What are you Virguys thinking when... (Page 2)

"you guys hate when people are getting in your mind and knowing your private thoughts"

Poor guy .. I'm sure he's already rueing the day he ever met you.
You know this, you know that your Virgo man doesn't like you to probe into his personal life and yet, you continue to intrude upon his privacy by ringing him.

Is this just a game to you?

Do you even care about this man?

Once again more judgements from you guys without having a clue as to whats going on. I don't keep ringing him. I text him a couple times and didn't get an answer. He sent me a happy easter text a couple days later (on easter) and I took that as a peace offering. So I responded thanks same to you and later in the day I asked if he missed me yet via text and he never responded. THATS IT. That was sunday today is wednesday I havent "rang" him since. And why would he "rue" the day he ever met me he has no clue that I'm "probing". Knowing virgo's he's probubly sulking away thinking I hate him now since he did retreat and wasn't ready to talk causing him to ignore my calls. You virguys act like your so big and bad. ITS ALL A FRONT. and when someone knows this it terrifies the crap out of you.

I can understand why that would make you nervous since you guys hate when people are getting in your mind

something familiar..??

exactly as crab's does, crawl and hiding in their shells?.

Lmao? I thought for a second that you might be intelligent.. my bad? sorry miss calculating I guess

Stop calculating for once in your life. This isn't MATH CLASS

"I asked if he missed me yet via text and he never responded"

There's your fucking answer .. you asked him and he ignored you.

WTF ———?

Again?

What you want is a fortune teller/mind reader and bunch of followers that say.. poor you..

Get real and face the reality, if you can not do that much then you better stay in your shell and never get off..!

Love and love matters are not for the armatures? love is sacrifices and you are so full of yourself?

You are looking for (get) rather than (give)

PAngel He coulda said NO. He has no problem speaking his mind. We have known each other for 10 years not someone that i went out on a couple dates with. We are great friends.

Qbone you still refuse to understand what I'm asking so stop commenting. I've tried to explain a million times and all you have is insults.

Well, there you go with another Virgo input ..

Has that answered the question to your satisfaction?

Qbone you still refuse to understand what I'm asking so stop commenting. I've tried to explain a million times and all you have is insults.

You'll understand what I said once you calm down..

You've know him for 10 years? Good lordy happycrab..would it be safe to say you know him better than US? What do YOU think? Do you think he misses you? Do you think he really likes you? Do you think he might be avoiding you because you like him and he doesn't want involvemnet that way? I mean..since you know him so well, how would YOU answer the question if a close friend asked about him?

That's a good avenue to approach ..

HappyCrab .. if you ignored a great friend that you've had for 10 years .. why?

I know if I ignored a great friend I've had for 10 years, it would be because he/she either pissed me off or hurt me.

What about you? Why would you?

Yeah P. I do think I might have pissed him off but i dont know how. Hes verrrrrrrrry sensitve. All I can think of was when i told him I need a new text buddy your boring now. thats the last i heard from him. Maybe that set him off. who knows.

Maybe things were getting too close for comfort. We talked or text every day for the last 6 months thats why I wanted to know whats up. If he decided hes not into me fine. If hes sooooo into me that he needs to take a step back and asses the situation thats fine too. Or if he is playing silly mind games thats fantastic. I just want to know what it is. I don't like my friends to be mad at me male or female.

I would add:

4. He is really interested in you, and pulls back to sort out his feelings. (You'll see this if he's been very attentive, you two seem to be hitting it off well, and it looks like you're ready to get serious about each other.)
Generally speaking, VirGuys are straightforward, fairly simple creatures, who don't play games. What you see is what you get. If we like/love you, what you ask for is what you get (to a certain point, of course!). If you've affected us emotionally, or there are other things going on in our lives (Big Decisions), we'll retreat for a while to assess. BUT, if we keep coming back to you, then you're important to us - as a friend, or a lover.

Yeah, there's a lot of "movement" within VirGuy - but you don't see most of it on the surface...

Dyrestr8z your thinking what I'm thinking. You all have made very valid points and I am going to sum it alll up.

He is not interested in me right now because I have pissed him off for stealing his heart. I guess I'll take that.

Thanks guys 🙂

He is not interested in me right now because I have pissed him off for stealing his heart. I guess I'll take that.

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Easy ...Easy.. Do not loose hopes and do not take defeat that fast!! We know this is a virgo we are dealing with and it does take a while!!!

"i told him I need a new text buddy your boring now. thats the last i heard from him"

Not surprising .. Virgo aside .. I should think ANY person would go MIA to think about how wrong they were in their perception.

"He is not interested in me right now because I have pissed him off for stealing his heart."

More like his "time" .. perhaps, some signs will indeed play this game with you .. Virgo is NOT one of them.

"i told him I need a new text buddy your boring now. thats the last i heard from him. Maybe that set him off. who knows."

Why, you know of course .. that IS why you said that to him, lol.
You'll have to look elsewhere if you're looking for a man to play with, instead of love.

