either.

And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

i still don't get it. if he's dating other people, why can't you?

what's that bitchass placements?

Well I can, he told me to go ahead and do it. So I am. But he shows signs of jealousy when we are together, so I don't tell him that I'm dating. He can assume it though. I don't bother him with the details. If he asks, I will tell him, but I don't volunteer any info at all. He hasn't asked either.

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better than him showing nothing, right?

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

Lol Trust me I know. One of my ex-bffs was a virgo and she did this to a group of us because we were all busy for her birthday. I've seen virgo suns pull this shit all the time. They live for blocking people.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

Lol Trust me I know. One of my ex-bffs was a virgo and she did this to a group of us because we were all busy for her birthday. I've seen virgo suns pull this shit all the time. They live for blocking people.

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i live for blocking people tbh

but srsly, did you even send a card or gave a phone call or anything?

we're actually really sensitive, that's why we like to look cold

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

i still don't get it. if he's dating other people, why can't you?

what's that bitchass placements?

Well I can, he told me to go ahead and do it. So I am. But he shows signs of jealousy when we are together, so I don't tell him that I'm dating. He can assume it though. I don't bother him with the details. If he asks, I will tell him, but I don't volunteer any info at all. He hasn't asked either.

better than him showing nothing, right?

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I actually prefer not to know. But when it gets thrown in your face, it will create problems. This is what screws Virgos up I think. They are too logical and self serving and think the woman should put up with it. I am selfish too and will put up with it, but it will just have to do with how much interest I have in the person and if we get a long good. I don't mind the dating multiple partners as long as I get time too. This is how I get to know someone, so I need the quality time to do it.

If he doesn't make time for me, then there is someone else who will. I just went out with a Leo last night and a Taurus last week, just to have something to do, since the Virgo was busy.

But once they decide on you they are as bad as Leo's lmao.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

This is exactly why they don't need to know lol Ya'll can't handle the truth lol Even though you (Virgos) shove it down our throats. Hahaha!

i still don't get it. if he's dating other people, why can't you?

what's that bitchass placements?

Well I can, he told me to go ahead and do it. So I am. But he shows signs of jealousy when we are together, so I don't tell him that I'm dating. He can assume it though. I don't bother him with the details. If he asks, I will tell him, but I don't volunteer any info at all. He hasn't asked either.

better than him showing nothing, right?

I actually prefer not to know. But when it gets thrown in your face, it will create problems. This is what screws Virgos up I think. They are too logical and self serving and think the woman should put up with it. I am selfish too and will put up with it, but it will just have to do with how much interest I have in the person and if we get a long good. I don't mind the dating multiple partners as long as I get time too. This is how I get to know someone, so I need the quality time to do it.

If he doesn't make time for me, then there is someone else who will. I just went out with a Leo last night and a Taurus last week, just to have something to do, since the Virgo was busy.

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this really should go without saying

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Posted by saggurl88

And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

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In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

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I was recently with cancer sun virgo moon. Trust me, I know... They have magic hands, seem SO promising, and are inexplicably yummy and sexy. The guy I was with was not even good looking nor that interesting but I lost my mind over him. I was like... in a spell. But in the end, he was just not worth the stupid mind games, pettiness, moodiness, hot-cold BS, and passive aggressiveness. When I let him go and started seeing other people, it was SO refreshing not to feel I'm always walking on eggshells. So I say, kick that guy to the curb asap and take pleasure in knowing they will have regrets over you for literally forever. 😁

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

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this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

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Posted by saggurl88

I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

I was recently with cancer sun virgo moon. Trust me, I know... They have magic hands, seem SO promising, and are inexplicably yummy and sexy. The guy I was with was not even good looking nor that interesting but I lost my mind over him. I was like... in a spell. But in the end, he was just not worth the stupid mind games, pettiness, moodiness, hot-cold BS, and passive aggressiveness. When I let him go and started seeing other people, it was SO refreshing not to feel I'm always walking on eggshells. So I say, kick that guy to the curb asap and take pleasure in knowing they will have regrets over you for literally forever. 😁

