virgos 101 (Page 3)

Scorpio girl & Virgo guy

One minute he likes me the next minute different person. I need help !!!

Posted by tiziani

Posted by startwars

Posted by 81gems

Did he use logic to justify his behavior to himself, and therefore, me? Or is he just a drunken POS?

yep

he thinks he did nothing wrong because he was honest about the way he feels about your family, but is sorry for the way he expressed himself

When you wake up, roll over to the other side of the bed and realise starwars is your substitute boyfriend for the night

#mailordervirgos

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LMAO

I just met a Virgo man on a dating site. We have the exact same birthday (9/11/72) and our commonalities are eerie af!! I'm still processing this whole thing because it's so strange to me.

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Posted by 81gems

Did he use logic to justify his behavior to himself, and therefore, me? Or is he just a drunken POS?

yep

he thinks he did nothing wrong because he was honest about the way he feels about your family, but is sorry for the way he expressed himself

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You're probably right.

And it's the biggest load of bullshit. Evidently his first apology was a lie. Hope he rots for doing that to me.

Virgos over analyze and trying to figure out whether or not they like you, correct?

Would that include not missing a single snapchat story? trying to piece everything together?

Its been going on for months.

Posted by Scorpino

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Posted by Scorpino
Finally, my dream came true!

Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).

So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)

-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!

I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).

Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...

This has nothing to do with being a Virgo, and everything to do with being a jealous, bossy & mean spirited person... Wow, wishing someone's marriage would fail, really? FFS, what's wrong with people?

I know right? I tried to come up with a logical explanation of why she would do these things and I've tried to understand where she's coming from but she always end up surprising me with new weird behaviors. I'm the most naive person I know for holding onto the relationship I've had with her. ??

I have a good friend that's an August Virgo, she can make some pretty cutting remarks. But she has a great big heart and means well, so I know to overlook some of her comments. Maybe that's your situation? We have that reputation you know, the criticism...

Yeah lol, that's why I've kept a good number of virgo friends around. You guys ROCKKK! —

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Awww thanks hon, you Scorpios rock too!! 🤗 Don't tell @startwars I said that...

Posted by DarkLoneWolf
Virgos over analyze and trying to figure out whether or not they like you, correct?

Would that include not missing a single snapchat story? trying to piece everything together?

Its been going on for months.

We are analytical, but when we commit to someone the analyzing stops because we're confident in the relationship then. Similar to Scorps, the sleuthing does happen...and the dance is fun. I think this is one of the best matches in the zodiac, especially if the Virgo has some water and the Scorpio has some earth! 😄

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Posted by Scorpino

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Scorpino

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Scorpino
Finally, my dream came true!

Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).

So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)

-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!

I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).

Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...

This has nothing to do with being a Virgo, and everything to do with being a jealous, bossy & mean spirited person... Wow, wishing someone's marriage would fail, really? FFS, what's wrong with people?

I know right? I tried to come up with a logical explanation of why she would do these things and I've tried to understand where she's coming from but she always end up surprising me with new weird behaviors. I'm the most naive person I know for holding onto the relationship I've had with her. ??

I have a good friend that's an August Virgo, she can make some pretty cutting remarks. But she has a great big heart and means well, so I know to overlook some of her comments. Maybe that's your situation? We have that reputation you know, the criticism...

Yeah lol, that's why I've kept a good number of virgo friends around. You guys ROCKKK! —

Awww thanks hon, you Scorpios rock too!! 🤗 Don't tell @startwars I said that...

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lmao I actually love scorpios

Posted by tiziani

Posted by startwars

Posted by 81gems

Did he use logic to justify his behavior to himself, and therefore, me? Or is he just a drunken POS?

yep

he thinks he did nothing wrong because he was honest about the way he feels about your family, but is sorry for the way he expressed himself

When you wake up, roll over to the other side of the bed and realise starwars is your substitute boyfriend for the night

#mailordervirgos

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Nah, she's only got a 4 incher lol.

So true about the over & under analyzing @magma2, sometimes I let my emotions get in the way of my thought process.

And before any of you wiseguys jump in, yes Virgos do have emotions. And if you get to see them fully it means you are very trusted, so don't mess it up or I will vanish because once the trust is gone so am I.

