Debra's Reply To StringsAttached (Page 2)

MsPisces: "Honestly, all of this is freaking me out."

I understand -- and you're not the first DXP'er to get freaked out.

I try to be consistent in my threads & posts. I'm a Virgo, and we like to stay grounded in reality and facts -- but those are way looser on the Internet than in real life...

...and of all users, please don't let Dy or P freak you out. this is what they do. they're like fraternal twins. in a playground...


i usually just laugh with AND at them. like i'm doing now.

Here's a Lesson to take from this thread: Don't let the Virtual Stuff slop over too often into your Real Stuff. There are REAL CONSEQUENCES from even the most UNREAL SH1T!!

"In a nutshell."

Yeah... too bad I didn't THINK OF IT until NOW!!!

Oh dear ... this is crazy. Oh well, I did it to my ex, but he didn't know anything about it. Well ... sort of anyway 😉

I put him out there totally because I didn't see any harm in it. The things he would do would both hurt and annoy me, so I discussed it. In a way, he sort of knew that I was talking about him behind his back ... I didn't tell him until I know I wanted things to be over ... well, he didn't want things to be over, he wanted to continue with all the bullshit actually. Hahahaha!!! Anyway, I felt my feelings needed to be out there, I needed to express myself.

LOL, I just got off from work and I'm doing coursework at the moment. So I still can't read any of the posts.

"I do believe SA KNEW what she was doing the whole time, and manipulated Dyar into believing it was some sort of way to help their marriage."


I absolutely agree with you that Strings knew what she was doing the whole time, as it pertains to attempting to put herself inbetween Dyr and his wife, for it's obvious to anybody who can read that Strings vies for position as the alpha female in his life ..... however, I don't think she has the emotional (or mental) intelligence to pull of such a manipulation, to pass it off as just being a rescuer of his marriage.

Every sentence she writes, she can only recognize that she is a goddess, and actually BELIEVES that women are jealous of her. So, for a person to be this delusional in her persona ... I just can't see her having the ability to pull off such a trick, for she's too concieted to see beyond herself. Yet, this extreme vanity would create within her a false image of believing Dyr has some hidden agenda in which he adores her, so she would indeed, send a message making herself out to be a queen, with no regard for Deb, because in Strings mind, all women are inferior to her.

I just can't see how she could a trick off like that ... she's just not aware of herself enough to have that kind of control.

I think y'all are being way too harsh on StringsAttached.

We're both Virgos, and we took the same reading of her letter.

I should've waited to see what the non-Virgos thought of it before showing it to my wife.

LESSON LEARNED THE HARD WAY.

If y'all truly knew how I hate to upset her. But you can't. That sucks, too.

"Heck, Virgo kitten just confessed to being a Leo, and lying about being a Virgo this entire time. WTF—?"


I know, I saw that .... what the hell was that? Couldn't even respond.

Here's a Lesson to take from this thread: Don't let the Virtual Stuff slop over too often into your Real Stuff. There are REAL CONSEQUENCES from even the most UNREAL SH1T!!

Yeah, there's lessons to learn from everything you do, but like I said, at the time I'm sure you didn't know that it would make Debra sad.

LOL, you know what, this is funny. HOW OFTEN DO WE ALL SAY THAT VIRGOS NEED TO OPEN UP AND EXPRESS THEMSELVES. Now we have one that actually went out on a limb and did just that ... but he's getting alot of heat for it ... what ——

hahahahaha, oh my goodness ...

"I should've waited to see what the non-Virgos thought of it before showing it to my wife."


lol

StringsAttached 2/25/2008 5:52:14 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

... you NEVER hear me using harsh language.

.. If any bitch sticks her nose straight up someone's arse ..



lol

P-Angel: "lol"

Of course... Angelina finds my simple honest confession amusing... no wonder you and your Virgo husband are such a happy couple...

Another Truth: I kinda hesitated before I went to print it out. Had a second or two of a bad vibe, but ignored it... Typical. Virgo.

omg


NOTHING was funnier than that time I challenged SA to a debate, and she pretended she didn't see my thread for like 3 dys. Then I go look on the Miscellaneous board, and she was rough-drafting her response to me. LOLolOLol She literally typed, "testing testing 1,2"...followed by a basic outline of her response, which more or less stated that she didn't want to debate with me on politics, social science, etc., because her IQ level surpassed mine. hahaa

Then she proceeded to return to the Virgo board and post the extended version of what she'd prepared over on the misc board. classic dxp moment. even archer was laughing.

virgolibra_cusp: "Dy, I think you're reading that wrong. I think she laughed because she was trying to say that it wouldn't have mattered who you asked, it would still have been a bad judgement call."

THEN, why did she post...

