Virgo boyfriend stopped texting me while at work.

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I know it sounds minor but I have social anxiety and overthink things. He usually texts me all night while he is working but last night, all communication stopped around 5:45 when he was going to work. I shared with him a dream I had and when I got no reply I said " weird? I KNOW" no reply to that and finally it said " miss you" no reply. the messages said failed. But he usually sends me a "hey babe text during work"
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Posted by sugarplumeow
I know it sounds minor but I have social anxiety and overthink things. He usually texts me all night while he is working but last night, all communication stopped around 5:45 when he was going to work. I shared with him a dream I had and when I got no reply I said " weird? I KNOW" no reply to that and finally it said " miss you" no reply. the messages said failed. But he usually sends me a "hey babe text during work"
Currently, what time is it in your country?
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Wtf?! He's at work? You work at work which usually means you're busy. Do you have a job?
You had never had areal job that doesn't require 'fries with your order'?

At real job all you do is sit pretty in your cubical and text whomever! For a decent pay!

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I can't play with my phone when I'm busy at work and I'm not working in a burger joint. I can if I have downtime, but I actually work vs. sitting in a cubicle and downtime is less frequent than uptime.

But the messages didn't go through, anyway. He could've lost service or internet connection. His phone could be crapping out. This girl needs to open her purse and let his balls air out from time to time.
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Posted by ChoXtsy
Wtf?! He's at work? You work at work which usually means you're busy. Do you have a job?
You had never had areal job that doesn't require 'fries with your order'?

At real job all you do is sit pretty in your cubical and text whomever! For a decent pay!



I can't play with my phone when I'm busy at work and I'm not working in a burger joint. I can if I have downtime, but I actually work vs. sitting in a cubicle and downtime is less frequent than uptime.

But the messages didn't go through, anyway. He could've lost service or internet connection. His phone could be crapping out. This girl needs to open her purse and let his balls air out from time to time.

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Balls in a purse!

It's a poem! Hahaha
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Posted by sugarplumeow
I know it sounds minor but I have social anxiety and overthink things. He usually texts me all night while he is working but last night, all communication stopped around 5:45 when he was going to work. I shared with him a dream I had and when I got no reply I said " weird? I KNOW" no reply to that and finally it said " miss you" no reply. the messages said failed. But he usually sends me a "hey babe text during work"
First, he is always busy and will not most times answer or call you because he is are working. Some places don't even allow phones to be answered at work. And most people distract each other and can make mistakes if not focused enough. So set a time for when to call each other, talk abit, and then space out till next time.
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Posted by sugarplumeow
I know it sounds minor but I have social anxiety and overthink things. He usually texts me all night while he is working but last night, all communication stopped around 5:45 when he was going to work. I shared with him a dream I had and when I got no reply I said " weird? I KNOW" no reply to that and finally it said " miss you" no reply. the messages said failed. But he usually sends me a "hey babe text during work"
First, he is always busy and will not most times answer or call you because he is are working. Some places don't even allow phones to be answered at work. And most people distract each other and can make mistakes if not focused enough. So set a time for when to call each other, talk abit, and then space out till next time.
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You missing the point! She said he stopped so it means he did so it means he could but he stopped! That's the issue not that he never did. Then why would she be saying it? Got it?
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You said the messages failed, therefore he never received the texts. So what is the problem?
This, obviously.

However she thinks he should have texted her

anyway.

If I thought you hadn't replied to my text, like he

probably thought since your messages failed to

go through, I wouldn't have texted you back.

Moreover. .. did you ever consider that his texts

didn't get to you because of the bad connection

that kept them from getting in?

Come on.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
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Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol

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Both 24/7.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.

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You think that's bad? Try being me last night.......and now for the entire weekend.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.


You think that's bad? Try being me last night.......and now for the entire weekend.

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Oh man...

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ain't it strange that Virgos get so easily guilty then be with a Pisces who so easily makes us feel guilty? lol
Yeah, it's so much fun. -.-

Joking aside, I reached a point in my life where I was tired of being right all the time (that's sarcasm for you poor non Virgo souls reading this and still believing erroneously that it's Virgos who can't take being wrong; it's Pisces) so what better way to be wrong all the time then go date a Pisces? Their self-righteousness is equal to none.

I even told him that.

"Oh so you're dating me just cuz I'm a Pisces"

"Yeah, absolutely not because of how you are"

"I knew it"

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.




Darn, I wanted to live in bliss not knowing they do that.

But even tho I know I'm okay with it and still like them lol
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That's the whole genius of it.

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ain't it strange that Virgos get so easily guilty then be with a Pisces who so easily makes us feel guilty? lol
Yeah, it's so much fun. -.-

Joking aside, I reached a point in my life where I was tired of being right all the time (that's sarcasm for you poor non Virgo souls reading this and still believing erroneously that it's Virgos who can't take being wrong; it's Pisces) so what better way to be wrong all the time then go date a Pisces? Their self-righteousness is equal to none.

I even told him that.

"Oh so you're dating me just cuz I'm a Pisces"

"Yeah, absolutely not because of how you are"

"I knew it"



If you believe this then clearly you've never dated a cancer. Or friended one. **hides**

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Oh Cancer men are on Psycho level for me. It's never the Scorpios.

They're very emotionally volatile but nowhere as convinced about righteousness. At least Cancers will fight you to try to get you to see their perspective, Pisces will just zone you and your wrong idea out of their existence.
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-.-

The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.


You think that's bad? Try being me last night.......and now for the entire weekend.

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You and your damn kind!

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We kinda....well me and my beautiful Virgo boy kinda shared a bed for the night, and I woke up in the middle of it with his chin resting on the back of my shoulder and his hand on my arm. He was completely out for the count. And when he left bright & early I didn't want to let him go out that door.

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The nerve the Pisces has to call me clingy...he's out of his goddamn mind on what it actually means to be clingy.


You're a Virgo with a Pisces??
Lmao.

The shock/disbelief/outrage/amazement/disapproving Virgo look I imagine you're having on your face right now.

Indeed I am. Although I don't think anyone actually *is* with a Pisces but I digress.


not judging here lol

i almost married a Pisces 17 years ago and am Neptune dominant

i either want to hug or choke them really lol


Both 24/7.


...........aren't you adorable

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Dawww.

See, I'd use the word "infuriating" to describe Pisces but it's endearing infuriating...and I'm not sure I had a choice in finding it endearing, which is why I always point out the manipulation with Pisces.

I'd complain but that uncanny ability to make me feel guilty even when I'm 100% right...like I'm trespassing on the feels. The eyes turn gentler and the voice more melodious and I just grumble to myself "fine, you get to live another day" while I know he's playing on my emotions.

Ugh.


You think that's bad? Try being me last night.......and now for the entire weekend.

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Oh man...

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You and your damn kind!

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We kinda....well me and my beautiful Virgo boy kinda shared a bed for the night, and I woke up in the middle of it with his chin resting on the back of my shoulder and his hand on my arm. He was completely out for the count. And when he left bright & early I didn't want to let him go out that door.

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Arghhhh.

I can't even visualize it without tearing up. I don't know how you do it, man. 😢