
Thanks and it's ok 🙂 I heal in time and maybe get some answers.


Posted by PetalsNever tried it, but not a strong believer in two people with the same sun sign dating...Posted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
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Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
we trust you and our relationship

Posted by Jules-llSame. Although friendship is great between virgos..!Posted by PetalsNever tried it, but not a strong believer in two people with the same sun sign dating...Posted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
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Posted by The_Ands
Lesson 1: Ask not what you can do for your Virgo but instead ask what your Virgo can do for you

Posted by PetalsDefinitely, have a lot of Virgo friends it's easy-peasy with them!Posted by Jules-llSame. Although friendship is great between virgos..!Posted by PetalsNever tried it, but not a strong believer in two people with the same sun sign dating...Posted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
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Posted by The_AndsPosted by Jules-llI didn't know you were onePosted by The_Ands
Lesson 1: Ask not what you can do for your Virgo but instead ask what your Virgo can do for you
Sssshhhhh...don't be giving away our secrets!
With mars in Scorpio huhclick to expand

Posted by Jules-llScorpio sun, no other placements of virgo.!Posted by PetalsDefinitely, have a lot of Virgo friends it's easy-peasy with them!Posted by Jules-llSame. Although friendship is great between virgos..!Posted by PetalsNever tried it, but not a strong believer in two people with the same sun sign dating...Posted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
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Posted by PhoenixRisingmade my day ?
So curious thing and it happened to pertain to this point:Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
we trust you and our relationship
Talking to a Virgo yesterday and she was talking about a situation and she made reference to her partner staring at "what he's interested in...tits and a**" and she made a point of telling him to stop after asking him "what the hell are you doing?"
So I "innocently" ask why it was such a big deal that he stare at some "tits and a**? She says "because if you look, you're gonna touch"
Hmph. That isn't very "logical" 😄.
Anyway, as we explored it further, come to find out he was a cheating dirt bag, he had cheated in the past and her insecurities were based on past experience.
I wanted to be able to say a Virgo was wrong, but alas.....until the next time.
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Posted by virgodumbasstrue
Honestly I don't think we are that deep. You can't figure out us because we are moody af

Posted by sugarplumeowwhat he told you, he's busy
ugh can anyone help me? I want to get advice and not seem like a crazy lil fish to my virgo love. On Monday night I sent him a sexy message and he said "ok", then we went on to explain how its sexy but he's focusing on work (He works grave yard). we chatted and then said goodnight. Tuesday came along and I said "I see a little bit of myself in you (nothing), then i sent a picture of something he liked (nothing) then later wished him a good day at work and he said "thanks". We did talk abit till I went to bed. Yesterday I said "I'm looking forward to the baseball game with you " and he said " me too" then after that nothing. So what should I do? I dont want to freak out, we had a great weekend and I can tell that he loves me. He keeps saying that he is tired from working and looks down this past week. Im remaining cool because again I dont want to seem out of control

Posted by Chance_12Virgo fixation such as... ¿
What do you think of Virgo fixation? It's always talked about with your axis partner but not with Virgos.

Posted by startwarsPosted by PhoenixRisingmade my day ?
So curious thing and it happened to pertain to this point:Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
we trust you and our relationship
Talking to a Virgo yesterday and she was talking about a situation and she made reference to her partner staring at "what he's interested in...tits and a**" and she made a point of telling him to stop after asking him "what the hell are you doing?"
So I "innocently" ask why it was such a big deal that he stare at some "tits and a**? She says "because if you look, you're gonna touch"
Hmph. That isn't very "logical" 😄.
Anyway, as we explored it further, come to find out he was a cheating dirt bag, he had cheated in the past and her insecurities were based on past experience.
I wanted to be able to say a Virgo was wrong, but alas.....until the next time.
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Posted by sugarplumeowRelax Fish, you're overthinking it in true Piscean fashion... Virgos are serious about our careers, maybe not on a Capricorn level but up there. As long as he's not totally blowing you off and you feel loved, I think you're good!
ugh can anyone help me? I want to get advice and not seem like a crazy lil fish to my virgo love. On Monday night I sent him a sexy message and he said "ok", then we went on to explain how its sexy but he's focusing on work (He works grave yard). we chatted and then said goodnight. Tuesday came along and I said "I see a little bit of myself in you (nothing), then i sent a picture of something he liked (nothing) then later wished him a good day at work and he said "thanks". We did talk abit till I went to bed. Yesterday I said "I'm looking forward to the baseball game with you " and he said " me too" then after that nothing. So what should I do? I dont want to freak out, we had a great weekend and I can tell that he loves me. He keeps saying that he is tired from working and looks down this past week. Im remaining cool because again I dont want to seem out of control

