There is a reason you both have issues with your guys and it has NOTHING to do with them being Virgos.
Age has everything to do with it. People really should act it and from what she said, neither of them are, they have both been childish. Could say the same in your situation.
@PiscesGoddess Finally someone on hear that get it. You live in real life. I don't care how old you are, people are aloud to have one too many drinks, at least once in there life time. But never sloppy with it, I went to sleep on his a**. And when a man give you as much attitude and ask you to leave because he took it too personal the next morning, and you made plans to be with him that day also. Slamming a door is natural. Not an earthquake. Not childish. And I apologized till I was blue. @LunarMaiden not childish, but the sabotaging something so good and a little scary may be true. But I have never liked someone so much so fast. So I just decided to learn from all this, and give him space, no call, no text for a week now, from neither of us. I get too frustrated with him when we text, then im cussing his ridiculousness again. Im going to see if he let go all this negative energy and realize were separated over something really not worth it. Just do me, and see if he came back down to earth in another week or 2. Who knows he may be really done with me, but something inside of me telling me hes not.
This is my first time with a virgo man. First man so sweet and loving, so caring out the gate. I believe we was falling for each other daily. All of this sh**t happening now is unreal. If we do get back together, at least now I know what im dealing with. A crazy man..lol. But Idk, im the kind of person to forgive and forget, I don't hold on to grudges. That may continuously make him mad. I argue, disagree and move on. Life too short. I pick my battles. I like being happy not sad. I let it go. I just wonder if he still thinking about me as much as I am about him. Do virgo men say forget you easily?? I know it was only 3months, but we had something good, I felt it and I know he did
I think it's less about your actions that night and more about your attitude towards that night, him, and possibly relationships in general.
Going from what you've written here, you seem to have a "We're gonna do what I wanna do, or *I'm* gonna do what I wanna do - but either way: what I want is what's getting done." approach to dating. I'm not saying that's definitely the case; nor am I saying that it's a conscious decision on your part.
But I am saying that's how you come across, and that I would've ended things too.
Having too much to drink isn't a problem Having emotional reactions, such as slamming doors isn't a problem
Standing him up is a problem. Standing him up is what you did.
And those people with more than one brain cell, clearly realizes that the only reason you came in here to make a federal case out of it, is because you know you were wrong, and instead of owning your own fuck-ups and having accountability for your own actions - you came here to draw a line in the sand, and then waited for people to take your side, so you could feel redeemed.
You feel stupid, but, you can't handle it, so you've made it his fault.
@capwoman39 He's def not done! This is also my first time with a Virgo and I'm really not enjoying it too much. What I meant about age is it doesn't matter how old a person is because the oldest person could be immature or the youngest person could be the most mature. "Age ain't nothing but a number" - Aaliyah
Virgos are full of s*** seriously. They can't handle what they create. Meaning if they start some s*** they can't deal with the issue if it blows up. They run hide avoid to the fullest.. Such cowards..
I think if he had a problem about anything the next morning he should have spoke about it and BAM it's fixed but noooo let's drag on the bs..
And ditto I feel the same way. I like to argue, come to a conclusion, someone possibly apologizes, move on and just be happy afterwards... Just get everything off your chest..
Virgo men like to avoid, change the subject, ignore you and not be involved. They're never wrong but they swear if they feel they are they have no problem apologizing.. Even if you have all the facts stating they're wrong they still will debate that. You won't get an apology from them until they really feel it. I've never experienced this type of man until now. They do say forget you easily. They're the type to run if anything is too challenging that makes me question their manliness because how are you gonna run and not stand and fight. You damn coward. I feel like more of a damn man I'm facing everything up front. From my experience as soon as things started getting bad if we didn't get to a conclusion (mostly his fault) he wanted to take breaks. Because god forbid if he fights for the relationship when it's being tested. If you have a problem with him about a certain subject and he doesn't want to discuss it you will never get peace with that issue.
Idk about Virgo men.. I'm seeing mine for valentines day _??' idk what will happen I'll try to stay positive but it's somethings about the Virgo male that piss me off.
Mb Andalusia has a point if other things have happened he could have been just bottling it all up and that was it for him he reached his boiling point. But damn wtf was soo bad that it's that serious!!? I just don't understand why he couldn't communicate with you that morning about anything he was not feeling. Like we're grown if you have a problem speak up! Let's get over this together n move on...
If the sex wasn't that good I probably would have not even continued my relationship with my
If the sex wasn't that good I probably would have not even continued my relationship with my Virgo. They absolutely suck at communication. And that is major!!! And to me it's like they have a stick up their a**.. But this is all my experience!! I don't feel like I can fall in love with him unless the communication picks up and he gets more open and into his feelings. I feel like Virgo men have potential but they're not letting it out..they're keeping all those things we women need in relationships in.. And they slip sometimes and show you that side and you get excited like finally he's being normal this is what I've been waiting for but oh noo spoke too soon he's back to being a mute.. -_-
Capwoman39 I don't think they realize life is so short.. Smh
P-angel has a point about the standing up issue being a problem.
Age has everything to do with it. People really should act it and from what she said, neither of them are, they have both been childish. Could say the same in your situation.