Virgo Mars in women

I've noticed something in pattern,

maybe it's the Venus sign combo with /Virgo mars in this case, but Joanna Moore's life was so interesting and so sad, it's interesting because why a woman who is so beautiful and successful at one time of her life,

became broke, disillusioned in love, and ended up in her middle years to senior years living with her daughter Tatum O'Neal after her break up with Ryan O'Neal.

She was married two times before marrying actor Ryan O'Neal, and then she lastly married one more man after him but it only lasted two years or so. Not very long.



and then there is Virgo mars/Taurus venus Princess Diana, who also had a tragic love story, or rather tragically has a man who doesn't want her? that went for another woman and loved other women better (such as Prince Charles who preferred and loved Camilla Bowles Parker)





"there were three of us in this marriage it was a bit crowded"

is there a tragicness to Virgo mars? Or is with the combo of Venus?



and then there is Yoko Ono, who married a violent man, but here the situation is that despite him being unfaithful and non-monogamous, he still is bonded to her.

She has Aquarius venus/Virgo mars, so there's no Taurus. But the two virgo mars above has Aquarius moon the other Capricorn moon.

Yoko was a strange one, even though she had Jupiter and Mars in Virgo hidden in the 12th. You can clearly see her Venus in Aquarius weirdness with that weird clothing. Or maybe it just didn't seem to "suit" her. Commentors were saying how ugly she was but then some defended and said John is uglier. smh.





what is it about Virgo mars? do any of you sun sign Virgo women see some similarities with choosing men who either doesn't want you the same way or men who are undercover abusive?

Café astrology says,

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Virgo, an appealing man to her is usually an understated, rather simple appearance without too much glamour or ostentatiousness. Healthy, natural, and clean are most appealing physical qualities, and a certain amount of intelligence as well as a modest, sensible approach to life. These women are turned off by men who are overly confident, bossy, or unkind. They are looking for perceptive men who are kind and helpful. Competency is important, but these women aren’t big on men who are show-offs. A quietly competent aura is best."





as for Joanna Moore, she is Scorpio sun, and Princess Diana is Cancer sun.

Joanna Moore is Scorpio venus and Princess Diana has Taurus venus, both with Virgo mars.



who fell for men, who didn't want them back the same way.

or is it the moon sign? what is your analysis on this?

Joanna Moore's life is so underrated!!! she has not been featured even in astrotheme!!

or no feature of her anywhere in astrology such as astro.com nor of her life like the way astrologers talk about Tatum O'Neal's life (her daughter)







she was married once to a virgo before marrying Ryan O'neal but obviously she didn't want him, or feel that DEEP with him.

It was Ryan O'Neal she felt DEEP love for, but he didn't want her as much. (this is similar to Prncess Diana)



and Ryan O'neal i felt was more ENAMOURED of Aquarius sun/Aquarius mars/Cancer moon/Sag venus

Farrah Fawcett,

in the same way that Prince Charles is more ENAMOURED of double cancer Gemini venus Camila Bowles.

Virgo Mars/Venus. Yes, my love life is never working out. However, im the common denominator cant tell if i pick the wrong dudes, or im fucked. haha

Virgo mars, idk what the hell is going on anymore with my love life ?

Posted by Distilled
The Virgo Venus/Mars women I've met tended to pick men who wanted to "fix" them.

Sags and Scorps in those cases, respectively.

They wanted to fix the men? Or be fixed? I think I subconsciously try to fix people as a show of love. But it comes off as being critical.

Posted by JustJules
So Yoko's Mars is in the 12th, do you know where Joanna and Diana's were placed?

Where is you Mars @heliumfiasco? Mine's in the 12th...could it be the house not the sign?

I've also been with an emotionally/verbally abusive man (never again!), and dated men that were emotionally unavailable. There's the unrequited love...

Mars/Venus in 11th house. However my 12th house is in Virgo. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years. I had a pattern of dating alcoholics, and men that are badly damaged.

