Female Virgo confuses me?

So my ex has me confused because first she says we’re better off as friends but goes on saying she loves me and I’m her everything and that I make her so incredibly happy. What is up with her ? Are all virgos so indecisive and selfish ?

Here's what you do....

It’s an unusual friendship tbh. She told me that I should’ve looked for her in the 3 years that we didn’t talk because now she’s unhappily married and only likes to be around me because I don’t give her money or material things(her man just gives her money to make her leave him alone) I just give her my time attention and little affections of love. When I do that she tells me I’m perfect, that any girl would be lucky to have me, but then goes to saying how she hoped things could’ve been different. Idk I think she’s just stuck between love and pride while still wanting what he has to offer. Not to mention, she wants to start a family and her guy went from being all in(when they first started dating) and now that she’s trying to get him documented into the US he’s backing down even more, so idk what the hell is going on in this woman’s head

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

One woman Virgo I know dragged her bf (now husband) for 6 years on ‘friends’ basis.

She was 19 and she wanted to party.

Then she told me - she had seen he was still around drooling over her fat ass and she said yes!

He is an Aries. Handsome AF. And apparently still loving her and they seem happily ever after.

I secretly suspect she was looking for better deal financially though she is working her ass off herself. But at 25 she had decided to accept him.

So maybe you need to just stick around?

I knew another Virgo long time ago. She was also looking for money and dated married man twice shorter than her. She got pregnant and he shipped her off to her parents to another country. Lmao

Lol for a participation trophy 🏆

What happened to distancing yourself from her and quitting this? More sex?

If you’re going to break up this marriage, do it already but stop being her whipping boy.

Posted by AlantheGemini

It’s an unusual friendship tbh. She told me that I should’ve looked for her in the 3 years that we didn’t talk because now she’s unhappily married and only likes to be around me because I don’t give her money or material things(her man just gives her money to make her leave him alone) I just give her my time attention and little affections of love. When I do that she tells me I’m perfect, that any girl would be lucky to have me, but then goes to saying how she hoped things could’ve been different. Idk I think she’s just stuck between love and pride while still wanting what he has to offer. Not to mention, she wants to start a family and her guy went from being all in(when they first started dating) and now that she’s trying to get him documented into the US he’s backing down even more, so idk what the hell is going on in this woman’s head

Careful and don't get played.

Disregard what I sent before. I was dumb to think there would be something with an ex. I’m so stupid to have even hoped for something. I can’t believe I did it to myself again. I’m such an idiot for even thinking it would work. I’m too dumb to have even thought it might happen. Thank you for the advice guys but I’m a lost cause and should’ve listened. I’m sorry for making you guys listen to my ramble

Posted by AlantheGemini

Disregard what I sent before. I was dumb to think there would be something with an ex. I’m so stupid to have even hoped for something. I can’t believe I did it to myself again. I’m such an idiot for even thinking it would work. I’m too dumb to have even thought it might happen. Thank you for the advice guys but I’m a lost cause and should’ve listened. I’m sorry for making you guys listen to my ramble

You’re not dumb, we all want love and to feel love and sometimes in fact most of the times from just reading around here we lose out between the head and the heart. The hearts desire is stronger than what we really know deep down.

Pick yourself back up, cut her off until you are strong enough to deal with her again if at all. There’ll be somebody out there for you that will be all in. Don’t settle!

Posted by LikeABOSS

If you're a Gemini man sup playa!!! Here's the Virgo Man perspective on the matter. Virgos think Geminis are awesome, but we end up questioning your intentions because under normal circumstances you Gems are care free and everywhere. If she wasn't interested or attached she would have ghosted you. Plain and simple. So whatever the reason she's your ex is remaining between you both. Virgos don't like feeling like a runner up or anyone's second choice. If you somehow made her feel this way, we're the type to cut off our nose to spite our faces even if we love you and it's killing us. I don't understand exactly why you're still interested in your ex anyway. Not very Gemini like. For both Geminis and Virgos you're either in or out. So pull away a little. Make her squirm. If you want her draw a line and tell her to step up or step off.. At the end of the day, at least you're not in some triangle bs.

Agreed, with a gem and realized my gem is carefree and everywhere with time, cleaning, and schedule. Due to my nature it can be somewhat of an internal nightmare but helps me not be so uptight and helps him be more punctual.

Posted by Dreamy88

IME

Virgo women love to be chased. Something about that energy. Both of my Virgo exes wanted me to make every single move and decision. I'm not saying they are indecisive, they've made the choice in their heads, but won't tell you outright that they are interested or that you need to make a decision of some sort. In a way, they expect you to be a mind reader.

Just don't go around touching her in weird ways. If I'm wrong, I don't want you running around catching a case.

I agree I personally like being chased only if I am interested in the person but then again I am bound to let them know I am interested or will finally break walls if i'm pushed to do so due to not knowing I was not communicating my motive/intention. Although I think I am very open and blunt I tend to not communicate as much as I think I do.