Too good to be true? Virgo man

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I'm curious to know how it is possible that my Virgo man could be so sure that I am the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with so soon. We have been getting along splendidly for the last month after him chasing me to go on a date for a month prior. By the 4th date he told me I'm the one and falling for me.

All the reads say we are not compatible (I'm a sag/cap cusp), but I can't help but feel there can be exceptions to the rules.

Is it too good to be true with him being the one? I haven't felt this strong of connection or communication before and he has even hinted that before the end of the year, he will likely propose to me! Is this just a side of manipulation? I'm quite guarded after surviving an abusive relationship a few years ago and terrible relationships since.

Love advice from the community if I can trust he is serious. I would throw my towel in a second to be with him for the long term.
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You havent known him long enough i'd say to consider "throwing the towel in" be realistic. Look at the situation and him subjectively, but also trust your intuition. Learn from the past-you have been in abusive relations previously? That would make me more hesitant and less prematurely enthusiastic. Let it take its course naturally-all will be revealed in time.
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Posted by MiZLeo
What's his Venus/Mars? If Leo Venus then he probably isn't messing with you. All the Virgo men I've met have just wanted to be FWBs and I've only aloud one of them to actually do this with me so I don't know how they are in relationships other than from what I've observed. They tend to be very loyal tho for the most part. That doesn't mean they won't ask you to be in an open relationship with you at one point.
He has Leo Venus. He told me on our 5th date he dropped the other two girls he was casually chatting with and only wanted to focus on us having a life together. I'm giving it time to see how it goes. I'm too logical to assume that the ugly side won't show up soon enough. Just enjoying the time together now. '

He doesn't treat me like a "ho". He respects and treats me like a princess.
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Posted by MiZLeo
What's his Venus/Mars? If Leo Venus then he probably isn't messing with you. All the Virgo men I've met have just wanted to be FWBs and I've only aloud one of them to actually do this with me so I don't know how they are in relationships other than from what I've observed. They tend to be very loyal tho for the most part. That doesn't mean they won't ask you to be in an open relationship with you at one point.
A virgo guy will pick you for what you are or as they see you and the way you act (fwb only).

Act like a ho, you will get treated like one. See?
Being in a FWB relationship with someone does not make a person a ho. If that's the case the guy is a ho too. If not a bigger ho since they are looking at someone just for sex. I am in a mutually agreed upon relationship with one man that we agreed upon before ever sleeping together and have been this way for 1 1/2 years. What you are talking about is a guy emotionaly manipulating a girl into sex with promis of a relationship and the girl getting hurt because she thought they liked them more.

2 of the Virgos who wanted a fwb relationship were both married and claimed to be in open relationships. I am not into that so neither of them got even a first date. So if they thought I was a ho I guess the jokes on them. They were the hoes fucking around on their wives.

Perhaps you should get your facts right before throwing around wild accusations.
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Just a mere two weeks ago, you were in here talking about how you and your husband are trying to work the marriage.



Considering you fuck another man on the side, while lying to the husband ...



Yeah ... you're a whore

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Posted by Centaurian

...... for the last month after him chasing me to go on a date for a month prior.






How bizarre that you state you would marry him and throw in the towel ... for a man you weren't even wanting to be with, had he not chased you down for a month.

The partial sentence above doesn't describe you having a connection with this man ... it describes you settling to give in because he's been pestering you.

It looks to me like alls he has to do is say words to you, like marriage, for example ...... and suddenly your brain stops working and you allow passage.



I can't believe you are seriously even coming here to ask this question, considering he only had to play you with pretty words ...... like, how dumb are you?

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I don't know if he's gonna be serious or not because I'm not a psychic but to put a positive review on this pairing, I'm a Virgo Man and my wife is a Sagittarius and we been married for 8 years now and I'm still very much in love with her and I always been serious about our relationship..

My advice is spend more quality time together and communicate as much as possible, if both of you are serious about the potential relationhip then you will always find a way to see and communicate together. Just don't overdid it and give each other space. Like normal human being sometimes we need time for ourselves as well.

Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman rarely work but you'll never know that you might beat the odds. So, I guess good luck!
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he's running from something or like you but the reason he likes you is not truly for you. virgo rarely see a person as someone that deep in one month. unless they are a really watery virgo.

Just don't believe anything he say, like other said, it'll play itself out to you whether it's genuine, you're a rebound, or he is desperately looking for intimacy for some reason that anyone would do
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Posted by Centaurian

...... for the last month after him chasing me to go on a date for a month prior.




... for a man you weren't even wanting to be with, had he not chased you down for a month.

The partial sentence above doesn't describe you having a connection with this man ... it describes you settling to give in because he's been pestering you.

It looks to me like alls he has to do is say words to you, like marriage, for example ...... and suddenly your brain stops working and you allow passage.



I can't believe you are seriously even coming here to ask this question, considering he only had to play you with pretty words ...... like, how dumb are you?

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I didn't say anything about not wanting to be with him at first. How cynical are you to assume. He simply had been asking me out on a date (setting it up), but I was too busy with work and personal matters until I did have the time. I'm also guarded because a past relationship I had was abusive a few years prior and gives me reason to throw caution to the wind first. Did you overlook that statement I made about guard/prior relationships in initial post?

I'm quite logical and rational, thank you. I came to post out of conscious thought in regards before throwing in a towel because of words said on his end.

"pretty words"..but prettier then the words you posted. "how dumb am I?" Frankly dear, I am not. I just feel sad for you knowing your comments shows some hidden unhappiness inside yourself.
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Posted by Nathan912
I don't know if he's gonna be serious or not because I'm not a psychic but to put a positive review on this pairing, I'm a Virgo Man and my wife is a Sagittarius and we been married for 8 years now and I'm still very much in love with her and I always been serious about our relationship..

My advice is spend more quality time together and communicate as much as possible, if both of you are serious about the potential relationhip then you will always find a way to see and communicate together. Just don't overdid it and give each other space. Like normal human being sometimes we need time for ourselves as well.

Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman rarely work but you'll never know that you might beat the odds. So, I guess good luck!
Thank you Nate! I'm sure your wife is very lucky to have you.

Our strongest quality is communication and quality time together. He's simply the sweetest and most encouraging human I have ever met in a mate. I see a long term commitment together and love when he tells me how much more in love he is falling for me each day. I feel the same. I haven't had this ease, intellect, and passion in a relationship in 18+ years. Here's to having the odds ever in our favor.