Posted by Chance_12Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Chance_12Virgo fixation such as... ¿
What do you think of Virgo fixation? It's always talked about with your axis partner but not with Virgos.
I notice with my Virgo friends that if something is unresolved in their mind they will keep trying to circle back around to it as if it's an itch they can't scratch. I can see and feel them almost getting anxious. OCD behaviour, common to some Virgos, is also a form of fixation.
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Posted by Chance_12yeah if something is bugging me I need to solve it/get rid of it or else I'd keep thinking about it over and over.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Chance_12Virgo fixation such as... ¿
What do you think of Virgo fixation? It's always talked about with your axis partner but not with Virgos.
I notice with my Virgo friends that if something is unresolved in their mind they will keep trying to circle back around to it as if it's an itch they can't scratch. I can see and feel them almost getting anxious. OCD behaviour, common to some Virgos, is also a form of fixation.
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Posted by Chance_12It's not fixation as much as anxious rumination. What could we have done better? Where did we mess up? Why did we mess up? The perfection becomes dysfunctional at this point. Balance is key for Virgos especially if they have strong perfectionist personalities which most do. I think that the rumination is a vicious cycle. Remember Virgo rules the Nervous system an intergate circuit, where if there is even a slight delay in certain areas of the system there is pathology. So I think meditation is best for Virgos. Well it's good for all signs but I think water signs can mange better than others. Just my insight.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Chance_12Virgo fixation such as... ¿
What do you think of Virgo fixation? It's always talked about with your axis partner but not with Virgos.
I notice with my Virgo friends that if something is unresolved in their mind they will keep trying to circle back around to it as if it's an itch they can't scratch. I can see and feel them almost getting anxious. OCD behaviour, common to some Virgos, is also a form of fixation.
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Posted by The_AndsTruer words were never spoken.
Lesson 1: Ask not what you can do for your Virgo but instead ask what your Virgo can do for you

Posted by NineAvenueIncorrect, NineAvenue - We only do so most likely because the questions asked, are genuine questions to show we care.Posted by AneemA08Talks to you. Checks up you.
Very helpful, thanks.
How do you know if virgo starts to have feels for you though?
Gimme an example pls..
Are they sensitive? Do they bottle up feelings?
What if say, a person you care about doesn't do the particulars of your requests, how would they feel?
I'm asking in order to make someone feel comfy around me.
I can be rather cold at times, dk why.
Prone to manipulation as well so gimme some examples of the manipulations you were talkng about in your OP that virgos won't take very well, pls.
Talk to you a lot. Does things for you with you asking.
Most virgo are said to not express feelings but the other twenty percent do.
Manipulation:
Scorpios have this bad problem of asking the same question in different contextual sentences. They seem to randomly do this a fews times with in a few days time....knowing the guy already answered it. Some Cap women are bad at this also. It always seems i win at there trials and tribulations. I find kind of endearing also bc it shows they care and are worried.
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Posted by PhoenixRisingAh PR, having a Virgal sibling does groom you well enough to know how to be an utter bane on their kind. 😆
So curious thing and it happened to pertain to this point:Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
we trust you and our relationship
Talking to a Virgo yesterday and she was talking about a situation and she made reference to her partner staring at "what he's interested in...tits and a**" and she made a point of telling him to stop after asking him "what the hell are you doing?"
So I "innocently" ask why it was such a big deal that he stare at some "tits and a**? She says "because if you look, you're gonna touch"
Hmph. That isn't very "logical" or trusting 😄.
Anyway, as we explored it further, come to find out he was a cheating dirt bag, he had cheated in the past and her insecurities were based on past experience.
I wanted to be able to say a Virgo was wrong, but alas.....until the next time.
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Posted by TotiVirgo moon here...its needed, I need my energy back. People drain me.
Why Virgos go hot/cold,disappear then appear again,keep silent and then say something that amazes you,etc? I'd really like to know...

Posted by Chance_12Yeahhh. I would prefer closure for all things in my life. You can usually pick out a Virgo or even a Gemini bc both have nervous energy. Virgo is more calm and shy about it, but you can FEEL it.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Chance_12Virgo fixation such as... ¿
What do you think of Virgo fixation? It's always talked about with your axis partner but not with Virgos.
I notice with my Virgo friends that if something is unresolved in their mind they will keep trying to circle back around to it as if it's an itch they can't scratch. I can see and feel them almost getting anxious. OCD behaviour, common to some Virgos, is also a form of fixation.
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Posted by Wineaux15Hi there?
Why'd you change your name! I've been on a hiatus from DXP a few days and one MVP is banned and another changes their name?

Posted by startwarsJust admit it, you came here in the light, with the Force within you . . . and now you have turned to the dark side. Now, you Start Wars. 😆Posted by Wineaux15Hi there?
Why'd you change your name! I've been on a hiatus from DXP a few days and one MVP is banned and another changes their name?
someone been messing with my other account, I had to change itclick to expand

Posted by TheLadyScorpiocant deny that. I love it in the edge zone??Posted by startwarsJust admit it, you came here in the light, with the Force within you . . . and now you have turned to the dark side. Now, you Start Wars. 😆Posted by Wineaux15Hi there?
Why'd you change your name! I've been on a hiatus from DXP a few days and one MVP is banned and another changes their name?
someone been messing with my other account, I had to change it
How fitting. 😈
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Posted by Simsimi—
How long is being patient with virgos?
2 weeks, a century?