P-Angel 2/24/2008 9:40:33 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

OMG ... you just stepped way the fuck over the line in inferring that you are some kind of a challenge to a Scorpio woman .. ESPECIALLY when it comes to her man.

You better hope like hell Deb doesn't read this ..

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Had I read her post before I gave Debra the Letter, this thread wouldn't exist. See: I will take Angelina seriously, even though I don't trust her...

Right behind P-Angel came...

fumingli_scorp 2/24/2008 10:50:44 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

Dear StringsAttached -- all nice and good... that's a virgo woman.
Scorps differ. We don't like braking the harmony so easily. We can go along and let the lion do his hissy fits. When he gets overbored, we will kick in. My suggestion would be not to go there.

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Had I read THAT, I might've asked Strings to delete the thread.

fumingli_scorp is rapidly becoming the Scorpio version of the Virgic Oracle I have at work!

It's okay DY 🙂 You made a mistake, it happens to the best of us.

Strings,

You'll get nowhere "debating" Nutso -- thank God for small miracles!

I know what you intended. I read what you wrote. We think too much alike!!

You don't know Debra. I do. I should've known better.

OK... I'm gonna go have supper with my wife & young'uns...

Later, taters!!

"you don't get what "debate" translates into the Virgo mind"

"It has NOTHING to do with "debating" social issues, etc. We use the word "debate." We mean .."



So, is this kind of like saying ..... you have your own "spin" on what something means according to your perceptions, eventhough they may not be interpretated that way by somebody else?

Bye DY 🙂

""No, I said I did not want to debate you on politics, etc. because I NEVER "debate" on those topics and they hold absolutely no interest for me under my definition of "debate." Honestly, SS, you don't get what "debate" translates into the Virgo mind,...""

So, basically, you're an idiot. Thanks for repeating what was already concluded. lol


""And that ain't something I'm doing with a lesbian.""

Childish, you say? So now you're both a socially and mentally challenged, xenophobe. Don't make me call the HRC on your ass.

FYI, Strings:


Brainstorming silly acronyms and coming up with wacky puns is NOT a demonstration of superior wit.

lol, MsP ... good perception.

Also, let's look at this debate that she says she likes to do with Dyr that was mentioned in this innocent letter to Deb, where she says that it's just a mental sparring on a platonic basis ... yet .. see description above of what she REALLY means by debating with him.

Her REAL motives for debating him is to get him sexually aroused, eventhough, she tells Deb it just friendly, and harmless.

—

*runs back to the cappy board*

hahahaha @ MsP


you're good.

Holy Mother Of God! Is it The Apocalypse??!!

Pisces chicks spinning conspiracy theories, and lecturing Virgos about honesty & integrity, when the ONLY woman who's callously manipulated me on DXP is the Queen of the Rotten Fish herself!

P-Angel is the ONLY person to have their sick handiwork featured on my profile. She should feel honored. Same as one of the FBI's Most Wanted poster punks.

StringsAttached has been a true friend to me since I first discovered DXP. I do not for one moment think she's trying to cause problems between me and my wife.

I debate her, and lots of other people here, to exercise my mind. Troubleshooting computer networks is challenging work, but not in the same way as the free-flow of ideas and verbal barbs we have in this forum.

I now the Conspiracy Theories are fun to create, but here's a News Flash: ELVIS IS DEAD (and, I'm not feeling so well myself!).

Holy Mother Of God! Is it The Apocalypse??!!

Pisces chicks spinning conspiracy theories, and lecturing Virgos about honesty & integrity, when the ONLY woman who's callously manipulated me on DXP is the Queen of the Rotten Fish herself!

P-Angel is the ONLY person to have their sick handiwork featured on my profile. She should feel honored. Same as one of the FBI's Most Wanted poster punks.

StringsAttached has been a true friend to me since I first discovered DXP. I do not for one moment think she's trying to cause problems between me and my wife.

I debate her, and lots of other people here, to exercise my mind. Troubleshooting computer networks is challenging work, but not in the same way as the free-flow of ideas and verbal barbs we have in this forum.

I know the Conspiracy Theories are fun to create, but here's a News Flash: ELVIS IS DEAD (and, I'm not feeling so well myself!).

VLC: "When you upset his wife, you became a threat."

Strings didn't upset Debra, her idiot husband did (as usual!).

Strings: "I didn't upset his wife. He upset his wife!"

See? Told y'all two Virgos think alike -- and at about the same time!

Strings: "Dy has actually typed on DXP with Deb sitting right over his shoulder while typing to me!! How's that for threatening his marriage?!"

Yeah, and some times I'd read to her while I was typing, and she'd shake her head...