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Posted by Distilled
The Virgo Venus/Mars women I've met tended to pick men who wanted to "fix" them.

Sags and Scorps in those cases, respectively.

They wanted to fix the men? Or be fixed? I think I subconsciously try to fix people as a show of love. But it comes off as being critical.

Being critical is foreplay for me, i don't think i've ever not been critical. I'll fuking passive aggressively criticize a guy i like , like if he's got a belly, i'll put a status up like trying to get this belly down, on a soup and salad diet.

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Fuck!!! Me too. I know I'm doing it and I can't stop! My last relationship with a Cancer I tried so hard to mute that in me...

I'm very much my mothers daughter in that I almost always wear the pants. I would not handle being "fixed" well, but oddly enough... I find it not an issue for me to be critical and "fixy" with partners. It just starts happening, and once I start the analyzing the brakes don't come on. I for once had a grasp on it I thought. And then I dated a dude who absolutely needed some actual pushing (not me just being a nag) and it destroyed us. So, now I have this terrible complex wondering if I destroyed something even though I didn't. Just because of my past.

I have Virgo Mars, I never took my lovelife very seriously until my mid 20's until I got hurt very badly-I now see it as something I was doing to myself-how did I let someone else have that much control over my psyche/emotions. I have more self love now. I needed that burn. I now have a wonderful relationship with an Aries man which I am hoping will lead to a great future together. Had I met this guy 5 years ago, i'd never have been ready for him. And he says the same me after a bad trip with a Virgo girl.

I have Virgo Mars, I never took my lovelife very seriously until my mid 20's until I got hurt very badly-I now see it as something I was doing to myself-how did I let someone else have that much control over my psyche/emotions. I have more self love now. I needed that burn. I now have a wonderful relationship with an Aries man which I am hoping will lead to a great future together. Had I met this guy 5 years ago, i'd never have been ready for him. And he says the same me after a bad trip with a Virgo girl.

I forgot to include Britney Spears, she's also Virgo mars but trine her venus.

However she TOO has 12th house mars.

do you think too, as what's been said on this topic, that she got abused?

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Charles always loved Camilla though and only married Diana out of obligation. Was Diana in love with Charles? I wouldn't be, maybe in naivety type of love.

I am a Virgo Mars and i've only been with one guy who didn't want me, i don't think that's a Virgo mars trait, maybe we like challenge, i always blamed my LEO and CANCER placements not my Virgo mars for my inability to pick the right man, cause i love the idea of love not the actual workings of a relationship, cause once the feelings go, im gone.

but yes i do fall into unrequited situations all the time so that maybe the case, but i can also say it's a psychological childhood problem, going after men i know already that isn't going to work, but preferring too so i don't get intimate and real serious with someone.

who knows

I thought of this.

that Princess Diana was more lonely but I don't know if she was really IN Love with Charles.

maybe she felt that the family she married into was her IDEAL love, a fairytale castle, kind of life.

unfortunately Charles loved someone else, and he never changed his mind.

also unfortunate for Princess Diana she never met someone she felt deep love I don't think.

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Posted by JustJules
So Yoko's Mars is in the 12th, do you know where Joanna and Diana's were placed?

Where is you Mars @heliumfiasco? Mine's in the 12th...could it be the house not the sign?

I've also been with an emotionally/verbally abusive man (never again!), and dated men that were emotionally unavailable. There's the unrequited love...

I've noticed 12th housers take lots of abuse

6th house could be a link to be attracted to abusive energy , since 6th is opposite 12th

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well ....Tina Turner is Pisces mars,

and she was abused a lot.



people in the comments were saying how, 'don't disagree with him cause he'll beat you later" and made people nervous watching.

God I love Tina Turner.

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So Yoko's Mars is in the 12th, do you know where Joanna and Diana's were placed?

Where is you Mars @heliumfiasco? Mine's in the 12th...could it be the house not the sign?

