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Posted by s3xyasitcomes1
My question is for all virgo men. why is it that when cancer women share our deepest secrets with yall in the mix of an argument you throw it back in our face knowing that it gonna hurt us. Why are virgo men so critical with there words towards women is it that there trying to intentionally hurt us in the worse possible way. How do virgo men really feel about a cancer woman. Sometime i feel that virgo men dont appreciate a good cancer woman who does any and everything for them and this is why we get crushed at the end. Why do virgo men feel that cancer women are sneaky and that we are cheaters, like do they really misunderstand cancer woman because we are sometimes shy or we hold back alot? i need answers.Yes, we really do misunderstand you all because you are shy, hold back and relate information in an indirect way.
A Virgo needs straightforward communication, with no guessing.Cancer women have great difficulty with this.
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If you know Cancer women struggle with communication, then I would think Virgo would be alittle more accommodating with them, rather than hurting her feelings.
You say Virgo needs more straightforward communication .... well, maybe Cancer needs you to beat-around-the-bush more so that feelings are protected. Are you to say that it's too bad for Cancer and her needs because Virgo wins, so therefore it's up to Cancer to change ways to suit you?
Maybe Cancer women think Virgo men have great difficulty in being accepting of her form of communication.
She says that the Virgo man is hurting her feelings ..... and the only thing anyone has to say is either about me, about how they like Cancers, or to tell her to change the way she talks to satisfy him.
Is that seriously your assistance when ANOTHER woman comes in here to say that the Virgo man is hurting her and she needs help?
Just leave her hanging?
@P-Angel :yaay!finally to meet a person that knows us! I couldn't have said your last posts better
Thank you for explaining it so well
If you know Cancer women struggle with communication, then I would think Virgo would be alittle more accommodating with them, rather than hurting her feelings.
You say Virgo needs more straightforward communication .... well, maybe Cancer needs you to beat-around-the-bush more so that feelings are protected. Are you to say that it's too bad for Cancer and her needs because Virgo wins, so therefore it's up to Cancer to change ways to suit you?
Maybe Cancer women think Virgo men have great difficulty in being accepting of her form of communication.
If their form of communication made sense to us, sure.
But it does not. So long as we can not understand, we can not accommodate, it's black and white.
Hurting a Cancer's feelings is easy and they open themselves to it.
If he chooses not to be tactful, that's his choice. It does not reflect on all Virgo men.
Why is it always such a surprise when it comes to virgo people being critical? It's been said a million times. It is what it is. The evolved virgo knows to be aware of a fault such as this and should be able to communicate in a more positive way. If you enjoy a challenge then date a virgo man. If not, then why date or marry one? Simple as a slice of pie.
Posted by s3xyasitcomes1
My question is for all virgo men. why is it that when cancer women share our deepest secrets with yall in the mix of an argument you throw it back in our face knowing that it gonna hurt us. Why are virgo men so critical with there words towards women is it that there trying to intentionally hurt us in the worse possible way. How do virgo men really feel about a cancer woman. Sometime i feel that virgo men dont appreciate a good cancer woman who does any and everything for them and this is why we get crushed at the end. Why do virgo men feel that cancer women are sneaky and that we are cheaters, like do they really misunderstand cancer woman because we are sometimes shy or we hold back alot? i need answers.
Are virgo men the only men that you date? Let me first start off by saying that a virgo man DOES appreciate a good woman. That has nothing to do with an arguement. I know that a virgo man is not going to just come out and say something mean to hurt a woman for no apparent reason. Someone had to say something that got him to that point. And yes, if a virgo feels that you have said or done something that hurt their feelings first, then they more than likely will dig deep to hurt you back verbally. Look on the bright side, you are able to break from a relationship like that. Get out of it because no relationship is worth pain. If you meet a virgo that is more calm, that type tries to stay away from dramatic situations. They will sit and talk through whatever is going on between him and his woman. There is a good and bad to every sign, though.
my mother always told me if u dont have nothing nice to say then keep it to urself to reduce a bad situation. in my case i never use things or say things to hurt ones feelings because i know it doesnt make u feel good at the end. but the fact that ur only way of hurting me is using things that ive told u about myself that i no longer am who i was yrs ago to hurt me to break me down is dead ass wrong. to be called all the names in the book but you tell me that u love me so much is that really love. he thinks all women are sneaky at that were all whores. but not every women is that way. hes has cheated on me numerous of times and because he stop he thinks imma do it to him. if anybody knows a real cancer woman we are not cheaters we are loyal and 100% faithful. we put ourselve last and put everyone else on the throne to royalty. myself have never had the though of cheating because when u know u have someone at home who gives u that unconditional love and u can feel it why risk losing out on it. anyone that knows they have someone who loves them isnt gonna be that stupid to wanna go outside ur relationship and thats what he thinks im doing. i can communicate with him because sometimes the disrespect gets outta hand and i must stay sometimes its my fault becuase i accept it so much u kinda become immune to it. i just wanna know what can a cancer woman do to get that spark back with a virgo man.
no this is my first and if it doesnt work they will be my last cause i cant deal with someone being so critical all the time.
It is your fault and you should not accept it. Listen to what he is saying, he means it and can not feel the same about you as you do for him.
we put ourselve last and put everyone else on the throne to royalty. myself have never had the though of cheating because when u know u have someone at home who gives u that unconditional love and u can feel it why risk losing out on it. anyone that knows they have someone who loves them isnt gonna be that stupid to wanna go outside ur relationship and thats what he thinks im doing.
