I'm a virgo F, why is it I can't stand virgo M's?

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cellardoor
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Posted by Vcharm
Virgos are the only sign that can get along very well with each other. You'll be surprised how may Virgo Virgo marriages they are. Who els can get you? Seriously...



You just reminded me of one guy. I was seriously only thinking of all the virgo men I can't stand. I nearly forgot there is one virgo man I adore, he's a lot like me yet better in some ways. he isn't my type physically, but his mind and his soul is just wonderful to behold. silly me, I stomped on his advances and now he's married. I have no regrets though, I'm just glad he's happy.
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My best friend is a Virgo and he is married to a Virgo. Our other friend is a Virgo and he is married to a Virgo as well. That's a lot of Virgos lol. They all went to high school together. My best friends marriage is pretty good but our friends marriage was rocky due to his constant cheating. Honestly, every Virgo male I've met has been a cheater and a huge flirt. It's like they can't control themselves. I talked to my friend about it and the only thing I can say is its like they're too skeptical of commitment. They analyze it too much and take a "cold" approach to it. That it won't last. Ironically even if they mate with another Virgo they constantly do shit to wreck it. Even though my best friend has finally settled down, he's still a huge flirt.

I neighbor who lives a couple of doors down from me is the same way. He's been known to date two women at the same time. They tend to be the insecure types that he can control. My barber is also a Virgo and she's 67. She was talking about her man problems and I told her the same thing...you're afraid of commitment. Independence has nothing to do with it. It's like you analyze it like a spreadsheet when love is emotional and needs attachment to be nurtured. Until she gets over that, she won't be successful. She was amazed I knew her so well lol.

Not saying that you're that way OP, just giving some outside insight into why you feel the way you do about Virgo men. They're not bad, they just approach things in the wrong way.
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Omgosh @beautifulsoul74 is soooo rite !!! I act more masculine that feminine so
I felt like he was describing me lol. I do have commitment issues & I use independence
as a way of justifying it & because of this I think ill be single forever "( - ill make a blog
about this later lol

But I DO NOT like male virgos they get on my MF nerves !! I've only met one I liked
[we had the same bday] but he had a preggo girlfriend & I can't have that on my
conscience. But anyway, I agree with yu about Taurus'; my female best friend is
one, but the males want WAY to much from me. "Why don't yu call me?" "Yu don't
really like me!" "Why can't I come see yu?" Cause I just met yu dammit were not
even in a relationship yet wtf?!! They understand Virgos well, but I just can't give
them the emotional support they need...
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Posted by cellardoor
I don't know much about astrology, I like numerology better. But I do know some signs are more compatible with the same sign. Is that not the case with virgos? I also can't stand taurus men, the sign that's supposed to be a great match for me. I do get along very well with taurus men though, they make great friends and family, but I just can't ever see them in a romantic way. Virgo men on the other hand, I would not want to be friends with or be in a relationship with. One is pursuing me right now, and I can't shake the feeling that he is not to be trusted.

Hi, all. I'm new to the site =)



Im interested in knowing more about numerology. Like you, I dont get along with my "supposed" matches. Ive been on dates with them etc and Im still like meh. I have more fun with Air signs and Gemini specifically. That could be because I have a lot of Air in my birth chart and my Rising is Aquarius. Have you ever done your birth chart?
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Posted by JazSexyAzz
Omgosh @beautifulsoul74 is soooo rite !!! I act more masculine that feminine so
I felt like he was describing me lol. I do have commitment issues & I use independence
as a way of justifying it & because of this I think ill be single forever "( - ill make a blog
about this later lol

But I DO NOT like male virgos they get on my MF nerves !! I've only met one I liked
[we had the same bday] but he had a preggo girlfriend & I can't have that on my
conscience. But anyway, I agree with yu about Taurus'; my female best friend is
one, but the males want WAY to much from me. "Why don't yu call me?" "Yu don't
really like me!" "Why can't I come see yu?" Cause I just met yu dammit were not
even in a relationship yet wtf?!! They understand Virgos well, but I just can't give
them the emotional support they need...



I've noticed that Virgo females tend to be masculine. What may be at play is the competition between men energy.
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I really like Virgo men. My father is one and I was always in awe of how much he cared for my mom, he's been a great male model for me. He taught me everything I know, looked after me a lot and instilled good moral values and the importance of education. A little detached emotionally but I always felt his love ( even when we quarrel, I can feel the affection).

To this date, the most romantic thing a guy did for me came from a Virgo - he knew my soul inside and out

Cheers for all of you wonderful Virgo men! ๐Ÿ™‚
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Lol ive noticed that virgo f dont like virgo m dont know why mayube u envy us lol, i dont like virgo f because i find them too nit picky and nagging btches like the devil xD very very mean, and were more of "relaxed" vibe and our dark sides are more physical rather than mental like yours, i can be a naggin assshole in few cases, i mostly contain myself and prefer not to judge something or someone but when i do it has do be a fkn hard thing i make some people cry xD and it isnt my purpose but people seem to get me easily and follow what i say when i have to say it, lol, sometimes i can find myself playing with people like a gemini but in this case this isnt my purpose, i actually hate being an asshole most of the times but people need to hear some things sometimes
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There's a police officer that recently started working at my nieces school. Everyday my sister has had a story about how cute he is. She also said that he makes her a bit shy, which isnt a reaction she's use to. Earlier this week she decided to say more than her usual "hi, bye" and I think she asked him his name. He gave her first and last.....fastforward, she found him on facebook, got his number, and now they are talking. He wants to take her out on a date and he's a...... .Virgo!

This is so shocking to me. If they survive the first date without her complaining or irritated about something then they are meant for eachother lol.

I wonder if the females are a bit less shy when they are interested in someone? My sister isnt afraid to initiate showing interest. She does it subtly, but she's not afraid to get the ball rolling.