I was just busting her chops because she always says Scorpios are trash, so we're drama free lol...

Posted by startwars
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.

so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though

@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

Posted by Scorpino

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Scorpino

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Scorpino

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Scorpino
Finally, my dream came true!

Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).

So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)

-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!

I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).

Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...

This has nothing to do with being a Virgo, and everything to do with being a jealous, bossy & mean spirited person... Wow, wishing someone's marriage would fail, really? FFS, what's wrong with people?

I know right? I tried to come up with a logical explanation of why she would do these things and I've tried to understand where she's coming from but she always end up surprising me with new weird behaviors. I'm the most naive person I know for holding onto the relationship I've had with her. ??

I have a good friend that's an August Virgo, she can make some pretty cutting remarks. But she has a great big heart and means well, so I know to overlook some of her comments. Maybe that's your situation? We have that reputation you know, the criticism...

Yeah lol, that's why I've kept a good number of virgo friends around. You guys ROCKKK! —

Awww thanks hon, you Scorpios rock too!! 🤗 Don't tell @startwars I said that...

My pleasure sweetie ❤️

She must've been with many scorpions ?

I smell Scorpio/virgo drama ?

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I'm surrounded by scorpio, ride or die. gentle bullying and teasing is how I bond with scorpios..the trash??

Posted by CApricorn_princess

Posted by startwars
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.

so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though

@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

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Can only speak for myself, but it depends on how invested and how long the relationship has been. I've been known to ghost or just fade away, but that's only if it's a short term situation and I don't see a future with the person. Why do I do that? I don't like hurting people's feelings or wasting time.

What's your situation? Did you talk to the Virgo about it? It's good to communicate and be honest, that's always the best approach...

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuy

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CApricorn_princess

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

Can only speak for myself, but it depends on how invested and how long the relationship has been. I've been known to ghost or just fade away, but that's only if it's a short term situation and I don't see a future with the person. Why do I do that? I don't like hurting people's feelings or wasting time.

What's your situation? Did you talk to the Virgo about it? It's good to communicate and be honest, that's always the best approach...

So would a Virgo lie to avoid a potentially awkward situation or to avoid being caught in a previous lie?

Would you also hide your true feelings to avoid that awkward situation or to avoid hurting someone?

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I don't lie, believe in owning my actions and prefer people to give the same treatment. In fact, being lied to makes me lose it! I'd rather hear something unpleasant and honest than have someone try to bullshit me.

Not sure what you mean by your second question? I try to avoid hurting people, but not by hiding my true feelings...more by being tactful in what I say.

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Posted by CApricorn_princess

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

Can only speak for myself, but it depends on how invested and how long the relationship has been. I've been known to ghost or just fade away, but that's only if it's a short term situation and I don't see a future with the person. Why do I do that? I don't like hurting people's feelings or wasting time.

What's your situation? Did you talk to the Virgo about it? It's good to communicate and be honest, that's always the best approach...

So would a Virgo lie to avoid a potentially awkward situation or to avoid being caught in a previous lie?

Would you also hide your true feelings to avoid that awkward situation or to avoid hurting someone?

I don't lie, believe in owning my actions and prefer people to give the same treatment. In fact, being lied to makes me lose it! I'd rather hear something unpleasant and honest than have someone try to bullshit me.

Not sure what you mean by your second question? I try to avoid hurting people, but not by hiding my true feelings...more by being tactful in what I say.

You guessed my meaning in the second question. In being tactful would you still be honest or would you lie by omission?

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This is a deep question for a Friday afternoon... Depends on the circumstances, but still say be honest. Is omission really a lie though? Some things are a need to know basis, some things are better left unsaid...

How would you handle?

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Posted by CApricorn_princess

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

Can only speak for myself, but it depends on how invested and how long the relationship has been. I've been known to ghost or just fade away, but that's only if it's a short term situation and I don't see a future with the person. Why do I do that? I don't like hurting people's feelings or wasting time.

What's your situation? Did you talk to the Virgo about it? It's good to communicate and be honest, that's always the best approach...

So would a Virgo lie to avoid a potentially awkward situation or to avoid being caught in a previous lie?