"You're so silly!" OR "You should have Brown Eyes, not Blue!" (as in, I was so full of feces) OR "Shuuush! I'm trying to hear this [TV show]!!"

VLC,

You've made some good points, and I will take them to heart, but why all the hatred towards StringsAttached?

I'm the one who f0cked up, and got his sweet wife upset.

"Have we actually silenced the Chucky doll?"

I hope not! Debate is the whole point...

VLC: "But I've got nothing for manipulative and kniving women."

Does that standard apply to P-Angel, too??

I can debate Angelina, even after the exposure of her manipulations, and I can even acknowledge her valid points. Some times I agree with her. Some times I don't. The mistake I made way back when was letting myself get too involved with her. Qbone and others warned me, but I thought I knew better. I was wrong about that, too...

See: P-Angel is my Opposite. Strings is my Complement.

Pisces :: Virgo / Dreamer :: Planner / Gadfly :: Lecturer / Manipulator :: Organizer

VLC: Have you even read P-Angel's CONFESSION on my Profile??

[http://www.dxpnet.com/users/images.asp?username=DyarStra% DFe]

I have an HTML copy of the entire message, but I think the part I posted is sufficient to show who she truly is.

"Hey, Dy, tell Deb and the kids I said hello, will ya?"

OK... but if you don't mind, I'm gonna wait until she puts down that butcher knife...

Nevermind ....

Alright, vl

VLC, wise words indeed.



For a near bicenturian, Geriatric D is surprisingly naive. If he isn't careful, he is going to allow ShitAttached to cost him the level of intimacy he once had with his dear wife. And he will never get it back, as she will grow colder, and more distant by the hour.

""...it was Dy's retort to SS about being a lesbian and leaving me alone therefore that I picked up and took off with in the first place!""


Because you're so original, mature, and....oh yes, of course- witty!

ShitAttached: ""He IS a 151 INTJ after all.""


...and you just happen to know this because.....

""SS bonehead seems to think we're the same person.""


Yes, well, she's accused me of being a few ppl, actually. And now she seems to believe that you are haffo, when clearly you are not. She obviously isn't playing with a full deck.

You're welcome, vl .. I hope he can hear what I was trying to say. 🙂

""'Nite, ladies.""


'Nite, Jezebel.

""I think I'm finished fighting the forces of darkness for the evening, ""

lol



""I have to get back to my paper.""

good luck with that.

Good night vl .. pleasant dreams 🙂

lol@the basking in self

Strings bows out and the whole "room" folds.

All the children have gone to bed...

For you, my fellow adult, I offer this thread: http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1208501<BR>
Good Night!

"VLC,

You've made some good points, and I will take them to heart, but why all the hatred towards StringsAttached?

I'm the one who f0cked up, and got his sweet wife upset.

Okay, I'm just now reading everything so if it seems like I am going back and forth on my opinion of the situation...you get the point..."

I'm going to put it to ya'll like this...

Dyar, I know that you didn't have bad intentions when you posted your (business) about you and your wife, and I admire your honesty with your wife, I mean how more honest can you get when you give her the password and everything...

But you could only expect bad criticism when you post something like that up here, especially with someone like P-Angel that calls you out on every little thing you do (sorry, no offense but you are the first one to point the finger)

But what I am saying is that no one knows what really goes on between you and your wife but you and her, and I think that if your wife really had a problem with you posting your personal problems, that she would have let you know by now, and I'm pretty sure that you would not do that anymore...just my opinion 😉

As long as you and your wife have that understanding, then to hell what anyone else feels about it...

It's better than having a husband who looks up porn all day 🙂

sagigoat: "Yes that's some argumentative Virgo duo-team teaming up against the devoted scorpio wife Debra from my perspective."

You're right. Thanks for pointing that out. It was an unfair ganging-up by two Virgos. I should've seen it that way - from my wife's perspective - but I got caught up in the humor & wit, and missed the message...

I don't believe Strings meant harm. I'm the one who f0cked up. I know my wife, and SA doesn't. I should've had more sense!

In SA's defense, we Virgs get bashed a lot on our own Board by the non-Virgos, and we tend to circle the wagons early rather than get massacred. Plus, not that many Virgs post to DXP, so we're usually outnumbered. I don't think we're paranoid to see this as unfair gang activity against us.

AGAIN: I let the DXP stuff intrude on my real life, and insulted my sweet wife by being insensitive and pushy, when she's been very tolerant of my Internet crap. I f0cked up. That's all there is to it.

It just occurred to me: Now that she's left her civil service job, and is staying home with the babies full time, she's more vulnerable -- maybe saw my action as me trying to roll over her because she does depend on me now. Fucking shit! What an ass I am! Bill's right - I don't deserve her.