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he wanted to talk about the status of our relationship before but i gave the WRONG answer. basically, i doomed myself to the friendzone. that shit is my fault but i only figured that out when i shared this story with my Scorpio guy friend. fuck do i know how guys think.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

Lol Trust me I know. One of my ex-bffs was a virgo and she did this to a group of us because we were all busy for her birthday. I've seen virgo suns pull this shit all the time. They live for blocking people.

i live for blocking people tbh

but srsly, did you even send a card or gave a phone call or anything?

we're actually really sensitive, that's why we like to look cold

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We showed up all the next day at her house with very thoughtful gifts and cards. She didn't answer the door so we left it with her brother. We took turns calling and apologizing for 2 weeks straight. But never heard from her again lol.

Yeah I know virgos are super sensitive and they will remember wrongdoings for the rest of their life 😬 but i think the blocking is kind of an ego thing tbh.

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Posted by saggurl88

And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

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The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

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thing about virgo don't matter sun or moon is that some of them (myself included) will suddenly block you out of nowhere. then they'll come around. but instant excommunicado for something they won't even explain to you. (coz the reason is probably of an emotional nature yuck + petty).

i hate this bitchass thing we do most.

this why chasers like aries succeed (too bad i don't think i'm that into them).

we want what we want and we're picky asf.

Lol Trust me I know. One of my ex-bffs was a virgo and she did this to a group of us because we were all busy for her birthday. I've seen virgo suns pull this shit all the time. They live for blocking people.

i live for blocking people tbh

but srsly, did you even send a card or gave a phone call or anything?

we're actually really sensitive, that's why we like to look cold

We showed up all the next day at her house with very thoughtful gifts and cards. She didn't answer the door so we left it with her brother. We took turns calling and apologizing for 2 weeks straight. But never heard from her again lol.

Yeah I know virgos are super sensitive and they will remember wrongdoings for the rest of their life 😬 but i think the blocking is kind of an ego thing tbh.

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virgos are very insecure no matter what the fuck they look like.

but not answering the door is a little too much so maybe she's one of those extra sensitive water virgos yuck. this why it's not such a great idea to throw SURPRISE bday parties for EARTH people.

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

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Cancer anything is so hard to read.

Posted by saggurl88

And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

I agree. I don't say I'm seeing other guys unless directly asked. The only guy who has ever done that is an aries. Virgo guys especially are quite conservative and I think they much prefer don't ask/don't tell arrangements. But like I said, I like being sloppy and dropping hints that I am seeing other guys so they don't get TOO comfortable.

I don't treat guys like kings though. I'm quite calculative and will only return the exact amount of affection shown to me or less. With the virgo moon, I'm seeing I find myself getting cold when he's hot and hot when he's cold. It's really weird.

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Posted by saggurl88

And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

I agree. I don't say I'm seeing other guys unless directly asked. The only guy who has ever done that is an aries. Virgo guys especially are quite conservative and I think they much prefer don't ask/don't tell arrangements. But like I said, I like being sloppy and dropping hints that I am seeing other guys so they don't get TOO comfortable.

I don't treat guys like kings though. I'm quite calculative and will only return the exact amount of affection shown to me or less. With the virgo moon, I'm seeing I find myself getting cold when he's hot and hot when he's cold. It's really weird.

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And this is what I mean, in person the Virgo is super duper affectionate, so I match it cause I like it. But when we don't see each other, I match that too. He only gets "rewarded" with my attention when I see him, otherwise, -out of site, out of mind-, for all he knows. I don't let on that I am thinking of him at all, really. It's easier for me to keep my sanity.

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

Cancer anything is so hard to read.

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They have the same walls up you do and time and trust, like Virgos, will bring it down. He trusted you super early on and you crushed him, it will take time to tear the wall down again, so lesson learned for you.