Well we both joke around with each other ALOT. This is not a relationship were we take this little comments so serious. Him and I love to clown around alot and thats a big reason why we get along so well. A dumb little comment like that may have stung but I was waiting for the returning jab. Not trying to play games just joking around with a buddy.

"i told him I need a new text buddy your boring now. thats the last i heard from him. Maybe that set him off. who knows."

Why, you know of course .. that IS why you said that to him, lol.
You'll have to look elsewhere if you're looking for a man to play with, instead of love.

Exactly as I said 5 pages ago?

lol

Setting each other off is what we do all the time for fun. We never mean any of it. It's how we joke around.

Thank you for wasting our time then...

Wasting your time?? how do you figure?

Ohh

Do you want me to waste more time to explain it..?? lmao

Comeone babe .. you are yesterday news.. yawn?.

Well if you would have taken a bit more TIME to understand what I was trying to say then you could have wasted alot less TIME.

"I just want to know what goes on in you Virguys' minds while your in your "retreat". You know what I'm talking about.. The time when you guys dissapear with out a trace and kinda make us want to make sure you haven't been abducted by aliens. Do you miss us? Do you fight urges to call us? Do you go around hoping to "accidentally" run in to us? PLEASE TELL ME CUZ I WANNA KNOW."

Alright, HappyCrab .. other than those words above, what is it your trying to say that nobody is understanding .. for rest assured every person who has read this and/or has responded comprehends what those words mean .. so, if it isn't those words, then what is it?

If we understand those words .. but that is not what you meant, then what is it?

What, exactly is not understood?

Here is a personal response I got from someone which was very on track with what I wanted to know.

"I am a virgo female and I can tell you that I often retreat physically and in my own head when things are too emotional/close or what have you. Yes, sometimes, I often "fight" the feeling of contacting the person while I am on retreat but often have not done so. I usually wait it out until I feel comfortable going back. This is a pretty well-known Virgo trait."

And? What?

You got a person who answered to your satisfaction .. just because Q, or someone else didn't answer to your satisfaction, doesn't mean they don't understand .. it means, you aren't accepting of their view.

You can't control how the Virgo's feel, HappyCrab .. just because it doesn't suit you, doesn't mean they don't understand the question, lol

So, now YOU haven't answered the question .. "What, exactly is not understood?"

just because Q
??

Please keep me out of stupidities of some crabs..

I tried to be kind..!

To be honest.. shebitch sounds like another ALV clone to me...!

But.. hey.. its me..

lol

This reminds me of Survivor .. not in the situation itself, but, in the mind of Lisi

When asleep and the idol is found not 2 feet away from her .. she says to the camera, "He's gonna have to get up earlier than that to fool me." .. when SHE was the one sleeping and he was the one AWAKE .. hence: up earlier than her

And then keep saying stuff like, "The tribe is a bunch of losers" .. when SHE was one of them, but, she had no clue that the insult included her. lol, if the teams lost, and you're apart of the team, then you're a loser, too.

Boing .. just bounces off .. "thaters" make no sense to me.

cry wolf..??

Why is this thread still alive? Question has been answered ALOT!

You guys keep putting me down about trying to get in someone head when its not even relavant. Its like I ask you guys what do think is better cocaine or heroin and you guys give me lectures about doing drugs. If I wanna be a junkie let me be. If you don't have any valid input as to what I'm asking then don't give me any. I'm not asking what I should do in this situation and I'm not sitting around crying about it. Believe me I can replace any guy in a minute (Thanks Beyonce) I just like to observe human nature and I like to make mental notes of people I know and what sign they are and how they act. I get in his head he gets in mine thats our problem not yours. And its not what this thread is all about. If I wanted to know If I should get in his head I would have made a post about that. This post just asks if virguys tend to miss there freinds when there in retreat mode. Is that so difficult. I just want a YES OR NO thats it.

Not really merc. The grenade is all in your head.

Pulling the pin is when all the fun starts Merc.

When I'm alone I'm enjoying my space, as I value my mind-freedom/space more than anything else; Virgos are very difficult folk, becuase very rarely does ANYONE (this includes even people of the same type) come to understand the true side of virgo; the level of reserve, and tranquility is really high for us, and just being around someone shooting the breeze to me is just a damned waste of time; just beating around the bush just to get out in the open what I already know you want to say; I can't stand small talk, and I'd just prefer to get to the heart of the matter to the really heated and juicy stuff, screw the nicities, and the formalities. If you're still confused HappyCrab, just think of ME as Aquas zodiacal sister/brother.

Thanks Virgo exalted, you will be hearing from me.

VE!! You son of a gun!!

That's how my virg is.. I wrote him this like..10 paragraph e-mail..he got pissed and said "Why the FU** did you do that?" Why don't you just SAY "I love You!" "I don't want to read all that crap!"

LOL...cause everything I say is important you DIMwit!!

lol ^____^ *huggles virgos*

One thing I want to know about the Retreat thing with Virgs..

do you want anyone around when you retreat....or just someone special??

cause my virg kind of implied it with a dream he said he had..