I am curious about the above ... can you clarify?
As of now, my take on it is .... you have no thoughts of cheating on him because at home, with him, you have unconditional love and you can feel it, so you don't want to risk losing out on it
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Hahahahaha! Your take on it? That is exactly what she just said.
Posted by s3xyasitcomes1
my mother always told me if u dont have nothing nice to say then keep it to urself to reduce a bad situation. in my case i never use things or say things to hurt ones feelings because i know it doesnt make u feel good at the end. but the fact that ur only way of hurting me is using things that ive told u about myself that i no longer am who i was yrs ago to hurt me to break me down is dead ass wrong. to be called all the names in the book but you tell me that u love me so much is that really love. he thinks all women are sneaky at that were all whores. but not every women is that way. hes has cheated on me numerous of times and because he stop he thinks imma do it to him. if anybody knows a real cancer woman we are not cheaters we are loyal and 100% faithful. we put ourselve last and put everyone else on the throne to royalty. myself have never had the though of cheating because when u know u have someone at home who gives u that unconditional love and u can feel it why risk losing out on it. anyone that knows they have someone who loves them isnt gonna be that stupid to wanna go outside ur relationship and thats what he thinks im doing. i can communicate with him because sometimes the disrespect gets outta hand and i must stay sometimes its my fault becuase i accept it so much u kinda become immune to it. i just wanna know what can a cancer woman do to get that spark back with a virgo man.
He cheated on you numerous times. He throws your past in your face. He just seems like a bad guy overall. You can do a whole lot better. You are allowing yourself to take this pain.
He cheated on you numerous times. He throws your past in your face. He just seems like a bad guy overall. You can do a whole lot better. You are allowing yourself to take this pain.
Ding Ding Ding!
We have a winner.
He cheated on you numerous times. He throws your past in your face. He just seems like a bad guy overall. You can do a whole lot better. You are allowing yourself to take this pain.
Ding Ding Ding!
We have a winner.click to expand
Actually, she didn't say that .... that was someone's assumption.
Ding, ding, ding
We have a Virgo taking to gospel something that wasn't said
Posted by P-Angel
Ding, ding, ding
We have a Virgo taking to gospel something that wasn't said
Excuse you?
We only speculate on what information she gives us.
He cheated on you numerous times.
hes has cheated on me numerous of times and because he stop he thinks imma do it to him.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
He throws your past in your face.
Posted by s3xyasitcomes1
but the fact that ur only way of hurting me is using things that ive told u about myself that i no longer am who i was yrs ago to hurt me to break me down is dead ass wrong.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
He just seems like a bad guy overall. You can do a whole lot better.
to be called all the names in the book but you tell me that u love me so much is that really love. he thinks all women are sneaky at that were all whores
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
You are allowing yourself to take this pain.click to expand
Posted by s3xyasitcomes1
i can communicate with him because sometimes the disrespect gets outta hand and i must stay sometimes its my fault becuase i accept it so much u kinda become immune to it.i just wanna know what can a cancer woman do to get that spark back with a virgo man.
wow, did you wake up on the defensive side of the bed this morning?
Ok, excuse me ...
were you like all indignant and shit?
So, I guess it all boils down to ......
The Cancer girl was wrong in thinking she was anything of value.
She didn't handle herself right, so her loss.
We only speculate on what information she gives us.
Hahahahaha! Right. It looks like P isn't paying attention to the actual content of this thread. Once she asked her to clarify something that was already clearly stated. Then she said that there were assumptions being made when the answers are right before our eyes. I don't think that you, Cajun woke up on the defensive side this morning. It looks like P-angel is having trouble focusing.
It was a rhetoric question .... seriously, you guys really don't get shit, do you?
It was a question in place for HER to look at herself.
:::: shakes head ::::
http://web.cn.edu/kwheeler/resource_rhet.html
There's some reading material for you ... so you can actually "get" it.
If that talks too much above you, and you still don't get it ... let me know and I will simplify it for you.
Posted by P-Angel
It was a rhetoric question .... seriously, you guys really don't get shit, do you?It was a question in place for HER to look at herself.
:::: shakes head ::::
I think that you were more like reiterating it for her.
Posted by P-Angel
wow, did you wake up on the defensive side of the bed this morning?Ok, excuse me ...
were you like all indignant and shit?
There is nothing to defend, the facts, stated by her, are in plain sight.
You have no argument.
Arguement, Cajan, really? So, you don't know what it means when someone says excuse me ... and your robotic self will just continue to make mental points ... completely oblivious?
Anyway .... s3xyasitcomes1 .. you said ...
"we put ourselve last and put everyone else on the throne to royalty. myself have never had the though of cheating because when u know u have someone at home who gives u that unconditional love and u can feel it why risk losing out on it. anyone that knows they have someone who loves them isnt gonna be that stupid to wanna go outside ur relationship and thats what he thinks im doing."
And I am wondering if you could explain what that means. Are you saying you have unconditional love with him, or are you saying he has unconditional love with you?
Either way ... can you define unconditional love ?
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Yes, we really do misunderstand you all because you are shy, hold back and relate information in an indirect way.
A Virgo needs straightforward communication, with no guessing.
Cancer women have great difficulty with this.