Mixed signals from bf

Uh, why the eff is a dude, who you barely started dating (not "barley" sweetheart), someone who you're declaring as your "boyfriend" and acting as if this is a full fledged relationship?

Based on his behavior, it makes me wonder if you both are on the same page and if this is an actual relationship or something still in the early fuck dating stages.

He's fading away. Cut him to the chase and don't look back.

Posted by Aries_89
Virgos are weird they just love themselves and they are selfish

LOL this coming from an Aries......

Posted by Earthgoddess
You didn't say "I love you" back so

Virgo backs up ( cuts the emotions)and starts analyzing. Good luck getting him to be that vulnerable again

Well said.

This was EXACTLY my experience just before my Virguy dumped me :/ sorry to say. And I was about to beat him to the punch of dumping but I held on to hope like an idiot because I cared a lot for him... You'll know when it's over and that you should walk away. don't hesitate.

Also, he had told me he loved me before I said anything to him. It stunned me and I sat on it for a week. I returned the sentiment a week later after giving it some thought. I always think these Virguy stories sound so so so fucking similar, it's uncanny.

Typical story goes like this!-

They take a while to warm up ----> then they come on hard with "I love you's" etc etc.----> you decide you feel the same and voice it -------> they pull back and make you question everything you thought you two had-----> End LOL

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Posted by Earthgoddess
You didn't say "I love you" back so

Virgo backs up ( cuts the emotions)and starts analyzing. Good luck getting him to be that vulnerable again

Always analyzing and analyzing, what a way to act

If you love someone you should prove it and not act as distant, that's if you are really in love,

When you love someone and feel like you are comfortable with you should show that you care and ask directly if there is same feelings ....

Virgos are weird they just love themselves and they are selfish

Not everyone is the same and acts same way. I agree it would be perfect if people would be like you said but it's just a fact that they aren't

Yes sure not all are the same

But life we live it once , so i don't know why i see most of the post regarding the astrology that people acts distant, if you love someone show that and ask for that , dont play games and make distant , if not interested anymore say that cz others also need to live their life and needs to know where they stand

Some acts distant to check

Some analyses

Some close the room and start crying

.......spread the love and be clear

My Moon in Aries completely agrees with you, so do Sun and Venus Sag and all others in Sag 🙂

but I learned to have to understand the ones who don't act like we do,that it takes more for them to act more and show more, be decisive lol

My virgo ex told me before that he hates one of his friends bcz he don't share and tell him all him about his life

So i was extremely open with him and i tell him everything happens with me

Then he said that he ignored one of his freinds bcz he don't ask about him from a year ago so when he just text him he ignored cz his freind dont care

So when we faced a problem and he decided to take a break for 2 weeks , i was always texting him and asking about him to show him that i care , he said i was very pushy

..... wtf .....

You don't know what they want .....

Yeah trust me I got it really quite a lot. I noticed also that they often say one thing and do completely different thing from what they said...It was always so weird to me, like I'd expect that from Gemini, not from Virgo lol but they do tend to do such things as well. Maybe that's where those mixed messages come from lol

Seems as though you got hold of the bipolar disorder virgos...such a shame some are like so.

My best friend and my ex are both like that. It just annoyed me sometimes cause when I make plan I stick to it unless bus hits me or something lol but with them you just can't be sure they won't change their mind even like hour before something is supposed to be done...I'd expect such thing from Gem not from Virgo bit they both are exactly like that. I think they're both very good people but this is one thing that always annoyed me about them cause I simply loke things to be planned and go according to plan

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YES! Breaking plans last minute but if you considered doing that, good luck - ya know? So many double standards with the Virguy... Gems, once they make an actual plan or decision, will at least stick with it. Not a Virg. Virgos do whatever they want and expect their "fan base" to act accordingly.