Posted by Simsimiwhats your sign?Posted by startwarsI find this patience a bit tough at timesPosted by Simsimi—
How long is being patient with virgos?
2 weeks, a century?
depends on the issue but being too patient get you no where really cause we can wait and chill foreverclick to expand

Posted by Capzwhy u changed ur username billion times
why you added a "t" ?
t -> trashwars

Posted by Capzyoure not the ceo of cap moons
i cant accept this change, i'll give the cap moon connection to no or nanobyte

Posted by SimsimiI like sags bluntness do just thatPosted by startwarsSag sunPosted by Simsimiwhats your sign?Posted by startwarsI find this patience a bit tough at timesPosted by Simsimi—
How long is being patient with virgos?
2 weeks, a century?
depends on the issue but being too patient get you no where really cause we can wait and chill forever
if patience isn't solving any problems then just express yourself clearly
Tau moon
Cap rising
Cap venus
Not so much the patience, its how long then it starts to feel like your plans are falling apart.click to expand

Posted by Capznot the ceo ✋️Posted by startwarsfoolPosted by Capzyoure not the ceo of cap moons
i cant accept this change, i'll give the cap moon connection to no or nanobyte
only cap suns weirdos ☕️?click to expand

Posted by tiziani—
trilogy thread = asking a virgo 101

Posted by Simsimiwe dont apologize if what we did has to do with our nature
So.......
the virgo doesn't apologise after a stupid act, but then turns around and purs acting like everything is okay.
what do you do? Do you move on like everything is really okay but low-key wanna have heads roll or do you still stay mad?

Posted by SimsimiBeing able to tease each other and have good laughs. Someone I can be myself around and who not only knows me inside and out but also accepts me as I am. That's what I consider as a good/best friend and what I look for in a loverPosted by SunsetvirgoWhat exactly is being good friends with a guy? If i made a guy my friend, i lose all attraction it probably would never be sexual.
idk about y'all, but I HAVE to be at least good friends w/ a guy before we date. I'm not sure how women can date guys they've just met with instantly... not for me :/
I need to be able to have fun with the guy, teasing and joking and stuff. My best friend ?
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/>Posted by MiZLeoTHAT IS NOT CHARM: ITS SELFISHNESS.Posted by TotiIt's part of their charm
Why Virgos go hot/cold,disappear then appear again,keep silent and then say something that amazes you,etc? I'd really like to know...click to expand

Posted by Scorpino
Finally, my dream came true!
Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).
So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)
-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!
I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).
Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...

Posted by Scorpinoif I dont know her I'd say shes jealous and cuckoo, but if she's your bestfriend then you should know what her intentions are.
Finally, my dream came true!
Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).
So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)
-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!
I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).
Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...


Posted by wagtail
*sigh*
am lovin' my Virguy at the mo 😘

Posted by Scorpinoyou know her better than I do so ?♀️Posted by startwarsI do now know her intentions, hence why I've left her for good.Posted by Scorpinoif I dont know her I'd say shes jealous and cuckoo, but if she's your bestfriend then you should know what her intentions are.
Finally, my dream came true!
Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).
So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)
-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!
I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).
Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...
the ring thing sound like a funny joke to me. maybe her sister is over stresed so she wants her to chill out? maybe the husband is a dick and she want them to divorce? ?♀️
also you've already made your decision so im not sure why you're asking
As the ring thing situation, knowing how she would usually joke, it didn't really seem like it, although she did try to pretend she was just "being funny".
Her sister was doing "better" than her so I think that what made an A-hole out of her, the husband and her friend are madly in love with each other and it seems to get under her skin somehow.
I think I'm both sad and confused, I'm looking for a closure or at least vent a little. It isn't easy letting go of a best friend.. ?
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Posted by FknNerdI like the people I dont like the shops and seagulls, kiwis are more geniune than aussies.
What do you like and not like about New Zealand? Is everybody nice to your face there like aussies?

Posted by 81gemsyep
Did he use logic to justify his behavior to himself, and therefore, me? Or is he just a drunken POS?

Posted by ScorpinoPosted by Jules-llPosted by Scorpino
Finally, my dream came true!
Now I want to ask you about a virgo girl (my ex best best best friend/ ride or die...etc....).
So she used to give me these effed up comments like: who told you to lose weight? (When my ring slipped from my finger and fell on the ground)
-mind you she said that with an angry aggressive tone-, with many other weird and aggressive comments!
I heard her scold her sister for becoming such an athlete with a gorgeous body, also heard her wishing bad terrible things to happen to her friends (one was in a great relationship, and she said she wishes her friend and her husband getting divorced).
Please I need a virgo super hero to help me explain this madness of hers, bc I feel so stupid to finally understand her motives, like, I've been lying to myself for so long bc I loved her but it got too much for me tbh...
This has nothing to do with being a Virgo, and everything to do with being a jealous, bossy & mean spirited person... Wow, wishing someone's marriage would fail, really? FFS, what's wrong with people?
I know right? I tried to come up with a logical explanation of why she would do these things and I've tried to understand where she's coming from but she always end up surprising me with new weird behaviors. I'm the most naive person I know for holding onto the relationship I've had with her. ??
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