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

I was recently with cancer sun virgo moon. Trust me, I know... They have magic hands, seem SO promising, and are inexplicably yummy and sexy. The guy I was with was not even good looking nor that interesting but I lost my mind over him. I was like... in a spell. But in the end, he was just not worth the stupid mind games, pettiness, moodiness, hot-cold BS, and passive aggressiveness. When I let him go and started seeing other people, it was SO refreshing not to feel I'm always walking on eggshells. So I say, kick that guy to the curb asap and take pleasure in knowing they will have regrets over you for literally forever. 😁

he wanted to talk about the status of our relationship before but i gave the WRONG answer. basically, i doomed myself to the friendzone. that shit is my fault but i only figured that out when i shared this story with my Scorpio guy friend. fuck do i know how guys think.

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Lol yeah something similar happened to me too. Cancer asked me out for Thursday and I said I'd get back to him. But I didn't realize that day was Valentine's day until later then I said yes I would love to. But I think he got a bit mad and I crushed his confidence. But he always did weird shit like that where his communication was not very clear, I'd eff it up and say the wrong thing and then would realize by his reaction and distancing that I once again had offended him. 🙄 I'm friends with a lot of water signs so I know sensitive. But that guy was just too much. Whew.

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

Cancer anything is so hard to read.

They have the same walls up you do and time and trust, like Virgos, will bring it down. He trusted you super early on and you crushed him, it will take time to tear the wall down again, so lesson learned for you.

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

I was recently with cancer sun virgo moon. Trust me, I know... They have magic hands, seem SO promising, and are inexplicably yummy and sexy. The guy I was with was not even good looking nor that interesting but I lost my mind over him. I was like... in a spell. But in the end, he was just not worth the stupid mind games, pettiness, moodiness, hot-cold BS, and passive aggressiveness. When I let him go and started seeing other people, it was SO refreshing not to feel I'm always walking on eggshells. So I say, kick that guy to the curb asap and take pleasure in knowing they will have regrets over you for literally forever. 😁

he wanted to talk about the status of our relationship before but i gave the WRONG answer. basically, i doomed myself to the friendzone. that shit is my fault but i only figured that out when i shared this story with my Scorpio guy friend. fuck do i know how guys think.

Lol yeah something similar happened to me too. Cancer asked me out for Thursday and I said I'd get back to him. But I didn't realize that day was Valentine's day until later then I said yes I would love to. But I think he got a bit mad and I crushed his confidence. But he always did weird shit like that where his communication was not very clear, I'd eff it up and say the wrong thing and then would realize by his reaction and distancing that I once again had offended him. 🙄 I'm friends with a lot of water signs so I know sensitive. But that guy was just too much. Whew.

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

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are you saying that things would've worked out if you were more clingy?

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I think this is all you will find on Virgo guys. They do the opposite of what you said, it's their way. They disappear for days, text only when they want to see you, and pursue multiple avenues until they figure out what they want.

They will tell you upfront that they aren't looking for a relationship, but they can change their mind if you fit the bill. They hold in their emotions and usually show through actions.

Patience is key with them, so you can either stay in the race and see how it goes or give up.

I've dated 2 Virgo Suns so far and the first one I ended up not liking after I got to know him

I'm on to another one now and it might turn out the same way. But I don't have much patience.

Virgo Moons are similar, I was with one for a lot of years and we had an open relationship for about a year before he didn't want it to be open anymore cause he was too jealous. (Gemini Sun)

this shit is true and it's driving me nuts. to be fair, i've done this shit too and i'm contemplating on doing this shit again coz a virgo gotta virgo.

but i feel like my staying power when it comes to chasing this virgo moon is my pure ass obsession.

I'm selfish too, so it really will just depend on how much I like this Virgo. I was in an open relationship with my ex Gemini when we were teenagers, But he kept my interest and we talked openly about everything, so it was easy to do.

You Virgos are a little bit more sneakier and in your face with dating other people, and it pulls at my own jealousy. I didn't like the last Virgo enough to deal with it. But I think I do with this Virgo I'm dating, because he's so affectionate in person.

