should i chase this virgo guy? (Page 2)

"not needy when in a committed relationship as long as they come home every night."


lol, that would be good .. Virgo's don't normally forget where they live .. may be stumbling and goofy .. but, they do come home. More than I can say for a lot of men, from what I hear - they tend to forget from time to time.

Unfortunately .. there's no stopping the pulling away thing .. accept it, or give up. Most women give up long before the relationship has ever had a chance. Asking him point-blank how he feels will likely send him away .. they normally only talk at their convenience.

Good Luck figuring him out ..

he may be worth the wait but i've decided not to risk it! i've slept on it and realised that this is too complicated than it needs to be for something that's barely even begun. if i retreat in to my cancerian shell now then it's up to him if he wants to crack me open again when he's ready. i realised that i've made it too easy for him to get as much fun as he can without taking any risks himself. well i'm not gonna be his random hook up girl, i can't make excuses for him just because he's come out of a serious relationship 'cause it's not fair on me.
thanks for all the advice.

You have to do whatever is right for you, Catherine .. and I certainly understand where your coming from .. life doesn't have to be so damn serious all the time, you know?

Sometimes, we just want to have a fun and light-hearted adventure with a cool man to share it with .. rarely works that way with Virgo's .. it's usually serious, or nothing.

Anyway, good luck in the future and I hope you find the one you're looking for.

thank you!
i will let you know if 'my' virgo does suprise me and get his arse in to gear but i won't be waiting on it and holding my breath
x

oh yeah totally, your situation is different, and if my virgo were someone i'd established a friendship with etc then i would probably stick around. i do have the patience for him, but i don't want to put myself at his romantic beck and call, and unfortunately we don't have a friendship to fall back on because from the word go we were only ever romantically involved if anything. we do have a strong mental connection, on the 2nd time we met he said he felt like he'd known me for ages, as did i, and that's when he vanished for a while before getting back in contact :s
i'd be happier to develop a friendship with him rather than just go cold on him alltogether, but he's not letting me in at all really anymore, not making much effort other than to kiss me when he's in the mood. so i gotta skedaddle!
i hope you have more luck with your virguy. your situation does sound as though it holds promise, you're right to keep up the patience.x