I've also been with an emotionally/verbally abusive man (never again!), and dated men that were emotionally unavailable. There's the unrequited love...

I've noticed 12th housers take lots of abuse

6th house could be a link to be attracted to abusive energy , since 6th is opposite 12th

well ....Tina Turner is Pisces mars,

and she was abused a lot.



people in the comments were saying how, 'don't disagree with him cause he'll beat you later" and made people nervous watching.

I think 12th housers are naturally empathetic so we draw other's energy, that's why we have to be so selective about who we let get close to us. This took me many years and a lot of painful experiences to learn...

Do you know where Tina's Mars is @LadyNeptune? Would be interesting if she has it in the 12th.

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No clue. *shrug*

Posted by DonJohn
I have personally dated 3 virgo mars women. all 3 long term. 1.5 yrs. 1 yr. + 5 yrs.



very sexual. submissive by nature. looks after themselves.



the biggest problem with them is that they are extremely critical. their main objective of action in life mars is in the perfectionist and critical virgo.

this is absolutely unbearable for men. It's like living with another parent after you finally broke out of the ball and chain of childhood.

Guilty.

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Posted by Distilled
The Virgo Venus/Mars women I've met tended to pick men who wanted to "fix" them.

Sags and Scorps in those cases, respectively.

They wanted to fix the men? Or be fixed? I think I subconsciously try to fix people as a show of love. But it comes off as being critical.

Being critical is foreplay for me, i don't think i've ever not been critical. I'll fuking passive aggressively criticize a guy i like , like if he's got a belly, i'll put a status up like trying to get this belly down, on a soup and salad diet.

Wait a minute, are you a Virgo Mars CC?

Yes why

That explains why you were so into your ex Virgo! What house?

really, it doesn't explain sheet actually cause i've dated ummm like 5 Virgo men even more...they're attracted to me and he's the only Virgo i've really obsessed over, i think it's his WATER moon, which my water sun sign seeks

but i don't know my house

and there is a possibility i have a virgo rising but im so messy i don't think its accurate

That's what I was getting at, they always say women are attracted to their venus. I disagree... I have Scorpio mars, always draw Scorpio men. For you it's Virgo, it's like we're freaking magnetized or something.

My ex husband is Virgo rising, he is one OCD m'fer for sure...about everything.

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women are attracted to their mars and seek husband qualities of their jupiter

men are attracted to their venus and moon

Posted by youngali
i have mars in virgo, but it's in the 10th house. whatever that means.

i can't say i pick guys that don't want me... because every guy i've ever wanted.. i've gotten.

never been an issue.

i have never for the life of me stayed in an abusive relationship or with someone who doesn't want me to begin with, and NEVER will. just not my style .

i also have an aqua venus.

i do find this topic interesting and am curious to hear from other virgo mars tho.

i always thought our relations were a shit show due to many ain't shit people in this world..

but i could be wrong. ?

when I was reading Tina Turner's biography and her documentary on Oprah, she said honestly she has NEVER been abused or hit during her childhood or early life before Ike Turner. All of a sudden she found herself in hot water...





she said that Ike Turner was SMART, common sense smart a good strategist.

because he made sure that Tina Turner was an ICON..

was really surprised that she was not even interested in him sexually or romantically. so interesting from this.

so it doesn't mean much even if you were never abused cause something happens when you are with someone who does that.



or be like Halle berry who has actually witnessed abused and then was abused in her relationships. it's terrible how these things happen.

Posted by DonJohn
I have personally dated 3 virgo mars women. all 3 long term. 1.5 yrs. 1 yr. + 5 yrs.



very sexual. submissive by nature. looks after themselves.



the biggest problem with them is that they are extremely critical. their main objective of action in life mars is in the perfectionist and critical virgo.

this is absolutely unbearable for men. It's like living with another parent after you finally broke out of the ball and chain of childhood.

virgo has great qualities but too much criticism to the point of overkill is really too much. lol

thanks to OP for reasearch effort. interesting thread.