My parents are splitting up.

They are both Virgo. Is this a common thing? For Virgo to go 98% through with something and leave? It's like this with work, projects, relationships. Because it seems to happen with every Virgo I know. Is it the urge that there is something better out there? your mercurial actions have led me to believe you are untrustworthy, unloyal people as a whole, and this is a very rare thing for me to believe in people, because I genuinely want to believe people are good. Your sign consistently lets me down.

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Is this a common thing? For Virgo to go 98% through with something and leave?

Is it the urge that there is something better out there?

Your sign consistently lets me down.

What do you mean by 98% through with something then leave?

There is always something better out there.

Are you basing this consistent let down on the fact that your parents aren't happy enough to suit you?

I'm unsure why you think it's wrong that two people decide that they aren't happy together, and so need to part ways.

Have you believed all along that your parents weren't actually human?

The opportunity is now present to develop a different relationship with your parents. The typical parental/child relationship involves the parents as a duo, in that to have one, you have to include the other.

Now, you are able to relate to each one independently, as a person, rather than as a couple.

And that's a lovely thing.

I truly hope you want to comfort them, and believe in them ..... rather than begrudge them because you can't handle your little feelings. I have a feeling that the only reason you made this thread was to talk about you, and how you expected them to cater to your wants.

thats sad though

thats sad though

As a toddler you dont have the same awareness of what is happening, as a teenager/young adult it makes all the difference in the world, it comes much harder, trust me. My parents divorced when I was 19 and my mom basically abandoned us, it took me many years to forgive her and realize that besides my mom she was also an individual with her own wishes and hopes and that she was entitled to do what was best for her. Its a slow process, the OP will figure it out at her own pace, just let her be, let her vent

I read it before you hid it 😛

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
lol. 12th house moon didn't feel comfortable sharing it. But at least you know where I'm coming from too

My mom is an Aries/Pisces cusp, just like you btw 😛

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As a toddler you dont have the same awareness of what is happening, as a teenager/young adult it makes all the difference in the world, it comes much harder, trust me. My parents divorced when I was 19 and my mom basically abandoned us, it took me many years to forgive her and realize that besides my mom she was also an individual with her own wishes and hopes and that she was entitled to do what was best for her. Its a slow process, the OP will figure it out at her own pace, just let her be, let her vent

Sorry about your mum

I just cannot imagine doing this to my son


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Its ok man, Im glad I have a normal relationship with my mom again, all issues are out of the way now.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
As a toddler you dont have the same awareness of what is happening, as a teenager/young adult it makes all the difference in the world, it comes much harder, trust me. My parents divorced when I was 19 and my mom basically abandoned us, it took me many years to forgive her and realize that besides my mom she was also an individual with her own wishes and hopes and that she was entitled to do what was best for her. Its a slow process, the OP will figure it out at her own pace, just let her be, let her vent

aww sorry to hear about your mother. Even a teenage boy needs his mother, even if divorce, at least see you all part time. But yeah, it is good you forgave her. You're a good man, Shaka. She is very fortunate to have a son like you.

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Posted by starlover

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
As a toddler you dont have the same awareness of what is happening, as a teenager/young adult it makes all the difference in the world, it comes much harder, trust me. My parents divorced when I was 19 and my mom basically abandoned us, it took me many years to forgive her and realize that besides my mom she was also an individual with her own wishes and hopes and that she was entitled to do what was best for her. Its a slow process, the OP will figure it out at her own pace, just let her be, let her vent

Sorry about your mum

I just cannot imagine doing this to my son


😢

Its ok man, Im glad I have a normal relationship with my mom again, all issues are out of the way now.

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saw this just now. Anyway 🙂

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
As a toddler you dont have the same awareness of what is happening, as a teenager/young adult it makes all the difference in the world, it comes much harder, trust me. My parents divorced when I was 19 and my mom basically abandoned us, it took me many years to forgive her and realize that besides my mom she was also an individual with her own wishes and hopes and that she was entitled to do what was best for her. Its a slow process, the OP will figure it out at her own pace, just let her be, let her vent

aww sorry to hear about your mother. Even a teenage boy needs his mother, even if divorce, at least see you all part time. But yeah, it is good you forgave her. You're a good man, Shaka. She is very fortunate to have a son like you.

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Youre sweet, thanks a lot! I was extremely close to her since I was the youngest kid for many years, so the blow was extra hard to take.

Definitely! Whenever my mom is around she still acts as if Im a little boy 😛 its a bit embarrassing but funny and endearing at the same time, I can totally see myself the same way if I ever have children!

You dont know my mother, so I will ask you to refrain from judging her or insulting her, so with all due respect, fuck off.

Your armchair psychologist judgements are yet again way off. Better focus on your love life, or lack thereof.

Love is what keeps the universe together, cant escape it darling.