Only time will tell, it's been a couple of months so far. But I keep myself busy dating other guys in between time so I don't get too hyper focused on the Virgo. I just don't let him know that lol It's supposed to be openly dating, but you Virgos don't handle it well, so I know to keep it a secret lol - Pot calling the kettle black! 😆

a pisces is coming back around but i'm still obsessed with this cancer/virgo. but maybe i should start seeing other people coz this is soooo not cool.

nah i think you should be honest about dating other people when he's doing it too. virgos need to know this shit.

I will tell him if I end up liking who I'm dating. Right now whoever I date is just a place holder so I don't get too concerned with the Virgo. It's just to keep me busy. But if he asks me, I won't lie. If he doesn't ask, he gets nothing lol

everyone besides this cancer/virgo is a distraction to me. and my friends are getting so tired of me talking about him so much. even i'm starting to get sick of myself.

but the lust..... *cries

I was recently with cancer sun virgo moon. Trust me, I know... They have magic hands, seem SO promising, and are inexplicably yummy and sexy. The guy I was with was not even good looking nor that interesting but I lost my mind over him. I was like... in a spell. But in the end, he was just not worth the stupid mind games, pettiness, moodiness, hot-cold BS, and passive aggressiveness. When I let him go and started seeing other people, it was SO refreshing not to feel I'm always walking on eggshells. So I say, kick that guy to the curb asap and take pleasure in knowing they will have regrets over you for literally forever. 😁

he wanted to talk about the status of our relationship before but i gave the WRONG answer. basically, i doomed myself to the friendzone. that shit is my fault but i only figured that out when i shared this story with my Scorpio guy friend. fuck do i know how guys think.

Lol yeah something similar happened to me too. Cancer asked me out for Thursday and I said I'd get back to him. But I didn't realize that day was Valentine's day until later then I said yes I would love to. But I think he got a bit mad and I crushed his confidence. But he always did weird shit like that where his communication was not very clear, I'd eff it up and say the wrong thing and then would realize by his reaction and distancing that I once again had offended him. 🙄 I'm friends with a lot of water signs so I know sensitive. But that guy was just too much. Whew.

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We did end up seeing each other on Valentine's Day but then at the end of the night he said "not a bad Valentine's day, eh?" (he's british so that means he had lots of fun). I think I was supposed to say "oh my prince, it was absolutely puuuurfeeecttt. I love you so much hunny". But I said "oh. I forgot it was Valentine's day". To be fair, it was very early days and we had only gone on a couple dates so how much could Valentine's day mean at that point, realistically? Anyway I think that was the nail on the coffin. Or maybe it's that I couldn't fake an orgasm? Lol I think cancer guys and sensitive placements will just have a hard time with my honesty. I need a guy who does not take himself and me so damn seriously. But can also communicate clearly when needs be. But anyway.

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

Cancer anything is so hard to read.

They have the same walls up you do and time and trust, like Virgos, will bring it down. He trusted you super early on and you crushed him, it will take time to tear the wall down again, so lesson learned for you.

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I don’t think so. He’s seeing you again, right? It’s just gonna take some time. As long as he’s seeing you, know that it’s because he wants to. He just thinks he needs to hide his emotions now because of what happened previously. He’ll open back up again though. Cancers cant help it. Lol.

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

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Omg. I had a BIG crush on a guy with the same placements. I'm also super drawn to these placements in general. Also this is what I suspected... I think Virgos adjust to dating better if they know you first. Essentially, he had already decided he wanted to be with you so there was no drawn out hot and cold period. Too bad it didn't work out but good to hear you're happier now.

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And believe it or not, not matter what guys say, all guys want loyalty and want to be the only one.

I think women are more open minded with these types of things. So in any relationship I have with a guy, I always make them feel like they are the only one. I never go by what they say. I treat them like kings and practically worship them in their presence and then do what I want outside of it.

This is when I'm not in love. If I'm in love, I won't date others. But we also have to have a conversation first about the relationship status, cause I assume nothing until it's talked about.

this is classic sag

i don't like it and it feels fake

In you're presence you wouldn't know though, because I don't keep up good communication either, so it's like I'm all in and then disappear. This is what keep you going after the Cancer too, right?