Would you also hide your true feelings to avoid that awkward situation or to avoid hurting someone?

I don't lie, believe in owning my actions and prefer people to give the same treatment. In fact, being lied to makes me lose it! I'd rather hear something unpleasant and honest than have someone try to bullshit me.

Not sure what you mean by your second question? I try to avoid hurting people, but not by hiding my true feelings...more by being tactful in what I say.

You guessed my meaning in the second question. In being tactful would you still be honest or would you lie by omission?

This is a deep question for a Friday afternoon... Depends on the circumstances, but still say be honest. Is omission really a lie though? Some things are a need to know basis, some things are better left unsaid...

How would you handle?

Thanks for your answers. I'd like to think I would be totally honest, including not omitting anything, but it's difficult to know unless I was really in the situation. I think you can be tactful without hiding your meaning.

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You're welcome! I've dated a couple of Taurus men, it's an easy mix and they were honest without ripping my heart out. And then they would cook for me lol!

I need honest feedback/opinion.. Are we a good match? I know he's still trying to figure out if he likes me. I consider myself extremely patient, and wouldn't want to rush into things, especially relationships or making someone express their feelings.

Based on our charts, should I continue to be patient with him? do you think it's worth it?

Him:

Sun Virgo

Moon Capricorn

Mercury Virgo

Venus Leo

Mars Libra

Jupiter Virgo

Saturn Aquarius

Uranus Capricorn

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Asc node Capricorn

Me:

Sun Scorpio

Moon Taurus

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Sagittarius

Mars Capricorn

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Scorpio

Asc node Taurus

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Posted by startwars
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.

so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though

@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.

I've read just about everywhere that all Virgos are blunt and honest but I need to know for sure will a Virgo tell you if they are not interested in you anymore—

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Yes, but you will most likely have to ask directly for confirmation, else, I'll slowly distance myself.

Scary Virgo story #173939:

I kinda like this guy and I just found out he's a Gemini #rip

Idk what I've done to deserve this, but I repent

Gemini is in my house of marriage...

It was only a matter of time

Can I get Virgo opinions?

I officially ended my situationship with my Virgo and he was super nonchalant about it, but later that day, he waited until we were alone and started playing "Hello it's me" and kept his head down the entire time. I thought it was strange especially for the fact that he wasn't acting nor treating me how I'd like.

Why is he acting like this?

Posted by magma2

Posted by Chelsey07
Can I get Virgo opinions?

I officially ended my situationship with my Virgo and he was super nonchalant about it, but later that day, he waited until we were alone and started playing "Hello it's me" and kept his head down the entire time. I thought it was strange especially for the fact that he wasn't acting nor treating me how I'd like.

Why is he acting like this?

My take on the lyrics is that he's conceding. He cares for you but knows he can't please you. One of you would have to turn into something you're not and the required changes would turn either of you into something you couldn't sustain. He saw it coming for a while.

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That makes sense. He started to sing along and whether he knows it or not, it's one of my favorite songs, so it was hard for me to not join in. I really do care for him and in his own Virgo-ish way, I'm sure he did too. It's a bittersweet moment all around.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Gemini is in my house of marriage...

It was only a matter of time

Yep, me too...Have you ever dated a Gem?

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Scary Virgo story #173939:

I kinda like this guy and I just found out he's a Gemini #rip

Idk what I've done to deserve this, but I repent

Not all Gems are bad. Some are complete sweethearts. Unfortunately, they know what they want after the fact.

This could be complimentary with the Mercury connection...But never dated one, never dated an air sign at all lol.

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Gemini is in my house of marriage...

It was only a matter of time

Yep, me too...Have you ever dated a Gem?

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Nope. Never, I don't even have that many Gemini male friends, I don't even know that many geminis personally lmao

But as I get older they become more appealing

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Scary Virgo story #173939:

I kinda like this guy and I just found out he's a Gemini #rip

Idk what I've done to deserve this, but I repent

Not all Gems are bad. Some are complete sweethearts. Unfortunately, they know what they want after the fact.