If the Virgo kept up with me, I will keep up with him, but since he doesn't. Oh well, it's not my issue. He can catch up with me when he wants to see me. Yes I will complain about not seeing him, but I won't go out of my way to get attention.

I'm currently wanting to see him and missing him, but he doesn't know that. So since he's busy, I keep myself busy as well.

this sounds like me and the cancer yeah

The first Virgo told me that Sagittarius women were his kryptonite cause they never worked out for him. (He played way too many games in order to get a reaction from me)

This Virgo told me I have a good balance of showing interest and not being all up in his space. But it's still early on. I just have to see how it goes. I haven't seen his bad habits yet.

But I have a Cancer moon, so I'm super affectionate in person but don't tell my feelings at all. It confuses guys. I wasn't affectionate at all with the other Virgo, I was just accommodating until he annoyed me so much that I couldn't stand him and cut him off.

Cancer anything is so hard to read.

They have the same walls up you do and time and trust, like Virgos, will bring it down. He trusted you super early on and you crushed him, it will take time to tear the wall down again, so lesson learned for you.

wow i fucked up

I don’t think so. He’s seeing you again, right? It’s just gonna take some time. As long as he’s seeing you, know that it’s because he wants to. He just thinks he needs to hide his emotions now because of what happened previously. He’ll open back up again though. Cancers cant help it. Lol.

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i'm always initiating the chats now and he can't meet up with me last sunday coz he got sick. 😢

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

are you saying that things would've worked out if you were more clingy?

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I doubt, that was only part of our problems.

Clingy *** is perhaps not the accurate word.. But I wasn't dependent of him or his attention.

I was cool with whatever we had in that moment. He started talking babies and marriage pretty early and that always freaked me out. I also didn't need his help as much as he wish.. I was always thankful but if I can do it on my own.. I'll do it. I was financially comfortable..that also created drama.

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

Omg. I had a BIG crush on a guy with the same placements. I'm also super drawn to these placements in general. Also this is what I suspected... I think Virgos adjust to dating better if they know you first. Essentially, he had already decided he wanted to be with you so there was no drawn out hot and cold period. Too bad it didn't work out but good to hear you're happier now.

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Yeah.... I think we lasted as long as we did because of the initial friendship.. It probably wasn't a good thing it lasted as long as it did though... 🤔 but it was an experience and I learned a lot from that relationship.

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So has anyone ever had a courtship/dating experience with a virgo moon or sun male where the guy was consistent throughout the entire time? Like he pursued you, regularly texted you (never ghosted), and was upfront about his feelings through his actions or words? If yes, how did you meet? Were you friends first? Please also respond if you had negative experiences.

Virgo Sun, Gem moon

Friends first.

He pursued courtship.... & pursued still after our break-up.

He was consistent with the texts the phone calls and the dates. He did get comfortable at one point = lazy but he would eventually adjust himself.... Once he could admit to himself things weren't good between us.

He was very stubborn, we were/are both independent individuals and... I think he didn't respect that about me. I wasn't clingy, I had my own life going and I wanted my space sometimes...we fought a lot... Partly because of that.

It didn't end well but I believe years later... he would agree:

we're both happier now, we just weren't compatible.

are you saying that things would've worked out if you were more clingy?

I doubt, that was only part of our problems.

Clingy *** is perhaps not the accurate word.. But I wasn't dependent of him or his attention.

I was cool with whatever we had in that moment. He started talking babies and marriage pretty early and that always freaked me out. I also didn't need his help as much as he wish.. I was always thankful but if I can do it on my own.. I'll do it. I was financially comfortable..that also created drama.

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maybe i should invent a list of things i need help with

whatever gets virgo moon attention

Like I said the one I dated was super forward and loved to bang and was all over me all the time haha

Bet a million he had fire in his chart or something cause there was no confusion ever.



My bf's best friend is a virgo and he's weird. He internet stalks me and I wonder why. I've only met him a few times and there was some tension.. a lot of it felt sexual but awkward. I think he has a Venus in scorpio. *shrugs*

The rest I've known were chill