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Hmm I guess I just don't know what to expect from them tbh. Like they're wild cards. Every other sign has some trait that I can pinpoint w them, but Gemini? No

And I've never really cared enough to really look them up in detail... I don't really understand air sign love I guess, I don't know what to expect. And especially from mutable air

Posted by Jules-ll
This could be complimentary with the Mercury connection...But never dated one, never dated an air sign at all lol.

I don't even know if the mercury connection is real tbh

Don't know many Virgos that have dated or even attracted geminis.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll
This could be complimentary with the Mercury connection...But never dated one, never dated an air sign at all lol.

I don't even know if the mercury connection is real tbh

Don't know many Virgos that have dated or even attracted geminis.

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Now that you mention it, the only Gem/Virgo couple I know is my son and his wife. But he's a virgo with a gem moon so it makes sense 😄

My best friend is a gem, love having conversations with her and we are ride or die for 10+ years now!

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jules-ll
This could be complimentary with the Mercury connection...But never dated one, never dated an air sign at all lol.

I don't even know if the mercury connection is real tbh

Don't know many Virgos that have dated or even attracted geminis.

Now that you mention it, the only Gem/Virgo couple I know is my son and his wife. But he's a virgo with a gem moon so it makes sense 😄

My best friend is a gem, love having conversations with her and we are ride or die for 10+ years now!

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Yeah I have no problems with girl gems, they're cool tbh but I don't know what I'd want out of a gem guy. Like are they affectionate? Bc I need affection, not emotion. Are they aloof? Unreliable? Idk

I feel like with all of my sag placements (and Sag is a gems opposite) it would be a disaster. But I've been drawn to them recently

Posted by DarkLoneWolf
I need honest feedback/opinion.. Are we a good match? I know he's still trying to figure out if he likes me. I consider myself extremely patient, and wouldn't want to rush into things, especially relationships or making someone express their feelings.

Based on our charts, should I continue to be patient with him? do you think it's worth it?

Him:

Sun Virgo

Moon Capricorn

Mercury Virgo

Venus Leo

Mars Libra

Jupiter Virgo

Saturn Aquarius

Uranus Capricorn

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Asc node Capricorn

Me:

Sun Scorpio

Moon Taurus

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Sagittarius

Mars Capricorn

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Scorpio

Asc node Taurus

yes ?

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Scary Virgo story #173939:

I kinda like this guy and I just found out he's a Gemini #rip

Idk what I've done to deserve this, but I repent

been there but my story suck less because I only wanted to be friends LOL

but I keep running into geminis all the time — I just want them to do something shady so I know I'm right per usual

you're in my thoughts ?

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Virgorean

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Scary Virgo story #173939:

I kinda like this guy and I just found out he's a Gemini #rip

Idk what I've done to deserve this, but I repent

Not all Gems are bad. Some are complete sweethearts. Unfortunately, they know what they want after the fact.

Hmm I guess I just don't know what to expect from them tbh. Like they're wild cards. Every other sign has some trait that I can pinpoint w them, but Gemini? No

And I've never really cared enough to really look them up in detail... I don't really understand air sign love I guess, I don't know what to expect. And especially from mutable air

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Yea, I read lots of negative things about Gems, but tbh, I haven't really quite experienced that. Although, I've only dated one and he was my ex, but we are still very good friends to this day. Maybe I ran into a good one then haha. Then there's the Taurus/Gem cuspers I interact with on a daily basis and they have gem placements. Not sure if that counts for something.

From what I recall he was indecisive. The initial dating phase was awkward at first because he couldn't decipher if we were dating or not, although, he acted very affectionate and like a boyfriend until one day I had enough and said 'I'm your girlfriend, deal with it,' and he never argued it haha. When we were together it was during college and he switched his major many times only to wind up with the one he originally started with. Then there was his indecisiveness about which career direction he wanted to take. He'd land a good job, boast about it and get bored of it a few months down the line and want to do something else like own his own water park lol. The conversations are interesting, however. His mind would float from topic to topic, sometimes it was random and left field, other times he'd ramble on about different facts he retained. He was very knowledgeable about a lot of things and there was always something to learn from him. It was quite amusing. With air signs they have a quality of aloofness to them, which worked well with me because it didn't invade my need for space. I liked the spontaneous side of him on just jumping up and doing something and getting immersed-a positive to his wishy washyness.